WEBVTT 00:15.600 --> 00:18.040 So… So I certainly had a wonderful time tonight, 00:18.119 --> 00:19.160 without a question. 00:19.240 --> 00:20.800 -Yeah. -It was really nice meeting you, 00:20.880 --> 00:24.640 so you want to get together again some other time? 00:24.720 --> 00:27.320 Yeah, um, I definitely enjoyed my time, 00:27.400 --> 00:31.840 and, yeah, I have enjoyed it a lot, but, um… 00:33.680 --> 00:36.440 Yeah, if you… if you would like to get together again, um, 00:36.519 --> 00:39.040 I definitely would like to get to know you a little bit more. 00:39.120 --> 00:40.000 [James] Oh, excellent. 00:40.080 --> 00:42.760 I definitely would like to see you again at some point. 00:42.840 --> 00:43.680 Yeah. 00:43.760 --> 00:46.800 Yes. Are you okay, comfortable shaking hands or… 00:46.879 --> 00:49.599 Oh, yeah, of course, we can shake hands or, you know, hug. 00:49.680 --> 00:51.040 Whatever. You know, whatever works. 00:51.120 --> 00:53.599 You don't mind, you don't think that's too much, do you? 00:53.680 --> 00:57.520 -Um, I think that's fine for now, yeah. -Oh, all right, very good, then. 00:58.040 --> 01:01.040 -It was so nice to meet you. -Oh, yes. Of course. Good seeing… Good to… 01:01.120 --> 01:03.680 Very nice to meet you also, without a question. 01:03.760 --> 01:04.599 Okay, so-- 01:04.679 --> 01:07.160 You don't mind if I walk with you to the station, do you? 01:07.240 --> 01:08.480 [Emma] No, I don't mind at all. 01:08.560 --> 01:10.399 -[James] Okay. Thank you very much, then. -Yeah! 01:10.479 --> 01:11.320 [James] Yes. 01:19.399 --> 01:20.560 [squawks] 01:22.960 --> 01:27.520 [narrator] In South Carolina, Kaelynn has just been at a speed-dating event. 01:28.119 --> 01:29.119 Oh. 01:31.839 --> 01:33.640 -Thank you. -[chuckles] You're welcome. 01:34.399 --> 01:36.360 All right, how you think it went? 01:37.080 --> 01:40.199 The first guy, he was okay. 01:40.280 --> 01:43.320 Like, he wasn't like… It wasn't, like, an immediate no. 01:43.399 --> 01:46.600 It was a solid maybe. I could have been persuaded one way or another, you know. 01:46.680 --> 01:48.520 -Solid maybe is good. -Mm-hmm. 01:49.119 --> 01:51.559 The second guy, oh my God. 01:52.759 --> 01:56.160 Absolutely not. His answers didn't even make sense. 01:56.960 --> 01:57.960 Cute name badge. 01:58.039 --> 02:00.960 You afraid they'll forget? [laughs] 02:01.559 --> 02:04.119 Did they at least remember your name with the name badge? 02:04.839 --> 02:07.320 Um, no, actually they didn't! 02:07.399 --> 02:10.320 He looks at me, so presumably looks at, like… 02:10.400 --> 02:11.239 The name tag. 02:11.840 --> 02:14.200 "Nice to meet you, Tori." Walks away. 02:14.280 --> 02:15.400 What? 02:16.000 --> 02:18.480 Third one, um, he was nice. 02:18.560 --> 02:19.400 Nice is good. 02:19.480 --> 02:21.200 How about fourth guy? 02:21.280 --> 02:22.480 Peter. 02:23.080 --> 02:24.200 That… That sounds promising. 02:24.799 --> 02:26.480 -We like Peter. -We like Peter? 02:26.560 --> 02:28.959 -We like Peter. -Okay, tell me about Peter. 02:29.560 --> 02:32.160 I don't remember what he did for work, some kind of, like… 02:32.760 --> 02:34.560 -Generic boy job? -[Kaelynn] Generic boy job. 02:34.640 --> 02:37.040 Generic, well-educated boy job, though. 02:37.120 --> 02:39.480 Did you tell any of them your diagnosis? 02:40.280 --> 02:41.120 No. 02:42.600 --> 02:44.519 It just wasn't relevant to the conversation, 02:44.600 --> 02:45.760 and they didn't, like, ask. 02:45.840 --> 02:49.239 At what point, like, if you go out with him, when do you think… 02:49.320 --> 02:50.480 -Not any time soon. -[chuckles] 02:50.560 --> 02:52.519 I mean, if he hasn't put it together. 02:52.600 --> 02:54.679 So you don't wanna, like, disclose that information? 02:55.280 --> 02:58.120 It's just, like, I don't know, bad things tend to come of it. 02:58.200 --> 02:59.840 They tend to make incorrect assumptions, 02:59.920 --> 03:02.720 and so it's, like, easier to just show them what is true, 03:02.799 --> 03:04.200 and then explain it later. 03:04.280 --> 03:05.600 That's just how it is. 03:06.120 --> 03:08.480 Did you hear the story about the firefighter? 03:10.120 --> 03:13.000 So I went on a date with a firefighter, um, 03:13.080 --> 03:15.920 and I had brought my dog at the time, 03:16.519 --> 03:18.720 and he's like, "Why did you bring your dog?" 03:19.239 --> 03:23.840 I was like, "He's my service dog," and I tried to explain that I train dogs, 03:23.920 --> 03:26.720 so it wouldn't be weird that I'd have a service dog because I train dogs. 03:27.320 --> 03:29.239 And so he, like, pushed and pushed and pushed. 03:29.320 --> 03:31.360 "Well, why do you have this dog? What are you doing?" 03:31.440 --> 03:35.440 And so I mean, there's no way around it, so I had to just tell him, um, 03:35.519 --> 03:38.880 that I have autism and this is actually my service dog. 03:38.959 --> 03:41.119 And he stood up and left. 03:42.799 --> 03:46.119 That was it. That was it. He left, and he blocked my number, 03:46.200 --> 03:47.720 and that was the end of it. 03:48.959 --> 03:51.519 It was a thing that you don't really move past super quickly. 03:51.600 --> 03:54.679 Like, I don't know that I, like, was attached to him, 03:55.280 --> 03:58.839 you know, 'cause it was a first date, but it just kind of reiterates 03:58.920 --> 04:02.679 why we don't disclose that information immediately, you know? 04:02.760 --> 04:05.040 If somebody reacts that poorly to your diagnosis, 04:05.119 --> 04:07.040 then that says something bad about them. 04:08.119 --> 04:09.280 Well, yeah. 04:09.359 --> 04:11.600 [phone ringing] 04:17.760 --> 04:18.599 Hello. 04:19.360 --> 04:22.120 Hi, Kaelynn. This is Emily from Speed Dating in the Park. 04:22.200 --> 04:23.160 Oh, hey. 04:23.760 --> 04:26.400 [Emily] I was calling to let you know that you had a match tonight. 04:26.479 --> 04:27.360 It was with Peter. 04:28.000 --> 04:29.800 Hey! We matched with Peter! 04:29.880 --> 04:32.120 Yay, Peter! [laughs] 04:32.200 --> 04:33.440 [Emily] Glad you're excited. 04:33.520 --> 04:36.080 I'll go ahead and send you an email with his contact information. 04:36.160 --> 04:39.080 -You can reach out whenever you want. -Okay, thank you. 04:39.160 --> 04:40.560 -[Emily] Thanks. -Bye. 04:42.720 --> 04:43.680 -Hey! -Hey! 04:43.760 --> 04:45.400 -We got Peter! -[laughs] 04:49.520 --> 04:52.039 My dream, when it comes to love, 04:52.120 --> 04:56.560 is hopefully want to find the right guy that would work with me, 04:56.640 --> 04:59.400 getting married and running a company, 04:59.479 --> 05:02.360 continuing to do animation productions together. 05:03.800 --> 05:05.039 That's what I see. 05:05.120 --> 05:06.479 [magical music playing] 05:12.919 --> 05:15.360 [narrator] After a successful first date, 05:15.440 --> 05:18.160 Solomon is waiting to see Dani again. 05:18.240 --> 05:20.880 I'm feeling so excited, you know what I mean? Like, 05:21.640 --> 05:25.360 it's just such an amazing, like, adventure that I'm gonna have with her today. 05:30.960 --> 05:33.680 -Back again. -Back again, Solomon. 05:34.960 --> 05:37.080 Sorry, I'm just really nervous right now. 05:38.120 --> 05:39.359 Good seeing you. 05:39.440 --> 05:40.320 You too. 05:42.720 --> 05:47.400 Let's just walk around, because look how beautiful this place is. 05:48.000 --> 05:48.919 I know, right? 05:49.479 --> 05:52.200 [Dani] It's like walking into the Princess Peach's castle. 05:52.280 --> 05:54.800 Mario and Princess Peach walking together. 05:54.880 --> 05:56.200 Yes, honestly. 05:59.000 --> 06:00.640 Wow, it's a lovely Koi pond. 06:00.720 --> 06:01.840 I know, right? 06:02.640 --> 06:04.000 You're a really unique person. 06:04.080 --> 06:05.960 -Oh, why, thank you. -Oh, I'm sorry. 06:06.039 --> 06:07.520 It's okay! It's okay! It's okay! 06:07.599 --> 06:11.120 -I'm all flattered! [laughs] -That was awkward. I'm so sorry. 06:11.200 --> 06:12.640 -I'm so sorry. -Don't! 06:13.640 --> 06:17.000 We could look at the fish all day, but there's plenty more to see. 06:17.599 --> 06:19.479 I've heard they have a lovely rose garden, 06:20.080 --> 06:24.640 and every roses have particular names, like the Lincoln Rose. 06:24.720 --> 06:26.000 There's the Otter Rose. 06:26.080 --> 06:28.039 There's the Tournament of Roses. 06:28.120 --> 06:32.080 You know a lot about roses. That's very, like, a good passion that you have. 06:32.160 --> 06:33.799 It's the power of research. 06:34.320 --> 06:35.560 -Good. -You never stop learning. 06:35.640 --> 06:37.720 I love doing research myself too. 06:39.000 --> 06:40.440 [Dani] So you do work, right? 06:40.520 --> 06:42.799 Yeah, I just came back to my old job two weeks ago. 06:42.880 --> 06:45.560 -Everyone was happy to see me. -Old job? Like, where at? 06:45.640 --> 06:46.520 Oh, Ralphs. 06:46.599 --> 06:47.760 -Ralphs? -Yeah. 06:48.520 --> 06:50.520 [screeches] 06:57.240 --> 06:58.520 [narrator] At James's house, 06:58.599 --> 07:01.320 it's the morning after his dinner date with Emma. 07:01.400 --> 07:03.240 He was so excited last night. 07:03.320 --> 07:05.359 -[James] All right, well. -Oh my gosh. 07:05.440 --> 07:07.640 All right, yes, well, yes-- 07:07.720 --> 07:09.880 You were all smiles! 07:09.960 --> 07:11.760 -Go ahead, you can smile now. -[sighs] Well-- 07:11.840 --> 07:13.720 -See that smile! -[James] Yes, well-- 07:13.799 --> 07:15.400 I can see it! 07:15.479 --> 07:17.200 I'm of the opinion the date went well. 07:17.280 --> 07:21.320 I think Emma is very nice and lovely and all that. 07:21.400 --> 07:25.440 I do, as a matter of fact, have a photograph of the two of us. 07:25.520 --> 07:27.320 -[June gasps] -Yes. Do you want to see? 07:27.400 --> 07:28.320 I wanna see! 07:28.400 --> 07:30.000 Well, yes, what do you think? 07:30.599 --> 07:31.760 [June] Oh, she's cute! 07:31.840 --> 07:33.039 [Lawrence] Yes, she is. 07:33.120 --> 07:34.719 -That's a nice photograph. -[James] Yes. 07:34.799 --> 07:36.400 -Yes, it's not bad. -Very nice. 07:36.479 --> 07:39.159 I guess my hair doesn't look too bad in the photograph. 07:39.239 --> 07:41.960 -It looks great, James. -Your hair looks wonderful, James. 07:42.039 --> 07:44.520 Look how large my head looks, though. 07:45.039 --> 07:46.960 It's full of brains. You have a big head. 07:47.039 --> 07:48.680 [James] I sure hope so, yes. 07:48.760 --> 07:51.919 When I first met her I asked, "Are you comfortable shaking hands?" 07:52.000 --> 07:55.280 And she was, thankfully, but, well, at the end before we left, 07:55.359 --> 07:57.679 I asked if she wanted to shake hands again. 07:57.760 --> 08:01.440 She said she was comfortable giving me a hug, so that wasn't too bad. 08:01.520 --> 08:02.640 -Wow. -[James] Yes. Yes. 08:02.719 --> 08:04.359 -That's… Yeah. -All right! 08:04.440 --> 08:06.400 -I suppose that's-- -Not too bad, huh? 08:06.479 --> 08:09.120 -[June] Not too… Wow. -[parents chuckle] 08:09.200 --> 08:11.280 -[June] Are we embarrassing you? -[sighs] 08:11.359 --> 08:12.320 [June] Neat! 08:12.400 --> 08:14.400 It's not very often you let anybody hug you. 08:14.479 --> 08:15.560 [James] No, no, no. 08:16.080 --> 08:20.080 It's pretty amazing how she has a lot in common with me 08:20.159 --> 08:22.640 and shares many of my interests and hobbies. 08:22.719 --> 08:26.719 If I were a more paranoid type of person, I'd be a bit suspicious. 08:27.320 --> 08:28.640 What do you mean, suspicious? 08:28.719 --> 08:31.919 You could've set this up. You could've spoken with her beforehand 08:32.000 --> 08:34.919 and told her every-- all the things to say, possibly. 08:35.000 --> 08:38.079 But no, but I like to keep a positive attitude, you know? 08:38.159 --> 08:40.880 I do not believe that you would have done that. 08:40.959 --> 08:42.720 I'm certain that she is genuine. 08:42.799 --> 08:45.320 [June] You'd be totally heartbroken if they did. 08:45.400 --> 08:47.000 Yes, obviously. 08:47.079 --> 08:48.959 [June] Then they'd have to deal with your mother. 08:49.040 --> 08:49.920 [sighs] 08:52.000 --> 08:53.040 [Abbey] Bang, bang. 08:53.680 --> 08:55.560 -Bang, bang! -You have to do it like… 08:55.640 --> 08:56.800 [Abbey] Bang , bang. 08:56.880 --> 08:57.840 Bang, bang. 09:00.360 --> 09:03.880 That's, like, the minimal amount of trick right there, dog. 09:03.959 --> 09:05.160 You gotta amp it up. 09:05.800 --> 09:07.640 The vet told us that she's overweight. 09:07.720 --> 09:10.160 -She's a fat dog. -She's not a fat dog. 09:10.240 --> 09:11.600 She's a perfect dog. 09:13.240 --> 09:14.560 [whimpers] 09:15.120 --> 09:16.240 [Cian] What's news? 09:16.320 --> 09:17.240 What's news? 09:17.320 --> 09:19.360 [Cian] Yeah, like what's new in your world? 09:19.959 --> 09:24.040 In 2023, I'm going to be a quarter of a century. 09:24.120 --> 09:27.320 -[Christine] How does that make you feel? -Worried. 09:27.400 --> 09:29.560 It does make you feel worried, doesn't it? 09:30.240 --> 09:31.680 I'm still young, right? 09:31.760 --> 09:33.199 -[Christine] Yes! -But-- 09:33.280 --> 09:37.120 Listen, you're young till you're, like, 50 and then it's downhill from there. 09:37.199 --> 09:41.440 Yeah, I'm… Wait a minute, I've got lots and lots and lots of years. 09:41.520 --> 09:43.160 Where do you want to eat tonight? 09:43.839 --> 09:45.959 -Wanna go somewhere? -[phone rings] 09:47.320 --> 09:48.320 Hello? 09:48.400 --> 09:50.199 Hi, Christine, it's David. 09:50.280 --> 09:52.480 Uh, can I speak to Abbey, please? 09:52.560 --> 09:54.800 Um, yeah, hang on, just a minute. 09:56.760 --> 09:57.600 Hello? 09:58.199 --> 10:00.240 -[David] Hi, Abbey. -Hi, David! 10:02.400 --> 10:03.240 [David] How are you? 10:03.320 --> 10:04.320 I'm good. 10:05.520 --> 10:07.839 Can you hear me? Do you want to go on another date? 10:08.360 --> 10:09.199 [David] Yes, I would. 10:10.160 --> 10:12.880 Would you like to come to Lions Tigers & Bears with me 10:12.959 --> 10:14.040 this Friday? 10:14.120 --> 10:16.120 Yes, I would love to go there. 10:16.839 --> 10:17.680 [David] Me too. 10:18.320 --> 10:23.240 I have a lot of stuffed lions back at my house, and dogs. 10:23.320 --> 10:25.040 [David] I have only one stuffed lion. 10:25.600 --> 10:28.079 Really? I have so many. 10:28.680 --> 10:31.800 But I can't carry big, giant stuffed animals 10:31.880 --> 10:33.720 'cause it doesn't look mature. 10:34.240 --> 10:36.480 -[David] I know. -It looks immature. 10:37.760 --> 10:38.600 [sighs] 10:39.280 --> 10:40.120 Well… 10:41.760 --> 10:44.800 We might have dinner plans, but we're not sure yet, 10:44.880 --> 10:46.520 so I'll talk to you later. 10:46.600 --> 10:48.040 I really got to get going. 10:48.120 --> 10:51.880 -Can't wait to see you this Friday. -Can't wait to see you this Friday too. 10:53.320 --> 10:55.199 See you then. Bye. 10:55.280 --> 10:57.120 -[David] You too. Bye. -Bye! 10:58.760 --> 11:02.560 [chuckles] You're going to that place with David! 11:02.640 --> 11:03.520 I know! 11:03.600 --> 11:05.280 [Christine] That's so awesome! 11:05.360 --> 11:06.920 -[Abbey] Yeah. -Isn't that amazing? 11:07.000 --> 11:08.120 Yeah. 11:09.040 --> 11:10.640 Oh my God, this is… 11:12.079 --> 11:13.440 [chuckles] 11:13.520 --> 11:15.120 This is great! 11:15.640 --> 11:17.480 [quietly] I'm planning the wedding. 11:18.000 --> 11:20.640 I'm calling a wedding planner right now. 11:20.719 --> 11:24.079 Where's my phone? [laughs] 11:25.520 --> 11:26.640 Whoo! 11:29.400 --> 11:31.400 [magical music playing] 11:36.120 --> 11:37.520 And voilà. 11:38.160 --> 11:39.839 [Dani] This looks so extravagant. 11:39.920 --> 11:43.480 The universe actually brought this to me, and this is to you. 11:44.000 --> 11:45.000 [Dani] Hmm. 11:47.719 --> 11:48.760 [sighs] 11:48.839 --> 11:49.959 -[sighs] -[chuckles] 11:50.040 --> 11:51.920 It's really nice up here, honestly. 11:52.000 --> 11:52.959 [Dani] Mm-hmm. 11:53.040 --> 11:55.280 [Solomon] It's my first time, actually, having champagne. 11:57.400 --> 11:59.640 Do you like opening, like, wine bottles? 11:59.719 --> 12:01.079 Have you opened one before? 12:01.160 --> 12:03.480 I open it in my store because we have an opener, 12:03.560 --> 12:06.680 but I don't know how to open it, like, myself, you know what I mean? 12:06.760 --> 12:08.400 -I can help. -You can? 12:08.480 --> 12:10.320 -So all you have to do-- -Yeah, teach me. 12:10.400 --> 12:13.240 -Teach me your skills. -Okay, turn that little tab there. 12:13.320 --> 12:14.760 -Like that, right? -Yeah. 12:15.800 --> 12:16.640 Oh, wow. 12:16.719 --> 12:18.400 That is really how you open a bottle. 12:18.480 --> 12:20.160 Be careful. It's gonna pop. 12:23.600 --> 12:24.839 -Ooh! -Aw! 12:24.920 --> 12:27.120 -Damn. Whoo! -[chuckles] 12:27.199 --> 12:29.880 Sorry, I'm, like, kind of sensitive to noise sometimes. 12:29.959 --> 12:31.199 That's okay. 12:31.719 --> 12:32.600 Sorry. 12:33.199 --> 12:34.880 I'm sensitive to noises too. 12:37.360 --> 12:39.240 [Solomon] Oh damn! Ah! 12:39.320 --> 12:42.640 Have your parents ever taught you how to pour drinks like this? 12:42.719 --> 12:44.000 [Solomon] Not like champagne, no. 12:45.000 --> 12:46.440 I pour very slowly. 12:49.040 --> 12:51.160 -Oh, you really do it amazing. -[Dani] Thank you. 12:51.240 --> 12:54.400 Thank you for, like, actually teaching me. I'll remember that. 12:57.880 --> 12:58.959 [Dani] Mm. 12:59.040 --> 13:02.240 -Mm. So good. -So good, indeed. 13:02.320 --> 13:03.920 Let me just take a deep breath. 13:04.719 --> 13:07.079 I just want to let you know you look really amazing today. 13:07.160 --> 13:08.560 Why, thank you so much. 13:08.640 --> 13:09.920 You look amazing too. 13:10.599 --> 13:12.400 My mom picked out the shirt for me. 13:12.480 --> 13:14.520 Oh, wow. That's… Your mother did. 13:14.599 --> 13:17.040 Like, you look like this beautiful angelic angel. 13:17.120 --> 13:18.280 It's just crazy, 13:18.360 --> 13:22.360 because, like, when I first, like, saw you in the first date, right, 13:22.440 --> 13:23.440 I was like, 13:23.520 --> 13:27.680 "Did this beautiful angel and soul came from the universe just for me?" 13:28.280 --> 13:31.120 I do like you so much, but, well, 13:31.199 --> 13:33.199 we should try not to kiss too soon. 13:33.280 --> 13:35.640 It's okay, on our first date, but that's okay. 13:35.719 --> 13:38.560 -No, no, no-- -Everybody makes mistakes. [chuckles] 13:40.800 --> 13:42.360 No, no, I get it. It's just, you know… 13:42.440 --> 13:44.719 We just have to take it slow, is the thing. 13:44.800 --> 13:46.199 Of course. Of course. 13:46.280 --> 13:47.120 Yeah. 13:47.959 --> 13:51.079 Do you have, like, um, any plans to get further degrees? 13:51.160 --> 13:52.959 Yeah. Actually, I am. 13:53.040 --> 13:56.079 So I'm actually applying to get my BA degree. 13:56.160 --> 13:57.599 So I just got my AA degree. 13:57.680 --> 13:59.160 Oh, that's so amazing. 14:00.640 --> 14:01.760 -[buzzing] -Oof. 14:01.839 --> 14:04.280 Mosquito. It's getting one on my nose. 14:04.880 --> 14:06.959 -You have a really cute nose, by the way. -Thank you. 14:07.040 --> 14:09.520 I've never seen such a beautiful nose like yours. 14:09.599 --> 14:10.959 [laughs] 14:11.040 --> 14:12.680 You look absolutely amazing today. 14:12.760 --> 14:15.719 Like, I just can't stop saying it. [laughs] 14:15.800 --> 14:17.400 I cannot stop saying it too, 14:17.479 --> 14:20.760 and, um, I really like the amused look you have in your face. 14:20.839 --> 14:21.760 This looks… You… 14:21.839 --> 14:23.959 Oh my gosh, what? 14:24.040 --> 14:25.439 [both laughing] 14:27.280 --> 14:29.120 What were you saying? Oh my God! 14:29.199 --> 14:30.040 [Dani] You have… 14:31.319 --> 14:32.400 That makes you so cute. 14:33.520 --> 14:36.400 Oh, man. It's just great spending time with you. 14:36.479 --> 14:39.040 -It's great. -Just such a beautiful, lovely moment. 14:45.000 --> 14:47.040 I felt so lovestruck right now. 14:47.120 --> 14:50.640 -What does that mean? -Lovestruck which means I'm still in love. 14:51.640 --> 14:52.920 [chuckles] 14:53.000 --> 14:54.520 I can feel the intimacy. 14:59.680 --> 15:01.760 I really like how you hold my hand. 15:03.199 --> 15:05.280 You're just, like, very tender-loving. 15:06.319 --> 15:08.040 Gee, and you are, babe. 15:08.680 --> 15:10.000 Oh my God! 15:11.479 --> 15:12.959 Let's go for a walk. 15:18.240 --> 15:19.800 [Dani] The date is so fabulous. 15:19.880 --> 15:23.120 Some strawberries and the champagne. Oh, it's so lovely. 15:23.199 --> 15:25.719 I felt like I just need to get to know him a little bit more, 15:25.800 --> 15:27.000 but I do like him. 15:27.520 --> 15:28.800 Feeling romance, indeed. 15:28.880 --> 15:31.199 Like… Like, I mean it. 15:32.240 --> 15:34.199 What a lovely sunset. 15:34.280 --> 15:38.319 Yeah, that sunset is dwelling inside your beautiful soul and presence. 15:38.400 --> 15:40.839 I think you will be really great at creative writing, 15:40.920 --> 15:43.000 which is something… with is your great talent. 15:43.079 --> 15:44.439 Yeah. My mom told me that. 15:44.520 --> 15:47.959 Creative story writing could also work for animation too. 15:48.959 --> 15:50.319 Yeah, for sure. For sure. 15:51.000 --> 15:53.199 -You have something on your face. -Oh. 15:53.280 --> 15:54.959 It's just your beautiful essence. 15:55.040 --> 15:56.079 Oh, thank you. 16:05.959 --> 16:07.640 [Dani] It's okay to take it slow. 16:13.400 --> 16:14.359 Hi there. 16:15.000 --> 16:15.839 [Cian] Hello. 16:16.680 --> 16:17.880 I'm Steve. 16:18.479 --> 16:23.120 I'm 63 years of age. 16:23.199 --> 16:25.240 [Cian] Well, you look pretty good for 63. 16:25.319 --> 16:27.359 Oh, you're awfully kind. 16:27.439 --> 16:29.920 [Cian] How old were you when you were diagnosed with autism? 16:30.000 --> 16:31.880 Wasn't all that long ago. 16:31.959 --> 16:35.920 I mean, it's been I think about two-- a couple of years. 16:36.000 --> 16:38.560 [Cian] How long would you say you've been single for, Steve? 16:39.079 --> 16:44.079 My gosh, I've been single all my life. 16:48.520 --> 16:50.839 [narrator] Steve lives on his own in San Francisco. 16:51.760 --> 16:55.439 This is where I have breakfast, in one chair, 16:55.520 --> 16:57.959 lunch in another one, 16:58.040 --> 17:01.599 and of course, dinner in another one. 17:02.120 --> 17:03.280 -[chuckles] -[Cian] Oh, really? 17:03.359 --> 17:04.760 I tend to do that. 17:04.839 --> 17:06.399 I know, it's kind of funny. 17:09.000 --> 17:10.480 [Steve] Oh my gosh. 17:11.079 --> 17:14.480 Left and right, pictures of memories. 17:15.200 --> 17:21.399 There I am with my five-speed Schwinn Sting-Ray. 17:21.480 --> 17:24.119 I used to think I was an Easy Rider. 17:24.919 --> 17:26.280 This is more recent. 17:26.359 --> 17:28.760 I'm on the left, and there's my dad. 17:28.840 --> 17:30.520 -[Cian] Oh, is that you? -[Steve] Yes! 17:30.600 --> 17:31.919 [Cian] I don't even recognize you. 17:32.000 --> 17:34.320 I think I was a little bit heavier back then. 17:34.399 --> 17:35.560 [Cian] Yeah. 17:35.640 --> 17:37.159 There's my father and I 17:37.240 --> 17:40.760 when I was a little boy living in Los Angeles. 17:40.840 --> 17:44.159 The emotion in that picture is so touching. 17:44.840 --> 17:48.040 Really makes me realize how I connect with my dad, 17:48.640 --> 17:51.800 and how he accepted me for who I am. 17:53.640 --> 17:55.000 [Cian] Do you ever get lonely? 17:55.080 --> 17:56.800 Oh gosh, do I ever. 17:56.880 --> 18:00.440 I get really lonely here at home when I'm alone. 18:00.520 --> 18:04.000 To have a lovely lady, oh my goodness, 18:05.480 --> 18:11.320 that would be an absolute dream come true. 18:12.440 --> 18:14.760 [Cian] Have you thought about trying online dating? 18:14.840 --> 18:16.560 If somebody, 18:17.600 --> 18:19.520 like my personal assistant, 18:20.159 --> 18:21.320 is with me 18:22.600 --> 18:25.399 and showing me and working the computer, 18:26.000 --> 18:28.760 then I'm okay with it. 18:29.399 --> 18:31.080 But I can't do it on my own. 18:34.240 --> 18:35.600 Good morning, Steve. 18:35.679 --> 18:37.000 Oh, hey. 18:37.520 --> 18:38.800 [woman] How you doing? 18:38.880 --> 18:42.520 [narrator] Steve's assistant, Shorae, has been providing support for him 18:42.600 --> 18:44.399 for the last two years. 18:44.480 --> 18:45.640 So, let's see. 18:45.720 --> 18:47.080 What's on the agenda today? 18:47.159 --> 18:52.800 We talked about getting an online dating profile for you. 18:52.880 --> 18:54.399 Oh, that's right. 18:54.480 --> 18:57.640 So that's good, so we're going to need some photos. 18:57.720 --> 18:59.520 -Oh boy. -[Shorae] You're up for that? 18:59.600 --> 19:01.080 -I guess so. -Let's go, yeah. 19:01.159 --> 19:02.159 [Steve] Okay. 19:03.840 --> 19:06.520 -[Shorae] Nice background. -Oh boy, you're not kidding. 19:06.600 --> 19:10.399 Okay, you want to stand here, right in front of the painted ladies? 19:10.480 --> 19:12.960 -Sure. -So we can take a picture for the ladies! 19:13.040 --> 19:14.679 -I like it! -[laughs] 19:14.760 --> 19:17.679 [Shorae] Say, "Whiskey!" 19:17.760 --> 19:21.919 -Whisky a Go Go, baby. -[laughs] 19:22.880 --> 19:24.679 [Shorae] Hey, yeah! Put your hands up. 19:24.760 --> 19:25.800 -There you go. -Aw. 19:25.880 --> 19:28.120 [Shorae] Let me see that big smile 19:28.200 --> 19:29.440 -for the ladies. -Aw. 19:29.520 --> 19:31.000 Do, like, a romantic pose. 19:31.080 --> 19:33.840 I don't even know if I know how to do one of those. 19:33.919 --> 19:35.159 Come hither! 19:35.240 --> 19:36.280 Oh, there you go. 19:36.360 --> 19:37.919 Now you're talking. 19:38.440 --> 19:41.120 Now how about going to Twin Peaks? 19:41.200 --> 19:43.760 -You like that area? -Twin Peaks, oh! Do I like it? 19:43.840 --> 19:47.240 -I love it! -[laughs] 19:49.560 --> 19:51.800 A little wind is one thing. 19:51.880 --> 19:55.240 Yeah, this is a little bit too windy. 19:55.320 --> 19:56.440 [Steve] A little bit. 19:59.000 --> 20:00.240 Hey there! 20:01.280 --> 20:02.560 All right! 20:02.640 --> 20:04.600 -Oh my gosh! -[Shorae laughs] 20:05.840 --> 20:06.880 Oh, wait a minute. 20:06.960 --> 20:08.280 I'm in love! 20:14.560 --> 20:17.040 Let's see. 20:19.040 --> 20:20.520 -[Shorae laughs] -[Steve] Oh my gosh. 20:20.600 --> 20:22.679 [Shorae] This is kind of cute, huh? 20:22.760 --> 20:25.200 -[Steve] That one's nice too. -[Shorae] Mm-hmm. 20:25.800 --> 20:26.880 -Ah! -Oh! 20:26.960 --> 20:31.320 -This is the real Steve. [chuckles] -That is, yes. 20:31.399 --> 20:34.440 Even though my eyes are closed, I'm enjoying it. 20:34.520 --> 20:37.360 That's okay, you're enjoying the air, 20:37.440 --> 20:39.760 and looks like your singing opera. 20:40.960 --> 20:42.440 You already got a message. 20:42.520 --> 20:43.840 Are you serious? 20:47.679 --> 20:49.560 [Cian] What things do you talk about on a date? 20:50.080 --> 20:51.080 Mathematics. 20:51.600 --> 20:53.240 -[Cian] Are you good at maths? -Yeah. 20:54.280 --> 20:55.960 What's seven times 13? 20:56.480 --> 20:57.480 Uh, ninety-one. 20:57.560 --> 21:00.440 [Cian] What about 27 times 45? 21:00.520 --> 21:01.960 Uh, twelve-fifteen. 21:02.560 --> 21:06.360 [Cian] Do you know what day of the week 24th of March 2009 was? 21:07.040 --> 21:08.240 It was Tuesday. 21:08.760 --> 21:12.159 [Cian] What about 17th of December 2012? 21:12.240 --> 21:13.240 Monday. 21:13.320 --> 21:14.679 [Cian] That's amazing, Subodh. 21:19.280 --> 21:22.919 [narrator] Autism expert Jennifer Cook is visiting Subodh 21:23.000 --> 21:26.679 to help him as he prepares for his very first dating experience. 21:27.200 --> 21:29.080 Everybody on the spectrum is different 21:29.159 --> 21:31.760 and we each need different kinds of support. 21:31.840 --> 21:35.520 Some of us have intellectual disabilities and learning challenges. 21:35.600 --> 21:37.240 Some of us have genius IQs. 21:37.320 --> 21:39.399 Some of us are both at the same time. 21:39.480 --> 21:43.679 We are, however, all looking for the same thing, 21:43.760 --> 21:47.159 respect, understanding, and a whole lot of love. 21:49.399 --> 21:50.360 -Hi. -Hi! 21:50.439 --> 21:52.800 Hi, Jennifer. I'm Subodh. 21:52.880 --> 21:54.960 -Hi, Subodh. -Please come in. 21:55.040 --> 21:57.960 Thank you so much. I would love to. Thank you very much. 21:58.040 --> 21:59.040 Yes. Thank you. 22:01.000 --> 22:03.120 [Jennifer] Thank you for welcoming me to your house. 22:03.200 --> 22:07.120 I am here because something exciting is happening in your life. 22:07.800 --> 22:10.320 -Finding a girlfriend? -Finding a girlfriend. 22:10.399 --> 22:11.919 -That's pretty big. -Yes. 22:12.000 --> 22:14.000 Have you ever been on a date before, Subodh? 22:14.080 --> 22:15.360 -Nope. -[Jennifer] Okay. 22:15.439 --> 22:17.880 And so what do you think… 22:17.960 --> 22:19.600 What are you smiling about? 22:19.679 --> 22:22.600 What makes you happy when you think about going on a date? 22:22.679 --> 22:25.000 I feel so great. 22:25.080 --> 22:26.800 Why? What do you see in your head? 22:26.880 --> 22:30.360 -I'm thinking about my future. -Tell me more about that. 22:30.880 --> 22:34.040 Getting married, going on a honeymoon. 22:34.120 --> 22:39.120 Okay, so you want to have a special friend. 22:39.200 --> 22:40.040 Yes. 22:40.120 --> 22:43.640 And is that someone you would want to hug or kiss too? 22:43.720 --> 22:46.399 -Oh yes! -[Jennifer] Yeah. 22:46.480 --> 22:48.439 We come from a different culture, 22:48.520 --> 22:53.040 and, uh, dating is not something that I grew up with. 22:53.120 --> 22:55.399 -Mm-hmm. -I have no idea how to help him. 22:55.480 --> 22:57.760 -So that's been very challenging. -Sure. 22:57.840 --> 23:00.919 And it's difficult for him to find somebody on his own. 23:01.000 --> 23:01.840 Yeah. 23:01.919 --> 23:04.600 So the most exciting thing for me 23:04.679 --> 23:07.120 is that he is being helped by you, 23:07.200 --> 23:10.360 and through this process, he might find love. 23:10.439 --> 23:11.280 -Yeah! -Yeah. 23:11.360 --> 23:13.640 -[Jennifer] Yeah! -[laughs] 23:14.240 --> 23:17.360 I was only identified as being on the spectrum when I was 35. 23:17.439 --> 23:18.320 Oh, wow. 23:18.399 --> 23:21.760 And so I had to stop and kind of look around, 23:21.840 --> 23:25.760 and say, "You know what? Life does not come with a guidebook." 23:25.840 --> 23:29.120 There needs to be, because there are all these secret social rules 23:29.200 --> 23:32.520 that nobody tells us that other people seem to just intuit. 23:32.600 --> 23:34.840 -[mom] Yes. -It can get confusing. Do you agree? 23:34.919 --> 23:36.439 -I agree. -[Jennifer] Yeah. Mm-hmm. 23:36.520 --> 23:38.399 So when we go on dates, 23:38.480 --> 23:41.880 what we're really wanting to do is find things that we both like, 23:41.960 --> 23:45.399 that we could talk about together, some common interests. 23:45.480 --> 23:48.159 Oh, I like to study about the world cities and airports. 23:48.880 --> 23:50.640 -[sister laughs] -That's fantastic. 23:51.399 --> 23:55.159 So I believe your family has set something up very specially 23:55.240 --> 23:56.080 in the backyard. 23:56.159 --> 23:57.240 -Yes. -Wanna try it out? 23:57.320 --> 23:58.919 -Yeah. -Okay. Let's go do it. 24:00.560 --> 24:02.960 Subodh's at the very beginning of his dating journey, 24:03.040 --> 24:07.000 and for him, this is going to be an uphill climb. 24:07.080 --> 24:08.120 That's okay. 24:08.640 --> 24:11.840 So we have set up a special little practice area 24:11.919 --> 24:14.720 to look at those little moments of social interaction 24:14.800 --> 24:18.760 that we don't think about that are so built into just a dinner date. 24:20.200 --> 24:22.280 So, tell you what, when you come to the table, 24:22.360 --> 24:23.640 this is a nice thing to do. 24:24.240 --> 24:26.040 If you pull the seat out. 24:26.120 --> 24:27.200 -Yes. -Right? 24:27.280 --> 24:29.480 And you just say… Go like this, all right? 24:30.399 --> 24:32.679 That's right, and then I'm going to sit down in it. 24:34.120 --> 24:35.159 There we go. 24:35.880 --> 24:41.800 So now is when we are going to try to find things that we have in common. 24:41.880 --> 24:45.240 Then we can talk, we have more to say to each other, 24:45.320 --> 24:46.679 and we have more whats? 24:46.760 --> 24:48.640 -Smiles. -That's right. More smiles. 24:48.720 --> 24:51.840 So do you recognize that flag, Subodh? 24:51.919 --> 24:54.000 Yes. I like the flag of France. 24:54.080 --> 24:55.840 Oh, that's the flag of France? 24:55.919 --> 24:56.760 Yes. 24:57.360 --> 25:00.240 -I wonder why they have a French flag. -Hello. 25:00.320 --> 25:02.200 -Hello. -How are you? 25:02.280 --> 25:05.159 Um, I'm going to be your waitress today. 25:05.240 --> 25:08.919 When our server comes to the table, we're going to look at her. 25:09.000 --> 25:11.240 What do we say when somebody gives us something? 25:11.320 --> 25:13.600 If I gave you a present, what would you say? 25:14.120 --> 25:16.240 -Thank you. -Thank you! Exactly right. 25:16.320 --> 25:19.280 So when she gives us the menus, what do you think we should say? 25:19.800 --> 25:21.520 -Thank you? -Yes! 25:21.600 --> 25:23.560 And do you know why that matters on a date? 25:24.159 --> 25:26.159 We're not on a date with the server, are we? 25:26.240 --> 25:27.520 -No. -No. 25:27.600 --> 25:32.120 We want to show that we have nice manners and that we're a kind person. 25:32.199 --> 25:34.640 Here are some menus for you to order from. 25:35.399 --> 25:36.880 -Thank you. -Thank you so much. 25:36.960 --> 25:38.240 Thank you. 25:38.320 --> 25:41.560 I like escargots. 25:41.640 --> 25:42.520 You do? 25:42.600 --> 25:44.439 What do they taste like? 25:44.520 --> 25:45.840 Taste like snails. 25:46.919 --> 25:48.159 That's a good answer. 25:48.240 --> 25:49.520 What about you? 25:50.120 --> 25:51.840 I don't know if I like escargots. 25:51.919 --> 25:53.760 I've never had them before. 25:53.840 --> 25:56.080 -Are you guys ready to order? -Yes. 25:57.159 --> 25:58.199 -I'll take-- -No. 25:58.280 --> 25:59.280 What are you gonna do? 26:00.679 --> 26:02.280 You go ahead. You start. 26:02.360 --> 26:03.919 Thank you so much, Subodh. 26:04.000 --> 26:06.320 May I please have the French onion soup? 26:06.919 --> 26:08.640 I'll take the escargots. 26:08.720 --> 26:10.480 -Thank you. -Okay. 26:12.800 --> 26:14.240 -Hello. Thank you. -Hello. 26:14.320 --> 26:16.640 -Hello. -Here is your French onion soup. 26:16.720 --> 26:18.080 Thank you very much. 26:18.159 --> 26:20.600 -Enjoy. -It's not actual food? 26:20.679 --> 26:22.120 That's right. We're pretending. 26:22.199 --> 26:24.439 And here is your escargots. 26:24.520 --> 26:25.439 Enjoy. 26:25.520 --> 26:26.960 -Thank you. -Thank you. 26:27.480 --> 26:29.040 -And we look and say? -Thank you. 26:29.120 --> 26:30.399 Yep, right over there. 26:30.480 --> 26:31.760 -Welcome? -No, you say-- 26:31.840 --> 26:33.000 -Thank you. -There you go. 26:33.080 --> 26:35.040 -Welcome. Enjoy. -All right. 26:36.640 --> 26:37.919 Let's try. Very good. 26:39.760 --> 26:41.280 Now you know what you could say? 26:41.360 --> 26:42.600 How is your soup? 26:43.840 --> 26:45.480 My soup is very delicious. 26:45.560 --> 26:46.840 What about your escargots? 26:48.040 --> 26:50.320 My escargots, it tastes like snail. 26:50.919 --> 26:52.960 -That's how it should taste, I guess. -Yeah. 26:53.040 --> 26:54.000 Are you all done? 26:54.600 --> 26:55.679 -Yes. -Okay. 26:55.760 --> 26:59.240 -Are you ready for the ticket? -Yes, thank you so much. 26:59.320 --> 27:00.800 -Check? -Yes. 27:00.880 --> 27:03.880 -Do you want to split the bill? -Absolutely. That would be fine. 27:04.480 --> 27:10.000 Subodh, I think you should not ask for splitting bill on the first date. 27:10.080 --> 27:12.439 As a man, you should be paying the bill. 27:12.520 --> 27:13.439 -Yeah. -Yeah? 27:13.520 --> 27:18.439 Let me pay the bill this time, and maybe next time we can split it. 27:18.520 --> 27:21.159 That sounds good. Thank you so much for dinner. 27:21.240 --> 27:22.800 -So here you go. -Yeah. 27:26.640 --> 27:28.000 Don't subtract money. 27:28.600 --> 27:30.600 She's not going to take any money from you. 27:31.760 --> 27:33.480 Thank you so much. I'll be right back. 27:33.560 --> 27:35.840 -[Jennifer] Thank you so much. -Thank you. Thank you. 27:36.480 --> 27:38.080 -Now we can get up and go. -Yes. 27:38.159 --> 27:39.000 Mm-hmm. 27:40.520 --> 27:42.880 For Subodh, it's just gonna be a matter 27:42.960 --> 27:46.240 of doing these challenges that we're putting before him independently. 27:46.320 --> 27:49.240 So I think one of the things for him is gonna be practicing these skills, 27:49.320 --> 27:54.120 but achieving them without his family always being there to support him. 27:54.199 --> 27:55.320 All right, bye-bye! 27:55.399 --> 27:56.720 Thank you! Bye-bye! 27:56.800 --> 27:58.000 Have a safe trip back. 27:58.080 --> 27:59.320 -Bye-bye. -Bye. 28:04.360 --> 28:06.840 [line ringing] 28:07.439 --> 28:09.679 -[Emma] Hello? -Yes, hello. 28:09.760 --> 28:11.000 This is James. 28:11.080 --> 28:11.960 Is this Emma? 28:12.480 --> 28:15.040 Hi! Yeah, this is Emma. How are you doing, James? 28:15.120 --> 28:16.399 I'm doing quite well on this day. 28:16.480 --> 28:18.760 I'm really, really enjoying this beautiful weather. 28:18.840 --> 28:20.199 How about yourself? 28:20.280 --> 28:23.240 [Emma] Um, yeah, I'm really enjoying the weather too. 28:23.320 --> 28:26.159 I've been going over to the beach by my house a lot and stuff, so… 28:26.240 --> 28:28.679 -Very nice. -Yeah, it's the perfect day for a walk. 28:28.760 --> 28:30.560 -Excellent. -[Emma] Yeah. 28:31.199 --> 28:33.320 That's pretty cool. Yes. Oh, speaking of which, 28:33.399 --> 28:39.800 so there is a medieval Renaissance fair in New York that looks pretty interesting. 28:39.880 --> 28:43.240 I mean, would you be interested in checking it out? 28:43.320 --> 28:45.560 Would you like to go there and see it? 28:48.399 --> 28:50.600 [Emma] Oh, yeah, that sounds amazing. 28:50.679 --> 28:52.800 Yeah, I've never been to a Renaissance fair. 28:52.879 --> 28:55.399 -Are you wearing a costume? -Oh, I'm definitely going to dress up. 28:55.480 --> 28:59.199 I have this really, really awesome black and red opera cape, 28:59.280 --> 29:02.040 and I have a shirt that's black with red trim, 29:02.120 --> 29:04.520 and I have these pretty nice black and red boots also, 29:04.600 --> 29:06.919 and I'm going to carry a cobra-headed cane, 29:07.000 --> 29:09.240 so, yeah, I'm pretty excited. 29:09.320 --> 29:12.720 [Emma] Oh my gosh, that sounds amazing. I can't wait to see your outfit. 29:12.800 --> 29:13.959 That sounds so cool. 29:14.040 --> 29:16.959 I'm sure I definitely have an outfit that I could wear to it. 29:17.040 --> 29:18.040 Great. 29:19.800 --> 29:20.919 Mm. 29:21.000 --> 29:23.199 All right, so I will see you then, in that case. 29:23.280 --> 29:25.639 I'm really looking forward to checking out this fair 29:25.720 --> 29:28.360 and seeing you… checking it out with you. 29:29.399 --> 29:31.439 [Emma] Yeah, definitely. Well, have a good one. 29:31.520 --> 29:33.959 Of course. I hope that you have a very nice day also. 29:34.040 --> 29:35.199 -[Emma] Thanks. -Yes. 29:35.800 --> 29:37.240 -[Emma] Bye. -Goodbye. 29:41.560 --> 29:42.600 [June] How'd it go? 29:42.679 --> 29:45.240 Wait a moment. Wait a moment. I'll tell you. Hold on. 29:50.639 --> 29:53.360 Yes, so I did just, um, speak with Emma. 29:53.439 --> 29:55.560 She sounded excited about going to the fair. 29:55.639 --> 29:57.600 -Isn't that great? -Yeah! 29:57.679 --> 29:59.800 When I told her about the Medieval clothing I'll wear, 29:59.879 --> 30:03.959 she said it sounded pretty awesome, so yes, I'm very excited about that. 30:04.040 --> 30:08.120 If she wants to have a beer or some kind of libation, 30:08.199 --> 30:10.639 don't turn your nose up if she wants… 30:10.720 --> 30:12.800 Say, "Oh God, you're drinking!" 30:12.879 --> 30:15.080 No, I'm not going to. 30:15.159 --> 30:16.840 -[Lawrence] Okay. -I will not do that. 30:16.919 --> 30:18.480 You're there to enjoy each other. 30:18.560 --> 30:19.560 -Yes, Dad. -All right. 30:19.639 --> 30:23.120 So she might enjoy your company more after a couple beers! 30:23.199 --> 30:25.240 -Dad! Stop it, all right? -[Lawrence chuckles] 30:25.320 --> 30:28.360 -You're annoying me. -Oh, James, I'm sorry. 30:28.439 --> 30:29.919 Why is everybody annoying you? 30:30.000 --> 30:32.600 I told you, there's too much micromanagement. 30:32.679 --> 30:34.280 Okay. [chuckles] 30:34.360 --> 30:35.959 [June] When you have your conversation, 30:36.040 --> 30:40.280 I know you might mention to her that you have a couple of really cool swords. 30:40.360 --> 30:43.439 I have both a longsword and a dagger. I need to get a short sword. 30:43.520 --> 30:46.840 I need to make sure I bring my longsword to match so it's the same style. 30:47.439 --> 30:50.800 Yeah, 'cause I might be in a situation where a longsword just won't… 30:50.879 --> 30:54.560 I'll be too cramped to use a longsword, but a dagger won't have enough reach. 30:54.639 --> 30:55.919 -You never know. -[chuckles] 30:56.000 --> 30:57.120 You never know? 30:57.199 --> 31:01.480 Why, you're going bushwhacking somewhere and you need swords to protect you? 31:01.560 --> 31:02.399 [groans] 31:02.480 --> 31:06.520 Surely you would not need a fully functional double-edged sword. 31:06.600 --> 31:08.320 [groans] Well, I don't know. 31:08.399 --> 31:09.879 They're cool, okay? 31:09.959 --> 31:10.800 I know, but… 31:10.879 --> 31:13.480 Have I mentioned that I'd love to have a flamethrower? 31:13.560 --> 31:15.280 -[parents] Yes, you have. -[James] Oh, okay. 31:15.360 --> 31:17.080 [Cian] What would you use a flamethrower for? 31:17.159 --> 31:20.520 I don't know. That's a good question. It's good for melting snow or ice 31:20.600 --> 31:22.480 or, like, burning away shrubbery, or… 31:22.560 --> 31:24.000 Can you see your neighbors? 31:24.080 --> 31:25.919 If I was tied up with wet ropes, 31:26.000 --> 31:28.879 I'd need to burn through wet ropes or something, you know? 31:28.959 --> 31:31.280 Outdoor fires are regulated. 31:31.360 --> 31:32.439 [groans] 31:37.800 --> 31:41.159 [narrator] It's been two weeks since Dani's second date with Solomon. 31:42.800 --> 31:45.520 When it comes to, um, dating with boys, 31:46.120 --> 31:49.159 I'm not so sure if, um, the boy that I'm dating 31:49.240 --> 31:50.399 is the right one. 31:50.480 --> 31:52.120 -You mean Solomon? -Yes. 31:52.959 --> 31:54.679 I don't know if he's the right one. 31:54.760 --> 31:55.800 I don't know. I just-- 31:55.879 --> 31:57.800 You're not supposed to know, like, the first time. 31:57.879 --> 31:59.520 I mean, she chased me for years. 32:00.600 --> 32:03.959 Animation's my life, and I don't think he's into animation at all. 32:04.480 --> 32:05.800 What does he like to do? 32:05.879 --> 32:07.840 -What's his-- -Spirituality. 32:07.919 --> 32:09.360 He likes to do spirituality, 32:09.439 --> 32:13.360 and the truth is, I don't think he's figured out his life yet. 32:13.959 --> 32:14.800 [aunt] I see. 32:14.879 --> 32:19.520 So maybe if he was ten years older, it would be okay? 32:19.600 --> 32:21.480 If he figured out his life. 32:21.560 --> 32:23.480 I've already figured out my life. 32:23.560 --> 32:25.159 Animation is my life. 32:25.240 --> 32:27.719 I thought Solomon would be the soul mate, 32:27.800 --> 32:30.280 but when the slipper fits, but… 32:31.919 --> 32:34.560 Life is not a Disney princess movie, Dani. 32:34.639 --> 32:35.639 -[aunt] No. -[uncle] No. 32:36.159 --> 32:37.199 What's your plan? 32:38.600 --> 32:39.600 I just don't know. 32:39.679 --> 32:43.080 -Is a Dear John letter acceptable? -[aunt laughs] 32:43.159 --> 32:47.080 I'm not sure Dear John letters are a good idea. 32:47.159 --> 32:48.120 Phone call? 32:48.199 --> 32:51.240 You could give him a phone call, or you could do a meeting, or… 32:51.320 --> 32:52.600 I'm a little nervous. 32:52.679 --> 32:54.480 I don't want to break Solomon's heart. 32:54.560 --> 32:56.679 Better to do it now than to do it later. 32:56.760 --> 32:57.760 Okay. 32:57.840 --> 33:00.120 Just like a Band-Aid, take it off really fast. 33:00.199 --> 33:02.520 -Okay. -But if you do it really slowly, 33:02.600 --> 33:03.520 then it hurts more. 33:04.120 --> 33:06.040 -Oh, I get the analogy. -Okay, good. 33:06.120 --> 33:09.120 It was my major mistake that I shouldn't be kissing him on the first date, 33:09.199 --> 33:11.320 but I overcome with emotion. 33:11.399 --> 33:12.240 Okay. 33:12.840 --> 33:16.480 I've always wanted somebody, and I thought Solomon was the right match, 33:16.560 --> 33:18.719 but I don't think so. 33:18.800 --> 33:23.240 I should… I should go deeper under what's underneath his iceberg. 33:23.840 --> 33:24.679 [aunt] Always. 33:24.760 --> 33:27.040 You have to be compatible for a long time. 33:27.120 --> 33:28.439 Thanks for the advice. 33:28.520 --> 33:29.439 You're welcome. 33:34.120 --> 33:36.199 [Cian] Are you ready to start your dating journey? 33:36.280 --> 33:38.360 Yes, I'm gonna start the dating journey. 33:38.959 --> 33:39.800 Very ready! 33:39.879 --> 33:41.080 Yes! 33:41.159 --> 33:43.719 It's gonna be a new chapter! Yes! 33:43.800 --> 33:48.000 Oh, I wanna fall in love with all the girls! 33:52.000 --> 33:52.919 [Cian] Big day today. 33:53.000 --> 33:55.240 -Are you excited about your date? -Yes. 33:55.320 --> 33:57.040 Is the girl American? 33:57.120 --> 33:58.360 -[Cian] Yes. -Oh, yes. 33:58.439 --> 33:59.280 [Cian laughs] 33:59.360 --> 34:00.879 -She's not Indian, I promise. -Yeah. 34:02.000 --> 34:04.879 [narrator] In Long Beach, California, Subodh is getting ready 34:04.959 --> 34:06.719 for the first date of his life. 34:06.800 --> 34:08.799 Do you like… Let's try this jacket on, yeah? 34:08.880 --> 34:09.920 Yeah. 34:12.400 --> 34:13.280 Turn towards me. 34:13.960 --> 34:15.719 That looks very, very nice. 34:15.799 --> 34:16.719 Good option. 34:16.799 --> 34:18.719 What are you looking forward to on your date? 34:18.799 --> 34:21.719 In my future, I would like to travel with your girlfriend in the future. 34:21.799 --> 34:23.920 Yes, that's a good option. 34:24.000 --> 34:25.400 And after getting married, 34:25.480 --> 34:28.199 we'll go to the honeymoons around the globe. 34:28.280 --> 34:30.199 Right! [laughs] 34:47.839 --> 34:49.799 [narrator] Subodh is meeting Rachel. 34:50.799 --> 34:53.000 She likes rubbing a dog's belly 34:53.080 --> 34:54.560 and salsa dancing. 34:54.639 --> 34:56.440 She doesn't like skunks 34:56.520 --> 34:58.720 or people losing their temper. 34:59.440 --> 35:00.680 Hi, I'm Rachel. 35:00.760 --> 35:02.120 -[Subodh] Hey, Rachel. -Hi. 35:02.200 --> 35:04.160 -Hi, I'm Subodh. -Hi. 35:04.240 --> 35:06.080 -Please take your seat. -Thank you. 35:06.839 --> 35:08.120 -[Rachel] Hmm. -So… 35:08.880 --> 35:10.200 So do you have a favorite movie? 35:10.280 --> 35:12.440 I used to watch a lot of Mission Impossible. 35:12.520 --> 35:15.000 Okay. I have a lot of favorite movies. 35:15.080 --> 35:17.600 Like, my favorite comedy is the movie White Chicks. 35:17.680 --> 35:19.360 -Yes. -With the Wayans Brothers. 35:19.440 --> 35:20.440 2004. 35:20.520 --> 35:22.040 Yeah, you like that movie? 35:22.120 --> 35:25.240 -I used to watch that movie in 2004. -Yeah. Yeah. 35:25.319 --> 35:27.120 Oh, here are your flowers. 35:27.200 --> 35:28.080 Oh, thank you! 35:28.600 --> 35:30.839 Thank you. They're my favorite color too. 35:30.920 --> 35:34.240 I haven't started dating a girl in 33 years. 35:34.319 --> 35:35.160 Wow. 35:35.240 --> 35:36.160 Me too. 35:36.240 --> 35:39.040 You know? I haven't dated in such a long time. 35:39.120 --> 35:40.880 Yeah. Uh, Rachel? 35:40.960 --> 35:43.760 -Yeah? -What do you like to do for sports? 35:43.839 --> 35:45.480 -Basketball. -Yeah. 35:45.560 --> 35:48.000 I also like, uh, soccer. 35:48.080 --> 35:50.240 I like to go swimming and snorkeling. 35:50.319 --> 35:51.200 Oh, cool. 35:51.280 --> 35:53.600 But I want to start snorkeling and traveling. 35:54.360 --> 35:58.040 -Where do you want to travel to? -I am going with around-the-world ticket. 35:58.120 --> 35:59.319 Oh, that's cool. 35:59.400 --> 36:00.240 Yeah. 36:01.960 --> 36:04.160 Well, I love to… Do you like to cook? 36:04.240 --> 36:05.680 I like to cook food. 36:05.760 --> 36:07.720 Well, I love to cook a lot. 36:07.799 --> 36:09.120 I like to make some soup. 36:09.200 --> 36:10.880 Oh, you like soup? I like soup too. 36:10.960 --> 36:13.440 Welcome to the Crab Pot. Here are our menus right here. 36:13.520 --> 36:14.360 [Rachel] Thank you. 36:15.120 --> 36:17.080 [Subodh] Do you like to eat poke bowls? 36:17.160 --> 36:18.520 -Poke bowls? -[Subodh] Yeah. 36:18.600 --> 36:20.120 I do, sometimes. 36:20.760 --> 36:22.440 -I like poke bowls. -[Rachel] Yeah. 36:25.440 --> 36:27.280 Do you like to draw or anything? 36:27.360 --> 36:29.440 I like to draw a picture of a cake. 36:29.520 --> 36:30.839 -That's cool. -Yeah. 36:30.920 --> 36:32.520 -I love cake. -Yeah. 36:33.120 --> 36:34.360 You like to decorate cakes? 36:34.440 --> 36:36.400 Draw a picture of it, but I don't decorate. 36:36.480 --> 36:38.280 Picture of the cake? Okay, that's cool. 36:38.360 --> 36:40.000 -[Subodh] Yeah. -That's cool. 36:41.640 --> 36:43.880 So what's your favorite type of music, by the way? 36:43.960 --> 36:45.920 I like to listen to video-game music. 36:46.520 --> 36:49.480 -Rachel, do you like video-game music? -I don't listen to that stuff. 36:49.560 --> 36:52.440 My favorite kind of music is pop rock, and I also like Broadway. 36:52.520 --> 36:53.400 Broadway. 36:54.920 --> 36:57.240 My favorite musical is Hairspray. 36:57.920 --> 36:58.760 Hills? 36:58.839 --> 36:59.760 Hairspray. 37:00.400 --> 37:01.680 -[Subodh] Oh, Hairspray! -Yes. 37:01.760 --> 37:04.359 -All right. -I like The Greatest Showman. 37:04.440 --> 37:05.640 I don't like it. 37:05.720 --> 37:06.880 [Rachel] Oh, that's okay. 37:06.960 --> 37:08.760 -You know, we can be different. -Yeah. 37:09.280 --> 37:10.520 These are so pretty. 37:13.160 --> 37:14.720 Can't wait to take this back. 37:14.799 --> 37:18.120 Oh, wow. I haven't done this one in 33 years. 37:18.200 --> 37:19.480 I know. [chuckles] 37:19.560 --> 37:20.480 Same as me. 37:21.080 --> 37:21.960 [chuckles] 37:22.640 --> 37:24.240 Do you watch any TV or anything? 37:24.319 --> 37:25.680 I do not like TV. 37:26.280 --> 37:27.880 Do you watch YouTube? 37:27.960 --> 37:29.400 Sometimes. Not all the time. 37:29.480 --> 37:31.280 I like it all the time. 37:31.359 --> 37:32.200 Wow. 37:35.640 --> 37:36.839 Yeah, I… Yeah. 37:37.520 --> 37:40.040 Well, I watch TV sometimes. 37:40.600 --> 37:42.040 What's your favorite things to… 37:42.120 --> 37:44.720 I know you don't watch TV, but my favorite TV shows 37:44.799 --> 37:46.520 is Dancing With The Stars and American Idol. 37:46.600 --> 37:48.880 Let's change the topic. Can we change the topic? 37:48.960 --> 37:49.960 Sure, go ahead. 37:53.640 --> 37:54.560 Go ahead. 38:04.520 --> 38:07.640 [Dani] So I just wanted to talk to Solomon. 38:07.720 --> 38:10.640 We've enjoyed our dating times and everything, 38:10.720 --> 38:14.480 but unfortunately, we're not compatible. 38:15.080 --> 38:18.200 I just want to ask him, "Can we still be friends?" 38:18.280 --> 38:20.359 "Can we still be friends, if it's possible?" 38:20.440 --> 38:22.400 I hope I don't hurt his feelings. 38:23.839 --> 38:25.319 You can do this, Dani. 38:27.720 --> 38:29.000 [line ringing] 38:31.720 --> 38:33.160 -Hey, Soly. -[Solomon] Hey Dani! 38:33.240 --> 38:34.640 It's been a long time. 38:34.720 --> 38:36.640 It's been a long time with you. 38:36.720 --> 38:39.839 Things has been very, very busy lately. 38:40.920 --> 38:42.200 [Solomon] No, I feel you on that. 38:42.280 --> 38:45.280 Me too, honestly. Like, I've been working a lot lately, 38:45.359 --> 38:46.480 so, you know… 38:46.560 --> 38:48.160 [chuckles] Okay. 38:48.799 --> 38:52.280 But there is one thing I just want to talk to you about. 38:53.319 --> 38:55.600 -[Solomon] Yeah, what's up? Talk to me. -I… 38:55.680 --> 38:56.600 [clears throat] 38:57.440 --> 38:59.359 I'm just a little nervous, 38:59.440 --> 39:01.720 but unfortunately… 39:02.960 --> 39:04.520 [sighs] …dating-wise, 39:05.120 --> 39:07.280 I don't think we're… 39:07.799 --> 39:11.720 What I'm trying to say, I don't think we're compatible. 39:16.160 --> 39:17.839 [suspenseful music playing] n't think we're compatible.