WEBVTT 00:14.840 --> 00:18.520 [Dani] I just want to say that I enjoyed hanging out with you. 00:18.599 --> 00:22.680 We had a great time. Like, um, we first met and, um… 00:22.760 --> 00:28.520 dating-wise, I don't think we're… compatible. 00:29.760 --> 00:33.320 -[sighs] Can we still be friends, Soly? -[Solomon] Are you serious? [sighs] 00:33.400 --> 00:36.640 So this means we're not gonna, like, go out again or, like… 00:36.720 --> 00:38.559 We can still go out again. 00:38.640 --> 00:41.400 [Solomon] But you just told me you're not looking for dating-wise, 00:41.480 --> 00:42.879 and that just really hurts me. 00:42.960 --> 00:46.120 I think you just need to plan your future a little bit more. 00:46.800 --> 00:48.280 I know it hurts, but… 00:48.800 --> 00:50.320 [Solomon] It really hurts me. You know? 00:50.400 --> 00:54.239 -Like, literally, we had such a good time. -Of course we had a good time. 00:54.320 --> 00:57.120 You shouldn't feel bad. You shouldn't regret that. 00:58.480 --> 01:00.400 [Solomon sighs] My God. 01:00.480 --> 01:01.360 [sniffles] 01:01.440 --> 01:03.360 Don't need to… It's all right. 01:04.519 --> 01:08.119 -It's just, we had such a good time. -Of course we did. 01:08.200 --> 01:11.200 -You really liked me and-- -I do like you, but… 01:13.040 --> 01:15.960 I mean, do you really like me, or are you playing me? I just need to know-- 01:16.040 --> 01:17.280 I'm not playing! 01:17.880 --> 01:19.240 I do like you as your friend. 01:19.320 --> 01:21.119 So you like me as a friend, 01:21.200 --> 01:23.880 so this whole time you just basically led me on. 01:24.479 --> 01:25.360 I… 01:25.960 --> 01:27.880 It was a mistake to let me on, 01:27.960 --> 01:31.880 but maybe if you find somebody else, you know? 01:31.960 --> 01:33.920 Maybe if I find somebody else? 01:34.920 --> 01:36.440 It's a dating experience. 01:36.960 --> 01:39.119 I understand, okay, but be honest with me. 01:39.720 --> 01:43.759 -I thought you were that one that came-- -I thought you were the one that came too. 01:43.839 --> 01:46.040 I had that in my mind too. 01:46.640 --> 01:48.640 It's just time to move on. 01:48.720 --> 01:50.199 But stay strong, Soly. 01:50.800 --> 01:52.080 Thank you for everything. 01:52.600 --> 01:53.880 Of course. No problem. 01:53.960 --> 01:55.360 -Bye. -Bye. 01:55.440 --> 01:56.280 [Dani sighs] 01:57.280 --> 01:59.039 [Cian] How are you feeling now? You okay? 01:59.759 --> 02:01.160 It's bittersweet. 02:01.679 --> 02:03.000 Very bittersweet. 02:03.080 --> 02:03.919 [Cian] Yeah. 02:04.559 --> 02:07.919 Experiences can be so bittersweet that it's… 02:08.000 --> 02:11.600 You had so much fun, but it's time to move on. 02:13.760 --> 02:14.920 [Cian] You a bit upset? 02:18.000 --> 02:20.080 Because I felt like I upset somebody. 02:20.160 --> 02:21.720 I made somebody upset. 02:24.080 --> 02:25.640 But it's okay. 02:26.799 --> 02:28.360 [Cian] These things can be hard. 02:29.360 --> 02:30.400 [sniffles] 02:31.200 --> 02:33.280 And anyways, I have to get to work. 02:36.720 --> 02:39.680 And when you go to work, nobody wants to see a tear. 02:51.920 --> 02:54.120 [narrator] In Long Beach, Subodh is having dinner 02:54.200 --> 02:56.720 with Rachel on his first-ever date. 02:59.040 --> 03:00.640 What type of animals do you like? 03:00.720 --> 03:01.600 I love dogs. 03:01.679 --> 03:03.480 I like water animals. 03:03.560 --> 03:05.840 -Do you like water animals? -Yeah, I love dolphins. 03:05.920 --> 03:07.679 Oh, dolphins are so adorable. 03:07.760 --> 03:10.200 They have a lot of them at Discovery Cove in Orlando. 03:11.959 --> 03:13.679 Is that your favorite animal, dolphins? 03:13.760 --> 03:17.000 -I love dolphins. -Yeah, I like that too. I love dogs also. 03:17.080 --> 03:18.399 -Yeah. -I have a dog. 03:18.480 --> 03:20.080 -Yeah. -Her name's Daisy Mae. 03:20.160 --> 03:21.959 -[Subodh] Yeah. -And she's very cute. 03:22.040 --> 03:23.040 So cute. 03:23.120 --> 03:24.040 [Rachel] Yeah. 03:24.120 --> 03:26.080 Do you… Do you like, um, dancing or anything? 03:26.160 --> 03:27.920 I like dancing. 03:28.000 --> 03:29.880 Oh, that's cool. I love to dance. 03:29.959 --> 03:30.799 Yeah. 03:31.320 --> 03:32.959 You have a secret dance move? 03:33.560 --> 03:34.440 Yes. 03:35.160 --> 03:37.560 Oh, nice. I love it. [chuckles] 03:37.640 --> 03:40.480 [waiter] So, I have our food right here. 03:41.200 --> 03:42.040 Thank you. 03:42.119 --> 03:43.399 [waiter] Got our tacos. 03:44.000 --> 03:45.640 -[Rachel] Thank you. -Uh, thank you. 03:45.720 --> 03:46.640 [waiter] Of course. 03:46.720 --> 03:47.640 Good. 03:47.720 --> 03:49.079 [Rachel] This looks really good. 03:49.720 --> 03:51.320 This looks so good. 03:51.399 --> 03:52.519 You like the beach? 03:52.600 --> 03:54.000 [Subodh] I love the beach. 03:54.079 --> 03:56.119 What do you like to do on the beach? 03:56.200 --> 03:58.000 Cool off with lots of water. 03:59.480 --> 04:00.600 What about you? 04:01.519 --> 04:03.640 Yeah, I like to sit on the sand 04:04.560 --> 04:05.880 and go in the water. 04:08.679 --> 04:10.399 Please excuse me. I'll be right back. 04:10.480 --> 04:11.399 Okay. Go ahead. 04:15.239 --> 04:17.279 -[Cian] How's the date going, Subodh? -Good. 04:17.800 --> 04:19.760 [Cian] Tell me, what do you think about Rachel? 04:19.839 --> 04:23.280 Uh, I… I like her so much. 04:24.080 --> 04:25.720 The date's going great, by the way. 04:26.240 --> 04:28.120 Subodh is really cool. 04:28.200 --> 04:31.680 He's fun to talk to, you know, because we both have a lot in common too. 04:34.440 --> 04:36.160 -[Rachel] It's a nice sunset. -Yeah. 04:37.520 --> 04:38.919 [chuckles] 04:39.000 --> 04:41.400 -[waiter] I'm just gonna leave this here. -Okay. Thank you. 04:42.080 --> 04:43.960 Do you like to split the bill? 04:44.039 --> 04:45.160 [Rachel] It's up to you. 04:48.039 --> 04:49.599 -I will pay for it. -[Rachel] Okay. 04:49.680 --> 04:51.120 -Sounds good. -Yeah. 04:51.200 --> 04:53.919 Thank you so much. That's so nice of you. 04:54.000 --> 04:54.840 Yeah. 04:56.120 --> 04:57.440 What are your dreams? 04:58.080 --> 04:59.800 My dream is to meet somebody, 04:59.880 --> 05:02.720 and I'm finally kind of meeting you for the first time, 05:02.800 --> 05:04.320 and I think you're really cool. 05:04.400 --> 05:05.240 -Yeah. -You know? 05:05.320 --> 05:06.880 We both like traveling. 05:06.960 --> 05:08.680 Yeah, we both like to travel. Yes, I do. 05:08.760 --> 05:10.840 Do you want to buy the round-the-world ticket? 05:10.919 --> 05:12.520 Yeah, we can. Travel around the world. 05:12.599 --> 05:16.919 Like, um, Italy, Hawaii. I've never been to Hawaii before. 05:17.000 --> 05:20.160 I went to Honolulu, but I'm just gonna try a different city. 05:20.240 --> 05:22.520 -Okay. I like Hawaii. -[waiter] I'll take this. 05:22.599 --> 05:23.800 -Thank you. -[Rachel] Thank you. 05:23.880 --> 05:24.880 [waiter] Yeah, of course. 05:25.479 --> 05:26.479 Thank you so much. 05:26.560 --> 05:28.520 -Thank you so much, Rachel. -You're welcome. 05:29.200 --> 05:31.560 -I know you love the dolphins. -I like the dolphins. 05:31.640 --> 05:33.440 There's a lot of dolphins in Hawaii. 05:38.800 --> 05:40.359 I had a great time with you. 05:40.440 --> 05:42.520 I had a great time too! 05:42.599 --> 05:43.479 I know, right? 05:44.240 --> 05:46.200 Would you like to see me again? 05:46.280 --> 05:48.520 Of course, I would love to see you again. Of course. 05:48.599 --> 05:51.080 Okay, I'll give you a call and I'll work it out 05:51.160 --> 05:53.919 just to see if there's a confirmed date for other plans. 05:54.000 --> 05:56.479 -That'd be great. Definitely. -[Subodh] Yeah. 05:56.560 --> 05:57.440 Yeah. 05:58.520 --> 06:00.160 It was fun. I'll see you later. 06:00.240 --> 06:02.080 -Definitely we will, yes. -[Subodh] Okay. 06:02.160 --> 06:03.200 -Yes, definitely. -Rachel. 06:03.280 --> 06:04.599 -Bye, Subodh. -[Subodh] Bye-bye. 06:05.320 --> 06:06.160 So… 06:07.720 --> 06:08.919 [chuckles] 06:09.840 --> 06:11.400 Super cool. 06:11.479 --> 06:13.359 -[Cian] Are you happy? -Yes, I'm happy. 06:14.400 --> 06:15.640 It was a success. 06:20.240 --> 06:21.479 -I'm feeling good. -[Cian] Why? 06:21.560 --> 06:23.200 -I think it went great. -[Cian] Yeah? 06:23.280 --> 06:25.359 -I think the date went great, actually. -[Cian] Yeah. 06:25.440 --> 06:26.680 He's really nice. 06:26.760 --> 06:29.120 [Cian] Yeah, and it sounds like you planned for a second date. 06:29.200 --> 06:32.000 I guess we're planning for a second date. Yes, we are. 06:32.080 --> 06:34.720 -[Cian] That's cool. -Yeah, it is really very cool. 06:34.799 --> 06:36.680 I'm very happy. [chuckles] 06:37.200 --> 06:40.400 It's what I always wanted, actually. [chuckles] 06:48.479 --> 06:49.680 How'd it go? 06:50.280 --> 06:51.440 He's hurt. 06:51.520 --> 06:54.080 He's like, I've been leading you on. 06:54.160 --> 06:55.960 "You've been leading me on." Leading me on. 06:56.039 --> 06:58.080 He said that? Why does he feel that way? 06:58.160 --> 07:00.240 Because he wants to date me and everything. 07:00.320 --> 07:02.479 He thought we were a perfect match, but 07:02.560 --> 07:06.440 he hasn't really figured out the real future, the real career. 07:06.520 --> 07:07.880 Did you tell him that? 07:08.560 --> 07:10.120 I… kind of did. 07:10.200 --> 07:11.039 Oh dear. 07:11.120 --> 07:12.680 [chuckles] Okay. 07:12.760 --> 07:15.520 Just because we break up doesn't mean we can't see each other again. 07:15.599 --> 07:18.320 Well, you're not breaking up. You were never boyfriend and girlfriend. 07:18.400 --> 07:20.799 You were just dating. So you're just not gonna date anymore. 07:20.880 --> 07:25.080 You can still see each other as friends, just not as a love connection. 07:25.159 --> 07:28.440 But I guess he was a little hurt, huh? 07:28.520 --> 07:31.239 I actually heard him having a meltdown. 07:31.320 --> 07:34.719 -He was having a meltdown? -Yeah, he was sniffing and, like, teary. 07:34.799 --> 07:37.320 -I can hear his tears on the phone. -Oh dear. 07:37.400 --> 07:38.880 -Oh. -Oh. 07:38.960 --> 07:40.159 -That's hard. -And how are you? 07:40.760 --> 07:43.760 -I was, like, a little teary, but… -[Sandy] Aw. 07:43.840 --> 07:44.680 Come here. 07:46.640 --> 07:47.719 -But I'm strong. -It's okay. 07:47.799 --> 07:49.400 I know you're strong. You're good. 07:49.479 --> 07:51.880 Because businesswomen don't cry. 07:52.599 --> 07:53.520 [Patrick laughs] 08:02.479 --> 08:03.320 Hi, Subodh. 08:03.400 --> 08:04.960 -Hey. -[mom] Hey. 08:05.039 --> 08:06.320 -How was it? -[Subodh] Good. 08:06.400 --> 08:08.599 -You look so happy! -[Subodh] Yeah. 08:08.679 --> 08:10.880 -Did you ask her to meet again? -Yes. 08:10.960 --> 08:12.520 -You did! -What did she say? 08:12.599 --> 08:15.359 When they receive a call for a confirmed date. 08:15.440 --> 08:16.400 -Okay. -Awesome. 08:16.479 --> 08:17.960 -All right. -That is so exciting. 08:18.039 --> 08:20.799 -What did you guys talk about? -We did a variety of topics. 08:20.880 --> 08:22.280 Where does she like to travel to? 08:22.359 --> 08:24.200 She likes to travel all over the globe, 08:24.280 --> 08:27.320 when I become a future partner or a future date. 08:27.400 --> 08:29.280 -Okay, future date. -Wow. 08:29.359 --> 08:30.479 Okay. 08:30.560 --> 08:31.679 [mom] Was she sweet? 08:31.760 --> 08:33.480 -Sweet. -[mom] And she was pretty? 08:33.559 --> 08:35.640 -Yeah. -And did you pay for the bill? 08:35.720 --> 08:38.199 -Yeah. -Did you pull a chair for her? 08:38.280 --> 08:40.760 Oh, I think it's okay. 08:40.840 --> 08:43.039 -Did you make her happy? -Yes, so happy. 08:43.120 --> 08:45.079 -Yeah? Okay. -[Aarti chuckles] 08:45.160 --> 08:48.880 I'm gonna add the girl on the Facebook and says "married." 08:48.959 --> 08:50.640 No! [laughs] 08:50.720 --> 08:52.079 -Was that a joke? -No. 08:52.160 --> 08:54.040 -It's a joke. -I think you're being silly, right? 08:54.120 --> 08:55.560 I'm just saying it. 08:55.640 --> 08:57.680 [Aarti] Yeah, you're just saying it as a joke, right? 08:57.760 --> 09:00.280 I'm so happy that you had a wonderful date. 09:00.360 --> 09:01.880 -Yeah? -[Aarti] Can I have a hug? 09:01.959 --> 09:05.120 -Yeah. -Oh, you look so happy! 09:09.760 --> 09:11.880 [Cian] What do you think love means? 09:12.880 --> 09:15.440 Love means, to me, I'm treated like a princess. 09:15.520 --> 09:18.199 We go out for ice cream. We go out for dinner. 09:25.079 --> 09:28.440 [narrator] Abbey is getting ready to meet David for a second date. 09:28.520 --> 09:30.120 -Excited, girl? -Mm-hmm. 09:31.280 --> 09:34.760 You got up early today. Look at you. You're like, "Uh…" 09:34.839 --> 09:38.360 I shouldn't be getting up this early. I'm too old for that, to get up early. 09:38.440 --> 09:40.959 That's the opposite, honestly. 09:41.040 --> 09:42.760 -Is it the other way around? -Yes. 09:42.839 --> 09:45.160 Exactly. It is the other way around, girl. 09:45.680 --> 09:47.280 Welcome to the world, 09:47.360 --> 09:49.959 where you have to get up and go to work or do things. 09:50.720 --> 09:52.320 [Abbey] All right. Where's the bracelet? 09:53.520 --> 09:54.880 [Christine] I think it's on here. 09:55.560 --> 09:58.040 -[Abbey] Where I left it. -Look. What's on it? 09:58.120 --> 10:00.120 -Flamingo. -It's so cute. 10:01.120 --> 10:01.959 There you go. 10:02.040 --> 10:02.920 Thank you. 10:03.000 --> 10:04.040 [Christine] I like it. 10:04.640 --> 10:05.680 All right, let's go! 10:05.760 --> 10:07.520 -[Abbey] Yeah! -[Christine] Let's do it. 10:08.560 --> 10:09.400 You ready? 10:09.920 --> 10:10.959 [Abbey] All right. 10:13.880 --> 10:16.800 [Cian] What was it like finding out about your neurodiversity? 10:16.880 --> 10:20.800 Growing up, I always knew deep, deep down 10:20.880 --> 10:23.480 that I didn't really fit in. 10:23.560 --> 10:28.839 Inside of my brain, I knew something was different. 10:28.920 --> 10:30.800 I might be a little goofy. 10:31.400 --> 10:33.240 I might be a little bit weird, 10:33.320 --> 10:34.600 but you know what? 10:34.680 --> 10:36.680 The intentions are always good. 10:43.160 --> 10:46.760 [narrator] Elaine Hall has been working with Steve as his life coach. 10:46.839 --> 10:50.480 She's visiting him as he prepares to start dating again. 10:52.640 --> 10:53.480 [Elaine] Steve. 10:53.560 --> 10:55.640 [Steve] Wow, Elaine. 10:55.719 --> 10:57.199 When I first met Steve, 10:57.719 --> 11:01.600 no one had ever spoken to him about neurodiversity, ever. 11:02.199 --> 11:04.040 When Steve was young, 11:04.120 --> 11:06.160 and we're talking over 50 years ago, 11:06.240 --> 11:09.440 we did not have the understanding of autism 11:09.520 --> 11:10.640 that we have today. 11:10.719 --> 11:14.880 So Steve's behavior was looked at as being weird. 11:15.480 --> 11:19.320 So my work with him is to help him let go of the guilt, the shame, 11:19.400 --> 11:21.320 the feeling bad about himself, 11:21.400 --> 11:25.640 that society brought onto him and he internalized. 11:25.719 --> 11:31.480 So, Steve, remember you wrote a letter to your future lady friend. 11:31.560 --> 11:32.440 Oh, yes. 11:32.520 --> 11:35.480 -Would you mind reading it again? -No. No. 11:36.920 --> 11:38.000 "Hello." 11:38.079 --> 11:39.360 "My name is Steve." 11:39.959 --> 11:43.959 "I'm 63 years of age." 11:44.839 --> 11:49.160 "I like telling stories and playing with words." 11:49.240 --> 11:52.120 "I'm looking for a lovely lady 11:52.199 --> 11:53.680 who is down to earth 11:53.760 --> 12:00.160 and who also is very accepting of my quirkiness, 12:00.880 --> 12:02.680 with a loving heart." 12:02.760 --> 12:07.320 "Please feel free to come along and follow me." 12:08.120 --> 12:10.640 "I'd love to have your companionship." 12:11.600 --> 12:13.880 "We will show each other the way." 12:13.959 --> 12:15.880 How'd it feel to read this over? 12:15.959 --> 12:19.719 You know what? I think… I don't think I need to change anything. 12:19.800 --> 12:21.719 And so you're looking for someone 12:21.800 --> 12:24.440 where you can bring out the best in each other? 12:24.520 --> 12:25.360 Thank you. 12:25.440 --> 12:27.520 Exactly. That's right. 12:27.600 --> 12:33.040 Do you have any concerns or reservations or fears about dating? 12:33.120 --> 12:34.760 For me, it's kind of, um… 12:36.320 --> 12:38.800 going into the world of the unknown. 12:38.880 --> 12:40.959 And maybe I'm a little different. 12:41.040 --> 12:42.800 Okay, I'm sure that's true. 12:42.880 --> 12:44.839 But I want to share that with somebody. 12:45.440 --> 12:47.199 I want to embrace it. 12:47.280 --> 12:48.400 And now you're ready. 12:48.480 --> 12:50.000 Oh, thank you. 12:50.079 --> 12:51.640 -Don't you think? -I think so. 12:51.719 --> 12:54.880 Steve's life had become very small, 12:55.440 --> 12:58.920 and he had given up on all the dreams and wishes he had had, 13:00.360 --> 13:03.599 one of which was to be in a relationship. 13:03.680 --> 13:05.280 Steve does need support, 13:05.360 --> 13:09.079 but I don't think that'll get in the way of him having a meaningful relationship. 13:09.160 --> 13:11.520 And I really believe that there was a part of him 13:11.599 --> 13:13.599 that thought that would never happen for him. 13:13.680 --> 13:15.520 [Steve] Thank you so much, Elaine. 13:15.599 --> 13:17.360 Bye-bye. All right-o. 13:26.599 --> 13:28.240 [narrator] In Alpine, California, 13:28.320 --> 13:32.160 David is waiting to show Abbey one of his favorite places. 13:33.400 --> 13:35.320 [Cian] How do you feel about seeing Abbey again? 13:35.400 --> 13:36.320 Good. 13:36.839 --> 13:38.160 'Cause she's special. 13:41.280 --> 13:42.640 Hey, Abbey. 13:42.719 --> 13:43.760 Hey, David. 13:45.480 --> 13:46.880 I got you this gift. 13:46.959 --> 13:48.240 Thank you. 13:48.320 --> 13:49.640 Let's see what it is. 13:51.000 --> 13:52.839 Oh, it's very… It's an elephant. 13:52.920 --> 13:53.760 I like it. 13:53.839 --> 13:54.680 [David] Yes. 13:54.760 --> 13:56.880 So, like an elephant, 13:57.680 --> 14:00.480 you'll remember this moment forever. 14:00.560 --> 14:02.120 Okay, I will. 14:02.199 --> 14:04.920 Oh, and I also got you the hat. 14:05.000 --> 14:06.920 Wow, I love it! 14:07.680 --> 14:09.880 It's so beautiful. 14:09.959 --> 14:14.280 -I'm looking forward to our second date. -Me too. This is our second date. 14:16.320 --> 14:17.599 Shall we go for a walk? 14:17.680 --> 14:18.520 Sure. 14:23.640 --> 14:26.760 Although the lions are dangerous, but I'm not afraid. 14:27.280 --> 14:30.000 Don't worry. I'll be between you and the lions. 14:33.479 --> 14:34.880 [Abbey] Hello, tigers. 14:34.959 --> 14:36.199 [David] I know you're scared. 14:36.280 --> 14:38.319 [Abbey] Oh my God, she's looking right at me. 14:39.479 --> 14:41.520 -[David] That's okay. I got you. -[Abbey] Yeah. 14:41.599 --> 14:43.000 Let's talk about birds. 14:43.520 --> 14:44.360 [woman] Birds? 14:44.880 --> 14:46.839 Some are little and some are big. 14:47.360 --> 14:49.400 The big birds are pretty cool. 14:49.479 --> 14:51.560 -The biggest bird I've seen… -Here she comes. 14:51.640 --> 14:52.760 [David] …is the ostrich. 14:52.839 --> 14:53.880 [Abbey] Is she trained? 14:53.959 --> 14:55.719 [woman] Uh, I would say she's trained. 14:55.800 --> 14:58.839 That's the beauty of this place. All right, important rules, okay? 14:58.920 --> 15:01.880 What I want you to do is make sure you keep your hands behind this feed rail, 15:01.959 --> 15:04.560 and you're gonna put it right through the fence there, okay? 15:04.640 --> 15:07.800 Go ahead and put it all the way through the fence. Keep going. Keep going. 15:07.880 --> 15:10.400 Keep going. Perfect, and now pull the fork back. 15:10.479 --> 15:12.280 -I want to try! -[woman] All right. 15:13.120 --> 15:15.240 All right, Abbey, your turn. You hold this back here. 15:15.319 --> 15:17.599 -Yeah. -And stick it right through the fence. 15:17.680 --> 15:20.040 -Keep your hands behind that rail. -[David] Be brave, Abbey. 15:20.120 --> 15:21.280 -You got it. -That's right. 15:21.360 --> 15:22.800 All the way through that fence. 15:22.880 --> 15:23.719 Perfect. 15:25.199 --> 15:26.719 -I did it! -You did it! 15:26.800 --> 15:28.760 -Awesome. -I knew it'd be okay, Abbey. 15:28.839 --> 15:30.920 -Do you want to do another piece? -[David] Sure. 15:31.000 --> 15:33.520 -Um, there's a wasp over there. -[woman] All right. 15:33.599 --> 15:34.880 Here comes the train. 15:34.959 --> 15:36.880 -[woman] Keep going. -Chug-a-chug-a-chug-a… 15:36.959 --> 15:38.479 -[woman] Good girl. -[Abbey] Yeah. 15:38.560 --> 15:41.120 -A little faster right through there. -Chug-a-chug-a-choo choo! 15:41.199 --> 15:42.079 [woman] Perfect. 15:42.160 --> 15:43.800 -Good job. -[Abbey] You're trained. 15:43.880 --> 15:45.560 [woman] Here comes Arusha. 15:45.640 --> 15:46.719 Could she attack us? 15:46.800 --> 15:48.199 [woman] She cannot attack you, no. 15:48.280 --> 15:50.479 -[Abbey] If we go in, will they attack us? -[woman] Mm. 15:50.560 --> 15:52.880 I'm not sure, so that's why we don't go inside. 15:52.959 --> 15:54.160 -Let me get… -[growls] 15:54.240 --> 15:56.280 -Oh! -[David laughs] 15:56.880 --> 16:00.479 [woman] Don't feed yet, okay? I'll tell you when. I'll feed at the same time. 16:00.560 --> 16:02.599 There you go, and I'm gonna feed Louie. 16:02.680 --> 16:05.439 There we go. Perfect, and I'll take that fork back. 16:05.520 --> 16:08.439 -I have two stuffed lions at home. -[woman] You want to feed Louie? 16:08.520 --> 16:10.800 [David] He's not as dangerous as I thought. 16:10.880 --> 16:13.160 [woman] They're still pretty dangerous. They're wild cats. 16:13.240 --> 16:15.359 -Why is he roaring? -[woman] That's their sound. 16:15.439 --> 16:17.599 [David] That's on the list of things that made me laugh. 16:17.680 --> 16:19.839 -[laughs] -[woman] His roar? 16:19.920 --> 16:22.439 -[lion roars] -[Abbey] Oh my! Steve! 16:22.520 --> 16:24.439 [laughing] 16:24.520 --> 16:26.520 [Abbey laughs] 16:29.160 --> 16:30.199 Wanna hold hands? 16:30.280 --> 16:31.520 -Sure. -[Abbey] Okay. 16:33.719 --> 16:36.439 [David] There's Crystal, the white tiger over there. 16:36.520 --> 16:39.640 [Abbey] There was a girl named Crystal who went to high school with me. 16:39.719 --> 16:42.479 [David] You mean she's also named Crystal? 16:42.560 --> 16:43.439 [Abbey] Yeah. 16:44.079 --> 16:46.120 Oh, she's doing what Clemmy does. 16:46.199 --> 16:49.280 Oh, she's like Clementine! 16:49.359 --> 16:50.560 Hey, Crystal. 16:50.640 --> 16:51.479 Hey. 16:51.560 --> 16:52.400 Hey. 16:54.199 --> 16:55.719 -[David] Hey, Crystal. -[Abbey] Crystal! 16:55.800 --> 16:58.880 Look at me. Oh, you wanna look over there, I guess. 17:01.599 --> 17:04.200 So how'd it go with watching Bakari the lion for me? 17:07.560 --> 17:11.000 She says that she… watching Bakari for me is great. 17:12.880 --> 17:15.359 [Abbey] This is the bracelet you gave me with the flamingo. 17:15.440 --> 17:16.800 I'm glad you love it. 17:16.880 --> 17:17.760 Yeah. 17:18.280 --> 17:19.319 -[lion quietly roars] -Whoa. 17:19.399 --> 17:22.440 You know, if you get too close to a hawk, it could blind you. 17:25.040 --> 17:27.919 -Vultures could pull your eyes out. -Whoa. 17:28.000 --> 17:30.120 Well, then, I guess I'll keep distance from it. 17:30.200 --> 17:31.640 Yeah, me too. 17:31.720 --> 17:33.480 'Cause I don't want to lose my vision. 17:33.560 --> 17:35.280 I don't want to go blind. 17:35.360 --> 17:37.800 And if we go blind, then that's when we plan… 17:37.880 --> 17:39.360 schedule the eye doctor. 17:39.440 --> 17:42.600 Yeah, we'll have to be wearing sunglasses often. 17:42.680 --> 17:44.640 -Agreed. -Yeah. 17:45.159 --> 17:46.399 [lion grunting] 17:46.480 --> 17:47.919 -Do you hear that? -Yeah. 17:48.000 --> 17:49.600 It sounds like Bakari. 17:49.680 --> 17:51.080 [roars] 17:51.159 --> 17:52.760 [Abbey] Oh my God, he's roaring. 17:52.840 --> 17:54.360 [David] He's awake! 17:54.440 --> 17:56.360 -[Abbey] Yes! -[David] At last! 17:56.440 --> 17:57.720 Bakari! 17:57.800 --> 17:59.960 Oh, I'm so glad you're okay! 18:00.040 --> 18:01.200 [Abbey] Me too. 18:02.040 --> 18:04.800 -Abbey, this is Bakari the lion. -[Abbey] Hi, Bakari. 18:06.280 --> 18:07.360 [David] Hey, Bakari. 18:07.440 --> 18:08.680 How's your spine? 18:08.760 --> 18:10.040 Is it hanging in there? 18:10.560 --> 18:14.280 Aren't you glad the white tiger named Crystal watches over you? 18:15.760 --> 18:17.880 -Shall we go grab a snack? -Sure. 18:19.840 --> 18:22.240 [David] I'm proud of Crystal for watching over Bakari for me. 18:22.320 --> 18:23.320 [Abbey] Yeah. 18:23.399 --> 18:25.720 [David] Even though she's a tiger and I'm a human. 18:25.800 --> 18:29.720 [Abbey] Unless I could drink something that makes me become a real lioness. 18:30.840 --> 18:32.520 [Cian] Is the date going well so far, David? 18:32.600 --> 18:36.679 Yes. She likes animals as much as I do. 18:38.000 --> 18:40.000 [Abbey] Oh, he's so cute. 18:41.480 --> 18:44.399 Yes, when I was younger, I had a great difficulty making friends, 18:44.480 --> 18:47.840 but that really is not a problem now actually. 18:47.919 --> 18:50.320 In recent years, I've made a great number of new friends 18:50.399 --> 18:52.280 with whom I enjoy doing… 18:52.360 --> 18:55.159 getting together and doing activities with. 18:55.240 --> 18:57.760 It's now easier for me to make friends and keep them. 19:02.000 --> 19:03.320 [narrator] In Boston, 19:03.399 --> 19:05.800 James is meeting his friends for lunch. 19:05.880 --> 19:08.320 Hello, everyone. How are you doing, gentlemen? 19:08.399 --> 19:10.360 -Hey. -Never better, James. 19:10.440 --> 19:12.560 Yes, I almost didn't recognize you, Johnny. 19:12.640 --> 19:15.360 Yes, so how have things been for you recently? 19:15.440 --> 19:17.440 -Oh, never better. -Good. Good. Glad to hear that. 19:17.520 --> 19:19.240 Yeah, I'd rather not shake hands. 19:19.320 --> 19:22.240 Of course, I understand, but have you been doing well in general, Matt? 19:22.320 --> 19:23.360 Yes, I have been. 19:23.440 --> 19:25.200 Good. Good. Glad to hear it. 19:25.280 --> 19:27.960 -So I hear you went on a date recently? -Oh, yes, yes, indeed. 19:28.040 --> 19:29.200 It was really good. 19:29.280 --> 19:32.480 The first one in a while, actually, but yes, I… 19:32.560 --> 19:35.280 Yes, the woman's name is Emma and she is attractive, 19:35.360 --> 19:36.560 which is good, obviously. 19:36.640 --> 19:38.960 I mean, it's not everything, but it is important enough 19:39.040 --> 19:41.360 that, yes, that I do care about how she looks. 19:41.440 --> 19:45.440 But it turns out she does have a lot of common areas of interest with me, 19:45.520 --> 19:46.919 which is always a good thing. 19:47.000 --> 19:47.840 Like what? 19:47.919 --> 19:53.480 Well… Well, she does like creepy, horror-themed things, you know. 19:53.560 --> 19:56.240 We're going tomorrow to a medieval Renaissance fair in New York. 19:56.320 --> 19:57.360 I'm pretty excited. 19:57.440 --> 19:59.960 I'm gonna dress up in my full set of medieval clothing, 20:00.040 --> 20:04.320 and Emma said she's going to wear something special to it also, 20:04.399 --> 20:06.200 so things seem to be going well so far. 20:06.280 --> 20:08.159 I hope that things continue to go well. 20:08.240 --> 20:09.560 -[friend] Likewise. -Yes. 20:10.159 --> 20:13.200 I've been on a couple of dates earlier this year, during the summer. 20:13.280 --> 20:15.040 Yes, and how have those been? 20:15.120 --> 20:17.280 Well, I feel like those dates have gone well, 20:17.360 --> 20:21.080 but I think I've come to the conclusion that neither one of them gals 20:21.159 --> 20:22.679 were probably for me. 20:22.760 --> 20:23.600 Oh, right. 20:23.679 --> 20:26.159 Better to realize that sooner rather than later. 20:26.240 --> 20:29.120 If at first you do not succeed, try, try again. 20:29.200 --> 20:32.480 -That's the famous phrase. -[Johnny] Yeah. I like that phrase a lot. 20:32.560 --> 20:34.640 The key is, we just don't give up. 20:34.720 --> 20:36.880 You keep looking for that fish in your pond. 20:36.960 --> 20:38.560 [James] Oh, yes, exactly. Yes. 20:38.640 --> 20:41.640 I'm gonna start the grill for you guys. Be careful. It does get very hot. 20:41.720 --> 20:42.679 [James] Okay. 20:46.000 --> 20:50.640 The thing is, I just really want a woman to share my life with. 20:50.720 --> 20:52.240 I mean, I've got nobody. 20:53.080 --> 20:55.840 -I just don't want to be alone forever. -[James] I get that. 20:55.919 --> 20:57.320 I'm trying to find some woman 20:57.399 --> 21:00.880 who's always up for some wild, swinging party. [chuckles] 21:00.960 --> 21:02.240 -[James] Oh. -Swinging? 21:02.320 --> 21:05.240 [James] Oh, it is good to have fun. I agree with that, yes. 21:05.320 --> 21:06.880 A philosophy by which I live 21:06.960 --> 21:10.560 is that life is too short to not do the things that you enjoy. 21:10.640 --> 21:11.880 -[Johnny] Yeah. -Yes. 21:14.040 --> 21:16.120 [trolley bell rings] 21:22.640 --> 21:23.800 Ah. 21:25.040 --> 21:27.720 [narrator] Steve is in one of his favorite neighborhoods… 21:27.800 --> 21:31.040 -Wow. -…meeting his best friend Stan for coffee. 21:32.360 --> 21:33.679 -[Steve] Oh man. -Well. 21:33.760 --> 21:35.840 If it isn't old Steve. 21:35.919 --> 21:37.960 -How are ya? -Unbelievable. 21:38.040 --> 21:39.159 What a king. 21:40.080 --> 21:41.640 -Man! -Fancy meeting you here. 21:41.720 --> 21:43.320 You know what I wanna say? 21:44.600 --> 21:47.159 Stancy meeting you here. 21:47.240 --> 21:49.360 Stancy! [chuckles] 21:49.439 --> 21:52.320 So I understand that, um, you were thinking a little bit 21:52.399 --> 21:56.480 about putting a little more effort and energy into dating. 21:56.560 --> 21:59.840 I just haven't done any of it, really. 22:00.360 --> 22:03.520 It… It's like a whole new world. 22:03.600 --> 22:06.080 I'm nervous, uh, to be honest. 22:06.159 --> 22:08.320 I… I have anxiety about it, 22:08.399 --> 22:11.399 because I've never really gone down that road, 22:11.480 --> 22:13.520 and I… I would love to. 22:13.600 --> 22:15.120 Well, let me tell you something. 22:15.200 --> 22:17.560 You… You certainly know how to make a good contact, 22:17.640 --> 22:21.080 because you introduced me to my wife, okay? 22:21.159 --> 22:24.080 So if anybody knows how to make a good contact, you do. 22:24.159 --> 22:26.320 You're a wonderful icebreaker, 22:26.399 --> 22:30.640 but when you get a piece of tasty ice, don't let it melt. 22:31.360 --> 22:34.520 I love the way you just worded all of that. 22:34.600 --> 22:37.000 -Oh my! Thank you so much. -Thank you very much. 22:37.840 --> 22:43.840 Yesterday, my personal assistant decided to get onto the computer. 22:43.919 --> 22:46.840 And you know me, I don't even know how to use a computer. 22:47.360 --> 22:50.640 And I think we went onto a dating site, 22:50.720 --> 22:53.439 -eHarmony, if I'm not mistaken. -Mm-hmm. 22:53.520 --> 22:57.000 -It's an old one. Mm-hmm. -I guess it is. I guess it is. 22:57.679 --> 23:01.360 As old as it is, it feels brand spanking new to me. 23:01.439 --> 23:04.800 Oh, so you've already been involved, then, so you're starting to send out… 23:04.880 --> 23:06.040 And you've got an account. 23:06.120 --> 23:10.200 If they're going to meet you at 60, they can't expect you to be 25 or 30. 23:10.280 --> 23:14.000 -That's right. -And have 25- or 30-year-old aspirations. 23:14.080 --> 23:16.200 You're correct, Stan. 23:16.280 --> 23:17.480 That's right. 23:18.000 --> 23:20.520 And presumably, unless you're meeting somebody that age, 23:20.600 --> 23:22.520 they're gonna be in a similar state. 23:22.600 --> 23:25.240 What do you think, Steve, you would… you might be looking for 23:25.320 --> 23:28.240 in a date at this point in your life? 23:28.760 --> 23:34.600 I think if I could find somebody… somebody who's like you. 23:34.679 --> 23:35.560 Me?! 23:36.080 --> 23:37.159 [Steve] Except a female. 23:37.679 --> 23:43.200 Somebody who's warm, understanding, accepting. 23:43.280 --> 23:45.240 You're great at that. 23:45.320 --> 23:46.200 Thank you. 23:46.280 --> 23:50.320 You are, Stan, a fabulous influence on me. 23:50.399 --> 23:52.760 -Thank you. -You and I go back so far. 23:52.840 --> 23:57.120 -You're highly sentimental, too, you know? -Oh, that's another thing. You're right. 23:57.640 --> 23:59.960 Oh, Stan, aren't you the best? 24:00.040 --> 24:01.240 Oh boy. Yeah. 24:03.960 --> 24:07.280 [Cian] For you, what's the hardest thing about being autistic? 24:08.320 --> 24:09.200 Mm. 24:10.640 --> 24:13.080 I guess sometimes the isolation that comes with it. 24:13.679 --> 24:16.760 Having difficulty making genuine connections with people 24:16.840 --> 24:17.880 just because… 24:18.960 --> 24:21.880 just the, I don't know, body language and the facial expressions, 24:21.960 --> 24:23.600 that you miss that, you know… 24:23.679 --> 24:26.200 Maybe you're talking too much or not talking enough, 24:26.280 --> 24:29.000 or not showing an interest, and people make assumptions that, 24:29.080 --> 24:32.679 "They're not interested in me," or "They don't like me," things like that. 24:32.760 --> 24:36.600 And so that kind of turns them away from pursuing a relationship with you 24:36.679 --> 24:38.960 when you want a relationship with that person. 24:39.040 --> 24:42.120 You just don't know how to pursue it the right way. Um… 24:42.800 --> 24:45.640 And just kind of those miscommunications can be very isolating. 24:50.439 --> 24:52.600 You're kind of in my mow space. 24:52.679 --> 24:54.280 You want me to move or be here? 24:54.360 --> 24:57.240 [Kaelynn] I mean, you can be there. You're just kind of in the space. 24:57.840 --> 25:00.360 [narrator] It's been three weeks since Kaelynn matched with Peter 25:00.439 --> 25:01.640 at speed dating. 25:02.240 --> 25:03.760 [Kaelynn] It's not very even. 25:03.840 --> 25:06.280 All I know is we're not gonna have nice mow lines. 25:07.760 --> 25:09.159 [Gracie] Meh, it's shorter. 25:11.439 --> 25:14.280 -[Cian] Have you been on Tinder lately? -[Kaelynn] I haven't been on. 25:14.360 --> 25:17.000 -I've been holding out for Peter. -[Gracie laughs] 25:17.760 --> 25:21.159 It's rare that somebody gets to a second date, 25:21.240 --> 25:22.720 so we're excited about it. 25:23.320 --> 25:26.919 I feel like you have, like, a little bit of a crush on Peter. 25:27.000 --> 25:28.919 I don't think we can decide that quite yet. 25:29.000 --> 25:30.399 Definitely interested. 25:31.640 --> 25:33.919 -Yeah. -[Gracie laughs] 25:34.000 --> 25:35.000 The face. 25:35.080 --> 25:36.560 "Mom, you're embarrassing me." 25:37.080 --> 25:38.720 [Cian] Looking forward to seeing him again? 25:38.800 --> 25:40.679 Yeah. I think it's gonna be awkward, though. 25:40.760 --> 25:41.679 [Cian] Why's that? 25:41.760 --> 25:44.720 I don't know. It's just always awkward until you get to know somebody, 25:44.800 --> 25:47.720 and so I think it's going to be awkward the first few times, 25:47.800 --> 25:49.360 but that's just how it is. 25:50.199 --> 25:55.560 We're going to google second-date topics and memorize them. 25:55.640 --> 25:57.280 You need to do a refresher course? 25:57.360 --> 25:59.000 Yes. It's been a while. 25:59.600 --> 26:03.040 I mean, I think second dates, you can ask more of the personal questions. 26:03.120 --> 26:05.120 Second date, he's at least a bit interested 26:05.199 --> 26:09.600 or he wouldn't have planned a second date. I wouldn't, like, interrogate him, but… 26:09.679 --> 26:12.040 That's why we were gonna google some examples. 26:12.640 --> 26:16.240 I don't remember the answer to most of the questions that I asked. 26:17.040 --> 26:20.159 -There was a lot going on. -I don't remember what he did for work. 26:20.240 --> 26:22.080 -You could say, like, "Remind me." -Yeah. 26:22.159 --> 26:24.159 -"Tell me again." -Because it's been a while. 26:24.240 --> 26:26.640 Not because I forgot immediately after I left. 26:26.720 --> 26:28.560 "'Cause I have a squirrel brain." 26:28.640 --> 26:30.800 Yeah, no, we're not saying that part. 26:30.880 --> 26:33.000 -Even though that's the truth. -[Gracie laughs] 26:41.360 --> 26:42.240 [Abbey] Cheers! 26:42.320 --> 26:43.320 [David] Cheers! 26:47.480 --> 26:52.080 Do you want cinnamon toast popcorn or simply savory "unami" popcorn? 26:52.159 --> 26:54.360 -Cinnamon toast popcorn. -[David] Okay. 26:54.439 --> 26:56.120 -[Abbey] Thank you. -You're welcome. 26:58.600 --> 27:00.800 Do you want to go on a cruise with me sometime? 27:00.880 --> 27:01.760 Sure. 27:01.840 --> 27:04.040 Regular cruise with water slides on it. 27:04.560 --> 27:05.640 I see. 27:05.720 --> 27:08.120 -[Abbey] That would be so much fun. -Mm-hmm. 27:08.679 --> 27:10.080 And I'll bring my brother. 27:10.560 --> 27:12.600 -You have a brother? -Mm-hmm. 27:12.679 --> 27:15.240 Named Ben. He has a girlfriend named Julia, 27:15.320 --> 27:17.720 but they're not on the spectrum. 27:17.800 --> 27:18.640 [David] Mm-hmm. 27:19.840 --> 27:21.000 But we are. 27:22.040 --> 27:23.080 Oh yes. 27:24.840 --> 27:27.159 I wrote a song called "The Girl Inside," 27:27.240 --> 27:30.600 because that's… autism feels like there's someone trapped in me. 27:30.679 --> 27:32.720 You should watch it on YouTube. 27:33.240 --> 27:34.600 That's what autism feels like. 27:34.679 --> 27:37.439 There's someone living inside me is what it feels like. 27:37.520 --> 27:40.000 Speaking of that, have you seen the movie Soul? 27:40.080 --> 27:42.480 -[David] Yes. -Let's talk about the movie Soul. 27:42.560 --> 27:44.720 The guy went inside the woman's body. 27:44.800 --> 27:46.840 The souls were all mixed. It's like that. 27:46.919 --> 27:50.120 And the guy went in the cat's body too. 27:50.199 --> 27:51.240 [Abbey] Wow. 27:51.320 --> 27:52.439 I remember. 28:01.280 --> 28:05.439 Well, it was so nice having another date with you. 28:05.520 --> 28:08.600 I really had fun. I look forward to doing it sooner than later. 28:08.679 --> 28:11.320 -Me too. Would you like a third date? -Yes! 28:12.199 --> 28:13.280 Kiss on the cheek. 28:16.600 --> 28:17.960 -Thanks. -You're welcome. 28:18.040 --> 28:19.360 You're welcome too. 28:24.520 --> 28:27.399 I have a fear that I'm not going to meet anybody 28:27.919 --> 28:29.840 and I'm just going to be alone, 28:30.560 --> 28:33.040 like I have been for quite some time. 28:33.120 --> 28:36.560 I think I'm meant to be with a person, with a woman. 28:37.159 --> 28:39.480 This loneliness thing is, uh… 28:41.919 --> 28:42.919 It's not for me. 28:47.080 --> 28:48.520 [knock on door] 28:49.120 --> 28:49.959 [Cian] Hello. 28:50.040 --> 28:52.480 Oh, wow, Cian! 28:52.560 --> 28:54.360 How neat to see you again. 28:54.439 --> 28:55.320 [Cian] How you doing? 28:56.159 --> 28:58.639 Now that you're right here in front of me, 28:59.800 --> 29:03.760 now I'm coming back to life again. 29:03.840 --> 29:04.959 [Cian] Oh, good. 29:05.040 --> 29:08.320 -Can we come in? -By all means, please do. 29:08.399 --> 29:10.439 [Cian] Feeling ready to go on this date, Steve? 29:10.520 --> 29:12.919 Today you're going on your first date in how long? 29:13.000 --> 29:15.360 Oh my gosh. I'm embarrassed to admit. 29:15.439 --> 29:17.000 I couldn't even remember. 29:17.080 --> 29:19.080 Gosh, it's been a long time. 29:19.600 --> 29:20.639 [Cian] Are you nervous? 29:21.959 --> 29:23.679 You know what? I'm nervous. 29:23.760 --> 29:25.480 You're a people person. 29:26.000 --> 29:27.959 -[Steve] Thank you. -You will be just fine. 29:28.040 --> 29:30.080 Thank you. Wow, Shorae. 29:30.679 --> 29:33.000 What a saleslady. [chuckles] 29:35.959 --> 29:37.199 Here we go. 29:39.720 --> 29:41.480 Wow. Whew, whew. 29:41.560 --> 29:43.760 I wish I could whistle! [chuckles] 29:44.679 --> 29:45.679 Oh my gosh. 29:45.760 --> 29:47.120 You're looking good! 29:47.199 --> 29:49.280 Oh, you're so great. 29:49.360 --> 29:50.800 Another chapter begins. 29:50.879 --> 29:53.320 That's right. Thank you for saying that. 29:53.399 --> 29:56.879 I feel like I'm sending my son to the prom. [laughs] 29:56.959 --> 29:57.840 I love it. 29:58.919 --> 30:01.520 Okay, here we go. 30:01.600 --> 30:02.439 Oh. 30:02.520 --> 30:04.399 -[Shorae] Have fun. -Wow. [chuckles] 30:05.520 --> 30:07.040 -Thank you. -[Shorae] Just be yourself. 30:07.120 --> 30:08.399 -That's right. You bet. -Bye! 30:08.480 --> 30:09.439 [Steve] Bye-bye now. 30:17.159 --> 30:18.000 Wow. 30:19.199 --> 30:20.520 This is beautiful. 30:25.919 --> 30:27.679 [narrator] Steve is meeting Candida. 30:28.199 --> 30:30.399 She likes the smell of popcorn 30:31.879 --> 30:33.199 and going to the dentist. 30:33.720 --> 30:36.080 She doesn't like wearing high heels 30:36.159 --> 30:37.720 or '80s fashion. 30:39.959 --> 30:40.919 Hi. 30:41.000 --> 30:43.639 -Hi, there. How are you doing? -I'm well. 30:43.720 --> 30:45.480 Oh, beautiful. Beautiful. 30:45.560 --> 30:46.720 I'm Candida. 30:46.800 --> 30:47.679 What a pretty name. 30:47.760 --> 30:49.360 -[Candida] Thank you. -Yes. 30:50.000 --> 30:51.159 -What's your name? -I'm Steve. 30:51.240 --> 30:53.959 -Steve! It's so nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you too. 30:54.040 --> 30:55.320 Is there a song? 30:55.399 --> 30:56.720 -There is! -"My Candida"? 30:56.800 --> 30:58.120 You remember that. 30:58.199 --> 30:59.720 Tony Orlando and Dawn. 30:59.800 --> 31:01.639 -That's right. -[Candida] That's right. 31:01.720 --> 31:02.720 -Yes. -Oh my gosh. 31:02.800 --> 31:04.520 That is a nice song. 31:04.600 --> 31:06.360 -Yeah. -But, boy, it is a pretty name. 31:06.439 --> 31:08.520 It almost reminds me of the word "candy." 31:08.600 --> 31:10.439 [chuckles] I… Yeah. 31:10.520 --> 31:12.280 But I go with Candida. 31:12.360 --> 31:14.320 -Of course. Of course. -Yeah. 31:14.399 --> 31:18.399 You know, I… I have a habit of listening to names 31:18.480 --> 31:21.240 and hearing letters and sounds and 31:22.679 --> 31:25.480 playing around and getting creative if I can. 31:25.560 --> 31:27.399 -It's-- -No, that's great. I love it. 31:27.480 --> 31:28.679 Thank you for saying that. 31:28.760 --> 31:31.120 Are you in the mood for some tea? 31:31.199 --> 31:32.080 Sure. 31:32.600 --> 31:37.080 I do like it. They've got this one that they call sencha. 31:37.159 --> 31:39.320 Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. 31:39.399 --> 31:41.520 I love that name too. [chuckles] 31:41.600 --> 31:43.000 Let's go for it, then. 31:43.080 --> 31:45.159 -Why not? -All right, great. 31:48.879 --> 31:51.480 So you're a local San Franciscan? 31:51.560 --> 31:54.480 Yes. Let's see, I've been here, uh, oh, 31:54.560 --> 31:58.760 eleven years, seven months, and one week. 31:58.840 --> 32:00.639 It sounds like you have a good memory. 32:00.719 --> 32:05.360 Thank you. When it comes to those things, dates and, you know, that kind of a thing. 32:05.439 --> 32:08.560 -[man] A pot of sencha tea for you guys. -Oh, thank you. Thank you so much. 32:08.639 --> 32:09.480 [man] You're welcome. 32:09.560 --> 32:10.679 -Cheers! -Cheers! 32:10.760 --> 32:12.439 -Yes! -I was just about to say that. 32:12.959 --> 32:15.480 -How beautiful. Nice meeting you. -Nice meeting you. 32:15.560 --> 32:16.959 -This is great. -Really fun. 32:17.040 --> 32:18.199 Oh, wow. 32:19.840 --> 32:21.040 [Candida] This is really nice. 32:21.120 --> 32:22.080 What do you think? 32:22.159 --> 32:23.399 I like it with you. 32:23.480 --> 32:24.439 -Yes. -Good. 32:24.520 --> 32:26.240 Not too much caffeine. [chuckles] 32:26.320 --> 32:29.240 After you drank that, I'll bet that sencha flying. 32:30.520 --> 32:33.199 There you go, "sent ya flying." That's cute. 32:33.280 --> 32:35.320 I had to think about it for a second. 32:37.000 --> 32:38.959 I do find her attractive. 32:40.000 --> 32:43.000 And, uh, she's very enjoyable to talk to. 32:43.679 --> 32:47.840 Perhaps we can take a little adventure sometime. 32:49.480 --> 32:50.840 Would you like some more? 32:50.919 --> 32:52.600 [Steve] Sure. Why not? 32:59.159 --> 33:00.480 Is your hair just wet? 33:00.560 --> 33:02.560 No, I put gel in it, Mom. You know I do that. 33:02.639 --> 33:04.840 It looks better all natural. 33:04.919 --> 33:06.159 Yeah, Mom, 33:06.240 --> 33:09.639 I put gel in my hair only for special occasions like this, Mom. 33:09.719 --> 33:11.840 Or weddings and funerals too. 33:11.919 --> 33:16.080 [narrator] James is getting ready to head to the New York Renaissance Faire 33:16.159 --> 33:17.840 for his second date with Emma. 33:17.919 --> 33:20.120 [James] Need to get on my belt pouch now. 33:20.199 --> 33:21.600 Very cool. 33:21.679 --> 33:24.040 Yes, I'm not going to bring my sword or dagger, 33:24.120 --> 33:27.679 only 'cause those get… those would be too many items to carry. 33:27.760 --> 33:29.959 You think it's gonna be too hot wearing that? 33:30.040 --> 33:34.159 [groans] I don't know, but it's not my fault that the climate is changing! 33:34.240 --> 33:35.600 -[June] James. -You can take it off. 33:35.679 --> 33:37.520 -September shouldn't be this hot. -[June] James. 33:37.600 --> 33:39.800 -If you're too hot, you can take it off. -[James] Yes. 33:39.879 --> 33:42.320 It looks terrific. Then they can see your muscles! 33:42.399 --> 33:45.600 [James groans] I still have to get one more thing. 33:48.480 --> 33:49.439 Look at that. 33:49.959 --> 33:52.840 Hey, now you can be Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde too. 33:53.360 --> 33:54.480 Dracula! 33:54.560 --> 33:55.560 Or Dracula. 33:55.639 --> 33:57.360 [Lawrence] Jimmy, do the Count Dracula thing. 33:57.439 --> 34:00.399 [groans] I'm not supposed to be Count Dracula. 34:00.480 --> 34:01.959 [Lawrence] It looks good anyway. 34:02.040 --> 34:03.840 -[groans] -[Lawrence] It's good theater. 34:03.919 --> 34:05.679 -[James sighs] -[June laughs] 34:07.560 --> 34:08.960 Do a sinister laugh. 34:09.040 --> 34:10.839 [James cackles] 34:10.920 --> 34:12.560 And a Hungarian accent. 34:13.960 --> 34:16.159 [James, in accent] I never drink wine. 34:16.239 --> 34:17.760 [June chuckles] 34:17.839 --> 34:20.839 You can show us your sword, but then put it back if you want. 34:20.920 --> 34:21.760 [James] Well, yes. 34:25.120 --> 34:26.319 [June] I can't see your face. 34:26.400 --> 34:28.280 Well, I'll have it like this, then. 34:28.360 --> 34:29.719 Now I can't see the sword. 34:29.799 --> 34:31.880 -[groans] Well, I can't do it both ways. -That's fine. 34:32.719 --> 34:33.839 -Okay. -All right. 34:33.920 --> 34:37.080 Wait, should I… Should I do one where I'm down like this maybe? 34:37.159 --> 34:38.239 -Yes. -[Lawrence] Here. 34:38.319 --> 34:39.480 -All right. -Oh, go ahead. 34:39.560 --> 34:40.679 I'll dub you knight. 34:40.760 --> 34:42.159 -[groans] -Come on. 34:42.679 --> 34:45.319 -What do I… -This is what a father has to do. 34:45.920 --> 34:51.639 I dub thee Sir James, Knight of the Knights Who Say "Ni!" 34:51.719 --> 34:53.120 Or formerly said "Ni!" 34:53.839 --> 34:55.719 Now they say, what? "Nicky Nicky Poo"? 34:55.799 --> 34:59.040 I don't remember the exact words, but it was something to that effect. 34:59.120 --> 35:00.040 Yes. 35:00.120 --> 35:01.200 Oh, yes. 35:01.280 --> 35:02.560 I gotta put this back. 35:02.640 --> 35:05.760 And I award you with this ceremonial cane. 35:05.839 --> 35:06.760 Oh, all right. 35:06.839 --> 35:08.960 I want to look like a noble lord, you know, 35:09.040 --> 35:11.880 so I want to be carrying the cane like this while I walk. 35:12.400 --> 35:14.240 He should have been born 200 years ago. 35:14.319 --> 35:15.600 You would have fit right in. 35:15.680 --> 35:18.880 The life spans were much shorter then. They didn't have vaccines. 35:18.960 --> 35:21.000 Disease and violence were rampant, you know. 35:21.080 --> 35:23.560 Yeah, but if you were the king or the black knight or-- 35:23.640 --> 35:25.200 Yeah, but what is the chance that… 35:25.280 --> 35:27.920 The peasantry far outnumbered the aristocracy, you know, 35:28.000 --> 35:31.400 so it's more likely than not a person would be born as a peasant. 35:31.480 --> 35:33.920 -[Lawrence] Well, hey, have a good time. -Yes, thank you, Dad. 35:34.000 --> 35:36.600 -All right, can I give you a hug? -Yes. Yes, of course. 35:36.680 --> 35:39.480 -Oh. Goodbye, honey. Have fun. -Yes, of course. 35:39.560 --> 35:42.240 And just remember, you can take stuff off and leave it in the car 35:42.319 --> 35:43.640 if you're really hot. 35:43.720 --> 35:44.560 Yes, I know. 35:44.640 --> 35:45.839 -Enjoy! -Have fun! 35:45.920 --> 35:48.160 -Thank you very much. -[June] Have lots to eat and drink! 35:48.240 --> 35:49.799 -Definitely, I shall. -[June] Bye, honey. 35:49.880 --> 35:50.880 Yes, thank you. 35:50.960 --> 35:52.839 Ooh. It's so hot. 35:52.920 --> 35:54.920 [Renaissance music playing] 36:00.640 --> 36:02.319 [Cian] Looking forward to seeing Emma again? 36:02.400 --> 36:04.160 Yes, unquestionably so. 36:04.240 --> 36:05.839 I enjoy being in her presence, 36:05.920 --> 36:09.480 and, I mean, there's a vague possibility she could be a new girlfriend. 36:14.720 --> 36:16.400 [suspenseful music playing] possibility she could be a new girlfriend.