WEBVTT 00:11.799 --> 00:13.320 [gentle music playing] 00:14.680 --> 00:16.520 [indistinct background chattering] 00:18.160 --> 00:19.000 Yeah. 00:19.080 --> 00:20.040 [Dani chuckles] 00:23.080 --> 00:25.119 Would you like a big kiss? 00:26.160 --> 00:27.160 Oh. [chuckles] 00:27.240 --> 00:29.000 Um, I, uh… 00:29.840 --> 00:32.559 um, I don't think I'm ready for that. 00:33.160 --> 00:36.440 Thank you for… for… for asking 00:36.519 --> 00:38.440 because oftentimes I'm not… 00:39.360 --> 00:40.840 Oh! [chuckles] 00:40.919 --> 00:42.160 Why, thank you. 00:42.879 --> 00:44.879 Yes, I will have a kiss. [chuckling] 00:45.400 --> 00:47.440 -You have a good sense of humor. -Thank you. 00:47.520 --> 00:50.040 Yeah, so, uh, I am honored, 00:50.120 --> 00:52.520 and I accept this kiss. [chuckles] 00:52.599 --> 00:55.640 -All right. Thank you so much, Jake. -Thank you. Yeah. 00:59.360 --> 01:00.680 [Jake clears throat] 01:01.519 --> 01:05.480 [singing tunefully] ♪ It had to be you ♪ 01:07.080 --> 01:10.759 ♪ It had to be you ♪ 01:11.360 --> 01:13.880 ♪ Been wandering around ♪ 01:13.960 --> 01:15.759 ♪ Finally found ♪ 01:15.840 --> 01:19.759 ♪ The somebody who ♪ 01:19.840 --> 01:23.960 ♪ Could make me be true ♪ 01:24.479 --> 01:27.800 -♪ Some others might seem ♪ -♪ Might seem ♪ 01:29.280 --> 01:31.680 [both] ♪ To never be mean ♪ 01:33.280 --> 01:35.320 -♪ To never be cross ♪ -♪ Might never be cross ♪ 01:35.399 --> 01:37.560 [both] ♪ Or try to be the boss ♪ 01:37.640 --> 01:40.560 ♪ But that wouldn't do ♪ 01:41.160 --> 01:44.640 ♪ For nobody else gave me a thrill ♪ 01:44.720 --> 01:48.280 ♪ With all your faults, I love you still ♪ 01:48.360 --> 01:51.040 -♪ It had to be you ♪ -♪ It had to be true ♪ 01:51.119 --> 01:53.039 ♪ Wonderful you ♪ 01:53.119 --> 01:58.520 ♪ It had to be you ♪ 01:58.600 --> 01:59.919 Wonderful play! 02:00.000 --> 02:01.479 -Yeah, high five. -[giggles] 02:02.240 --> 02:03.240 -Ah! -[Jake chuckles] 02:03.839 --> 02:04.679 All right. 02:04.759 --> 02:06.600 [suspenseful music playing] 02:09.440 --> 02:11.680 [Dani] I feel like I wanted to kiss him, but 02:12.799 --> 02:14.239 I don't think Jake feels ready. 02:16.280 --> 02:17.160 All right. 02:19.200 --> 02:20.080 [Dani chuckles] 02:21.880 --> 02:24.239 I had a good time. That was fun. 02:25.040 --> 02:28.320 It was nice to be able to talk to you one-on-one. 02:28.400 --> 02:32.799 It's really nice talking to you too, Jake. Has the date changed your feelings? 02:32.880 --> 02:33.920 Um… 02:34.959 --> 02:36.000 Changed my feelings? 02:36.080 --> 02:37.320 I feel like 02:37.880 --> 02:39.600 we had good conversation, 02:39.680 --> 02:42.880 we ate good food, and we had a good moment singing. 02:42.959 --> 02:45.840 -So, yeah, it was fun. I won't forget. -It's-- 02:45.920 --> 02:47.600 I'll never forget this too, Jake. 02:48.519 --> 02:51.880 -The best night of our lives. -Yeah. [chuckles] 02:51.959 --> 02:53.320 -[giggling] -Yeah. 02:53.400 --> 02:55.400 [whimsical music playing] 02:57.920 --> 02:59.000 [chuckles awkwardly] 03:01.040 --> 03:02.799 [chuckles awkwardly] Thank you. 03:02.880 --> 03:04.000 [Dani chuckles] 03:05.280 --> 03:07.920 -Okay. -All right. All right. Good night. 03:08.000 --> 03:08.880 Good night. 03:23.600 --> 03:25.560 [suspenseful music playing] 03:26.440 --> 03:27.799 [narrator] In Clemson, 03:27.880 --> 03:30.760 Tanner is catching up with autism expert Jennifer Cook. 03:32.280 --> 03:34.200 I see Jennifer. Hi, Jennifer. 03:34.799 --> 03:35.880 How are you? 03:35.959 --> 03:39.480 -I'm doing really well. How are you? -I'm doing really well too. 03:39.560 --> 03:40.560 Yes, ma'am. 03:40.640 --> 03:42.600 Good. Tell me about your date. 03:42.679 --> 03:45.000 What was her name? How did it go? 03:45.079 --> 03:46.560 My date was named Kate. 03:46.640 --> 03:50.079 We went to a good restaurant in Greenville, Passerelle. 03:50.160 --> 03:52.399 Okay, so what did you find out about Kate? 03:52.480 --> 03:56.000 I found out that Kate… pink is Kate's favorite color. 03:56.079 --> 03:59.000 And she has Down syndrome. And she's very cute and beautiful. 03:59.079 --> 04:01.160 -Cute and beautiful. That's awfully nice. -Yes, ma'am. 04:01.239 --> 04:03.799 -Yes, Jennifer. Yes, ma'am. -So, who did more talking? 04:03.880 --> 04:05.239 Me. Me. 04:05.320 --> 04:09.640 I asked Kate, um, Kate lots of questions, but the answers were really short. 04:10.239 --> 04:13.600 That can be hard, then, if your date or your friend is giving short answers. 04:13.679 --> 04:15.679 -'Cause you wanna find out more. -Right. 04:15.760 --> 04:19.719 So, there's different kinds of questions that we can ask her, right? 04:19.800 --> 04:23.280 Some of the questions we can ask have sort of short answers. 04:23.360 --> 04:25.360 If I asked you, what's your favorite animal? 04:25.440 --> 04:26.320 A gorilla. 04:26.400 --> 04:29.440 A gorilla. That's very interesting. Now, if you say "a gorilla," 04:29.520 --> 04:31.120 and I say, "Okay…" 04:32.840 --> 04:34.960 We're done. We have nothing left to say, right? 04:35.039 --> 04:35.920 Right. 04:36.000 --> 04:38.520 But I could say, "Tell me more about that." 04:38.599 --> 04:43.320 Okay. I like gorillas because they're animals with hands, 04:43.400 --> 04:44.680 and they look like humans 04:44.760 --> 04:49.599 since they have hands and butts like us and ears like us. Does that make sense? 04:49.680 --> 04:52.039 It totally makes sense. So what'll happen is, 04:52.120 --> 04:54.919 you can ask Kate anything, even if it's a short answer, 04:55.000 --> 04:56.760 and whatever she says, 04:56.840 --> 05:00.400 then you can say, "Oh, really? Tell me more about that." 05:00.479 --> 05:02.479 And she'll talk more about herself. 05:02.560 --> 05:05.919 Yeah, tell me, you look like you're feeling nervous right now. 05:06.000 --> 05:07.240 Are you feeling nervous? 05:07.320 --> 05:10.039 -Um, yes, Jennifer. -Tell me what you're nervous about. 05:10.120 --> 05:12.800 Hey, the truth is, I get worried when I go on dates 05:12.880 --> 05:17.000 that I'll be out of things to talk about, and I won't know what else to talk about. 05:17.080 --> 05:19.320 -That's a lot of pressure. You know what? -Yeah. 05:19.400 --> 05:23.240 It's not your job to have to come up with all the things to talk about. 05:23.320 --> 05:24.400 Yeah, it's not. 05:24.479 --> 05:25.599 So I want you to know 05:25.680 --> 05:29.440 that if there's ever a point where you can't think of what to say, 05:29.520 --> 05:32.240 you could always say, "You know what, Kate, 05:32.320 --> 05:35.280 I can't think of what else to say, but I'm having a nice time." 05:35.359 --> 05:36.200 Okay. 05:36.280 --> 05:40.640 Hey, Kate, I can't think of anything else to say, but I'm having a really good time. 05:41.160 --> 05:42.840 And here's the other thing. 05:43.599 --> 05:47.960 As you're spending time together, you don't always have to be talking. 05:48.039 --> 05:50.560 Sometimes it's okay to be quiet together. 05:50.640 --> 05:51.560 Okay. 05:51.640 --> 05:55.560 How can you show with your body that you're having a nice time? 05:55.640 --> 05:57.080 You can sm… I can smile. 05:57.160 --> 05:58.560 And… and I can… 05:59.400 --> 06:01.479 ma… So I do this. I do this. 06:01.560 --> 06:02.440 [laughs] I love it. 06:02.520 --> 06:04.080 I just want everybody to remember, 06:04.160 --> 06:07.680 even if I'm quiet, um, sometimes, that doesn't mean I'm in a bad mood. 06:07.760 --> 06:09.479 I just don't have anything to say. 06:09.560 --> 06:11.560 Do you put a lot of pressure on yourself 06:11.640 --> 06:15.039 to always be making sure people don't think you're in a bad mood? 06:15.120 --> 06:16.000 I do. 06:16.080 --> 06:17.799 So what I hear from you, Tanner, 06:17.880 --> 06:20.359 is I hear that you feel a lot of pressure… 06:20.440 --> 06:24.280 -Yeah? -…to always be smiling and laughing. 06:24.359 --> 06:25.200 Yeah. 06:25.919 --> 06:27.599 -You don't have to. -Okay. 06:27.680 --> 06:29.240 People will like you 06:29.320 --> 06:31.080 even if you're quiet. 06:31.160 --> 06:34.960 People will like you even if you get sad sometimes. 06:35.039 --> 06:37.760 People will still like you. I want you to hear that. 06:37.840 --> 06:40.919 It's okay. You don't have to talk all the time. 06:41.000 --> 06:43.320 You don't have to laugh and smile all the time. 06:43.400 --> 06:45.520 People will just think you're being quiet. 06:45.599 --> 06:47.520 -Okay. -Is that okay? 06:47.599 --> 06:49.720 Yeah. Okay, Jennifer, thank you. Thank you. thank you. 06:49.799 --> 06:54.000 You're really welcome. Tanner, you're gonna have a great date. 06:54.080 --> 06:55.680 I am gonna have a great date. 06:55.760 --> 06:58.240 Okay, Tanner. It was really good to talk to you. 06:58.320 --> 07:00.200 It was really good to talk to you too. 07:00.280 --> 07:03.359 -Talk soon. Have a great time today. -Thank you, Jennifer. Thank you. 07:03.440 --> 07:04.680 Okay. Bye. 07:04.760 --> 07:05.599 Bye. 07:12.520 --> 07:14.280 Hi. [giggles] 07:14.359 --> 07:16.599 I'm Journey. I'm 18, 07:16.680 --> 07:19.520 and I have autism spectrum disorder. 07:19.599 --> 07:21.400 [Cian] Haven't heard it called that in a while. 07:21.479 --> 07:23.840 I know, right? Very fancy and long. 07:23.919 --> 07:26.239 [Cian] So, how old were you when you were diagnosed? 07:26.320 --> 07:27.320 I was 17. 07:27.840 --> 07:29.799 [Cian] Okay. And how was that for you? 07:29.880 --> 07:34.320 I was actually really excited. I… I had done my research on my own, 07:34.400 --> 07:36.239 like, "Okay, I kinda think I have autism." 07:36.320 --> 07:38.640 My mom was like, "Yeah, I kind of figured." 07:38.719 --> 07:41.280 [Cian] Did it answer a lot of questions you had about-- 07:41.359 --> 07:45.159 Yes! I used to think I was crazy and be like, 07:45.239 --> 07:49.200 "Why do I feel like I'm the only person that acts like this in this situation?" 07:49.280 --> 07:52.440 And, "Why do I get upset at this noise that nobody else does?" 07:52.520 --> 07:54.560 And so once I got the diagnosis, 07:54.640 --> 07:57.000 I was like, "Oh, that makes a lot of sense why!" 07:57.080 --> 07:58.599 Like, "I definitely have that." 07:58.679 --> 08:01.159 When I tell people I'm autistic, they're like, 08:01.239 --> 08:04.479 "You don't seem autistic to me. I never would have guessed." 08:04.560 --> 08:06.840 So I think people make a lot of judgments 08:06.919 --> 08:11.919 without really knowing that autism can occur in any type of person. 08:12.000 --> 08:14.000 [jaunty music playing] 08:18.359 --> 08:20.599 This is my room, and it is awesome. 08:20.679 --> 08:24.919 It has everything that I like in it. All of my favorite things. 08:25.000 --> 08:27.760 I painted that cat in a bowl of mac and cheese 08:27.840 --> 08:30.560 'cause I thought it was funny. I painted this cake. 08:30.640 --> 08:33.640 I like this one a lot more than a lot of my other paintings 08:33.720 --> 08:37.760 because it combines baking and painting, which are two things I like, 08:37.840 --> 08:41.760 so I like that 'cause it expresses me. 08:41.840 --> 08:45.360 This is a sea otter that I drew out of oil pastels. 08:45.959 --> 08:48.840 There's always room for more sea otters in my room. 08:49.560 --> 08:51.920 [Cian] Have you been in a relationship? 08:52.000 --> 08:53.360 No. 08:53.440 --> 08:55.280 I wish! But no. 08:55.360 --> 08:57.199 [Cian] Have you ever been on a date? 08:57.280 --> 08:58.360 No again. 08:59.160 --> 09:01.280 [Cian] What gender are you interested in dating? 09:01.360 --> 09:02.480 Um, women. 09:02.560 --> 09:04.600 [Cian] So, when did you realize that you liked women? 09:04.680 --> 09:08.280 Um, I don't really know. I guess I kind of just always have. 09:08.360 --> 09:10.920 My family and friends are really accepting. 09:11.000 --> 09:14.440 I didn't even have to come out. I just would say, "Oh, isn't she pretty?" 09:14.520 --> 09:19.400 And they'd just be like, "Yeah. " So, yeah, nobody really cares. [chuckles] 09:22.320 --> 09:23.280 [Journey] Dog! 09:23.360 --> 09:27.839 [narrator] Journey lives with her mom, Avani, dad, Stephen, and brother, Xavier. 09:27.920 --> 09:29.800 [Cian] What do you guys think about Journey 09:29.880 --> 09:32.240 stepping into the dating world for the first time? 09:32.320 --> 09:34.240 -[Xavier] Hmm. I'm happy for her. -[Stephen sighs] 09:34.839 --> 09:37.640 -You'll have fun. -[Journey] I know, right? I hope so. 09:37.720 --> 09:38.920 I'm excited. 09:39.000 --> 09:43.079 Journey thinks that she's not having a normal 18-year-old life yet 09:43.160 --> 09:45.000 because she hasn't had a date, so… 09:45.079 --> 09:49.040 -[laughter] -Well, we sort of went on a, uh, a double 09:49.120 --> 09:51.480 in the summer with my friend, remember? And his son? 09:51.560 --> 09:55.360 You told me that wasn't a date. So you lied. 09:55.440 --> 09:58.760 I didn't even know that was supposed to be a date until right now. 09:59.560 --> 10:02.920 Dad was like, "Oh, do you wanna go out with my friend and his son?" 10:03.000 --> 10:04.680 And I was like, "Not really." 10:04.760 --> 10:07.520 And then, like… and I was like, "Oh, this isn't a date?" 10:07.600 --> 10:09.959 He was like, "No, no. It's just to hang out." 10:10.040 --> 10:11.800 If it was an established date, 10:11.880 --> 10:13.720 it literally would've been the worst date ever. 10:13.800 --> 10:14.839 [laughter] 10:14.920 --> 10:17.320 [Cian] So, Journey, your dad failed setting you up on a date. 10:17.400 --> 10:18.800 [laughter] 10:18.880 --> 10:20.839 [Cian] Do you trust us finding someone for you? 10:20.920 --> 10:24.199 Yes! 'Cause you guys know what you're doing. 10:24.280 --> 10:25.120 You think so? 10:25.640 --> 10:26.760 I hope so. 10:26.839 --> 10:29.600 -[Cian] We will make sure she's female. -Yes. Please! 10:29.680 --> 10:33.480 That's all I want. What's going on with all these random dudes? 10:34.040 --> 10:35.839 -[dog whines] -[Avani] People like you. 10:35.920 --> 10:38.280 -People gravitate towards you. -Yes, people do like me. 10:38.360 --> 10:42.920 People don't gravitate towards me romantically though. 10:43.000 --> 10:44.920 People just always wanna be my friend. 10:45.000 --> 10:47.320 Boys gravitate towards you romantically. 10:47.400 --> 10:49.959 Well, that's embarrassing for them, isn't it? 10:50.480 --> 10:52.480 [laughter] 10:54.560 --> 10:56.280 [dog snoring] 10:57.240 --> 10:59.680 [optimistic music playing] 11:00.880 --> 11:06.000 [narrator] In Kenya, Abbey and David are taking some time to relax and unwind. 11:06.719 --> 11:08.040 [David] Feels nice. 11:10.000 --> 11:11.079 [Abbey sighs happily] 11:12.560 --> 11:13.600 [sighs happily] 11:14.199 --> 11:15.560 Relaxing. 11:15.640 --> 11:17.719 [David] Look at the spectacular view. 11:17.800 --> 11:18.880 [Abbey] I know. 11:19.640 --> 11:20.760 -David? -Yeah? 11:20.839 --> 11:21.880 Um… 11:23.560 --> 11:24.480 [sighs awkwardly] 11:24.560 --> 11:25.560 Yes? 11:31.240 --> 11:32.440 [Abbey] I'm gonna get… 11:34.240 --> 11:37.280 I'm gonna get more collectibles. Do you want more collectibles? 11:37.360 --> 11:38.320 Yes. 11:38.400 --> 11:39.680 [Abbey] Like, which ones? 11:39.760 --> 11:43.839 -I still love to collect Power Rangers. -Do you want more? You want more? 11:44.480 --> 11:46.880 Yes, but I can only get them for myself. 11:46.959 --> 11:50.480 I'll get more. Like, I have three new books about mythical creatures. 11:50.560 --> 11:52.240 One's The Secret Life of Fairies, 11:52.320 --> 11:55.640 The Secret Life of Mermaids, and The Secret Life of Unicorns. 11:55.719 --> 11:58.959 They come with four figurines so that's four, eight, twelve! 11:59.040 --> 12:02.000 -Wow. -What more collectibles do you want? 12:02.079 --> 12:04.280 Chronicles of Narnia and Avatar. 12:04.360 --> 12:07.240 If I complete my entire Disney figurine collection, 12:07.320 --> 12:11.680 I could treat my beach house bedroom into my own Disney park. 12:11.760 --> 12:14.640 Oh my God, that's amazing! 12:14.719 --> 12:17.240 What I like about you is that we have things in common. 12:17.320 --> 12:18.320 [David] Yes. 12:19.040 --> 12:21.280 A lion is our number one favorite animal. 12:21.360 --> 12:22.719 Me too. 12:22.800 --> 12:25.760 Like those big, giant lions we were holding at our house. 12:25.839 --> 12:28.560 -[David] Oh yes. -The big female one was looking at me. 12:28.640 --> 12:32.800 'Cause she loves you. The male one was looking at me 'cause he loves me. 12:32.880 --> 12:35.360 That's so cute. What was she saying? 12:35.440 --> 12:37.599 "I love you. I love you. I love you." 12:38.959 --> 12:40.560 -That's what she's saying. -Aw. 12:41.079 --> 12:42.199 That's so cute. 12:43.040 --> 12:44.360 How does Romeo say it? 12:44.440 --> 12:47.199 [in deep voice] "I love you. I love you. I love you." 12:49.599 --> 12:50.640 [David chuckles] 12:50.719 --> 12:52.079 Aw, it's so cute. 12:52.760 --> 12:54.599 -Thank you. -[softly] You're welcome. 12:56.560 --> 12:58.480 -I know why you're a good boyfriend. -Yeah? 12:58.560 --> 13:01.520 You treat me very well, like a princess. 13:01.599 --> 13:04.839 Yeah. And I know what I like about you as a girlfriend. 13:04.920 --> 13:07.560 -What? -You treat me well, like a Power Ranger. 13:07.640 --> 13:11.000 And you're as sweet as all my favorite desserts. 13:11.079 --> 13:15.400 -And you're special and beautiful. -Oh my God, that means a lot to me! 13:16.160 --> 13:18.440 Are you enjoying your first vacation with me? 13:18.520 --> 13:19.880 [Abbey] I am. 13:20.520 --> 13:22.920 -I'm enjoying myself in Africa. -So do I. 13:23.000 --> 13:24.320 -You made this happen. -Yeah. 13:24.400 --> 13:26.520 -Thank you so much. -[David] You're welcome. 13:29.800 --> 13:31.719 -I love you. -[Abbey] I love you too. 13:31.800 --> 13:33.320 [heartwarming music playing] 13:40.079 --> 13:42.280 [dramatic music playing] 13:43.040 --> 13:45.959 [narrator] It's the day after Connor's date with Sasha, 13:46.040 --> 13:48.959 and his younger brother, Jack, is keen to hear the details. 13:49.040 --> 13:51.000 -What's up, man? -[dramatic music stops] 13:51.079 --> 13:53.199 -So, how'd it go yesterday? -It was, uh… 13:54.160 --> 13:55.240 It went great. 13:55.320 --> 13:56.320 -Did it? -Yeah. 13:57.040 --> 14:01.199 We both watch Netflix. We both… both like dragons. We-- 14:01.280 --> 14:03.400 Really? It's right up your alley, isn't it? 14:03.480 --> 14:05.440 Yep. Right up my alley. 14:05.520 --> 14:08.880 How do you feel about this process and how things have unfolded? 14:08.959 --> 14:10.000 I feel like, um… 14:12.079 --> 14:15.240 I feel like I'm growing as a person. 14:15.320 --> 14:19.160 -Yeah? -But it feels like I've taken a big step. 14:19.240 --> 14:20.760 Yeah. Well, that… that's huge. 14:20.839 --> 14:21.800 [Connor] It is. 14:21.880 --> 14:24.199 That's awesome. All right. Wanna grab a coffee? 14:24.280 --> 14:25.479 Yeah. Come on. 14:28.680 --> 14:32.319 [Lise] So, Connor, were you telling, uh, JT about your date? 14:32.400 --> 14:35.959 -[Jack] Sounded like it was a good time. -[Lise] Did you wanna hold her hand? 14:36.040 --> 14:40.079 Let's talk about that. Was there sparks? Let's get to the nitty-gritty. 14:40.839 --> 14:43.520 -Getting personal. -[Lise] Yeah! 14:43.599 --> 14:47.560 Well, I mean, did you have any of those feelings or… at all? 14:47.640 --> 14:50.719 -[Lise] Even just a hand-holding feeling. -No. Not really. 14:50.800 --> 14:51.760 Not initially? 14:51.839 --> 14:52.719 -No. -[Lise] Okay. 14:52.800 --> 14:54.199 Okay, that's cool. 14:56.360 --> 14:59.880 Did you guys speak to each other about seeing each other again? 14:59.959 --> 15:01.120 -Yes. -[Jack] You did? 15:01.199 --> 15:02.040 Yeah. 15:02.800 --> 15:04.079 [Lise] Who brought it up? 15:04.800 --> 15:07.040 Well, it was suggest… 15:07.120 --> 15:08.479 sugge… 15:08.560 --> 15:10.760 -[Jack] Suggested. -By… by whom? 15:10.839 --> 15:12.680 By… Sasha. 15:12.760 --> 15:14.760 [Lise] Did Sasha ask to see you again? 15:14.839 --> 15:17.760 Why are you frustrated? We're interested in your life. 15:17.839 --> 15:21.439 That is… you asked me to tell you what… who suggested it. 15:21.520 --> 15:22.640 I have told you. 15:22.719 --> 15:23.760 Okay. Sorry. 15:24.280 --> 15:26.800 Honestly, must I write you a poem? 15:26.880 --> 15:29.439 -You don't gotta do that. -[Lise] Nobody's asking for a poem. 15:29.520 --> 15:32.640 But it's no problem for somebody to ask for a little bit more. 15:33.599 --> 15:37.160 We're just trying to be in Connor's mind for a second. And how are you feeling? 15:37.240 --> 15:39.839 And how can we help you… walk you through these moments 15:40.479 --> 15:43.719 so you can be the best version of you and be happy and not lonely? 15:43.800 --> 15:47.120 You can have people you can rely on, like friends and family. That's it. 15:47.640 --> 15:50.880 Maybe you only get a friend out of this. But that's better than nothing. 15:51.479 --> 15:53.240 -[Lise] Yeah. -Yeah. 15:53.319 --> 15:56.439 -Thank you. Thanks. Oh, thanks, Mom. -[Lise] You're welcome. 15:58.079 --> 15:58.959 [Connor] Hmm. 16:00.280 --> 16:02.319 [Lise] How was he in the back room with you? 16:02.400 --> 16:05.199 -He was fine. -I hope I'm not applying pressure. 16:05.280 --> 16:08.280 I think he's… it's so out of his realm right now, 16:08.359 --> 16:10.000 he doesn't know what any of it feels like. 16:10.079 --> 16:14.359 The other… other part of it is, for me, he has one friend from high school 16:15.160 --> 16:18.040 that he maybe sees once or twice a year. 16:18.120 --> 16:22.760 He literally hangs out here with the dogs and us, 16:22.839 --> 16:24.640 and just… it's heartbreaking. 16:24.719 --> 16:27.000 [gentle music playing] 16:27.079 --> 16:28.520 I just would love to have someone… 16:28.599 --> 16:31.079 have his phone be a message that isn't one of us. 16:31.160 --> 16:32.000 Yeah. 16:32.520 --> 16:36.319 Think about that. He gets no phone calls or texts from anybody 16:36.400 --> 16:37.920 unless it's our family chat. 16:38.760 --> 16:42.240 I see a very lonely… man. 16:43.199 --> 16:45.160 Like, I blinked and he was 24. 16:45.240 --> 16:49.240 Nobody's gonna let him become a lonely… lonely guy. 16:49.319 --> 16:51.319 That's my fear. 'Cause I'm not gonna live forever. 16:51.400 --> 16:53.560 -Well, nobody's gonna allow that. -[Lise] Okay. 16:54.920 --> 16:57.599 [Jack] As he progresses with this girl, 16:58.199 --> 17:00.719 just let him take the lead a little bit. 17:00.800 --> 17:02.520 And don't put so much-- 17:02.599 --> 17:07.040 Am I, like, that overbearing mom? I just… I'm getting this message from everybody. 17:07.119 --> 17:09.560 No, I'm just… You know, he used to wash his eyes out 17:09.640 --> 17:11.280 when he'd see kissing on the TV. 17:11.359 --> 17:13.640 -[Lise] That's true. That's true. -[both chuckle] 17:13.720 --> 17:14.560 [Jack] So… 17:16.359 --> 17:19.800 There'd be, like, a kissing scene in a movie, he would literally get up, 17:19.880 --> 17:22.119 scream, run to the bathroom, and wash his eyes out 17:22.200 --> 17:24.119 -'cause he had just seen… -[laughing] 17:24.200 --> 17:25.159 …just… 17:26.040 --> 17:27.480 a sin. I don't know. 17:27.560 --> 17:28.960 [laughing] 17:29.040 --> 17:30.480 -[Cian] Wow. -Yeah. 17:30.560 --> 17:32.680 I just want him to be happy. That's all. 17:32.760 --> 17:34.320 -[Jack] Yeah, and I think he is. -Happy. 17:34.399 --> 17:35.880 [car revving, crashing on TV] 17:35.960 --> 17:37.159 [gunshots on TV] 17:37.240 --> 17:38.480 [man screams on TV] 17:39.720 --> 17:41.800 [whimsical music playing] 17:41.880 --> 17:45.040 [narrator] It's the day of Journey's first-ever date. 17:45.760 --> 17:47.919 She's getting ready with her sister, Stevie. 17:48.000 --> 17:50.320 -[Stevie] Hi, Journey. -Hi, Stevie. 17:50.399 --> 17:52.240 -[Stevie] You look cute. -Thank you. 17:53.680 --> 17:54.800 I like the cardigan. 17:54.880 --> 17:58.360 -The plain white is boring. -It's like cute little old lady clothes. 17:58.440 --> 18:01.280 -And you match with the closet. -Thanks. Oh! 18:03.840 --> 18:07.399 -These ones are cute. -Those are actually cute. Are you excited? 18:07.480 --> 18:10.240 I'm actually really excited and really scared. 18:10.320 --> 18:12.880 -It's literally your first date ever! -I know! 18:12.960 --> 18:16.080 I know. Um, have you ever flirted with anybody before? 18:16.159 --> 18:17.040 Mmm, yeah. 18:17.120 --> 18:18.480 And how did that go? 18:18.560 --> 18:21.880 Well, you act really happy to talk to them. 18:21.960 --> 18:23.280 You like to share little-- 18:23.360 --> 18:25.120 Act happy? Am I not gonna be happy? 18:25.200 --> 18:28.919 No, like you overplay how happy you are. Not act happy. Like, you overplay. 18:29.000 --> 18:32.240 You smile more. You don't have to smile. Sometimes I know you're like… 18:32.960 --> 18:34.120 [Stevie laughs] 18:34.960 --> 18:35.919 [Journey laughs] 18:36.000 --> 18:37.360 What if I'm too shy to flirt? 18:37.440 --> 18:40.000 It's okay. Sometimes people like people that are nervous. 18:40.080 --> 18:43.720 I'm just guessing that you just act like you're just nice to them. 18:43.800 --> 18:47.399 You sit kind of closer to them. If we're walking, we're walking like this, 18:47.480 --> 18:49.399 then just being like, "Oh, hey." 18:50.240 --> 18:51.240 That's about right. 18:51.320 --> 18:53.280 -[Journey] Oh, like this? -Mm-hmm. 18:53.360 --> 18:55.880 If it's arm's length, that's too far, 18:56.560 --> 18:59.960 but, like, elbow length, that's about right. 19:00.040 --> 19:03.679 Then you're like, "This person likes me," 'cause they're only an elbow away. 19:03.760 --> 19:05.600 Oh! It's making sense. 19:05.679 --> 19:08.600 -[Stevie] Ready to get ready? -Yeah, I'm picking earrings. 19:09.679 --> 19:10.720 You look cute. 19:11.399 --> 19:15.440 The day has come. It's finally my turn! My turn! 19:15.520 --> 19:17.840 -Your turn. -Not your turn, my turn. 19:17.919 --> 19:19.480 -It's all you. -It's all me. 19:22.880 --> 19:24.679 -Hello. -Oh, you look cute. 19:24.760 --> 19:27.080 I'm scared to go by myself. 19:27.159 --> 19:29.159 You've been really excited. 19:29.240 --> 19:30.720 [Journey] I know, but now I'm scared 19:30.800 --> 19:34.919 'cause it's just… it's getting closer and closer. 19:35.000 --> 19:36.760 -What's your exit statement? -[Stevie] Yeah. 19:36.840 --> 19:40.120 Maybe if I… can just say bye. 19:40.720 --> 19:44.120 You can say, "I think this is goodbye." Mom says that to people. 19:44.200 --> 19:47.960 I do. I definitely say that when I've had enough. 19:48.040 --> 19:51.320 I just… when I've had enough, I say "I think this is goodbye." 19:51.840 --> 19:54.000 I don't wanna be late, so I'm outta here. 19:54.080 --> 19:55.679 Don't forget your cookies. 19:55.760 --> 19:57.440 Take them. Thank you. 19:57.520 --> 19:58.720 All right. 20:00.080 --> 20:01.840 -Ugh! -[Stevie] Have a good one. 20:01.919 --> 20:03.880 -[Avani] Bye, Journey! -[Journey] Bye. 20:03.960 --> 20:07.200 All right. I'll have popcorn waiting for you when you come back. 20:07.280 --> 20:08.679 -Bye, Journey. -Bye, Mom. 20:08.760 --> 20:09.840 -See ya. -I'm leaving. 20:09.919 --> 20:11.040 -[Stevie] Love you. -Love you. 20:11.120 --> 20:12.800 -Have fun! -[Journey] Okay, bye. 20:14.640 --> 20:16.280 [suspenseful music playing] 20:25.520 --> 20:27.480 [narrator] Journey is meeting Kara. 20:28.840 --> 20:31.399 She likes Japanese kawaii 20:32.120 --> 20:33.679 and the sound of pigeons. 20:33.760 --> 20:34.600 [cooing] 20:34.679 --> 20:37.360 [narrator] She doesn't like the smell of ham 20:37.440 --> 20:39.520 or people touching balloons. 20:39.600 --> 20:40.440 [squeaking] 20:44.320 --> 20:45.720 -Hi! -[Journey] Hi! 20:45.800 --> 20:48.640 -I'm Journey. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. Kara. 20:48.720 --> 20:50.640 -[Journey] Hi. -Do you like shaking? 20:50.720 --> 20:52.760 -Sure. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 20:52.840 --> 20:54.200 -You look really cute. -Thank you. 20:54.280 --> 20:55.919 I love your… gosh, that's so cute! 20:56.000 --> 20:57.320 Oh my God! 20:57.399 --> 20:59.200 -They're the same! -[Kara] I love it. 20:59.280 --> 21:00.240 That's so cute. 21:00.320 --> 21:02.280 [Journey] It's the exact same clip and everything. 21:02.360 --> 21:05.800 -We already have one thing in common. -Definitely. I love Hello Kitty. 21:05.880 --> 21:08.360 -They match so well. -Yeah, they do. 21:08.440 --> 21:10.200 -So, yeah. -[both giggle] 21:10.760 --> 21:13.360 Yeah, I'm really nervous, but I'm really excited too. 21:13.440 --> 21:16.960 Me too. I've been super nervous too. It sounds like we're in the same boat. 21:17.040 --> 21:19.720 Yeah. I've never been on a date before. So I'm like-- 21:19.800 --> 21:21.480 -Oh, really? -Yeah, this is my first one. 21:21.560 --> 21:23.600 -Oh! -So there's a lot happening. 21:23.679 --> 21:26.480 All right. Hopefully, I can make it an awesome date today. 21:26.560 --> 21:28.960 -Yay! Awesome date! -[Kara giggles] 21:29.040 --> 21:32.640 -I see you like pink too. -I do. Red's my favorite color. 21:32.720 --> 21:35.320 -Baby pink's my second favorite color. -I love baby pink. 21:35.399 --> 21:38.080 -I love pink a lot. -Cute! Cute. Me too. 21:38.159 --> 21:39.240 Are you from Chicago? 21:39.320 --> 21:41.679 Yeah, I'm from here. I've lived here my whole life. 21:41.760 --> 21:43.200 Are you from here, from Chicago? 21:43.280 --> 21:45.480 No, I'm from Wisconsin, kinda the Milwaukee area. 21:45.560 --> 21:47.120 -The Milwaukee area… -Yeah. 21:47.200 --> 21:50.120 So you're not that far. Should we go for a walk? 21:50.200 --> 21:51.040 Sure. 21:55.480 --> 21:57.240 -[Kara] Wanna take a seat here? -This is good. 21:57.320 --> 21:58.480 [Kara] Okay, cool. 21:59.560 --> 22:02.520 They look pretty. They really do. Look how many there are. 22:02.600 --> 22:05.040 [Kara] Yeah. Do you like to make wishes on dandelions? 22:05.120 --> 22:06.320 -Sometimes. -That's fun. 22:06.399 --> 22:08.919 -They look like little eyes from here. -They do, a little bit. 22:09.000 --> 22:10.000 [Journey chuckles] 22:10.080 --> 22:11.880 -They're looking at us. -[Kara] Yeah. 22:11.960 --> 22:13.320 [Journey giggles] 22:14.000 --> 22:15.439 -Beautiful day. -Yeah. 22:16.200 --> 22:17.800 The buildings are so fun. 22:17.880 --> 22:20.880 [Journey] During Pride Month, they have them all rainbow and stuff. 22:20.960 --> 22:23.840 -It was cool last year. -Cute. That is cool. 22:23.919 --> 22:26.439 Have you attended Pride, um, in Chicago before? 22:26.520 --> 22:27.439 No, actually. 22:27.520 --> 22:31.919 I should probably actually go this year, like, just to have fun. 22:32.000 --> 22:34.840 Yeah! No, it's okay. I haven't gone to Chicago Pride either. 22:34.919 --> 22:35.960 I've been wanting to, 22:36.040 --> 22:39.159 but, yeah, it's usually I don't have someone to go with or I'm busy. 22:39.240 --> 22:40.120 -It's cool. -Yeah. 22:40.200 --> 22:43.880 Well, I hope one day we get to go to the Chicago Pride, eventually. 22:43.960 --> 22:45.240 -Finally. -Yeah. 22:45.320 --> 22:47.399 -One year. -[Kara chuckling] Yeah. 22:47.480 --> 22:51.040 I don't know if you're comfortable talking about this. Like, are you bi or-- 22:51.120 --> 22:54.040 I am. I would say I'm, like, bi-pan, I guess? 22:54.120 --> 22:56.679 -Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. -What about you? 22:56.760 --> 22:58.640 -I'm just lesbian. -Okay. 22:58.720 --> 23:02.760 I realized that, like, oh, um, you have to be attracted to somebody. 23:02.840 --> 23:06.240 You know, I've never thought a man really looked that good. 23:06.320 --> 23:07.200 [giggling] 23:07.280 --> 23:08.919 -And not in a bad way. -No, I get it. 23:09.000 --> 23:11.360 It's not like all men look terrible or something. 23:11.439 --> 23:13.800 I was just like, "I don't really like any of you." 23:13.880 --> 23:15.360 So it's just kind of that and, um… 23:15.439 --> 23:17.760 so I'm, like, I'm trying to think… 23:17.840 --> 23:20.120 Um, I'm trying to think. How should I say it? 23:21.600 --> 23:22.640 Um… 23:27.399 --> 23:28.760 [whimsical music playing] 23:30.240 --> 23:33.560 [narrator] It's the morning after Dani's dinner date with Jake. 23:33.640 --> 23:35.399 So, how was your date? 23:36.280 --> 23:37.960 Was it nice to see him again? 23:38.040 --> 23:42.000 It was really fantastic to see him again, but when he was talking, 23:42.080 --> 23:44.480 his tone of voice sounded like he's not so… 23:44.560 --> 23:47.240 he… he didn't sound like he's excited at all. 23:47.320 --> 23:51.679 [Sandy] Well, but that's the way Jake is. He's kinda atonal. Right? 23:52.480 --> 23:54.840 I was like… I'm a little disappointed. 23:55.360 --> 23:58.399 I mean, he… he just doesn't seem, like, 23:58.480 --> 24:00.320 in a very happy mood. 24:00.399 --> 24:04.200 And one of the most important thing that ticked me off that when he told me. 24:04.280 --> 24:05.880 Uh-oh. Okay. 24:05.960 --> 24:07.800 He talked about his ex. 24:08.640 --> 24:10.280 But, Dani, everybody has exes. 24:11.640 --> 24:15.560 When I, um, ask him, "Would you like to have a big kiss?" 24:15.640 --> 24:19.200 He backed off and say, "I'm not ready for a big kiss yet." 24:19.280 --> 24:21.520 And then I gave him the Hershey Kiss like, "Oh." 24:21.600 --> 24:23.240 [Sandy] How did that make you feel? 24:23.320 --> 24:25.320 Um… a little disappointed. 24:25.399 --> 24:26.439 [pan sizzling] 24:29.880 --> 24:32.919 I don't know. Jake doesn't even send me a Valentine. 24:34.720 --> 24:36.120 [Patrick] He say anything at all? 24:36.640 --> 24:37.480 He did text me 24:37.560 --> 24:40.560 several of his animation projects he's working on. 24:41.120 --> 24:43.960 But he never said happy Valentine's Day to you. 24:44.560 --> 24:45.399 -Right? -Yes. 24:45.480 --> 24:47.080 -[Sandy] It's why you were upset. -Mm-hmm. 24:48.200 --> 24:50.399 I don't think Jake feels the same as me. 24:50.919 --> 24:51.919 Right. So just… 24:53.919 --> 24:57.240 If he's not ready to make a commitment, that's fine. You can't push him. 24:58.040 --> 25:00.439 You just have to… let him be. 25:04.760 --> 25:05.960 You are sad, aren't you? 25:06.040 --> 25:09.320 I know you begin to drink a lot of water when you don't wanna cry. 25:10.919 --> 25:13.399 -[moans sympathetically] Hug her. -[Patrick] Aw! 25:14.000 --> 25:16.159 Hey, it's hard, right? 25:18.560 --> 25:19.679 I'm just fine. 25:20.880 --> 25:21.880 I'm fine. 25:23.919 --> 25:25.800 -Sandy, Patrick, I'm fine. -Okay. 25:28.640 --> 25:29.520 Okay. 25:30.520 --> 25:31.919 You had your heart set on him? 25:33.360 --> 25:35.040 I set my heart on Jake. 25:35.120 --> 25:39.159 I thought Jake was the… right person, but… 25:39.800 --> 25:42.320 [voice cracking] …I still want Jake. 25:42.399 --> 25:44.240 My… my heart still goes with him. 25:45.360 --> 25:48.679 He didn't say no. So, there's… the door's not been closed. 25:49.280 --> 25:50.679 -[sobs] -[Patrick] Right? 25:52.120 --> 25:52.960 It's true. 25:53.040 --> 25:55.360 So it's… it's not over. 25:55.439 --> 25:56.360 It's just 25:57.120 --> 25:59.600 taking a different path than you expected. 25:59.679 --> 26:03.080 -And that's relationships. -That's what happens in relationships. 26:03.159 --> 26:05.880 Sometimes they're not exactly what you want them to be. 26:06.800 --> 26:07.800 Okay. 26:09.040 --> 26:10.480 [jaunty music playing] 26:13.280 --> 26:15.640 [narrator] After things didn't work out with Jasmine, 26:15.720 --> 26:17.919 James is getting ready to meet someone new. 26:18.520 --> 26:21.880 So, JB, you're gonna have fun at the Hammond Castle. 26:21.960 --> 26:23.320 Yes, yes, I certainly hope so. 26:23.399 --> 26:25.159 -You have a good day for it. -Yes, good. 26:25.240 --> 26:28.040 There's a lot of great stuff, as you know, to see at the castle. 26:28.120 --> 26:30.280 -Be sure to take her on the grand tour. -Oh. 26:30.360 --> 26:31.199 -Okay? -Yes. 26:31.280 --> 26:35.199 Make sure she sees the grand hall downstairs, 26:35.280 --> 26:37.080 where the pipe organ is. 26:37.159 --> 26:38.120 Right. 26:38.199 --> 26:40.800 Talk about her and not yourself. 26:40.880 --> 26:42.480 -Okay? -Yes, of course. 26:42.560 --> 26:45.199 -Do you even know her name? -They want it to be a surprise. 26:45.280 --> 26:48.040 Okay, I bet you'll be surprised. I bet you will be. 26:49.399 --> 26:52.520 -Blind dates are always a big surprise. -Yes, yes. 26:52.600 --> 26:55.439 Your mother and I had a blind date or met on a blind date. 26:55.520 --> 26:57.840 -That's how you met, right? -Yup. That's how we met. 26:57.919 --> 26:59.760 Now, you're going to a castle. 26:59.840 --> 27:01.000 -Yes. -Okay. 27:01.080 --> 27:04.760 -You can be Prince Charming. Okay? -Mm. 27:04.840 --> 27:08.800 And it's up to Prince Charming to be charming 27:08.880 --> 27:11.399 and to treat your young lady like a… 27:11.480 --> 27:14.159 -A princess. -A princess. There you go. 27:14.240 --> 27:15.120 [Lawrence] Okay? 27:15.199 --> 27:21.080 Now, princesses… need a lot of careful handling, okay? 27:21.159 --> 27:24.120 Uh… but, uh, make her… make her feel special. 27:24.199 --> 27:25.520 -Yes, of course. -You know? 27:25.600 --> 27:27.840 Because anyone who goes out with you is special. 27:27.919 --> 27:30.199 -Right? -[chuckling] Yes, thank you. 27:30.280 --> 27:31.159 There you go. 27:33.199 --> 27:38.000 I don't know if it would be appropriate to offer her, uh, a candy or chocolate? 27:38.080 --> 27:39.399 [James] Maybe, I suppose-- 27:39.480 --> 27:41.159 [Lawrence] A "Ferro Rocco." 27:41.240 --> 27:42.679 [James] Ro… Rocher. 27:44.159 --> 27:47.040 Rocher. Ferrero Rocher. 27:47.120 --> 27:49.399 You know? It might break the ice, you know? 27:49.480 --> 27:52.760 -[James] Yes, of course. -And don't forget what I said before. 27:52.840 --> 27:56.640 The purpose of a first date is to get a second date. 27:56.720 --> 27:58.840 -Yes. Absolutely. -Okay? Don't forget that. 27:58.919 --> 28:00.080 All right, we're good. 28:00.159 --> 28:01.439 [James] Let's see. 28:01.520 --> 28:03.880 All right, yes. I think I have everything now. 28:03.960 --> 28:07.280 -Okay. JB, you have a good time. -Yes. Thank you very much, Dad. 28:07.360 --> 28:10.159 -I'll see you later. -Show the young lady a good time. 28:10.240 --> 28:12.880 [James] Yes, of course. Thank you very much. Mm. 28:12.960 --> 28:13.800 Bye-bye. 28:17.280 --> 28:18.320 [James sighs] 28:21.199 --> 28:23.520 [romantic music playing] 28:26.840 --> 28:27.720 [giggling] 28:27.800 --> 28:29.439 So, like, I'm trying to think… 28:29.520 --> 28:31.760 Um, I'm trying to think. How should I say it? 28:33.199 --> 28:34.399 Um… 28:34.480 --> 28:37.040 yeah, so, like, as, um… I don't know. 28:38.480 --> 28:40.399 Being autistic and, like, I don't know. 28:40.480 --> 28:43.159 Do you know about autism? Like, autism spectrum disorder? 28:43.240 --> 28:45.840 -I do. -I… um, have it. 28:45.919 --> 28:47.560 -[laughs] -Okay. 28:47.639 --> 28:50.919 So I don't know if that matters to you. Thought I'd just tell you. 28:51.000 --> 28:56.679 Okay, well, I don't see that as anything to be concerned about at all to me. 28:56.760 --> 28:59.000 -Yeah, that's how I feel. -Yeah. 28:59.080 --> 29:00.760 I'm just glad that you don't care 29:00.840 --> 29:05.919 'cause there was one time I had been talking, um, like, to someone online 29:06.000 --> 29:09.840 and I eventually was like, "Oh, I guess I should probably tell her I have autism," 29:09.919 --> 29:12.199 and then I did. And then she never responded again, 29:12.280 --> 29:15.040 and I was like, "Oh, she did not like that, I guess!" 29:15.120 --> 29:18.840 It's nice to, like, be on a date with somebody who, you know, doesn't care, 29:18.919 --> 29:20.840 which is, like, super cool. 29:20.919 --> 29:22.600 -Aw, of course. -[giggles] 29:24.720 --> 29:27.280 [Journey] Oh, I should have given you these earlier. 29:27.360 --> 29:29.280 I hope they aren't too destroyed, 29:29.360 --> 29:30.879 but I made you cookies. 29:30.959 --> 29:32.800 -Oh! -There's strawberry jam ones, 29:32.879 --> 29:34.760 and I made the jam myself. 29:34.840 --> 29:37.679 -I'm in school for pastry. I was like-- -Oh, really? 29:37.760 --> 29:40.520 Yeah, I was like, "Wait, this is a great opportunity 29:40.600 --> 29:42.879 to have an excuse to bake something," so… 29:42.959 --> 29:45.800 Oh, that's so cute. Um, I actually got you something too. 29:45.879 --> 29:47.159 What? Seriously? 29:47.240 --> 29:48.399 I did. 29:48.480 --> 29:51.600 So, uh, I'm into, like, crystals and things like that. 29:51.679 --> 29:52.720 [Journey] That's so cool! 29:52.800 --> 29:56.879 -I got you a little rose quartz bracelet. -Oh my goodness, this is so pretty! 29:56.959 --> 29:59.520 Oh my God, I love rose quartz 'cause it's pink! 29:59.600 --> 30:01.360 -[Kara] Yeah! -And it goes in a pink bag! 30:01.439 --> 30:03.760 -Can I wear it now? -[Kara] You can put it on right now. 30:03.840 --> 30:08.720 Wait, this is so pretty, and it has a pink, like, elastic and everything. 30:08.800 --> 30:11.520 Oh my gosh, thank you. That was seriously so nice. 30:11.600 --> 30:13.800 -You're welcome! Can I give you a hug? -Yeah! 30:13.879 --> 30:16.959 I'm so glad you like it. Thank you so much for the cookies. 30:17.040 --> 30:19.959 No problem. I'm gonna keep this bag too. So pretty. 30:20.040 --> 30:21.800 [Kara] Oh, I'm so glad you like it. 30:22.879 --> 30:25.280 So, um, I'm having a good time so… 30:25.360 --> 30:27.399 -That's awesome. -I think this is a good date. 30:27.480 --> 30:30.560 Yes, I think so too. I'm having a really good time too. 30:30.639 --> 30:32.159 Should we go pick dandelions? 30:32.240 --> 30:34.000 -I think that's a great idea. -Okay. 30:34.480 --> 30:36.040 -We can go. -[Kara] All right. 30:39.320 --> 30:41.280 All right, these ones look good. 30:42.800 --> 30:43.639 Here. 30:45.080 --> 30:47.439 -Okay. Which… -All right. Which one do you want? 30:47.520 --> 30:49.439 Uh… I think I want the tall one. 30:49.520 --> 30:50.919 -Okay, go ahead. -Okay. 30:51.000 --> 30:52.800 All right. I'll pick this one. 30:53.480 --> 30:56.800 Let's make a wish, but we gotta keep it in our heads. Right? Okay. 30:56.879 --> 30:58.439 -I'm making mine. -Okay. 31:02.240 --> 31:04.879 -All right. Ready? -Okay. Ready? Three, two, one. 31:04.959 --> 31:06.280 [both blowing] 31:13.639 --> 31:15.159 [Cian] What do you think about Journey? 31:15.240 --> 31:18.240 I would say that we have a lot in common, I feel like. 31:18.320 --> 31:21.199 And I feel like our conversations are really well-rounded. 31:21.280 --> 31:25.840 I feel like… we can easily talk about more serious things 31:25.919 --> 31:28.919 as well as more fun things. 31:29.840 --> 31:31.840 [Cian] What do you think about romance? 31:31.919 --> 31:33.560 [Kara] We're already getting along so well 31:33.639 --> 31:36.040 that there could possibly be something more. 31:36.120 --> 31:38.679 [Cian] If she asked you on another date, what would you answer? 31:38.760 --> 31:39.720 I would say yes. 31:41.760 --> 31:44.040 I try and talk in a Australian accent sometimes, 31:44.120 --> 31:45.240 just like "Oh nar." 31:45.320 --> 31:46.720 [Journey] "Oh nar." 31:46.800 --> 31:49.919 -[Kara] You like the "R." -[Journey giggles] It's really funny. 31:50.919 --> 31:54.399 So this was a really, really fun first date for me. 31:54.480 --> 31:56.760 -So thanks so much for being so great. -Yeah, absolutely! 31:56.840 --> 31:59.760 Like, this was, like, I don't know, this was super fun. 31:59.840 --> 32:03.399 I just, like, totally enjoyed talking and chatting with you. Um… 32:03.959 --> 32:07.120 I'm not sure if I would want to go on a second date, 32:08.000 --> 32:09.800 but I'd definitely like to stay friends 32:09.879 --> 32:12.840 and, like, text and chat and, like, hang out a bunch 32:12.919 --> 32:15.240 'cause I, like, really enjoyed spending time with you. 32:15.320 --> 32:16.439 -So, yeah. -Definitely. 32:16.520 --> 32:19.480 I feel the exact same. I feel we could be really good friends. 32:19.560 --> 32:21.439 Seriously. That'd be really fun. 32:21.520 --> 32:22.639 -Want a hug? -Sure. 32:22.719 --> 32:24.879 -All right, bye, Journey. -Bye. Thanks so much. 32:24.959 --> 32:27.520 -This was really fun! -This was! Have a great night. 32:27.600 --> 32:28.959 -Bye! -Bye! 32:29.040 --> 32:30.879 [uplifting music playing] 32:31.959 --> 32:33.040 [chuckles] 32:35.800 --> 32:37.840 [Cian] So, how was your first date? 32:37.919 --> 32:39.800 Yes! It was very successful. 32:39.879 --> 32:41.240 It went really good. 32:41.320 --> 32:43.919 First date done! Yay! 32:50.800 --> 32:51.800 [narrator] In Kenya, 32:51.879 --> 32:55.399 Abbey and David are setting out on their second day of safari. 32:55.480 --> 32:57.679 And they're yet to see their favorite animal. 32:57.760 --> 32:59.240 [Abbey] Excited to see the lions. 32:59.320 --> 33:00.800 Are we going to see them? 33:01.879 --> 33:05.360 Yeah, no matter how far the lions are, we'll find them. 33:05.439 --> 33:06.600 Okay. 33:10.040 --> 33:12.719 [David] Oh, there's a dead buffalo. 33:12.800 --> 33:14.879 -[Abbey] There's a dead buffalo? -Where? 33:14.959 --> 33:16.840 -[sister 1] Oh shit! -[Abbey] Oh no! 33:16.919 --> 33:19.040 [sister 2] David, I think your favorite animal did that. 33:19.120 --> 33:20.959 -Oh my God! -It looks like it's fake. 33:21.040 --> 33:23.240 [Abbey] That's never gonna happen to me. 33:23.320 --> 33:24.879 I'm too old for that. 33:24.959 --> 33:25.959 [David] Me too. 33:26.040 --> 33:28.120 [Christine] Boy, didn't waste much of it, did they? 33:28.199 --> 33:29.040 [sister 2] No. 33:30.800 --> 33:32.719 Now, we'll send that to Grandma. [laughs] 33:34.800 --> 33:38.040 [Abbey] Are we gonna see lions? Where are they exactly? 33:38.120 --> 33:40.199 [David] Where there's a dead buffalo, 33:40.280 --> 33:42.199 there could be a lion. 33:43.600 --> 33:44.600 Wait a minute. 33:44.679 --> 33:46.679 [adventurous music playing] 33:47.360 --> 33:48.399 It's a lion. 33:48.959 --> 33:50.679 Oh yeah, I see them! 33:50.760 --> 33:52.480 [Christine] Oh, hi, babies! 33:52.560 --> 33:54.000 Oh my God! 33:54.080 --> 33:56.959 -[David] Two males. -[Abbey] Oh my God, that's him. 33:57.040 --> 33:58.879 Oh my God, it is! 33:59.399 --> 34:01.320 -He's definitely looking at you. -[Abbey] Romeo. 34:01.840 --> 34:03.120 Who are they looking at? 34:03.199 --> 34:04.080 [Christine] You. 34:04.159 --> 34:07.159 [David in deep voice] "I love you. I love you. I love you." 34:07.240 --> 34:09.719 Roar! 34:09.799 --> 34:10.799 [Abbey] Hi! 34:12.520 --> 34:15.360 -Oh my God! -[sister 1] He's looking at you, Abbey. 34:20.120 --> 34:22.600 Lions live in family group called prides. 34:22.679 --> 34:25.960 -What the females like to do is hunt. -What do the males do? 34:26.040 --> 34:27.159 Just lie down. 34:29.120 --> 34:31.199 -Like Uncle Dan. -[Christine laughs] 34:31.280 --> 34:32.719 [Abbey] He's like Uncle Dan. 34:33.920 --> 34:35.639 [Christine] He's definitely laying down. 34:35.719 --> 34:37.760 "Lion" down. [chuckles] 34:38.280 --> 34:41.679 -[Abbey] What are we trying to do? -[sister 1] We're trying to get closer. 34:42.319 --> 34:43.960 Wow, we're really close now. 34:44.040 --> 34:45.120 [Abbey] Mm. 34:47.440 --> 34:48.639 [David] I got an idea. 34:48.719 --> 34:49.639 [Christine] Okay. 34:49.719 --> 34:52.960 [singing] ♪ Oh, give me a home ♪ 34:53.040 --> 34:55.920 [all singing] ♪ Where the buffalo roam ♪ 34:56.000 --> 35:02.000 ♪ Where the deer and the antelope play ♪ 35:02.080 --> 35:05.440 ♪ Where seldom is heard ♪ 35:05.520 --> 35:08.799 ♪ A discouraging word ♪ 35:08.880 --> 35:15.839 ♪ And the skies are not cloudy all day ♪ 35:17.680 --> 35:18.960 [Abbey] Whoo! 35:19.040 --> 35:22.360 -You got both of them to look. -Yes, thank you very much. 35:22.440 --> 35:24.360 -[Abbey] Kitty cat! -[lion growls softly] 35:26.000 --> 35:27.680 [classical music playing] 35:30.319 --> 35:31.839 [narrator] At the Greenville Zoo, 35:31.920 --> 35:35.000 Tanner is meeting Kate for their second date. 35:38.280 --> 35:39.640 -Hi, Kate! -Hello. 35:39.720 --> 35:40.920 -How are you? -Good. 35:41.000 --> 35:42.600 Kate, it's good to see you. 35:42.680 --> 35:44.440 -How are you? -I'm good. 35:44.520 --> 35:47.440 Hey, Kate, I'm so excited about this, that we're here. 35:47.520 --> 35:50.360 And I'm go… I'm gonna show you all… all around the zoo. 35:50.440 --> 35:53.040 -I got you this chocolate. -Thank you. I love chocolate. 35:53.120 --> 35:56.720 I'm glad you like chocolate. Me too. What animals are you most excited to see? 35:57.720 --> 35:58.600 Anything. 35:59.640 --> 36:00.480 Uh-huh. 36:01.960 --> 36:04.240 Are you ready? Ready to go look at the rheas? 36:04.319 --> 36:06.520 -Yes. -All right, let's go look at the rheas. 36:08.120 --> 36:09.880 So, the rheas, they're like ostriches. 36:09.960 --> 36:13.640 And they have sharp beaks, and they got long legs, too, just like dinosaurs. 36:13.720 --> 36:15.040 [both chuckle] 36:16.040 --> 36:18.480 So, look, there… there's a rhea up there. See it? 36:19.400 --> 36:20.600 Look, there's two of them. 36:21.200 --> 36:23.000 -Aren't they beautiful? -[Kate] They're pretty. 36:23.080 --> 36:25.040 -See how long their necks are? -Mm-hmm. 36:25.960 --> 36:29.360 Hey, look, they're eating. Hey, look at the rheas eating. They… 36:29.440 --> 36:32.160 -They're cute and beautiful, aren't they? -Mm-hmm. 36:32.240 --> 36:34.319 -Are you ready to go see the monkeys? -Yeah. 36:34.400 --> 36:37.319 All right. Next, we're gonna see the monkeys Keegan and Jasmine. 36:37.400 --> 36:39.120 I know them. I told them my name. 36:39.200 --> 36:40.920 -Now I'm gonna tell them your name. -Mm-hmm. 36:41.440 --> 36:42.839 [chittering] 36:44.200 --> 36:47.520 Okay. Now these monkeys are Keegan and Jasmine. 36:47.600 --> 36:50.760 Hey, Keegan. Hey, Jasmine. Keegan, so good to see you, buddy. 36:50.839 --> 36:52.960 And, Jasmine, so good to you too. 36:53.040 --> 36:56.240 Hey, Keegan and Jasmine, this is Kate. I want you to meet Kate. 37:00.000 --> 37:03.839 Hey, look. Keegan or Jasmine just… just tried to pull off a leaf. 37:03.920 --> 37:05.040 [Kate] They're good climbers. 37:05.120 --> 37:08.000 Hey, isn't it cool that monkeys can do things we can't do? 37:08.080 --> 37:10.400 -[chuckles] -Yeah, it's so cool. It's so cool. 37:10.480 --> 37:14.200 Jasmine, Keegan, you're… you're such good climbers and swingers. 37:14.280 --> 37:16.560 Hey, Keegan and Jasmine are cute like you. 37:16.640 --> 37:18.120 -[giggles] -Yeah. They… 37:19.839 --> 37:22.880 Hey, look, Keegan or Jasmine picked up an orange slice, see? 37:22.960 --> 37:26.200 Because I know monkeys eat oranges too. Isn't that cool? 37:26.280 --> 37:28.120 -That's crazy. -[Tanner] It is crazy. 37:30.600 --> 37:34.280 -[Kate] Look, he's playing dead. -Yeah. Keegan or Jasmine is playing dead. 37:34.359 --> 37:35.359 It's cute. 37:37.400 --> 37:39.240 Did you remember your favorite animal? 37:39.319 --> 37:41.720 -Elephants. -What do you like about the elephants? 37:41.799 --> 37:43.640 [Kate] I like that their nose comes out. 37:43.720 --> 37:47.359 Gotcha. What they do with their noses? How they pick up and give baths with them? 37:47.440 --> 37:48.560 -Yeah. -That's so cool. 37:48.640 --> 37:50.600 -Yeah, that's very special too. -Mm-hmm. 38:00.839 --> 38:02.720 Do you like to… do you like to cook? 38:02.799 --> 38:03.720 Oh, yes, I do. 38:03.799 --> 38:05.160 What do you like to cook? 38:05.240 --> 38:06.280 Um, fish. 38:06.359 --> 38:09.040 Could you tell me more about some of the foods you like? 38:09.720 --> 38:12.040 I like, um… sloppy joes. 38:12.120 --> 38:14.880 -I… I… I like to eat sloppy joes too. -Mm-hmm. 38:16.760 --> 38:19.839 Um, hey, uh, do you like to make gingerbread men? 38:20.560 --> 38:22.080 -Oh, no. -Do you like to make cookies? 38:22.160 --> 38:23.520 -Yes. -Like to make brownies? 38:23.600 --> 38:24.880 I like cakes and brownies. 38:24.960 --> 38:25.880 Do you like tacos? 38:25.960 --> 38:27.359 -Yeah. -I like tacos too. 38:27.440 --> 38:30.280 -What do you like about the tacos? -I like chicken and cheese. 38:31.480 --> 38:32.359 Me too. 38:38.600 --> 38:41.240 I… I can't… can't think of anything to say about, 38:41.319 --> 38:42.760 but I'm still having a good time. 38:42.839 --> 38:44.680 -Me too. -Can you think of anything else to say? 38:44.760 --> 38:45.960 -No. -That's okay. 38:57.400 --> 38:58.520 [narrator] In Georgia, 38:58.600 --> 39:01.920 it's been a week since Connor's date with Sasha. 39:02.000 --> 39:04.440 Hello, Sasha. This is Connor. 39:04.520 --> 39:06.920 Hey, Connor. How have you been? 39:07.000 --> 39:08.040 I've been good. 39:08.120 --> 39:13.080 Hey, listen, I've really enjoyed getting to know you better. 39:13.160 --> 39:15.319 It's been great getting to know you too. 39:15.839 --> 39:19.160 But I've been thinking about this, and… 39:21.160 --> 39:22.240 maybe 39:23.040 --> 39:24.120 we could 39:24.799 --> 39:26.040 just continue 39:26.680 --> 39:27.960 this relationship 39:29.640 --> 39:31.520 as just friends. 39:31.600 --> 39:36.280 Oh, wow. I don't know that I was expecting to hear that. 39:36.359 --> 39:37.520 Yeah, I know. I… 39:38.040 --> 39:41.520 Believe me, I did not make this decision on a whim. 39:41.600 --> 39:44.760 Well, Connor, I really have had so much fun with you 39:44.839 --> 39:48.600 and, um… I may need a couple days to think about this. 39:49.240 --> 39:50.319 Okay. 39:50.400 --> 39:53.440 -Thanks for being honest with me, Connor. -Uh… Uh… 39:53.520 --> 39:59.359 Thank you. And again, I didn't make this decision lightly. 39:59.440 --> 40:01.600 I appreciate that. That means a lot to hear. 40:01.680 --> 40:04.520 -Okay. -Okay. Well, maybe I'll see you around. 40:04.600 --> 40:06.400 Maybe I'll see you around too. 40:06.480 --> 40:07.640 -[Lise] Okay. Bye. -Bye. 40:07.720 --> 40:08.600 [Lise] Bye. 40:08.680 --> 40:10.720 -Hey, that's a tough call to make. -Yeah. 40:12.080 --> 40:13.240 [exhales sharply] 40:13.319 --> 40:14.160 Yeah. 40:14.680 --> 40:15.600 You got this. 40:15.680 --> 40:16.920 -Yeah. -That was perfect. 40:17.640 --> 40:19.400 -Good luck. -Let's… okay. 40:19.480 --> 40:20.720 For real this time. 40:20.799 --> 40:22.520 I'm out. Okay. 40:22.600 --> 40:24.600 I'm gonna give you your privacy with this. 40:24.680 --> 40:26.160 [Connor] Okay. For real this time. 40:27.280 --> 40:30.960 -Uh, Jack, could you bring me my phone? -[Jack] Yeah. 40:35.160 --> 40:36.520 [breathes deeply] 40:36.600 --> 40:37.760 Here goes. 40:39.319 --> 40:41.960 -For real this time. -[outgoing call tone] 40:45.920 --> 40:46.760 [Sasha] Hey. 40:47.799 --> 40:50.120 [whimsical music playing] going call tone]