WEBVTT 00:11.799 --> 00:13.240 [suspenseful music playing] 00:14.440 --> 00:18.360 It was… it was very nice… very nice to meet you. 00:18.439 --> 00:21.360 I certainly would like to have another date again at some point. 00:24.119 --> 00:26.720 -Okay. That would be lovely. -Mm. Yes. Absolutely. 00:26.799 --> 00:28.880 -I think that would definitely be great. -Okay. 00:28.959 --> 00:30.599 -Yeah. I'll just, um… -Oh. 00:31.240 --> 00:33.680 [Maggie] Okay. Okay, thank you. 00:33.760 --> 00:35.480 Yes, absolutely. 00:35.559 --> 00:37.040 -Good night. Bye. -Yes. 00:37.120 --> 00:38.080 -Bye. -All right. 00:38.879 --> 00:40.160 -Thank you. -Yes. 00:40.239 --> 00:41.080 [Maggie] Bye. 00:46.440 --> 00:48.120 [Cian] Did she just kiss you on the lips? 00:48.199 --> 00:50.800 Uh, that was pretty nice, wasn't it? Mm. 00:51.320 --> 00:54.199 -[Cian] Well, that's pretty special. -Mm. Yes. 00:54.279 --> 00:55.800 -[Cian] So, you feeling good? -Uh, yes. 00:55.879 --> 00:59.360 I think… I think it went great. I definitely… I feel good about today. 00:59.440 --> 01:00.320 Mm. 01:00.400 --> 01:02.040 [sweet piano music playing] 01:05.080 --> 01:06.399 [tinkling] 01:09.680 --> 01:11.360 [suspenseful music playing] 01:12.800 --> 01:13.640 [Dani] Xena. 01:14.600 --> 01:15.440 Xena. 01:16.119 --> 01:17.600 Feisty little kitty. 01:17.680 --> 01:21.720 It is important for me to explore a mature relationship. 01:21.800 --> 01:26.520 Didn't you tell me there's, uh, people that wanna be, like, married to somebody, 01:26.600 --> 01:28.880 but they don't wanna actually have sex with them? 01:28.960 --> 01:30.160 A heteroromantic means 01:30.240 --> 01:33.560 you are romantically attracted to someone of the opposite sex. 01:33.640 --> 01:37.520 But there's the asexual part, which means they're not into sex whatsoever. 01:37.600 --> 01:38.960 So, what are you, Dani? 01:39.680 --> 01:41.399 To be honest, a heteroromantic. 01:41.479 --> 01:43.960 But I'm also a demi… demipansexual, 01:44.040 --> 01:48.600 which means, um, open to any other gender when it comes to, um, sex. 01:48.680 --> 01:49.800 Oh. 01:49.880 --> 01:53.080 I prefer guys. I'm just open. I'm very open to other genders. 01:53.679 --> 01:54.640 Okay. 01:54.720 --> 01:57.720 I do want to experience a mature relationship. 01:57.800 --> 02:00.280 At least the, uh, you know, the home run. 02:00.360 --> 02:02.119 [chuckling] 02:02.199 --> 02:05.160 -So you're talking about baseball? -It's a… it's a metaphor. 02:05.240 --> 02:07.080 [chuckling] 02:08.639 --> 02:12.920 -[Sandy] Now, you said you like Adan. -Oh yes. 02:13.000 --> 02:18.000 But you're not sure he is interested in intimate relationships. 02:18.080 --> 02:19.959 It doesn't hurt to tr-- to ask. 02:20.480 --> 02:23.280 But you have to be careful how you ask. Right? You don't wanna-- 02:23.360 --> 02:26.120 But I'm trying to not make it too explicit. 02:26.200 --> 02:28.000 I just wanna keep it implicit. 02:28.080 --> 02:29.080 [meowing] 02:29.799 --> 02:32.480 [Cian] So, you're gonna see if Adan is interested in… 02:32.560 --> 02:34.840 -Oh yes. -Doing the deed. 02:34.920 --> 02:36.000 "The deed." 02:37.200 --> 02:38.160 [purring] 02:41.760 --> 02:42.799 [narrator] In Georgia, 02:42.880 --> 02:45.360 Connor is about to call Emily, 02:45.440 --> 02:47.400 who he met at speed dating. 02:47.480 --> 02:50.400 Be confident. You got this. You got this. 02:51.200 --> 02:53.480 Okay, here goes. 02:55.440 --> 02:57.640 [line ringing] 02:59.799 --> 03:00.760 [Emily] Hello? 03:00.840 --> 03:03.000 Um, hello. Is this Emily? 03:03.519 --> 03:04.959 [Emily] Yes, this is she. 03:05.040 --> 03:08.480 Hello, Emily. This is Connor. 03:10.640 --> 03:11.720 From speed dating. 03:13.840 --> 03:15.720 [Emily] Oh, right, right. I remember. 03:16.239 --> 03:18.280 Yes. Um… 03:19.480 --> 03:22.480 So, last time we spoke, 03:23.080 --> 03:27.519 uh, I marked you a no, 03:27.600 --> 03:33.600 but I'm starting to think maybe I was… a bit hasty in my decision. 03:35.239 --> 03:37.720 [Emily] That's… that's understandable. Happens to all of us. 03:37.799 --> 03:38.840 Yeah. 03:40.720 --> 03:41.560 Well, 03:42.720 --> 03:44.600 I was wondering if… 03:46.920 --> 03:47.760 Well… 03:50.399 --> 03:51.239 um… 03:51.799 --> 03:52.679 I'm sorry. Um… 03:53.320 --> 03:56.280 -[Emily] Everything okay? -Yes, everything's fine. 03:57.760 --> 03:59.440 I was wondering if… 04:00.440 --> 04:05.399 if you didn't have anything else planned, that you'd… like to… 04:06.160 --> 04:11.040 to… go out together somewhere. 04:11.119 --> 04:13.119 [Emily] Yeah, sure. That sounds great. 04:14.079 --> 04:15.200 Really? 04:15.280 --> 04:16.440 [Emily] Yes, really. 04:16.519 --> 04:19.680 Okay. That… that sounds great. 04:19.760 --> 04:24.479 So, um, how does three o'clock on Sunday sound? 04:24.560 --> 04:25.640 [Emily] Sounds good. 04:25.720 --> 04:26.960 All right, then. 04:27.039 --> 04:29.520 -I'll see you then. Bye. -[Emily] Okay. 04:30.520 --> 04:31.520 -Bye-- -Oh. 04:34.400 --> 04:37.640 [whispers] She was about to say bye again, and I just hung up. 04:38.320 --> 04:41.520 I think… I got… it's a… 04:41.599 --> 04:42.760 well, it's a date. 04:45.599 --> 04:47.560 [sweet instrumental music playing] 04:49.680 --> 04:51.760 [narrator] At the Palace of Fine Arts, 04:51.840 --> 04:54.240 Steve is on a date with Sharona. 04:54.320 --> 04:55.640 -[Steve] Wow! -[Sharona] Beautiful. 04:55.720 --> 04:57.760 Those are angels, no? 04:57.840 --> 04:59.880 -Oh, they have the wings. -Yes. 04:59.960 --> 05:03.760 You know, you're right. I think they are angels. Wow! 05:04.440 --> 05:07.160 [Sharona] There's so much to learn about you, Steve. 05:07.240 --> 05:08.080 [Steve] Oh. 05:08.160 --> 05:10.039 [Sharona] And you have so much to learn about me. 05:10.120 --> 05:13.800 -That's right. The other way around. -[Sharona] I have a lot of experience. 05:13.880 --> 05:15.800 -[Steve] Yeah. -You'll never be bored with me. 05:15.880 --> 05:17.960 -[Steve] Right. -[Sharona laughing] 05:18.840 --> 05:20.360 [Cian] What do you think about Sharona? 05:20.440 --> 05:22.960 She's, um… a lovely lady. 05:23.560 --> 05:27.080 May… maybe a little strong for me. 05:27.160 --> 05:29.080 -[Cian] Coming on a bit strong, hey? -[Steve] Yes. 05:29.160 --> 05:32.080 -[Cian] Moving a bit too quickly, maybe? -Yes, I just, um… 05:33.680 --> 05:36.640 I'm kind of slow going myself. 05:40.359 --> 05:43.080 Tell me, have you ever dated the Israeli girls? 05:43.160 --> 05:45.320 -No, I have not. -[laughing] 05:46.560 --> 05:48.640 I think the Israeli are good girls. 05:48.720 --> 05:50.720 -No, no, we're not. -Oh! 05:50.800 --> 05:52.640 And we're… we just… 05:53.440 --> 05:54.520 I… I had a hard life. 05:55.400 --> 05:58.520 -I had three kids by the time I was 24. -Oh wow. 05:58.599 --> 06:02.760 I cleaned houses and went to college and raised three kids all by myself. 06:02.840 --> 06:05.120 -Seventeen years, just me and them. -Wow. 06:05.200 --> 06:07.840 They were three, four, and five when I got divorced, 06:07.919 --> 06:11.000 and I had no child support, no help. No help at all. 06:11.080 --> 06:13.960 I did a lot on my own, and I was very strong, 06:14.039 --> 06:18.160 but… I wanna be with somebody that I can be weak with too. 06:18.919 --> 06:22.080 I'd like to think that maybe I'm strong, 06:22.599 --> 06:23.960 but the truth is, 06:24.479 --> 06:27.479 I'm weak in a number of areas myself. 06:28.440 --> 06:32.400 As we get older, we get to feel comfortable with ourselves. 06:32.479 --> 06:33.320 Yes. 06:33.400 --> 06:36.560 To adapt to another person takes some… some work. 06:37.160 --> 06:38.359 Ah. 06:38.919 --> 06:41.520 -Good point. -The brain is hard, I think. 06:41.599 --> 06:43.680 The heart is open and loving. 06:43.760 --> 06:48.080 But the brain… "You said I am no good. But should, could, would." 06:48.160 --> 06:49.000 Of course. 06:49.080 --> 06:50.720 And chemistry is important. 06:52.599 --> 06:53.560 Uh… 06:53.640 --> 06:56.680 -Sure, it is. -Kissing and loving, and it's important. 06:56.760 --> 07:00.160 -That's right. -And I feel… I'm very affectionate. 07:02.039 --> 07:04.280 -I'll tell you, I-- -It's important. 07:04.359 --> 07:07.919 It's better than talking sometimes, just holding hand with somebody. 07:08.440 --> 07:10.200 That's why you are in this place, right? 07:10.280 --> 07:14.680 To find somebody you would like to share your life with. 07:14.760 --> 07:18.000 Yes, yes, good point. 07:19.359 --> 07:20.440 -Yeah. All right. -You-- 07:20.520 --> 07:22.919 I can't believe how… how deep we are talking today. 07:23.000 --> 07:24.560 -I know. -I just met you. 07:24.640 --> 07:27.039 -That's right. Thank you for that. -Right? 07:27.120 --> 07:28.200 Thank you for that. 07:28.799 --> 07:31.560 The conversation that we're having today 07:33.359 --> 07:34.760 is really 07:35.719 --> 07:36.960 unusual. 07:41.760 --> 07:43.840 He's very kind. He's very deep. 07:43.919 --> 07:45.719 We're having a lot of fun. 07:45.799 --> 07:47.719 [Cian] Do you think there's some potential there? 07:47.799 --> 07:48.640 I do. 07:53.280 --> 07:58.880 Thank you so much. It was such an amazing date today with you. 07:58.960 --> 08:01.400 -Oh! Oh, thank-- -You are such a wonderful guy. 08:01.479 --> 08:04.520 Oh, the other way around. Thank you. 08:04.599 --> 08:05.880 You wanna hug us? 08:05.960 --> 08:07.440 -Sure. -Okay, kiss. Go on. 08:07.520 --> 08:08.880 Oh, I don't know if… Oh. 08:08.960 --> 08:09.960 -Uh… -Just one kiss. 08:10.039 --> 08:10.919 [Steve] Uh, oh. 08:11.000 --> 08:12.679 Oh, thank… thank you so much. 08:12.760 --> 08:14.280 Oh, thank you. 08:15.080 --> 08:17.640 Oh, beautiful. Thank you so very much. 08:17.719 --> 08:20.719 -It was fun. Thank you. I had so much fun. -Thank you. 08:20.799 --> 08:24.200 Thank you for all that wonderful conversation. 08:24.280 --> 08:29.320 I don't wanna lead you on. I'm just not ready… to jump in. 08:29.400 --> 08:30.400 [Sharona] Of course. 08:30.479 --> 08:34.039 But, wow, what a wonderful experience. 08:34.120 --> 08:36.039 We can have… we can stay friends. 08:36.120 --> 08:39.079 That might be a little bit doable. 08:39.159 --> 08:40.880 -Yeah. -We'll figure something out. 08:40.959 --> 08:42.039 Okay. 08:42.120 --> 08:43.720 -Thank you again. -Bye-bye. 08:43.799 --> 08:45.360 -Oh. Mm. -Bye. 08:45.440 --> 08:47.800 -We'll keep in touch, okay? -Yes, that's right. 08:47.880 --> 08:50.720 Beautiful. Thank you so much again. 08:51.480 --> 08:52.440 Beautiful. 08:52.959 --> 08:53.959 Bye-bye, now. 08:59.480 --> 09:01.440 [gentle piano music playing] 09:08.680 --> 09:10.560 [lively instrumental music playing] 09:16.280 --> 09:18.320 [Cian] Tell me what's happening today, Journey. 09:18.839 --> 09:21.959 I'm going on my second-ever date, 09:22.680 --> 09:25.800 and I'm excited and nervous, 09:25.880 --> 09:29.600 but not as nervous as I was for the first date. 09:31.760 --> 09:33.560 [Xavier beatboxing] 09:33.640 --> 09:35.199 [beatboxing] 09:38.120 --> 09:39.440 [Journey] What are you guys doing? 09:39.520 --> 09:41.160 -[Stevie] Making music. -[Xavier] Yeah. 09:41.240 --> 09:42.640 -[Stevie] Wanna join our group? -No. 09:42.720 --> 09:44.520 No, no, no. Look, look, look. Watch. 09:45.040 --> 09:48.000 -Stop. It's so bad. -[Xavier] Yeah. 09:48.079 --> 09:49.480 [Journey beatboxing] 09:50.760 --> 09:52.839 [Stevie] Yeah. Like, we're getting, like… 09:52.920 --> 09:55.120 -Anyway… -[Journey] I'm going on a date. 09:55.640 --> 09:58.040 I'm going to a conservatory, 09:58.120 --> 10:00.880 and then, I think, get something to drink, maybe tea. 10:00.959 --> 10:03.920 -That's awesome. -I'm excited because I like plants. 10:04.000 --> 10:07.400 So even if I don't like the person I'm on a date with, 10:07.480 --> 10:10.520 I'll be interested in the plants around me. 10:11.120 --> 10:13.199 But going out for tea and stuff 10:13.839 --> 10:16.560 is… exciting, but also scary. 10:16.640 --> 10:18.000 Exciting 'cause I like tea. 10:18.079 --> 10:21.079 But it's scary 'cause I'm forced to sit across from them, 10:21.880 --> 10:25.160 and I can't look into my tea the whole time, can I? 10:25.240 --> 10:26.440 Well, you could. 10:26.520 --> 10:29.199 I mean, when I was taught, like, how to make conversation 10:29.280 --> 10:30.920 and do eye contact it was, like, 10:31.000 --> 10:33.320 look at them for, like, three seconds, then look away. 10:33.400 --> 10:35.000 Look at them for three seconds, look away. 10:35.079 --> 10:38.680 -If you look at them the whole time… -They're probably gonna get scared. 10:38.760 --> 10:40.800 Part of me wants to get it over with. 10:40.880 --> 10:44.880 Like, the more you wait, the more time you have to get scared. 10:44.959 --> 10:46.199 [Stevie] I guess that's true. 10:46.280 --> 10:51.480 Like, you both know that there's a chance that you could end up dating at the end. 10:51.560 --> 10:53.760 -I know, but that's also the fun part. -[Xavier] Right. 10:53.839 --> 10:56.120 Like, you always wanted a girlfriend. 10:56.199 --> 10:57.560 -[Stevie] Right. -Now's your chance. 10:57.640 --> 10:59.480 [Stevie] Okay, come on. Time to go. 11:01.920 --> 11:02.880 [Journey] I'm late. 11:02.959 --> 11:04.480 -[Xavier] Mm… -You're not late. 11:04.560 --> 11:06.360 [Journey] I'm leaving. I'm gonna go. 11:06.880 --> 11:08.680 -You want a hug? -No. Well… 11:09.280 --> 11:11.079 -[hesitates] -Just get out of here. 11:11.160 --> 11:13.240 -[laughter] -I don't want a hug from you. 11:13.320 --> 11:14.199 Bye, Journey. 11:14.280 --> 11:16.760 -[Journey] Bye. -Bye. Good luck. 11:16.839 --> 11:18.480 [whimsical music playing] 11:27.600 --> 11:29.199 [plucky instrumental music] 11:29.280 --> 11:32.560 [narrator] Dani is catching up with expert Jennifer Cook 11:32.640 --> 11:35.959 for advice on taking things with Adan to the next level. 11:37.760 --> 11:39.360 Hello, Jennifer. 11:39.440 --> 11:41.000 Hey, Dani, how are you? 11:41.079 --> 11:44.760 I'm doing fine, thank you so much. And how's everything going with you? 11:44.839 --> 11:48.719 Really good. What's been going on with the lovely Dani Bowman? 11:48.800 --> 11:51.959 There's one most important subject that I would like to talk about 11:52.040 --> 11:55.839 is how to have a successful intimate relationship 11:55.920 --> 12:00.560 and especially something that is, like, what they call it, "the deed." 12:01.120 --> 12:04.800 So, right now, anybody that you… that has caught your eye? 12:04.880 --> 12:07.000 Well, Adan is one of them, 12:07.079 --> 12:10.400 and I really want a serious, intimate relationship 12:10.480 --> 12:14.240 that would guarantee me that we can live together. 12:14.320 --> 12:17.280 Yeah, okay. And you've been out with Adan a couple times now, yes? 12:17.360 --> 12:19.760 Oh yes. But how can I… 12:19.839 --> 12:23.199 how can I bring up, um, the… the subject? 12:23.280 --> 12:25.160 -Like, for example… -[Jennifer] Yeah. 12:25.240 --> 12:26.680 Like sex before marriage? 12:26.760 --> 12:29.440 You could certainly go ahead and just ask point-blank, 12:29.520 --> 12:32.120 "Hey, by the way, do you believe in premarital sex?" 12:32.199 --> 12:35.800 But I think the sexual part of a relationship starts with sensuality, 12:35.880 --> 12:37.640 so it starts with just kissing anyway. 12:37.719 --> 12:40.560 What if you ask him, "I'm just wondering, 12:41.199 --> 12:42.760 would you like to kiss me?" 12:42.839 --> 12:47.240 And if he says yes… then you can give him permission. 12:47.320 --> 12:49.719 It should be enthusiastic consent. 12:49.800 --> 12:52.640 -Enthusiastic consent. That's nice. -[Jennifer] Yeah. 12:52.719 --> 12:54.640 Do you want him to kiss you? 12:54.719 --> 12:56.920 -Oh yes. -[Jennifer] Okay, I love that. 12:57.000 --> 12:58.920 Right there, that was enthusiastic consent. 12:59.000 --> 13:01.560 That is exactly what we want. Okay. Fabulous. 13:01.640 --> 13:06.520 [Dani] And then how does he eventually lead to the deed part? 13:06.599 --> 13:08.880 Yeah. Well, with Adan, you're gonna have to find out 13:08.959 --> 13:10.760 what his value system is, basically. 13:10.839 --> 13:12.800 So if he believes in premarital sex, 13:12.880 --> 13:15.280 that's the first thing you're gonna have to find out, right? 13:15.360 --> 13:18.160 Mm-hmm. What if he gets shocked about it? 13:18.240 --> 13:23.240 Okay, so if he does go a little bit quiet, I would bet it's not a bad shock. 13:23.760 --> 13:26.680 I would bet it's a, "Oh my goodness!" 13:26.760 --> 13:29.920 -Oh my goodness. -[Jennifer] In a good way. 13:30.000 --> 13:34.440 Yeah. Because if you really like somebody, it just makes you feel a little nervous. 13:34.520 --> 13:36.800 -Okay. -[Jennifer] Okay? All right, sweetheart. 13:36.880 --> 13:40.680 I hope everything goes swimmingly. It'll be great. You're gonna do fantastic. 13:40.760 --> 13:43.920 Alrighty. Thank you so much for all the helpful tips. 13:44.000 --> 13:46.640 -You're welcome. You got this, girl. -[Dani] Thank you. 13:46.719 --> 13:48.040 -Bye-bye. -[Jennifer] Goodbye! 13:49.440 --> 13:50.320 [sighs] 13:52.079 --> 13:54.760 [Cian] Can you describe your ideal partner? 13:54.839 --> 13:57.400 A pretty face is enchanting, but that… 13:57.480 --> 14:00.719 appearances are nothing when compared to character. 14:00.800 --> 14:03.920 I want a woman that's going to arouse my intellect 14:04.000 --> 14:06.040 as well as my feelings. 14:06.520 --> 14:07.880 [Cian] Think you'd be a good catch? 14:08.760 --> 14:12.719 I… I think I would be quite the catch. 14:14.199 --> 14:17.120 [Lise] Who wants cookies? Who wants a cookie? 14:17.199 --> 14:18.839 [smacks lips] Cookie, cookie! 14:18.920 --> 14:20.920 [jaunty music playing] 14:21.000 --> 14:21.839 Axel. 14:23.479 --> 14:25.560 Yeah, I know you do. Sit. Good boy. 14:25.640 --> 14:26.520 Wait. 14:27.040 --> 14:28.160 Good boy. 14:28.240 --> 14:29.520 [Connor] You got this. 14:30.680 --> 14:32.280 You can do this. 14:34.319 --> 14:37.680 I suddenly find myself 14:37.760 --> 14:42.199 unable to further motivate myself. 14:43.319 --> 14:45.520 -[Lise] Hey, bud, you ready for your date? -[Connor] Yep. 14:45.599 --> 14:46.920 Good. Good. 14:47.000 --> 14:49.160 -[Tony] You look quite dapper. -Thank you. 14:49.880 --> 14:52.040 I feel just dandy. 14:52.520 --> 14:54.199 You gonna show her your British side? 14:54.280 --> 14:55.199 Of course. 14:55.280 --> 14:59.120 [Lise] Well, and they're about to have the King's coronation next weekend. 14:59.199 --> 15:01.319 -So you could talk about that. -[Connor] Wait. Wait. 15:01.400 --> 15:04.120 -The King's coronation is next weekend? -Next Saturday. 15:04.199 --> 15:07.000 [in British accent] Oh yeah, wouldn't miss it for the world. 15:07.079 --> 15:08.839 You'll be at your sister's graduation. 15:08.920 --> 15:11.439 -So you will be missing it for that. -Crap! 15:11.520 --> 15:13.079 [all chuckling] 15:13.160 --> 15:16.000 -Oh, that is just-- -[Lise] But let's talk about today. 15:16.079 --> 15:18.680 -Today will be more exciting with Emily. -Yeah. 15:18.760 --> 15:22.280 -[Cian] Are you nervous, Connor? -Uh… No, not… not at all. 15:22.959 --> 15:26.360 Mostly upset that I'll be missing the King's coronation. 15:26.439 --> 15:28.560 [Lise] We'll worry about that next week. 15:28.640 --> 15:31.800 I definitely see a more confident side in you. 15:31.880 --> 15:34.160 I think that that's really shining through. 15:34.240 --> 15:35.680 -Very true. -[Connor] Yeah. 15:35.760 --> 15:36.839 Mm-hmm. 15:38.000 --> 15:39.319 Coco, look up here. 15:39.839 --> 15:42.160 Good girl, Coco. 15:42.240 --> 15:44.000 -[Lise] You ready to go? -[Connor] Yeah. 15:44.079 --> 15:45.160 -Have a good time. -Bye. 15:45.240 --> 15:47.360 -[Tony] Curfew's four o'clock. -You ready? Let's go. 15:47.439 --> 15:48.880 "Curfew's four o'clock." 15:48.959 --> 15:50.439 -[Jack] See you, guys. -[Tony] Be safe. 15:50.520 --> 15:52.959 -Have a good time, Connor. -[Connor] Bye. 15:56.439 --> 15:57.560 -[Jack] Ready? -Ready. 16:01.359 --> 16:03.079 [jaunty suspenseful music playing] 16:07.640 --> 16:09.800 [narrator] At the Lincoln Park Conservatory, 16:09.880 --> 16:12.640 Journey is waiting for her date to arrive. 16:18.800 --> 16:21.319 Journey is meeting Talia. 16:22.079 --> 16:23.680 She likes turtles 16:24.560 --> 16:26.319 and rollerskating. 16:26.400 --> 16:28.920 She doesn't like pineapple on pizza 16:29.560 --> 16:31.199 or assembling furniture. 16:36.839 --> 16:39.319 Hi. Nice to meet you. I'm Journey. 16:39.400 --> 16:41.560 -I'm Talia. Nice to meet you. -Shall we… 16:42.359 --> 16:43.839 So, like, do you like plants? 16:43.920 --> 16:46.120 Yeah, I do like plants. Do you like plants? 16:46.199 --> 16:48.000 Yeah, I have a few. I have, um… 16:48.079 --> 16:52.160 I think I only have, like, four. I had a fern of sorts, but it died. 16:52.240 --> 16:53.479 [Journey giggles] 16:54.240 --> 16:55.839 -So… [chuckles] -Do you work? 16:56.359 --> 16:59.520 No, not yet. I'm definitely looking for a bakery job. 16:59.599 --> 17:02.280 But, like, at the moment I just do, like, cat-sitting, 17:02.359 --> 17:04.240 and, like, I don't know, lawn work. 17:04.319 --> 17:06.720 -[giggling] -I mean, that's chill too. 17:06.800 --> 17:09.880 -What about you? -I work at a museum by Navy Pier. 17:09.960 --> 17:10.800 -Cool! -Yeah. 17:10.880 --> 17:13.839 Cool. My mom is always like, "You should get a museum job." 17:13.919 --> 17:16.440 And I'm like, "No, I don't think I'd wanna do that." 17:16.520 --> 17:18.319 I don't like… I don't like standing that much. 17:18.399 --> 17:21.640 It is just a whole bunch of standing, but that's why I love it. 17:21.720 --> 17:24.040 'Cause you don't have to do anything but stand. 17:24.119 --> 17:28.640 Like, you're just kind of there without doing actual, real work, so… 17:28.720 --> 17:31.760 -[chuckling] -So, do you have any pets? 17:31.840 --> 17:34.960 -Yeah, I have, um, a dog, a turtle. -Oh, I'm jealous. 17:35.040 --> 17:37.159 -Do you have pets? -No, I always wanted some. 17:37.240 --> 17:39.760 But, like, I have the worst allergies. 17:39.840 --> 17:42.200 If you were to have any pet in the whole world, 17:42.280 --> 17:44.200 like, regardless of, like, legality… 17:44.280 --> 17:45.280 Legality! 17:45.360 --> 17:47.720 …what would you say that you would wanna have? 17:47.800 --> 17:51.480 Hmm… Not to steal your turtle, but I would want a turtle of my own. 17:51.560 --> 17:54.360 Or, like, a snake. I love reptiles, personally. 17:54.440 --> 17:56.120 Yeah, I like reptiles too. 17:56.200 --> 17:58.960 -[chuckles] You wanna walk? -Yeah, let's slither. 17:59.480 --> 18:01.159 [Journey giggling] Let's slither! 18:01.240 --> 18:02.399 [Talia chuckles] 18:05.800 --> 18:08.720 [Journey] Oh my God! Look at all the flowers! 18:08.800 --> 18:09.840 [Talia laughs] 18:11.000 --> 18:13.200 -[Journey] They're so pretty. -They are adorable. 18:13.280 --> 18:15.600 These are hydrangeas. 18:15.680 --> 18:18.120 -Okay. -And that's actually all I know. 18:18.200 --> 18:21.080 -So don't ask any more. -That's more than what I know. 18:21.159 --> 18:22.200 Tulips! 18:27.399 --> 18:28.600 Koi fish. 18:29.760 --> 18:30.919 [Talia] Oh my God! 18:31.000 --> 18:34.040 He's trying to show off 'cause he knows people are watching. 18:34.120 --> 18:35.880 He's like, "I'm gonna do a flip." 18:35.960 --> 18:39.200 [Talia] The other fish are getting mad. "You're such a show-off." 18:39.280 --> 18:42.800 "You're such a show-off. You do this every time people come to this pond." 18:42.880 --> 18:44.520 "Every time." 18:46.760 --> 18:47.760 These are pretty. 18:48.560 --> 18:50.919 -Just as pretty as you. -Thank you. [chuckles] 18:51.000 --> 18:52.919 -No problem. -Thank you. 18:53.000 --> 18:53.960 [both giggle] 18:55.399 --> 18:59.520 This one is sexy. I wonder who, like, saw this for the first time and was like, 18:59.600 --> 19:03.520 "Hmm. Sexy should be the first word in the name of this plant." 19:03.600 --> 19:04.800 [both laugh] 19:05.399 --> 19:08.320 If this is the sexy one, then what is this? 19:08.399 --> 19:10.280 [Talia laughing] 19:10.360 --> 19:12.000 The loser plant? 19:12.080 --> 19:14.080 -It doesn't have to be a loser. -It doesn't. 19:14.159 --> 19:15.040 It's pretty! 19:17.600 --> 19:20.040 -Have you been in relationships before? -No. 19:20.120 --> 19:21.919 -Never? -Never been in a relationship. 19:22.000 --> 19:25.040 I've only been on one other date, and then that's the end. 19:25.120 --> 19:27.440 There's not really anything else to talk about. 19:27.520 --> 19:31.480 [Talia] I feel you. I've been in, like, a couple serious relationships, 19:31.560 --> 19:33.040 but nothing too major. 19:33.120 --> 19:35.399 Like, dating apps don't really work. 19:35.480 --> 19:36.760 Oh, tell me about it. 19:36.840 --> 19:39.560 [giggling] I kind of flopped, I don't know. 19:39.640 --> 19:42.080 These days, people just give up very easily. 19:42.159 --> 19:43.120 Mm. Yeah. 19:43.200 --> 19:46.960 Like, I used to be, like, every time I got to talk to somebody 19:47.040 --> 19:50.560 and they didn't respond, I'd be like, "No! This is the worst day ever!" 19:50.640 --> 19:54.520 But now it's kind of like, "Another one." Another one bites the dust. 19:54.600 --> 19:57.320 Keep being the same great person that you've always been. 19:57.399 --> 20:00.520 -[Journey] Yeah, thank you! -[both laugh] 20:00.600 --> 20:01.440 So… 20:01.520 --> 20:03.960 -Mm… -Did you wanna go to the café? 20:04.040 --> 20:06.640 -Sure, sounds great. -All right. Let's go. [chuckles] 20:07.679 --> 20:09.840 -[Cian] How is the date going? -Fun. 20:09.919 --> 20:12.080 Interesting. Scary. 20:12.600 --> 20:13.760 [Cian] Why is it scary? 20:13.840 --> 20:14.919 Flirting. 20:15.000 --> 20:17.720 That I don't know how to do, but still fun. 20:17.800 --> 20:20.280 I like her. I actually like her. 20:20.360 --> 20:24.040 I, like, don't know how to talk to her, but she's really fun. 20:24.120 --> 20:28.159 And she's funny too. So, yeah, I'm enjoying the date. 20:28.240 --> 20:29.800 [Cian] Do you think she likes you? 20:29.880 --> 20:32.960 I think she likes me. Stevie said if people touch you, 20:33.040 --> 20:36.159 then they might like you, so… she did that. 20:36.240 --> 20:37.320 Mm. 20:38.200 --> 20:40.399 Oh, no, there are some more orchids over there. 20:40.480 --> 20:43.000 Maybe there are a lot. We weren't paying attention. 20:43.080 --> 20:45.840 [Talia] Yeah, I was getting too lost in your eyes. 20:52.600 --> 20:53.919 [Steve] My goodness. 20:54.800 --> 20:56.399 Oh boy. 21:00.159 --> 21:03.320 -There… -Good morning, Steve! How you doing? 21:03.399 --> 21:06.880 All right! 21:06.960 --> 21:09.840 -So, Steve, I've been dying to know! -Wow. 21:09.919 --> 21:12.320 [Shorae] My goodness. How did it go? 21:12.399 --> 21:13.480 Oh boy. 21:14.760 --> 21:16.440 Very interesting. 21:16.520 --> 21:19.919 Her name is Sharona, 21:20.000 --> 21:22.600 and she's from Israel. 21:23.280 --> 21:26.159 -Oh wow! -[Steve] Uh… 21:26.240 --> 21:29.520 Quite a lady. Very strong woman. 21:29.600 --> 21:31.679 That's so far, so good. 21:31.760 --> 21:33.360 She's never a dull moment. 21:34.240 --> 21:35.280 Excellent. 21:35.360 --> 21:38.200 She's definitely out of the norm. 21:38.960 --> 21:40.240 Uh-huh. 21:40.320 --> 21:44.040 Almost like someone from another planet. 21:44.120 --> 21:46.280 -I know it sounds a little bit funny. -Wow. 21:46.360 --> 21:49.640 So, were you, like, immediately… 21:49.720 --> 21:53.880 did you feel, like, a romance or attraction when you met her or… 21:53.960 --> 21:55.720 You know, not in that way. 21:55.800 --> 21:56.640 Okay. 21:57.200 --> 21:59.000 In conversation with her, 21:59.800 --> 22:03.679 I'm feeling amazingly comfortable opening up 22:03.760 --> 22:09.240 and even talking about things that might have a little bit of that vulnerability… 22:09.320 --> 22:10.159 Uh-huh. 22:10.240 --> 22:17.159 …going on, but I'm not overly comfortable… physically with her. 22:17.240 --> 22:20.439 -Overwhelming for you, I think, maybe. -[Steve] Yes. Yes. 22:20.520 --> 22:24.200 She does come on exceedingly strong 22:24.919 --> 22:28.040 and… quite fast. 22:28.120 --> 22:31.360 I just remember her racing toward me. 22:31.439 --> 22:33.960 -And getting excited and-- -[Shorae laughs] 22:34.040 --> 22:35.640 She came and gave you a hug? 22:35.720 --> 22:37.360 -A hug. -Uh-huh. 22:37.439 --> 22:39.880 -A kiss. -[Shorae] Did you… did you hug her back? 22:39.960 --> 22:41.399 I did. I did. 22:41.480 --> 22:45.200 The only thing is I'm not used to it, so I didn't expect it. 22:45.280 --> 22:47.240 -[Shorae] That's okay. Yeah. -Um… 22:47.320 --> 22:49.600 Was it a little over-the-top for you? 22:49.679 --> 22:51.439 To be honest with you, 22:52.960 --> 22:55.200 she's kind of, like, all over me. 22:55.720 --> 22:57.600 Did it turn you off a little? 22:59.560 --> 23:00.880 -Mm-hmm. -A little bit. 23:00.960 --> 23:03.880 So she was physically attracted to you. 23:03.960 --> 23:10.720 You were emotionally and ideologically attracted to her. 23:10.800 --> 23:12.399 -Yes, thank you. -However, not physically. 23:12.480 --> 23:16.520 -Yes. You're wording it very well, Shorae. -Oh, okay. 23:16.600 --> 23:20.520 Did you communicate to her that you're just not used to all the… 23:21.040 --> 23:22.280 I don't think I did. 23:22.360 --> 23:24.760 -…physical closeness? -I don't think I did say that. 23:24.840 --> 23:26.480 But you have to feel comfortable. 23:26.560 --> 23:30.200 I do, and I really appreciate you saying what you're saying. 23:30.280 --> 23:31.120 [Shorae] Yeah. 23:31.200 --> 23:34.159 Now that you've had this successful date… 23:34.240 --> 23:35.080 Yes, yes. 23:35.159 --> 23:38.960 …do you think that you're ready for other dates? 23:39.480 --> 23:40.720 Other ladies? 23:41.240 --> 23:42.200 I think so. 23:42.280 --> 23:46.919 It's a work in progress, you know, dating. And this was a great step. 23:47.000 --> 23:49.399 -Thank you for saying that. -[Shorae] Yeah. Yeah. 23:49.480 --> 23:54.200 [Steve] And you're correct, Shorae. It is a work in progress 23:54.280 --> 23:58.320 because I'm just not used to 23:59.200 --> 24:00.560 doing these things. 24:00.640 --> 24:02.880 Well, sounds like you're doing really well. 24:02.960 --> 24:06.960 And every time you meet someone, it's a step forward, 24:07.560 --> 24:10.880 and that's how you get to know "What is it that I'm really looking for?" 24:10.960 --> 24:14.800 -Yes, that's right. -Well, the romance is coming. 24:14.880 --> 24:16.240 Just gotta give it time. 24:16.320 --> 24:19.880 -Onwards and upwards. Right? -Yes. 24:19.960 --> 24:22.679 -My mother used to say that. -[Shorae chuckles] 24:22.760 --> 24:24.399 [Steve] My goodness. 24:29.760 --> 24:31.919 [regal string music playing] 24:34.960 --> 24:36.760 [exhales sharply] Here we go. 24:37.360 --> 24:39.159 Remember to pick up the check. 24:40.960 --> 24:42.280 Oh. Oh! 24:43.080 --> 24:45.480 Ooh, real candles. 24:48.280 --> 24:50.280 Goodness gracious me. 24:53.600 --> 24:55.600 This place looks expensive. 25:02.240 --> 25:04.399 I suddenly feel underdressed. 25:08.439 --> 25:09.679 -Hello. -[Connor] Hello. 25:09.760 --> 25:12.360 -[Emily] Um… so-- -May I get your seat for you? 25:12.439 --> 25:13.480 Yes, I… 25:14.439 --> 25:18.040 -[Connor] Let me get that for you. -Sorry, I am not used to this at all. 25:18.120 --> 25:22.320 Yeah. To be… well, in all honesty, neither am I. 25:22.399 --> 25:23.399 [Emily] Ah. 25:23.480 --> 25:24.919 -I'm sorry. -[Emily chuckles] 25:25.000 --> 25:25.919 [Connor] Uh… 25:26.679 --> 25:28.399 -Okay? -[Emily] Mm. 25:29.240 --> 25:32.000 -My goodness, this is fancy. -[Connor] Yep. 25:33.840 --> 25:35.679 Yep. [clears throat] 25:36.600 --> 25:41.360 I don't think I've ever seen gold tableware before. Wow! 25:41.439 --> 25:44.640 They really go that extra mile for authenticity. 25:45.439 --> 25:46.280 Yeah. 25:48.800 --> 25:50.320 [Connor] Real candles. 25:50.399 --> 25:54.159 Must be one expensive candelabra. 25:54.240 --> 25:56.720 I… Wouldn't surprise me. 25:58.760 --> 25:59.880 [Emily chuckles] 26:01.120 --> 26:03.800 -I'm a little nervous 'cause I don't know… -Yeah. 26:03.880 --> 26:05.480 [Emily] I… I like rules. 26:05.560 --> 26:08.000 I like following them 'cause I'm, you know, 26:08.080 --> 26:10.600 if I don't, sometimes I'm afraid I'll just 26:12.120 --> 26:13.120 go nuts, you know? 26:13.199 --> 26:17.840 Yeah, um, I feel like rules and… and routines 26:17.919 --> 26:20.080 give my life some structure. 26:20.159 --> 26:21.520 Mm. Yeah, me too. 26:21.600 --> 26:24.080 When those routines get broken, I… 26:24.800 --> 26:27.520 I feel like a boat without a rudder. 26:28.199 --> 26:29.360 It's chaos! 26:30.439 --> 26:31.880 I… I feel the same way. 26:33.000 --> 26:35.040 [gentle instrumental music playing] 26:39.080 --> 26:41.399 [Connor] So, uh… what… 26:41.480 --> 26:44.679 do you prefer cream or sugar in your tea? 26:44.760 --> 26:46.480 Is it possible to get both? 26:47.000 --> 26:48.360 -Yes. -Then let's go with both. 26:48.439 --> 26:51.320 -Alrighty, then. -There's gonna be, like, food too, right? 26:51.399 --> 26:56.800 Uh, I… I think so. Yeah, I think they usually serve canapés. 26:58.000 --> 26:58.960 Cana-what-nows? 26:59.040 --> 27:02.600 Uh, canapés. They're, like, bits of salmon and capers 27:02.679 --> 27:05.280 that you put on bread or crackers. 27:05.360 --> 27:06.360 Oh! 27:06.439 --> 27:08.880 It's supposed to give you an appetite like a horse. 27:09.880 --> 27:13.399 That's not gonna be a problem. I already have an appetite like a horse. 27:13.480 --> 27:14.320 [Connor] Yeah. 27:16.640 --> 27:20.520 But anyway, uh… it's nice to see you again. 27:20.600 --> 27:23.840 Good to see you again too. Thank you for inviting me out here. 27:24.360 --> 27:26.080 I actually… 27:27.600 --> 27:29.960 Since the speed dating event, I've been… 27:31.480 --> 27:35.760 And I hope this doesn't sound too forward or anything, 27:35.840 --> 27:39.520 but I thought about you, well, a while, 27:39.600 --> 27:42.840 and like I may have said… I've said over the phone, 27:43.919 --> 27:45.439 I listed you-- 27:45.520 --> 27:47.360 As a no, right? 27:47.439 --> 27:49.280 Yeah, but I've come to realize 27:49.360 --> 27:52.360 perhaps I was hasty in my decision. 27:53.679 --> 27:55.480 -No, I… -[Connor] Yeah. 27:56.640 --> 27:59.679 I'm not gonna hold that against you. I totally get it. 28:00.760 --> 28:01.640 Thanks. 28:02.280 --> 28:03.520 [Emily] It's overwhelming. 28:03.600 --> 28:07.120 Like, it was my first-ever speed dating and.. 28:07.960 --> 28:08.800 Really? 28:08.880 --> 28:13.120 Yeah. It's gonna be a little chaotic. It's gonna be a little overwhelming. 28:13.199 --> 28:15.800 And if I can be honest, 28:16.520 --> 28:19.120 it got so overwhelming I… [chuckles] 28:19.199 --> 28:22.360 …had to step outside just to catch my breath. 28:22.439 --> 28:23.320 Mm-hmm. 28:26.760 --> 28:32.120 So, anyway, is, uh, this your first time in an English tea house? 28:32.199 --> 28:37.760 Yeah, my first time ever doing anything even remotely high tea. 28:37.840 --> 28:41.880 I've actually been taking Japanese lessons for, like, ten years now, 28:41.959 --> 28:45.720 and I did study abroad in Japan once, 28:45.800 --> 28:49.720 and my sensei would always make us, like, tea. 28:50.439 --> 28:53.360 I admit, my fascination with Japan 28:53.439 --> 28:56.000 just started out of typical anime. 28:56.520 --> 28:57.520 [Connor yawns] 28:57.600 --> 28:59.159 [pensive music playing] 29:10.679 --> 29:12.760 [whimsical music playing] 29:14.240 --> 29:15.879 [Talia] Can I pull out your chair for you? 29:15.959 --> 29:17.120 [Journey] Yes, you can. 29:17.199 --> 29:19.439 Thank you. That is so nice. 29:24.080 --> 29:27.800 Thank you for pulling out my chair, because I looked up a lot of advice 29:27.879 --> 29:29.760 on, like, dating, like, two girls 29:29.840 --> 29:32.800 'cause I know it's very common practice in straight relationships 29:32.879 --> 29:34.439 for the guy to pull out the chair. 29:34.520 --> 29:37.320 I'm, like, a big rule person, and I'm like, 29:37.399 --> 29:40.040 how does that work? Are we supposed to pull out chairs? 29:40.120 --> 29:42.800 Are we just supposed to sit down? Or, like, I don't know. 29:42.879 --> 29:46.000 I mean, I guess when it does come to, like, queer relationships, 29:46.080 --> 29:48.800 like, gender roles don't really exist anymore 29:48.879 --> 29:51.959 'cause it's just, like, kind of just in my person 29:52.040 --> 29:54.600 to just wanna nurture, so… 29:54.679 --> 29:55.879 [Journey] That's nice. 29:55.959 --> 29:57.959 In terms of, if you're comfortable sharing, 29:58.040 --> 30:01.959 like, in terms of sexuality, are you bi? Or are you lesbian or pan? 30:02.040 --> 30:03.720 -Or… -Yeah, I identify as bisexual. 30:03.800 --> 30:05.919 It's like I always kinda liked girls, 30:06.000 --> 30:10.040 and then maybe around, like, high school, I had, like, a really big crush on a guy, 30:10.120 --> 30:12.280 and I was like, "Okay, I guess I like guys." 30:12.360 --> 30:13.560 -Yeah. -[chuckles] 30:13.639 --> 30:14.800 -It happens. -Yeah. 30:14.879 --> 30:16.959 -It happens. -The exception to the rule. 30:17.040 --> 30:18.800 What would you say is your sexuality? 30:18.879 --> 30:22.520 I'm definitely lesbian. I'm not, like, interested in… men. 30:22.600 --> 30:24.679 I've never really been. I'm just kind of-- 30:24.760 --> 30:26.959 -You're not missing much. -[both giggle] 30:27.040 --> 30:28.520 I, like, never… I don't know. 30:28.600 --> 30:32.280 People are nice regardless of gender, but, like, dating, no. 30:32.360 --> 30:33.760 [server] Pardon my interruption. 30:33.840 --> 30:35.320 -The affogato. -[Journey] Thank you. 30:35.399 --> 30:38.120 -[server] And jasmine blossom tea. -Wait, there's a cookie too? 30:38.199 --> 30:40.639 -There's a flower marinating. -[server] There's a cookie too. 30:40.720 --> 30:43.840 Thank you. Ooh, wait. I'm eating this. Sorry, you have to wait. 30:43.919 --> 30:45.639 [Talia] No, that's okay. 30:45.720 --> 30:49.439 There's so much pressure in the world that like, "Oh, like, I have to come out." 30:49.520 --> 30:52.639 But it's like… and I think we live in a heteronormative society 30:52.720 --> 30:55.760 where it's just, like, we put the pressure on queer people 30:55.840 --> 30:57.639 to make a spectacle of their sexuality. 30:57.720 --> 31:00.879 Yeah, that's how I feel. Straight people don't have to come out. 31:00.959 --> 31:03.600 They don't. Like, I mean, we should start making them. 31:03.679 --> 31:07.480 -I was… I told my mom! -Like, "Declare your sexuality publicly!" 31:07.560 --> 31:11.439 I just feel like you shouldn't assume anybody's sexuality, like, in any way. 31:11.520 --> 31:12.639 There's no reason to come out 31:12.720 --> 31:14.720 if you're not assuming anything of anybody. 31:14.800 --> 31:17.840 Exactly. And just let people be who they are. 31:18.560 --> 31:22.720 A lot of my friends experienced, like, people flirting with them on the street? 31:22.800 --> 31:25.199 Makes me feel like, was there something wrong with me? 31:25.280 --> 31:26.879 Why are people not coming up to me? 31:26.959 --> 31:28.959 I definitely don't think it's a "you" thing. 31:29.040 --> 31:32.040 -Personally, I find you very attractive. -Oh, thank you. 31:33.280 --> 31:36.040 So, what are you looking for in a relationship? 31:36.120 --> 31:38.760 Are you looking for something, like, long-term, short-term? 31:38.840 --> 31:41.399 More long-term than short-term, I would say. 31:41.959 --> 31:43.120 And what about you? 31:43.800 --> 31:45.800 Um, I feel like definitely long-term. 31:45.879 --> 31:47.959 I mean, that's kinda how I was, like, raised. 31:48.040 --> 31:50.719 Anybody who I can't see, like, having a future with 31:50.800 --> 31:53.240 is really not meant pursuing. 31:53.320 --> 31:56.320 I mean, how would you describe your, like, ideal partner? 31:56.399 --> 31:58.159 A go-with-the-flow kind of person 31:58.240 --> 32:01.719 who, like, just lets things happen. That sort of stuff, definitely. 32:01.800 --> 32:02.760 And for you? 32:04.399 --> 32:08.520 Someone I can vibe with, someone who I feel like my genuine self with, 32:08.600 --> 32:11.080 and kinda has, like, a sense of humor. 32:11.159 --> 32:12.480 I love making jokes. 32:12.560 --> 32:16.719 I mean, my humor is super dry, so plenty of people don't find me funny, 32:16.800 --> 32:18.280 but, like-- 32:18.360 --> 32:19.719 I think you're funny. 32:19.800 --> 32:23.439 That means actually the world to me. Like, the best compliment. 32:23.520 --> 32:26.760 I don't wanna be in a relationship where I'm never laughing. That sucks. 32:26.840 --> 32:28.719 -[Talia] I know, exactly. -What's the point? 32:28.800 --> 32:30.360 Like, that's so important to me. 32:30.439 --> 32:32.760 So, should we head off? 32:32.840 --> 32:34.840 Yeah, of course. Sounds great. 32:37.240 --> 32:38.320 Let's go. 32:39.000 --> 32:40.879 -Heavy door. -Oh, it is heavy. 32:41.480 --> 32:43.919 Thank you for going on this date. This was really fun. 32:44.000 --> 32:46.919 -I had a really good time. -I had a great time meeting you too. 32:47.000 --> 32:48.639 -So I'd like-- -A pleasure. 32:48.719 --> 32:52.600 Yeah, I'd like to go on a second date, maybe. 32:52.679 --> 32:54.560 Yeah, I would love to go on a second date. 32:54.639 --> 32:56.879 Okay, sounds good. Can I hug you? 32:56.959 --> 32:58.600 Of course. You're amazing. 32:58.679 --> 33:00.840 -Let's go. [giggles] -Let's go. 33:04.919 --> 33:05.879 [Journey] Very fun. 33:12.679 --> 33:13.520 [yawning] 33:15.639 --> 33:16.719 Oh, sorry. 33:16.800 --> 33:18.600 Just real quick, Emily, if… 33:19.399 --> 33:22.679 you probably noticed me yawning a couple times, 33:22.760 --> 33:25.360 but don't feel offended. 33:25.439 --> 33:26.879 It's not you. I… 33:26.959 --> 33:29.840 It's kind of a nervous tic with me. 33:29.919 --> 33:32.320 Yeah, I yawn when I get nervous. 33:35.320 --> 33:36.240 Yeah. 33:36.320 --> 33:39.199 Sorry, it's the same… same as you, yawning anxiety. Um… 33:39.280 --> 33:41.679 It's… it's infectious. [chuckles] 33:42.199 --> 33:43.919 -I… I totally get it. -Yeah… 33:47.159 --> 33:49.159 [server 1] Who had our English breakfast today? 33:49.240 --> 33:50.439 Uh, that would be me. 33:50.520 --> 33:54.000 [server 2] And there is your beautiful afternoon tower. Enjoy. 33:54.080 --> 33:56.040 -[Emily] Thank you. Thank you. -[Connor] Mm. 33:56.120 --> 33:57.360 Smells good! 33:57.439 --> 33:59.760 [inhales deeply] Yes, it does. 34:00.280 --> 34:02.800 -[Emily] Ladies first. -[Connor] It is only proper. 34:03.600 --> 34:04.600 Thank you. 34:10.520 --> 34:13.159 So, shall we? 34:13.839 --> 34:14.839 -Cheers. -Cheers. 34:19.520 --> 34:21.319 Might I offer you a sandwich? 34:21.400 --> 34:23.440 [Emily] Oh, absolutely. Um, I'll take salmon. 34:27.000 --> 34:29.239 Emily, are there any 34:30.560 --> 34:34.319 movies and TV… or TV shows you're into? 34:34.400 --> 34:37.440 Like, what kind of genre are you into? 34:37.520 --> 34:41.560 I'll be honest. I'm a very action-adventure kind of person. 34:41.639 --> 34:44.719 Like, I like the Transformers movies. 34:44.799 --> 34:46.839 Oh yes, I love those. 34:47.360 --> 34:51.360 I actually have a poster of the first Transformers movie 34:51.440 --> 34:53.199 in my… bedroom. 34:53.280 --> 34:54.440 Oh cool. 34:54.520 --> 34:57.560 [Emily] You know, I actually, um, collect Transformers. 34:59.319 --> 35:02.360 One of them actually kinda became a collector's item 35:02.440 --> 35:05.720 after I brought it to, um… Dragon Con. 35:05.799 --> 35:07.440 -Really? -[Emily] Yeah. 35:07.520 --> 35:10.400 It's like… it was a Beast Hunters, uh, Shockwave. 35:10.480 --> 35:14.400 And the guy who voices Shockwave was there, actually, and… 35:14.480 --> 35:16.200 Yes, I know Shockwave. 35:16.280 --> 35:17.720 [Emily] Yeah. And I… 35:18.319 --> 35:20.640 -One of the big boys. -[Emily] Yeah. 35:21.280 --> 35:22.960 [sweet classical music playing] 35:30.480 --> 35:32.040 Might I offer you a scone? 35:32.120 --> 35:34.280 Oh, sure. I was actually thinking about getting one. 35:34.360 --> 35:38.440 I've never actually had a scone. We'll see what happens, I guess. 35:46.160 --> 35:48.680 So, do you like dogs, Emily? 35:48.760 --> 35:50.280 Um, I do like dogs. 35:51.160 --> 35:53.160 I have three at home. 35:53.839 --> 35:54.680 Really? 35:54.760 --> 35:57.360 [Connor] A German shepherd. His name is Axel. 35:57.440 --> 35:59.000 A shih tzu. His name is Chewie. 35:59.080 --> 36:01.720 And a Pomeranian, 36:01.799 --> 36:03.319 and her name is Coco. 36:03.400 --> 36:07.120 You know what? That is actually an insane coincidence 36:07.200 --> 36:09.799 'cause I have a shih tzu named Ben. 36:10.400 --> 36:11.319 Oh. 36:11.400 --> 36:12.960 Like Ben Kenobi. 36:13.720 --> 36:14.920 -Ben Kenobi? -[Emily] Yeah. 36:15.000 --> 36:16.760 -Like Obi-Wan? -[Emily] Exactly! 36:16.839 --> 36:20.200 And ours is named Chewie after Chewbacca. 36:20.280 --> 36:21.280 Exactly! 36:21.360 --> 36:23.680 -Wow! -That's fascinating. 36:26.880 --> 36:27.720 Well… 36:30.960 --> 36:31.799 [mutters] 36:32.520 --> 36:34.480 Would you like to go for a walk, Emily? 36:34.560 --> 36:35.440 Oh, sure. 36:36.040 --> 36:37.600 [Connor] Sure. [clears throat] 36:39.640 --> 36:40.560 This way. 36:42.960 --> 36:44.720 [Cian] So, what do you think about Emily? 36:44.799 --> 36:45.880 I think she's a… 36:48.000 --> 36:49.680 she's a nice girl. 36:49.760 --> 36:53.480 We have a lot in common, and, if I'm being honest, I… 36:54.760 --> 36:56.280 think she's pretty attractive. 36:56.920 --> 36:57.760 [camera clicks] 36:57.839 --> 37:01.839 She knows a lot about Transformers, 37:01.920 --> 37:05.839 and we both have shih tzus named after Star Wars characters. 37:06.440 --> 37:07.839 Crazy coincidence. 37:08.400 --> 37:10.280 [Cian] Think you'd like to see her again? 37:10.359 --> 37:11.680 I think I would. 37:12.720 --> 37:14.680 [Emily] I like the smell of the water. 37:15.400 --> 37:17.680 Chlorinated. That's weird, I know, but.. 37:17.760 --> 37:19.720 Yeah, kinda weird. 37:21.319 --> 37:22.359 [Emily yelps] 37:22.839 --> 37:26.280 Oh, these are my good Air Force 1's too. 37:26.359 --> 37:28.160 [gentle instrumental music playing] 37:30.680 --> 37:33.120 [Emily] This is a really nice-looking statue. 37:33.200 --> 37:34.200 [Connor] Sure is. 37:35.000 --> 37:37.560 I… Emily, I've been thinking. Have, uh… 37:38.799 --> 37:39.920 well, um, 37:40.680 --> 37:42.520 I… I gotta say, you… 37:43.880 --> 37:46.440 you seem like a smart person, Emily. 37:46.520 --> 37:47.839 Yeah, you do too. 37:47.920 --> 37:49.319 Thanks. And 37:50.480 --> 37:51.799 you're pretty nice. 37:52.480 --> 37:54.280 -If I'm being honest. -Thanks. 37:54.799 --> 37:56.319 Anyway, uh, 37:56.960 --> 37:57.799 well, 37:58.839 --> 38:01.160 this has been a… a nice day. 38:01.240 --> 38:04.280 It has. I had a great time. Thank you for inviting me out. 38:04.880 --> 38:05.799 All right. 38:07.280 --> 38:08.120 Um… 38:09.120 --> 38:12.200 would you wanna ever meet up again or… 38:12.280 --> 38:14.160 -Oh yeah, I'd love that. -Yeah! 38:15.240 --> 38:17.280 Um, well… 38:18.120 --> 38:19.600 can I shake your hand? 38:19.680 --> 38:20.760 Oh, absolutely. 38:20.839 --> 38:22.120 Or hug or whatever? 38:22.640 --> 38:23.480 We could… 38:24.319 --> 38:25.520 -Okay. -I prefer a shake. 38:25.600 --> 38:27.319 Wow, you have a very strong hand grip. 38:27.400 --> 38:29.480 -Yeah. -Sorry, my hands are cold. 38:29.560 --> 38:31.080 -I get cold easy. -It's all right. 38:31.160 --> 38:33.520 -I actually don't mind the cold. -All right. 38:34.040 --> 38:35.000 Okay. 38:35.080 --> 38:36.440 Oh, all right, then. 38:36.520 --> 38:38.960 -Guess I'll see you around, then. -Bye. 38:48.960 --> 38:50.400 [Dani] "Tickle his pickle." 38:51.799 --> 38:52.799 "Hot sex." 38:53.280 --> 38:54.640 "Striptease fantasies." 38:55.400 --> 38:57.080 "Tips and tricks and licks." 38:57.680 --> 38:59.960 "Dressing-up fantasies. Skin teasing." 39:00.480 --> 39:02.280 Erotica and pornography. 39:03.799 --> 39:05.200 It's just research. 39:05.280 --> 39:07.319 [Cian] So, date with Adan today. 39:07.400 --> 39:09.520 -That's right. -[Cian] What are you hoping for? 39:09.600 --> 39:11.400 If he's okay with, um… 39:12.160 --> 39:17.240 Best-case scenario is he might be okay with a belief in sex before marriage. 39:17.319 --> 39:20.120 [Cian] If he's not into sex, then what does that mean? 39:20.200 --> 39:23.440 Well, I guess… I guess we'll stay friends, then. 39:30.720 --> 39:31.760 All set. 39:31.839 --> 39:32.920 Wait. 39:33.000 --> 39:35.839 Sandy, should I just bring my sex books? 39:35.920 --> 39:36.880 [Sandy chuckles] Uh… 39:36.960 --> 39:40.880 I think you might really scare Adan if you show up with sex books! 39:41.400 --> 39:42.520 [Dani chuckles] 39:42.600 --> 39:44.280 -[Sandy] Looking forward to it? -[Dani] Yes. 39:44.359 --> 39:46.040 It's really great to see Adan again 39:46.120 --> 39:50.560 and especially get to… get to dive deeper underneath his iceberg. 39:50.640 --> 39:51.880 His iceberg? 39:51.960 --> 39:54.400 In everyone's head, there is the iceberg. 39:54.480 --> 39:57.080 People only sees what's on the surface. 39:57.160 --> 40:00.720 I think if I go down to the abyss, then eventually I'll find out. 40:00.799 --> 40:02.560 Be respectful with him. 40:02.640 --> 40:03.920 We'll see. 40:04.000 --> 40:06.520 I'll make sure to talk about the subjects about… 40:06.600 --> 40:09.200 first about how is his day going, about his family. 40:09.280 --> 40:11.240 And then, most importantly, 40:11.319 --> 40:13.960 does he believe in sex before marriage? 40:14.040 --> 40:15.720 Okay. All right. 40:15.799 --> 40:17.600 -You have a good time. -Thank you. 40:19.040 --> 40:20.520 -Enjoy yourself. -Thank you. 40:20.600 --> 40:21.839 [Patrick] Bye. Have a good time. 40:22.520 --> 40:23.440 -[Dani] Bye. -Love you. 40:25.200 --> 40:27.080 -Bye. -[Dani] Bye, Xena. 40:28.680 --> 40:29.520 [Dani chuckles] 40:30.160 --> 40:31.600 [whimsical music playing] 40:45.480 --> 40:46.520 Hi, Adan. 40:47.480 --> 40:49.560 -Dani. Good to-- -Good seeing you again. 40:49.640 --> 40:51.120 -Good to see you too. -[chuckling] 40:51.200 --> 40:52.960 -So, uh-- -How's it going? 40:53.040 --> 40:55.760 It's going good. I just finished the second exam, 40:55.839 --> 40:57.160 just awaiting the results. 40:57.240 --> 40:58.440 -But now-- -Oh yes! 40:58.520 --> 41:02.080 And how was all that… I notice that you've been sketching a lot. 41:02.160 --> 41:05.160 I have been, yeah. I just finished a second sketchbook, 41:05.240 --> 41:07.040 and I'm just working on this one. And-- 41:07.120 --> 41:08.120 Oh, that's nice. 41:08.200 --> 41:10.160 Oh yeah, this one is a gridded sketchbook. 41:10.240 --> 41:13.080 Yeah, I was just practicing some sketches. 41:13.160 --> 41:15.960 I drew some sketches freehand before you got here. 41:16.040 --> 41:17.200 Just a small exercise, 41:17.280 --> 41:20.600 how often I can draw the same shape and symmetry and-- 41:20.680 --> 41:21.600 [Dani] Repetition. 41:21.680 --> 41:23.680 -Mm-hmm. -[Dani] You're getting it, Adan. 41:23.760 --> 41:25.799 [Adan] Yep. Appreciate that. Yeah. 41:25.880 --> 41:28.760 'Cause it's also one of the most important art principles. 41:28.839 --> 41:32.319 Exactly. Especially when designing something from the front, side, and back, 41:32.400 --> 41:35.600 whether it's a prop, a character, a piece of clothing, 41:35.680 --> 41:38.600 that's always critical. It's always important and crucial. 41:40.240 --> 41:41.600 [whimsical music continues] 41:45.319 --> 41:46.560 -[Dani] Thank you. -Thank you. 41:46.640 --> 41:49.080 This looks so gorgeous, these, um, drinks. 41:49.160 --> 41:50.120 Yeah. 41:52.040 --> 41:52.880 Nice. 41:52.960 --> 41:54.080 Ah! 41:56.359 --> 41:58.560 This semester, I'm taking a jewelry class. 41:58.640 --> 41:59.640 Oh, that's so cool! 41:59.720 --> 42:03.560 Yeah, and, um, over the spring break, I was working on an aluminum brooch. 42:03.640 --> 42:06.240 I can't wait to see some of your, um, creations. 42:06.319 --> 42:07.359 Yeah. 42:08.960 --> 42:09.920 [Dani] Mm-hmm. 42:10.799 --> 42:12.080 That's good, yeah. 42:14.520 --> 42:16.000 -Yeah. -Mm. 42:20.160 --> 42:22.799 You seemed to enjoy that delicious drink. 42:23.560 --> 42:24.600 [Dani chuckles] 42:24.680 --> 42:26.120 [Adan] Enjoy, yeah, I did. 42:26.760 --> 42:29.920 You know, before I got here, before seeing you today, I felt excited. 42:30.000 --> 42:33.640 I felt a little nervous. I mean, I just felt excited seeing you again. 42:34.560 --> 42:36.920 I felt so excited seeing you too, Adan. 42:39.640 --> 42:41.359 -That's great. -Oh yes. 42:41.440 --> 42:42.280 Yep. 42:46.000 --> 42:48.480 You weren't kidding. I did finish that thing fast. 42:49.880 --> 42:50.720 [Dani] Mm-hmm. 42:51.560 --> 42:52.400 [Adan] Mm-hmm. 42:53.400 --> 42:54.280 Ah. 42:55.200 --> 42:57.080 -Yep. -Hmm. 42:58.520 --> 42:59.359 Yeah. 43:00.319 --> 43:01.160 Yeah. 43:04.600 --> 43:05.440 Yeah. 43:09.040 --> 43:10.319 -Mm-hmm. -[Dani] Mm-hmm. 43:14.680 --> 43:16.640 -Okay-- -We could, like… Yeah. 43:16.720 --> 43:18.920 -So, what were you gonna say? -Well… 43:19.920 --> 43:20.760 [Adan] Yeah. 43:21.560 --> 43:22.440 [Dani] Um… 43:23.520 --> 43:26.440 -There's one question I would like to ask. -Shoot. 43:26.520 --> 43:28.200 [Dani] So, uh… [clears throat] 43:28.280 --> 43:30.960 …so, Adan, what're you looking forward to in a relationship? 43:32.400 --> 43:35.120 Maybe, like, a mature, adult relationship? 43:35.200 --> 43:36.200 Long-term? 43:39.200 --> 43:41.879 Yeah. That's what I'm definitely looking for, 43:41.960 --> 43:43.640 for a mature relationship. 43:43.720 --> 43:47.440 Oh! 'Cause I've always wanted a mature relationship for so long. 43:47.520 --> 43:49.520 You know, like, explore, 43:49.600 --> 43:53.000 you know, like, explore deeper part of the intimacy side. 43:53.600 --> 43:54.440 [Adan] Mm. 43:54.960 --> 43:55.960 Gotcha. 43:58.520 --> 43:59.440 Okay. 44:00.640 --> 44:01.480 I see. 44:02.000 --> 44:05.240 So, um, do you believe in sex before marriage? 44:06.920 --> 44:07.920 Oh! 44:09.000 --> 44:10.799 [suspenseful music playing] x before marriage?