WEBVTT 00:11.639 --> 00:13.920 [jaunty music playing] 00:14.000 --> 00:15.319 Here's your mallet, ma'am. 00:15.399 --> 00:19.080 Ooh, thank you. I dub thee Connor the Almighty. 00:19.160 --> 00:20.720 -[chuckles]Thank you. -[giggles] 00:22.720 --> 00:24.720 Okay, all right. You first. 00:24.799 --> 00:26.200 -Will we start here? -Yeah. 00:27.880 --> 00:29.000 -Oh. -[Georgie chuckles] 00:29.080 --> 00:30.720 [Connor] Almost. Here. 00:33.760 --> 00:35.680 It's all about momentum. 00:37.800 --> 00:40.239 -[Georgie] Hey! -Okay. Here we go. 00:41.440 --> 00:42.440 Whoa. 00:45.760 --> 00:48.440 -Ooh. -[Georgie giggles] 00:48.520 --> 00:49.520 -How about… -Maybe… 00:49.599 --> 00:51.640 -Maybe we could go together. Yeah? -Okay. 00:52.160 --> 00:54.199 -Like this? -No. Here. 00:54.279 --> 00:56.120 -Let me… Do you mind if I… -Go ahead. 00:56.199 --> 00:58.400 -Uh, get a bit lower. -Lower? Like this? 00:58.480 --> 01:02.360 Yeah, like that. Like that. Just like that. Just swing back and… 01:03.440 --> 01:04.480 -[giggles] -Oh. 01:04.560 --> 01:06.679 -Almost. -Close. You wanna try again? 01:06.759 --> 01:08.440 [soft, romantic music playing] 01:09.080 --> 01:12.280 Uh, swordsman's hands. I know they're a bit rough. 01:13.920 --> 01:15.360 -Oh! -There you go! 01:15.440 --> 01:17.399 And it bumped that, but then it went in… 01:17.479 --> 01:19.800 Yeah, I guess that still counts. That… Well done. 01:19.880 --> 01:21.800 -Thank you. -Yeah. That was nice. 01:25.080 --> 01:26.560 We should pack this up. 01:26.640 --> 01:31.520 I wish it could stay sunny longer so we could play more. 01:31.600 --> 01:32.800 Yeah. 01:33.680 --> 01:36.440 But I guess all days have to end at some point. 01:37.240 --> 01:38.479 Nicely worded. 01:39.199 --> 01:40.560 -[giggles] -Shakespeare? 01:40.640 --> 01:43.080 Uh… nope. Just Georgie. 01:43.160 --> 01:45.399 [both chuckle] 01:45.479 --> 01:47.160 [Connor] I can do quotes too. 01:48.680 --> 01:52.559 -"Tell Auntie Em to let Old Yeller out." -[giggles] 01:52.640 --> 01:56.679 "Tell Tiny Tim I won't be home this… be coming home this Christmas." 01:56.759 --> 02:00.160 "Tell Scarlett I do give a damn." 02:00.240 --> 02:02.119 [Georgie] Oh my God! [giggles] 02:02.199 --> 02:04.800 -You're funny. I like that. -[chuckles] Yeah. 02:04.880 --> 02:07.800 Yeah. Everyone in my family says that about me. 02:09.320 --> 02:13.080 So, uh… I had a great time today, Georgie. 02:13.160 --> 02:14.200 [Georgie] I did too. 02:14.760 --> 02:18.440 I mean, we learned a lot about each other. We both like The Dragon Prince. 02:18.519 --> 02:21.519 -We both have a taste in the old world. -[giggles] 02:21.600 --> 02:25.440 [Connor] Old… We… we both enjoy croquet. 02:25.519 --> 02:26.560 That was fun. 02:26.640 --> 02:29.720 And… and we both love watching the ducks. 02:29.799 --> 02:34.239 I liked the way how you laughed at my jokes. 02:34.320 --> 02:37.959 -Well, I do enjoy a good laugh. -[chuckles] 02:38.040 --> 02:39.280 I'm glad. 02:40.680 --> 02:42.280 So I was wondering… 02:44.480 --> 02:46.360 could I maybe see you again sometime? 02:47.760 --> 02:48.959 I would love that. 02:49.040 --> 02:50.280 -Really? -Mm-hmm. 02:50.360 --> 02:51.920 That's great! 02:52.000 --> 02:56.200 Well, would you want… you want a hug? 02:56.280 --> 02:57.320 Sounds good. 02:59.080 --> 03:01.080 -I will see you later. -Yeah. 03:01.160 --> 03:03.239 -I had fun. [chuckles] -Yeah, me too. 03:03.760 --> 03:04.760 -All right. -Bye. 03:04.840 --> 03:05.679 Bye. 03:14.040 --> 03:16.600 -[Cian] How do you think that went? -[sighs] 03:17.160 --> 03:19.360 I feel that went well, Cian. I… 03:20.200 --> 03:23.440 Only time will tell if it's really meant to be. 03:25.360 --> 03:26.679 Happy as a clam. 03:27.920 --> 03:30.840 Cian, don't tell my mom, but… 03:33.200 --> 03:34.280 I like her. 03:35.200 --> 03:36.519 I really like her. 03:36.600 --> 03:39.880 Just before I walk away, what if, say, 03:39.959 --> 03:43.920 the song "Cat's in the Cradle" came on, 03:44.000 --> 03:50.040 like it was… memorializing a big stepping stone in my life, 03:50.119 --> 03:52.679 like… Something like that. 03:52.760 --> 03:54.280 ["Cat's in the Cradle" playing] 03:54.359 --> 03:57.600 ♪ The cat's in the cradle And the silver spoon ♪ 03:57.679 --> 04:00.320 ♪ Little boy blue And the man in the moon ♪ 04:04.959 --> 04:06.760 [jaunty music playing] 04:10.600 --> 04:14.679 [narrator] In Clemson, Tanner is getting ready to step out on a date. 04:15.880 --> 04:18.120 Yeah, it says four minutes. Okay. 04:18.200 --> 04:20.560 [beeping] 04:23.080 --> 04:24.599 Making chicken strips. 04:26.760 --> 04:27.960 [beeping] 04:28.039 --> 04:29.240 Oh, my food's ready. 04:30.560 --> 04:32.599 Put cheese on here. 04:35.320 --> 04:36.479 -Hey, buddy. -Hi, Frankie. 04:36.560 --> 04:38.560 -What's up? -[Tanner] Not much. Not much. 04:38.640 --> 04:41.320 -I'm making cheesy chicken tenders. -Yummy. 04:45.000 --> 04:48.520 -What are you doing today? -Staying here to eat chicken and cheese. 04:48.599 --> 04:50.160 That looks good. 04:50.240 --> 04:51.760 I know it looks good. 04:51.840 --> 04:53.400 And guess what I'm doing today? 04:53.479 --> 04:56.320 I'm going on a date with another girl today. 04:56.400 --> 04:58.880 -That's cool. -Yeah, we're going to a goat farm. 04:58.960 --> 05:00.560 What's her name? 05:00.640 --> 05:02.880 I don't know… I don't know her name yet. 05:03.599 --> 05:05.960 -Well, you have to figure that out. -Yeah. 05:06.039 --> 05:07.880 Well, this is… this is a blind date. 05:07.960 --> 05:09.520 Blind date, cool. 05:10.360 --> 05:12.919 Yeah, I'm excited, too, 'cause I love goats. 05:13.000 --> 05:14.240 I like goats. 05:14.760 --> 05:15.599 Baa! 05:18.919 --> 05:19.760 Wow. 05:20.680 --> 05:21.640 Tastes good. 05:22.160 --> 05:25.280 I'm really, really happy for you to have a date. 05:25.360 --> 05:26.440 Thank you. Thank you. 05:26.520 --> 05:28.200 -We're best brothers. -Yeah. 05:28.280 --> 05:29.479 [knocking on door] 05:30.599 --> 05:31.599 -Hi, Midge! -Hey, guys. 05:31.680 --> 05:33.160 -Hey, Midge! -Hey. 05:33.240 --> 05:35.200 [Midge] You look handsome for your date. 05:35.280 --> 05:37.560 -Are you excited? -Yeah. I'm so excited, Midge. 05:37.640 --> 05:39.400 -You look handsome. -You look beautiful. 05:39.479 --> 05:41.840 -Look at your face. -Yeah. My face feels good, doesn't it? 05:41.919 --> 05:44.560 -Did you shave it this morning? -The other morning, I did. 05:44.640 --> 05:45.479 It looks good. 05:45.560 --> 05:47.400 -Thank you. -You didn't shave your face? 05:47.479 --> 05:49.479 -[Frankie] No. -You got your lunch ready? 05:49.560 --> 05:50.440 Yeah. 05:50.520 --> 05:52.840 Are you giving Tank some advice for his date? 05:52.919 --> 05:54.359 No, he's kind of cool. 05:54.440 --> 05:55.599 -Kind of cool? -[Frankie] Yeah. 05:55.680 --> 05:58.400 -I think you look cool in your outfit. -[Tanner] I think so too. 05:58.479 --> 06:01.359 -Know where you're going? -Yeah, we're going to a goat farm. 06:01.440 --> 06:03.599 To a goat farm. Oh my gosh, you'll love that. 06:03.680 --> 06:06.840 Yeah, I would love that. Yeah, I'm sure we'll get to feed them. Yeah. 06:06.919 --> 06:09.599 I bet y'all will have a lot of time to walk around and talk, 06:09.680 --> 06:11.479 and you can ask her all your questions. 06:11.560 --> 06:13.280 What are you curious to know about her? 06:13.359 --> 06:16.680 About what she likes to do for fun, what she does when she's mad or upset, 06:16.760 --> 06:19.440 if she's a… if she's a student or if she's in college, 06:19.520 --> 06:22.320 if she can drive, and what her home is like back at home, 06:22.400 --> 06:23.760 and what her hobbies are. 06:23.840 --> 06:27.200 Y'all are gonna have a lot to talk about. Remember, she'll have questions for you. 06:27.280 --> 06:28.919 [Tanner] It's good to be curious, yeah. 06:29.000 --> 06:31.200 And whenever she's telling you about her life 06:31.280 --> 06:33.240 and maybe her job or things she's doing, 06:33.320 --> 06:35.520 you can say things like, "That's really interesting," 06:35.599 --> 06:38.400 or, "I really like that." That'll make her feel confident. 06:38.479 --> 06:41.640 -Oh yeah, that will. That will. -Yep. I'm excited. 06:41.720 --> 06:44.599 -I'm excited too. I'm gonna crush. -You're gonna do amazing. 06:44.680 --> 06:47.520 -And you get to go see goats. -And we get to go see goats. 06:47.599 --> 06:49.359 -[Midge] So fun! -Baa! 06:50.840 --> 06:52.960 [whimsical music playing] 06:56.240 --> 06:57.560 [narrator] In Florida, 06:57.640 --> 07:01.000 Madison is about to head out on a date with someone new. 07:01.799 --> 07:03.400 -Morning, Cian. -[Cian] How are you? 07:03.479 --> 07:05.919 -[Madison] Good. How are you doing? -[Cian] Good. 07:06.000 --> 07:09.160 Cian, I… I'm… I'm looking forward to today, 07:09.239 --> 07:12.120 and I'm hoping this guy is a better fit for me. 07:12.640 --> 07:15.479 Last week, my friends and I were all at Isabelle's house, 07:15.560 --> 07:18.320 and we all watched The Bachelorette season premiere. 07:19.039 --> 07:21.680 I have autism, whereas Jenn is completely neurotypical, 07:21.760 --> 07:26.039 and she is choosing 25 suitors to… to fall… to fall in love with, 07:26.120 --> 07:27.919 and she's going on all these dates. 07:28.000 --> 07:30.159 It would be… it would be a lot to date. 07:31.400 --> 07:34.320 It's time for my call with Jennifer Cook right now. 07:40.200 --> 07:43.320 -Hi, Madison! -Hi, Jennifer Cook. How are you doing? 07:43.840 --> 07:45.760 I'm good 'cause I'm talking to you. 07:45.840 --> 07:48.039 I'm so excited to get to catch up with you. 07:48.120 --> 07:51.840 Yeah, so the last date didn't go the way I wanted it to go, unfortunately. 07:51.919 --> 07:55.440 Okay. All right. Yeah, we got a lot to catch up on, huh? 07:55.520 --> 08:00.239 Yes. So… so the guy put his head… put his head on the table. 08:00.320 --> 08:01.359 Okay. 08:01.440 --> 08:03.640 Yeah, the reason why he put his head on the table 08:03.719 --> 08:07.280 was because he was so overstimulated in the restaurant. 08:07.880 --> 08:08.919 Oh, poor guy. 08:09.000 --> 08:12.719 And then he kept having to have his noise-canceling headphones on, and he… 08:12.799 --> 08:15.239 What's sad is he doesn't even like music. 08:16.039 --> 08:19.799 -I kept asking him questions about him. -Uh-huh. Good. 08:19.880 --> 08:22.039 [Madison] Like… like I was supposed to. 08:22.120 --> 08:25.120 He said he had a hard time in school, didn't really have any friends, 08:25.200 --> 08:26.640 didn't have nice teachers. 08:26.719 --> 08:30.440 It was… It's sad that he didn't have what I had growing up. 08:30.520 --> 08:31.960 [Jennifer] I love that perspective. 08:32.039 --> 08:34.559 It's very mature of you. It's very grown of you. 08:34.640 --> 08:36.760 It's very kind of you. I love that. 08:37.559 --> 08:39.799 How did you end it at the end of the date? 08:39.880 --> 08:44.440 I told him that, "I enjoyed spending time with you, 08:44.959 --> 08:47.720 but I don't think I see a romantic connection with you." 08:47.800 --> 08:49.880 "I do wish you the best of luck." 08:49.959 --> 08:51.199 Great! 08:51.280 --> 08:53.360 And I did tell Cian at the end of the date, 08:53.440 --> 08:55.400 like, "There's so many fish in the sea." 08:55.920 --> 08:58.959 That's exactly right. There's so many, right? 08:59.040 --> 09:01.760 Yes, and I do have another date today. 09:01.840 --> 09:03.199 -Oh, you do? -Yes. 09:03.280 --> 09:04.360 Oh my goodness! 09:04.440 --> 09:08.240 Okay. So one of the things that we talked a little bit about 09:08.320 --> 09:11.160 was that it can be tough for you to receive compliments. 09:11.240 --> 09:15.079 That is true. Yeah, like, my love language is gifts. 09:15.160 --> 09:19.560 Okay. So maybe we can almost imagine if you do get a compliment, 09:19.640 --> 09:22.040 that it's like a little present wrapped up in a bow, 09:22.680 --> 09:24.839 and that it's almost like, "Here's a gift!" 09:24.920 --> 09:26.920 Meaning like… think about it for me 09:27.000 --> 09:29.360 almost like getting another American Girl doll. 09:29.440 --> 09:30.720 Exactly like that. 09:30.800 --> 09:33.120 Meaning think about the ones I don't have yet. 09:33.199 --> 09:35.640 I don't have Addy yet. I don't have Josefina yet. 09:35.720 --> 09:37.360 I don't have Lila yet. 09:37.880 --> 09:38.880 Exactly like that. 09:38.959 --> 09:42.959 So if you get a compliment, imagine it's like a box with Addy in it, 09:43.040 --> 09:46.040 and you're stoked because "Woo-hoo, don't have that yet!" 09:46.640 --> 09:50.880 Do you have any more questions about anything that's worrying you for today? 09:50.959 --> 09:55.560 I'm just hoping that… that I can get a second date with him after today. 09:55.640 --> 10:00.160 What might you say to him if you wanna go on a second date? 10:01.480 --> 10:06.199 "I enjoyed spending time with you today. I'd… I'd like to get to know you more." 10:06.800 --> 10:08.079 Yes, very nice. 10:08.160 --> 10:10.360 "I'd like to plan a second date with you." 10:10.440 --> 10:12.800 [Jennifer] I love it. That's it! 10:13.400 --> 10:16.600 Unless you have any other questions, I think you've got this, girl. 10:16.680 --> 10:18.079 I think so. 10:18.160 --> 10:20.560 -Okay? All right, Madison. You take care. -Okay. 10:20.640 --> 10:23.079 -We'll talk again soon, I hope. Okay? -Okay. 10:23.160 --> 10:25.160 -Okay. All right. Bye, sweetheart. -Bye. 10:29.640 --> 10:34.240 I'm gonna grab my current favorite, Belle, and my childhood favorite, Snow White. 10:36.800 --> 10:38.000 I've got everything. 10:38.920 --> 10:40.000 Bye, dollies. 10:44.680 --> 10:47.199 [Cian] How would you describe your ideal partner? 10:47.280 --> 10:50.480 [chuckles] Oh, I'm not sure how much… if we have that much time, 10:50.560 --> 10:52.280 but it'd be nice if she… 10:52.360 --> 10:55.520 She has to at least respect my interests and my hobbies. 10:55.600 --> 10:58.719 Oh, no, she has to be polite and understanding. 10:58.800 --> 11:03.040 It would be very nice if she is patient and is a bit more mellow 11:03.120 --> 11:05.440 'cause I am extremely energetic, 11:05.520 --> 11:08.240 and I do have a tendency to be high-strung. 11:08.320 --> 11:10.680 Unfortunately, I don't like it, but that… 11:10.760 --> 11:14.160 I… At least I can openly admit it, and it is a part of who I am. 11:14.760 --> 11:16.680 I'm… Do we have many more questions? 11:16.760 --> 11:18.160 -[Cian] Oh yeah. -Damn. 11:19.240 --> 11:21.560 [intriguing music playing] 11:22.839 --> 11:24.160 [James] Oh, yes. So, Dad, 11:24.240 --> 11:27.079 it turns out I am not the only person 11:27.160 --> 11:30.600 who dislikes it when people get breadcrumbs in butter. 11:30.680 --> 11:33.600 [chuckles] I made a video about this on Instagram account. 11:33.680 --> 11:36.000 I made a video talking about various pet peeves I have, 11:36.079 --> 11:39.000 and one of my pet peeves was I mentioned that… 11:39.079 --> 11:41.920 I said, "Sometimes my father gets breadcrumbs in butter." 11:42.000 --> 11:44.199 I asked him to be more careful not to, but… 11:44.280 --> 11:46.719 Quite a few people agreed with me, actually, 11:46.800 --> 11:48.880 when I posted that video on Instagram. 11:48.959 --> 11:51.680 Yes, other people think it's pretty gross and inconsiderate 11:51.760 --> 11:53.640 when people get breadcrumbs in butter also. 11:53.719 --> 11:58.000 Breadcrumbs in butter is just like dust on a piece of furniture. 11:58.079 --> 11:59.400 No, it's not the same thing. 11:59.480 --> 12:01.959 You're not going to eat the piece of furniture. 12:02.480 --> 12:06.719 Look, we have to start doing, uh, videos about our pet peeves 12:06.800 --> 12:09.839 with 36-year-old sons who still live with us. 12:09.920 --> 12:11.640 -[June giggles] -[Lawrence] You know? 12:11.719 --> 12:13.000 Talk about pet peeves. 12:13.079 --> 12:16.719 We've had 36 years to hone our pet peeves. 12:17.360 --> 12:18.480 Um… 12:18.560 --> 12:22.560 -So are you excited about your date today? -Yes, of course I am. Why wouldn't I be? 12:22.640 --> 12:26.520 It's obviously way too early to know if she's a potential romantic match, 12:26.600 --> 12:29.440 but… but yes, it'd still be nice to meet someone new. 12:29.520 --> 12:31.480 What is the young lady's name? 12:31.560 --> 12:33.360 -Her name is Sonia. -[June] Pretty name. 12:33.440 --> 12:35.959 It is. It's a very nice name. 12:36.040 --> 12:38.880 So is Sonia the, uh, lady from Instagram? 12:38.959 --> 12:41.240 [James] Oh, she's a woman from Instagram, yes. 12:41.320 --> 12:43.440 We have been conversing on Instagram. 12:43.520 --> 12:45.199 -[June] Nice. -[Lawrence] Seen her picture? 12:45.280 --> 12:47.040 -Yes, Dad. Yes. -[Lawrence] All right. 12:47.120 --> 12:48.199 Can you describe her? 12:48.280 --> 12:50.959 [James] Oh, uh, she has, uh, black hair, 12:51.040 --> 12:54.040 and I can't remember what her eye color is. I'm sorry. 12:54.120 --> 12:57.880 I think she wasn't too bad looking. Yes… um… um… 12:57.959 --> 13:00.400 James, you're supposed to say, "Oh, she's great looking." 13:00.480 --> 13:03.120 -[grunts] Dad-- -[June] I'm sure she's attractive. 13:03.199 --> 13:05.480 [James] I… I don't believe in flattery, okay? 13:05.560 --> 13:07.800 Of course I pay people compliments. 13:07.880 --> 13:11.719 Of course I make… I like… I like to say positive things to people, 13:11.800 --> 13:14.440 but I'm not going to… I'm not going to tell an outright lie. 13:14.520 --> 13:16.160 I'm not comfortable with that. 13:16.240 --> 13:18.719 -No! Flattery is not lies, James. -Hey… 13:18.800 --> 13:22.240 All right, no. Of course… of course I'll say something positive. No-- 13:22.320 --> 13:25.599 -I'm sure she's very attractive. -[James] Yes, yes, of course. 13:26.120 --> 13:27.800 All right. Ooh, it's a bit after… 13:27.880 --> 13:32.120 It's like 1:06 now, so I better be getting ready for my date. 13:36.120 --> 13:38.120 James and his grandfather. 13:38.199 --> 13:40.079 -[June] Barbecuing. -Barbecuing. 13:40.680 --> 13:43.120 James with short hair. 13:43.199 --> 13:45.400 [Cian] Do you think he'll ever have short hair again? 13:45.480 --> 13:47.120 You tried bribing him one time. 13:47.199 --> 13:48.320 [Lawrence] Oh, yeah. 13:48.400 --> 13:51.920 I offered him $500 to cut his hair, and he wouldn't do it. 13:54.400 --> 13:57.719 -[Lawrence] Ta-da! -Ah, yes, that looks good, right? Yes. 13:57.800 --> 13:58.880 Look at that pink. 13:58.959 --> 14:00.199 [James] Oh, yes, yes. 14:00.719 --> 14:03.199 -I'd lose the necklace. -[James] Oh. Oh, okay. 14:03.280 --> 14:05.000 -[June] That looks good. -Thank you. 14:05.079 --> 14:07.199 -[Lawrence] Let's see the flowers. -Yes. Actually, no. 14:07.280 --> 14:09.959 -These are for Mom for Mother's Day. -[June] For me? 14:10.040 --> 14:11.959 -Yeah, because-- -Not for Sonia? 14:12.040 --> 14:16.560 No. Oh, no, because actually, I got another gummy flower bouquet, you see. 14:16.640 --> 14:19.440 -I wasn't going to-- Yes, of course. -These are beautiful. Thank you. 14:19.520 --> 14:22.120 -Happy Mother's Day. Yes. Thank you. -Thank you so much. 14:25.400 --> 14:27.479 Okay, yes, I guess I… I'm leaving now. 14:27.560 --> 14:30.839 -All right, have a good time. -Yes, of course I shall, thank you. 14:30.920 --> 14:31.920 Enjoy yourself. 14:32.000 --> 14:34.199 Oh, definitely. Oh, no, I prefer a handshake. 14:34.280 --> 14:35.560 You know I do. Yes, thank you. 14:35.640 --> 14:38.680 -That's okay. Have fun. -Yes, definitely, thank you very much. 14:38.760 --> 14:40.439 All right, bye. 14:40.520 --> 14:41.680 -Bye. -[James] Yes. Goodbye. 14:43.599 --> 14:45.160 [James groans] 14:46.120 --> 14:48.520 -[bleating] -[whimsical music playing] 14:51.839 --> 14:56.240 [narrator] In South Carolina, Tanner is waiting for his date to arrive. 15:04.520 --> 15:06.520 Tanner is meeting Shyann. 15:07.120 --> 15:11.560 She likes the smell of roses and scared cat videos. 15:11.640 --> 15:12.479 [cat yowls] 15:12.560 --> 15:14.839 She doesn't like blowing bubble gum 15:15.599 --> 15:17.240 or broccoli. 15:21.000 --> 15:23.199 Hi there. I'm Tanner. What's your name? 15:23.280 --> 15:25.120 -Shyann. -Nice to meet you, Shyann. 15:25.199 --> 15:26.400 -Oh, hey, Shyann. -What? 15:26.479 --> 15:28.319 -I got this present for you. -Thank you. 15:28.400 --> 15:31.479 And… and it's, um, it's… it's a girl pig 15:31.560 --> 15:33.560 and… and a boy pig. 15:34.079 --> 15:36.920 -[Shyann] Thank you. -Do you like the girl pig and the boy pig? 15:37.000 --> 15:38.000 -Yeah. -You're welcome. 15:38.079 --> 15:39.479 And they wanna be together. 15:40.959 --> 15:43.560 Hey, I'm glad to be here at the goat farm. Are you happy to be here? 15:43.640 --> 15:45.280 -Yeah. -Me too. Me too. 15:46.280 --> 15:49.240 What's your favorite thing to do? What's your favorite animal? 15:49.319 --> 15:52.199 My favorite animal is a gorilla. What's your favorite animal? 15:52.280 --> 15:53.520 Mine is a horse. 15:53.599 --> 15:56.839 That's a good choice. Hey. Why is your horse your favorite animal? 15:56.920 --> 15:59.719 Because I love to play horses, like, ride them. 15:59.800 --> 16:03.240 And gorillas are my favorite animals because they're animals with hands, 16:03.319 --> 16:06.599 and they look like humans, and they have… they look similar to us. 16:06.680 --> 16:09.719 So it's cool how they look similar to us, and that's why. 16:09.800 --> 16:12.839 So I like lions, tigers, camels, gorillas, 16:12.920 --> 16:15.439 and dogs, cows, pigs, goats, 16:15.520 --> 16:18.640 and I'll tell you the animals I don't like. Skunks. Porcupines. 16:18.719 --> 16:20.680 I don't like bugs. I don't like spiders. 16:20.760 --> 16:23.839 You can tell me the animals you like and the animals you don't like. 16:23.920 --> 16:28.479 I like cows, pigs, sheeps, and horses. 16:28.560 --> 16:32.000 And what I don't like is snakes, mice, 16:32.599 --> 16:34.599 and I think that that's it. 16:35.640 --> 16:37.240 -Do you like chickens? -Yes. 16:37.319 --> 16:41.040 -What do you like about chickens? -Um, I like to feed them. 16:41.120 --> 16:45.680 I can't really do much with them, because they're… they're small. 16:45.760 --> 16:49.640 I'll tell you what I like about chickens. Um, they're birds, and they're cute, 16:49.719 --> 16:52.880 and I like birds because I've always, when I was a little boy, 16:52.959 --> 16:54.640 I've always wanted to fly. 16:54.719 --> 16:57.760 But I know we can't fly until we get to heaven. [chuckles] 16:57.839 --> 16:59.000 Right. 16:59.079 --> 17:01.319 Oh, also, another thing I like about chickens, 17:01.400 --> 17:04.680 because I like chicken tenders. They're my first favorite food. 17:04.760 --> 17:06.319 [clucking] 17:06.399 --> 17:08.159 -Oh, Shyann. Um… -What? 17:08.240 --> 17:09.839 -Do you have a job now? -Not yet. 17:09.919 --> 17:12.440 I wanted to go to college for… to be a vet. 17:13.000 --> 17:15.159 That's cool. Um… 17:15.240 --> 17:18.399 And I'm a Clemson graduate and alumni in Clemson. 17:18.480 --> 17:20.960 -And I work at the Shepherd's Hotel. -That's cool. 17:21.040 --> 17:23.680 -Uh-huh. Can I tell you what I do there? -What? 17:23.760 --> 17:26.359 I clean… I vacuum the stairs halfway to The Thomas Bar. 17:26.440 --> 17:28.880 I wipe down the wood all the way up to the Thomas Bar. 17:28.960 --> 17:32.080 I vacuum the blue mat up on fourth that goes out to the valet. 17:32.159 --> 17:35.000 I vacuum the blue mats. I vacuum the carpet under the plunger. 17:35.080 --> 17:37.120 I vacuum the carpet under the welcome desk. 17:37.200 --> 17:40.080 I put more toilet papers and more paper towels in the bathrooms 17:40.159 --> 17:43.080 when they need more. And now can I tell you my friends' names there? 17:43.159 --> 17:44.960 -What? -My boss's name is Miss Katrina. 17:45.040 --> 17:48.440 Nolan, Charlie, Anthony, Dwight, Heather. 17:48.520 --> 17:51.800 Oh, and Ryan, Zachary, Hannah, Lola, 17:51.880 --> 17:53.840 Krista, Patrick, Alex. 17:53.919 --> 17:57.120 Oh, my sister Midge works there. She works at the front, makes coffee. 17:57.200 --> 18:00.560 Paige, Mia, Julia, Kayla, Jason. 18:03.760 --> 18:06.320 Oh, I was gonna… um… 18:06.960 --> 18:09.320 the… I was… I was gonna ask you something else. 18:09.399 --> 18:11.280 Um… uh… 18:12.120 --> 18:13.200 um… 18:13.280 --> 18:15.360 I think… um… 18:16.080 --> 18:18.240 I was going to ask you a few more questions. 18:19.360 --> 18:22.480 Trying to remember what I was gonna ask you. Um… 18:22.560 --> 18:24.960 I'm trying to remember… Oh, what to ask… 18:29.880 --> 18:31.360 Um… I was gonna… 18:32.040 --> 18:34.720 -Hey, should we go look at the goats? -Sure. 18:36.120 --> 18:37.880 [bleating] 18:38.560 --> 18:40.880 -They're so cute and… and beautiful. -Yeah. 18:40.960 --> 18:41.960 [Tanner] Hey. 18:42.760 --> 18:43.800 You're so cute. 18:44.480 --> 18:48.280 -I like that one right there. -I like that one too. I… I like them all. 18:48.800 --> 18:51.880 Oh, Shyann, what are some things you don't like to do? 18:51.960 --> 18:56.040 [Shyann] I don't really like to do is run. 18:56.120 --> 18:59.159 I'll tell you what I don't like to do. I don't like to wakeboard. 18:59.240 --> 19:01.720 I don't like to water ski. I don't like to snow ski. 19:01.800 --> 19:04.399 I don't like to play football. I don't like to play chess. 19:05.040 --> 19:08.560 -Chess is fun. -[Tanner] I think it's slow and boring. 19:15.800 --> 19:17.240 [intriguing music playing] 19:18.800 --> 19:21.480 I'm Pari. I'm 22 years old. 19:21.560 --> 19:24.840 I'm on the spectrum and currently looking for love. 19:25.600 --> 19:28.840 -[Cian] It's nice to meet you, Pari. -Nice to meet you too, Cian. 19:28.919 --> 19:32.240 -[Cian] Is that a train on your shirt? -Oh, it sure is! 19:34.040 --> 19:37.040 -[Cian] So you have a passion for trains? -I sure do. 19:37.120 --> 19:41.520 I love the MBTA more than anything. 19:41.600 --> 19:42.800 [Cian] What's the MBTA? 19:42.880 --> 19:46.679 It stands for Massachusetts Bay Transportation Authority. 19:46.760 --> 19:49.080 It's also commonly called the T. 19:49.159 --> 19:51.320 I am the biggest fan of it. 19:51.399 --> 19:54.800 It's one of my special interests. Like, I love it so much. 19:54.880 --> 19:58.320 It just gives me so much freedom and independence. 19:58.840 --> 20:00.679 It's like therapy for me. 20:02.280 --> 20:04.360 Welcome to my room. 20:04.440 --> 20:08.159 This is Pari Station. All trains. 20:08.240 --> 20:11.679 This is my T wand. It's very special to me. 20:11.760 --> 20:14.000 I don't leave the house without it. 20:14.080 --> 20:15.919 It is my lucky charm 20:16.000 --> 20:17.440 and my go-to accessory. 20:18.040 --> 20:21.640 I got MBTA notebook and pens. 20:21.720 --> 20:24.280 And our T coaster. 20:24.880 --> 20:28.200 This is a 3D commuter rail keychain. 20:28.280 --> 20:32.480 It's an HSP46 locomotive model. 20:32.560 --> 20:36.520 That's an F40PH3C locomotive. 20:36.600 --> 20:39.640 Those ones really scream power to me. 20:39.720 --> 20:40.919 Yeah. 20:41.000 --> 20:42.640 [Cian] Have you dated before? 20:42.720 --> 20:44.399 I have once. 20:44.480 --> 20:47.000 Back in high school, I did date a boy. 20:47.080 --> 20:48.720 He was also on the spectrum. 20:49.240 --> 20:52.600 But then I realized I might also be into girls too. 20:52.679 --> 20:55.840 So I really want to try dating one, 20:55.919 --> 20:58.840 as I've never had that experience before. 20:58.919 --> 21:02.320 I wanna find my own Princess Charming. 21:03.159 --> 21:04.800 [in singsong] Tea time! 21:05.720 --> 21:08.280 There's some honey up in the cabinet if you want. 21:09.120 --> 21:13.600 [narrator] Pari lives with her mom, Esme, in Boston, Massachusetts. 21:14.240 --> 21:15.840 [Pari] Gotta stir the tea. 21:16.560 --> 21:18.560 Don't spill the tea. 21:20.560 --> 21:23.120 -[Cian] Tell us about your mum. -I'm very close with her. 21:23.200 --> 21:24.360 I love her very much. 21:24.440 --> 21:30.000 She's been there for me through, like, all of my toughest and happiest moments. 21:30.080 --> 21:33.720 She does have, um, breast cancer right now, 21:33.800 --> 21:36.280 but she is on treatment. 21:36.360 --> 21:40.600 So I'm hoping that she can be around, stay well for a while, 21:40.679 --> 21:43.720 and just staying positive and healthy is the best thing you can do. 21:43.800 --> 21:47.679 And I try to keep her spirits up with my positivity. 21:48.240 --> 21:49.280 Tea's ready. 21:50.760 --> 21:53.760 So, Pari, how do you feel about going on your first date soon, 21:53.840 --> 21:55.600 maybe with a young lady? 21:55.679 --> 21:56.720 I'm really excited. 21:56.800 --> 22:00.679 Hopefully she'll be very kind, accepting, 22:00.760 --> 22:04.320 and we can go on lots of fun T-ventures together. 22:04.399 --> 22:07.000 The one thing, though, you have to remember is, 22:07.080 --> 22:11.080 you know, it's one thing for someone to also not mind traveling on the subways… 22:11.159 --> 22:12.000 [Pari] Mm-hmm. 22:12.080 --> 22:15.360 …but they may not be as obsessed, 22:15.439 --> 22:19.159 as, like, you know, as crazy in love with the MBTA 22:19.240 --> 22:22.280 and all the travel, you know, as you are. 22:22.360 --> 22:26.520 You also wanna remember to ask people about their interests, 22:26.600 --> 22:27.600 things they love. 22:27.679 --> 22:30.679 I will, as long as they're willing to ride with me at least sometimes, 22:30.760 --> 22:34.399 and they don't force me to have a car, 'cause that would be a dealbreaker. 22:34.480 --> 22:37.159 I'm not driving in Boston. Ew! 22:38.520 --> 22:42.600 [mom] Pari was diagnosed with autism at age three. 22:42.679 --> 22:44.760 Pari has an older sister, Teal. 22:44.840 --> 22:46.640 She has autism as well. 22:46.720 --> 22:49.280 But they mainstreamed into public schools, 22:49.360 --> 22:53.480 and with a lot of help and therapies, and they've done very well. 22:54.280 --> 22:56.399 It's been very hard for our family 22:56.480 --> 22:59.919 since I lost my husband and they lost their dad. 23:00.000 --> 23:03.439 It was a terrible, extremely difficult time, 23:03.520 --> 23:05.840 and we did a lot of grief therapy. 23:05.919 --> 23:09.840 I think Pari and I are… learning to, you know, 23:09.919 --> 23:12.320 do our best to be happy and keep busy 23:12.399 --> 23:15.360 so it's not there all the time. Yeah. 23:16.320 --> 23:18.760 -I think you'll do great. -Thank you. I appreciate it. 23:19.840 --> 23:22.280 It's exciting. I can't wait for it to happen either. 23:22.360 --> 23:24.080 Me too! Yay! 23:28.679 --> 23:30.320 [intriguing music playing] 23:34.320 --> 23:35.760 [narrator] At Boston Harbor, 23:35.840 --> 23:38.640 James is waiting for his date to arrive. 23:39.520 --> 23:42.080 I am slightly nervous, but at this point, 23:42.159 --> 23:45.399 I have plenty of practice and experience, so it's no big deal at this point. 23:46.360 --> 23:50.080 I may be nervous that perhaps she does not have a very good personality. 23:50.159 --> 23:52.360 I've definitely learned the hard way to not let-- 23:52.439 --> 23:56.120 Yes, not let… not… to not become too hopeful or optimistic. 23:59.720 --> 24:01.760 [narrator] James is meeting Sonia. 24:02.360 --> 24:04.520 She likes heavy metal music 24:05.040 --> 24:06.480 and scarecrows. 24:06.560 --> 24:09.360 She doesn't like stepping on sidewalk cracks 24:09.439 --> 24:11.240 or earthquakes. 24:11.320 --> 24:12.480 [rumbling] 24:14.240 --> 24:15.800 -Hi. -[James] Yes, hello. 24:15.880 --> 24:18.320 -So nice to finally meet you. -Very nice to meet you also. 24:18.399 --> 24:21.000 -So nice to meet you in person. -Yes. I am James. 24:21.080 --> 24:22.360 -I am Sonia. -Yes. 24:22.439 --> 24:24.760 Very pleased to… nice to meet you. 24:24.840 --> 24:27.399 Oh, that's a… that's a very nice handbag. 24:27.480 --> 24:29.919 You know it actually works? It connects. You can… 24:30.000 --> 24:32.120 Oh really? That's an actual functioning telephone? 24:32.200 --> 24:33.399 -Yeah. -That's so awesome. 24:33.480 --> 24:37.439 So when I go out… Because I like… I like to twirl like this. 24:37.520 --> 24:41.520 Oh, yes, just like an old spy movie. Like what they have in Get Smart. 24:41.600 --> 24:43.480 -Or James Bond movies. -Exactly, yes. 24:44.000 --> 24:45.760 Good, yes. That's not too bad. 24:45.840 --> 24:47.840 If I have lipstick on my teeth, let me know. 24:47.919 --> 24:51.640 No, no. No, no, they're fine. Don't worry. Of course I'd say something. 24:51.720 --> 24:54.760 I hope my teeth are okay, but among most other animals, 24:54.840 --> 24:57.000 baring their teeth is a sign of aggression. 24:57.080 --> 25:00.880 So I find it weird that so many people show their teeth when they smile. 25:00.960 --> 25:01.880 It doesn't make sense. 25:01.960 --> 25:05.080 But I never had braces, and then after, I walk around and smile, 25:05.159 --> 25:07.800 and, like, people think I'm nuts 'cause I'm like this. 25:07.880 --> 25:11.199 And I'm just smiling. But you have a very nice smile. 25:11.280 --> 25:13.280 Yes, thank you, good. Uh… 25:13.360 --> 25:15.960 Here, these are some… these are some gummy flowers. 25:16.040 --> 25:19.960 I mean, typically, I think giving someone flowers is just too cliché 25:20.040 --> 25:21.360 and trite and overdone, 25:21.439 --> 25:23.919 but these are different because these are edible, 25:24.000 --> 25:26.720 so you won't get much nutritional value from them. 25:26.800 --> 25:30.560 -But I'll bet they'll at least taste good. -It's wonderful. I love the arrangement. 25:30.640 --> 25:33.600 It looks like you're wearing earrings also. Or some sort of… 25:33.679 --> 25:36.360 Those are really something. Aren't too heavy, are they? 25:36.439 --> 25:38.040 No, they're actually wicked light. 25:38.120 --> 25:40.840 Are you ever afraid they'll get caught and rip out? 25:40.919 --> 25:42.640 I mean, I just go with the flow. 25:42.720 --> 25:44.040 -Okay. -I'm a klutz. 25:44.120 --> 25:46.840 Oh, no, no, you need to have higher self-esteem. 25:46.919 --> 25:50.320 -Don't think so lowly of yourself. -[Sonia] I have high self-esteem. 25:50.399 --> 25:52.720 But, like, embarr… 25:52.800 --> 25:55.480 many embarrassing things happen to me when I go on dates. 25:55.560 --> 25:56.600 Oh. Uh, I see. 25:57.600 --> 26:00.240 I think you might have some lipstick on your teeth. I'm sorry. 26:00.320 --> 26:02.120 -Thank you for telling me. -Yes. 26:03.280 --> 26:06.159 -This is who I am, okay? [chuckles] -[James] Oh, of course. 26:06.240 --> 26:08.000 Is it gone, James? 26:08.080 --> 26:09.600 Not entirely, I'm sorry. 26:09.679 --> 26:11.720 I love that you tell me. I get embarrassed. 26:11.800 --> 26:13.000 Oh, right. I… 26:13.520 --> 26:15.760 -And I'm a makeup artist. -Oh, I see. 26:15.840 --> 26:17.960 -And that's weird. -It's much better now. 26:18.040 --> 26:21.199 -Is there no lipstick now on my teeth? -Really. It's fine. Don't worry. 26:21.280 --> 26:24.560 Although one of your incisors looks like it has some discoloration, 26:24.640 --> 26:27.040 but that's probably not from… from lipstick. 26:27.120 --> 26:30.280 It's probably something else. So you might wanna take a look at it. I'm sorry. 26:30.360 --> 26:32.520 -I'm so… wha… okay. -[hesitating] 26:32.600 --> 26:36.120 -Hopefully, it's not a cavity. I'm sorry. -I don't have a… I've never… okay. 26:38.439 --> 26:41.159 -Okay, so have you eaten recently? -I have not, actually. 26:41.240 --> 26:44.439 Okay, good. Well, I have a reservation at a restaurant nearby 26:44.520 --> 26:45.640 if you're interested. 26:45.720 --> 26:48.040 -I would love that. That would be fun. -Okay, great. 26:48.120 --> 26:49.600 -Is it okay if… -Yes. Okay. 26:49.679 --> 26:53.120 -Now you can look at my emerald ring. -Oh, very nice, very nice. 26:54.600 --> 26:58.320 -[Cian] So what do you think of James? -I like people that have unique features. 26:59.159 --> 27:01.640 And James, there's just something about him 27:01.720 --> 27:04.240 that's just so different than other men. 27:05.080 --> 27:07.679 You know, like, honestly, I like him. 27:08.199 --> 27:10.679 [James] I've never understood the point of high heels. 27:10.760 --> 27:11.800 [Sonia] I know, me too. 27:11.880 --> 27:14.280 [James] Wait, I mean, so many… a lot of women complain 27:14.360 --> 27:16.600 that wearing high heels damages their feet. 27:16.679 --> 27:19.199 So why even bother wearing them in the first place? 27:22.720 --> 27:25.040 [Cian] So what do you think is gonna be hard about dating? 27:25.520 --> 27:29.000 Yes, I would say, like, picking up the social cues involved with it, 27:29.080 --> 27:31.439 and then compromise is another thing. 27:31.520 --> 27:34.399 Because I struggle, like, com… 27:34.480 --> 27:37.399 -Flexibility is part of compromising. -[Cian] Yeah. 27:37.480 --> 27:39.240 That's one area that I struggle in, 27:39.320 --> 27:42.280 as a lot of autistic people struggle in that area. 27:42.360 --> 27:46.000 Like, if I were to meet a guy that likes… that likes action movies, 27:46.080 --> 27:48.240 which… I'm not into action movies. 27:48.320 --> 27:50.960 -[Cian] Yeah. -I'm into princess movies. 27:51.480 --> 27:53.000 [jaunty music playing] 28:01.640 --> 28:05.960 Waiting in anticipation for this guy to show up, wondering what he's like. 28:07.880 --> 28:09.120 Is he here yet? 28:09.640 --> 28:10.720 [squawking] 28:11.919 --> 28:13.399 You're not my date. 28:15.439 --> 28:16.520 Working. 28:18.560 --> 28:20.280 Guy didn't look like my date. 28:20.800 --> 28:22.199 [squawking] 28:22.960 --> 28:25.360 [Madison] I think I hear some animals. 28:25.439 --> 28:28.040 [birds screeching] 28:29.240 --> 28:30.199 [squawking] 28:31.640 --> 28:32.840 Is he coming? 28:32.919 --> 28:34.679 [whimsical music playing] 28:35.600 --> 28:37.760 [narrator] Madison is meeting Tyler. 28:38.280 --> 28:40.040 He likes NASCAR 28:40.760 --> 28:42.120 and shih tzus. 28:42.199 --> 28:43.040 [whines] 28:43.120 --> 28:47.480 He doesn't like rude people or men wearing high shorts. 28:50.199 --> 28:52.040 -Hey. -[Madison] Hi. 28:52.120 --> 28:54.760 -My name is Madison. What's your name? -I'm Tyler. 28:54.840 --> 28:57.560 -Nice to meet you. Are these for me? -Nice to meet you. Yes. 28:58.240 --> 29:00.959 -I have something for you in my bag. -Okay. 29:01.040 --> 29:02.760 You know, I have that same wristband too. 29:02.840 --> 29:04.240 -Really? -I do. 29:04.320 --> 29:07.399 Yeah, I got it at the, uh, Autism Speaks walks I DJ. 29:07.480 --> 29:11.760 Oh my God. I… I do Autism Speaks walks. Are you wearing cowboy boots? 29:11.840 --> 29:15.600 -Yes, ma'am. -I have a collection of cowboy boots. 29:15.679 --> 29:18.600 -Scooby-Doo for you. -[Tyler] Thank you. Thanks. 29:18.679 --> 29:21.480 [Madison] You have a Southern accent. Where are you from? 29:21.560 --> 29:22.879 Originally from Plant City. 29:22.959 --> 29:25.720 I lived in Arkansas when I was a kid, and we moved back to Plant City. 29:25.800 --> 29:29.840 Really? You know, what's so funny was I was born in North Carolina. 29:29.919 --> 29:31.919 The small town I used to live in in Arkansas, 29:32.000 --> 29:35.199 it's right in the middle between Little Rock and Branson, Missouri. 29:35.280 --> 29:38.080 Yeah, I know… I know where that is. We're both small-town people. 29:38.159 --> 29:39.199 [Tyler] Oh yeah. 29:40.959 --> 29:42.439 -All right. -[Madison] Yes. 29:49.840 --> 29:51.520 [dramatic music playing] 29:53.959 --> 29:59.199 "Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my underground lair." [giggles] 29:59.280 --> 30:03.360 "I have gathered before me the world's deadliest assassins." 30:03.439 --> 30:09.080 "And yet each and every one of you has failed to kill Austin Powers." 30:09.159 --> 30:10.800 "That makes me angry." 30:10.879 --> 30:13.080 "And when Dr. Evil gets angry, 30:13.159 --> 30:15.879 Mr. Bigglesworth gets upset." 30:15.959 --> 30:19.159 "And when Mr. Bigglesworth gets upset, 30:19.240 --> 30:21.000 people die!" 30:21.080 --> 30:21.959 [chuckles] 30:23.040 --> 30:24.000 [laughs] 30:24.080 --> 30:28.000 "Why must I be surrounded by freaking idiots?" 30:28.080 --> 30:30.000 -[Lise] Coffee? -[Connor] Thank you. 30:30.080 --> 30:31.240 [Lise] Excuse me. 30:31.800 --> 30:37.679 Connor, I have been so excited and wondering how your date went. 30:38.199 --> 30:39.040 [Connor sighs] 30:39.120 --> 30:43.199 Okay, just promise you won't get too excited. 30:43.280 --> 30:44.520 -I promise. -We're chill. 30:44.600 --> 30:47.159 -That's a good sign. -I'm finding a chill spot. 30:49.240 --> 30:50.240 It was 30:50.840 --> 30:51.760 the best. 30:52.760 --> 30:55.320 Her name's Georgie, and I don't know if it's short… 30:55.399 --> 30:57.560 whether it's short for Georgia or Georgiana, 30:57.639 --> 31:00.000 but frankly, I don't give a damn. 31:01.840 --> 31:03.159 -Okay, so Georgie… -Nice. 31:03.240 --> 31:04.879 Clark Gable, Gone with the Wind. 31:04.959 --> 31:07.280 So, Georgie, what color hair? 31:07.360 --> 31:10.840 It's really how she styled her hair that really amazed me. 31:11.439 --> 31:14.360 She had sort of French braid styling. 31:14.439 --> 31:16.760 -Oh, that's cool. -Oh, like a Viking woman? 31:16.840 --> 31:20.040 Mom, how many Vikings do you know came from France? 31:20.120 --> 31:22.800 -Okay, sorry. She had French braids. -[Connor] Anyhoo… 31:23.320 --> 31:26.360 I saw this one duck biting another duck. 31:26.439 --> 31:29.000 I… I told her I would never treat a woman like that. 31:29.080 --> 31:31.439 That's good. Show her your character early. 31:31.520 --> 31:33.679 [Jack] Yeah. Initial sparks? 31:34.760 --> 31:36.959 -I definitely felt the sparks. -[Jack] Nice. 31:37.040 --> 31:39.760 -Okay. Nobody's getting excited. -Time will tell. 31:39.840 --> 31:42.919 Nobody's getting excited, but I had a good… 31:43.000 --> 31:44.399 So don't get crazy on me. 31:44.480 --> 31:45.639 I had a good date. 31:45.720 --> 31:50.719 I met a girl who aroused both my intellect and… other things. 31:50.800 --> 31:52.600 -[Anna] That's important. -[Lise] Excellent. 31:52.679 --> 31:53.879 [Anna] That's exciting. 31:53.959 --> 31:56.399 Oh my gosh, I am really happy for you. 31:56.480 --> 31:57.760 I feel like I… 31:58.360 --> 31:59.679 I'm really growing up. 32:00.199 --> 32:03.959 This little fledgling's growing into a falcon. 32:05.520 --> 32:08.040 [Lise] I'm blown away. I'm so excited. 32:08.120 --> 32:09.840 It was really hard not to react. 32:09.919 --> 32:14.159 You know how he gets mad at me when I overreact, but very excited. 32:15.159 --> 32:17.679 As he said, the fledgling is ready to fly. 32:18.240 --> 32:21.199 I'm ready to watch him go. It's exciting. 32:21.280 --> 32:23.760 -[Cian] How does that feel? -Um… 32:23.840 --> 32:25.879 -[Cian] Seeing your boy growing up? -Oh! 32:26.480 --> 32:27.560 It's the best. 32:28.080 --> 32:34.280 It's… it's… it's hard because I've been such a wingman for him, 32:35.439 --> 32:37.679 but it's definitely time I step back. 32:41.639 --> 32:45.320 But it's gonna be great. It's a good step back. It's a good tears. 32:45.959 --> 32:47.520 Sounds like a huge win, Connor. 32:48.280 --> 32:49.959 It was a very huge win. 32:52.439 --> 32:55.760 I never thought I'd feel this way about anyone. 32:56.679 --> 32:59.000 Are… and we're not allowed to get excited? 32:59.080 --> 33:01.080 Can we get a little excited? 33:01.159 --> 33:02.879 -Just… just a tad. -Like this much? 33:02.959 --> 33:04.480 -[Lise] Okay. -So, golf clap? 33:04.560 --> 33:06.000 -Golf clap. -Golf clap. 33:10.439 --> 33:12.280 [bleating] 33:12.360 --> 33:14.439 Hey, do you wanna go see the baby goats now? 33:14.520 --> 33:16.800 -Sure. -Okay. Let's go see the baby goats now. 33:17.320 --> 33:18.840 [upbeat banjo music playing] 33:22.280 --> 33:24.240 -Are you ready, Shyann? -Yeah. 33:28.399 --> 33:29.320 Over here. 33:30.520 --> 33:32.800 [woman] Tanner, try to get some of those babies there. 33:32.879 --> 33:34.360 -Which ones? -[woman] The smaller ones. 33:34.439 --> 33:36.679 The big ones aren't supposed to be eating it yet. 33:36.760 --> 33:39.800 -Here. Get some. Yeah! -[woman] Nice. 33:40.399 --> 33:41.480 [Shyann giggles] 33:42.879 --> 33:45.639 Look, Cassandra, we're doing it. Good job, Shyann. We're doing it. 33:45.719 --> 33:48.320 -We're feeding baby goats. -[Cassandra] You're doing a great job. 33:48.399 --> 33:51.280 -Whoa. One almost bit me on the finger. -[Cassandra] You all right? 33:51.360 --> 33:53.360 But it's okay. They… it didn't mean to. 33:53.439 --> 33:57.280 Here, here, here. Here. Here's some. Here, here, here. 33:57.360 --> 33:59.199 [gentle music playing] 34:01.439 --> 34:03.600 -Isn't this fun feeding goats, Shyann? -Yeah. 34:03.679 --> 34:05.800 Do you like feeding… do you like doing this? 34:06.280 --> 34:07.639 Most of the time, yeah. 34:08.279 --> 34:09.480 [clucking] 34:10.360 --> 34:11.560 Baa! 34:11.639 --> 34:12.759 Goat. 34:12.839 --> 34:14.360 Nice. 34:17.839 --> 34:20.520 -[Cian] Tell me what you think of Tanner. -He's cute. 34:21.679 --> 34:22.719 Um… 34:24.120 --> 34:25.839 I kind of like him a little bit. 34:26.880 --> 34:27.839 [music fades] 34:29.480 --> 34:30.839 [Tanner] I'm excited for this. 34:32.520 --> 34:34.839 I'm excited to… for these… for these snacks. 34:35.360 --> 34:37.319 -Are you excited for this, Shyann? -Yeah. 34:37.400 --> 34:39.760 Me too. I love all this. 34:39.839 --> 34:40.679 [Shyann] Yeah. 34:46.960 --> 34:48.440 -I can't open it. -Want me to help? 34:48.520 --> 34:49.960 -Yeah. -I'll help you. 34:51.360 --> 34:53.280 -There we go. -Thank you. 34:53.360 --> 34:54.280 You're welcome. 34:56.639 --> 34:59.960 I would like… yeah, I would like to get another smoothie drink. 35:00.040 --> 35:02.319 -I think they're good. -Yeah, they are good. 35:11.480 --> 35:12.600 [chicken clucks] 35:32.760 --> 35:36.720 Hey, um, it's getting late, Shyann. Um, should we start to head back? 35:36.799 --> 35:39.000 -Sure. -Yeah, let's start to head back now. 35:44.480 --> 35:46.360 Hey, Shyann, I had fun with you today. 35:46.440 --> 35:47.600 -You too. -Yeah? 35:47.680 --> 35:50.640 -What was your favorite part? -Um, just feeding the goats. 35:50.720 --> 35:52.760 Yeah. My favorite part was seeing the goats. 35:52.839 --> 35:54.000 That's cool. 35:56.520 --> 35:58.319 Hey, Shyann, I just wanna be friends. 35:59.319 --> 36:00.360 Yeah, same. 36:02.520 --> 36:04.120 And it was nice to meet you. Um… 36:04.640 --> 36:06.839 Same. It was really nice to meet you too. 36:06.920 --> 36:09.080 -Yeah, maybe we can just stay friends. -Yeah. 36:10.040 --> 36:13.080 Well, I… I… I hope you have a good rest of your day. 36:13.160 --> 36:14.319 -You too. -Okay? 36:15.240 --> 36:16.680 -Well, bye. -Bye. 36:22.200 --> 36:24.600 [Cian] So, Tanner, why are you just wanting to be friends? 36:24.680 --> 36:27.400 Shyann's not very talkative. She doesn't have my energy. 36:28.080 --> 36:29.480 She's quiet most of the time. 36:34.120 --> 36:37.480 [Cian] How would you describe autism? What does it mean for you? 36:37.560 --> 36:40.200 Well, it's a different way of being. 36:40.280 --> 36:43.640 Like, you know how there's different operating systems on computers, 36:43.720 --> 36:45.720 like Mac, Windows, Linux? 36:45.799 --> 36:47.640 So there's no right or wrong, 36:47.720 --> 36:50.880 just we all have our own ways of thinking and operating. 36:50.960 --> 36:53.040 Like, it's all right to be different. 36:53.120 --> 36:55.319 I used to be ashamed of my autism, 36:55.400 --> 36:58.560 but now I'm embracing it unapologetically, 36:58.640 --> 37:02.120 and I wanna celebrate my uniqueness with the world. 37:02.880 --> 37:04.440 [intriguing music playing] 37:06.640 --> 37:08.080 [narrator] In Boston, 37:08.160 --> 37:12.319 Pari is about to meet some friends for her favorite activity. 37:12.839 --> 37:14.560 I have a lot of rail friends. 37:14.640 --> 37:17.040 I started my own MBTA fan club, 37:17.120 --> 37:20.280 so it's like a group chat on Instagram where we all get together 37:20.359 --> 37:24.200 and plan times to ride the T and go on our T-ventures. 37:24.280 --> 37:28.480 We love to take pictures and videos of the different trains and buses, 37:28.560 --> 37:30.160 try to find some rare catches. 37:30.240 --> 37:33.920 We know a lot about them. We're, like, the train experts. 37:36.799 --> 37:38.600 -There you are! -[boy] Hey. Yo, what's good? 37:38.680 --> 37:41.319 -Oh, hey, how are you? -Hey, how are you doing today? 37:41.400 --> 37:43.720 -[Pari] Whoops! I'm sorry. -Oh, there goes the hat. 37:43.799 --> 37:45.600 Uh-oh. Don't forget your belongings. 37:45.680 --> 37:48.000 -How are you? -I'm doing great. How are you? 37:48.080 --> 37:49.359 T-rrific. 37:49.440 --> 37:52.240 Thinking of hopping on the Red Line, doing some MBTA shenanigans. 37:52.319 --> 37:55.400 -[Pari] Oh my God, yes! Red Line! -Check out some Pullmans, right? 37:55.480 --> 37:57.000 Get on a Pullman, all right. 37:57.080 --> 37:59.040 -I can check the tracker now. -Yeah. 37:59.120 --> 38:01.000 What… What train's gonna be arriving? 38:02.040 --> 38:04.520 -Please tell me it's a Pullman. -Yes, it is. 38:04.600 --> 38:06.520 -Highly likely. -[boy 2] Should we go? 38:06.600 --> 38:10.200 Yeah, let's go. Yeah, let's go ride the T! 38:10.280 --> 38:11.480 Woo-hoo! 38:11.960 --> 38:14.080 [voice over PA] Welcome to the MBTA. 38:14.160 --> 38:17.480 [all] "Please make your selection. Have a CharlieCard…" 38:17.560 --> 38:19.120 [adventurous music playing] 38:19.200 --> 38:22.240 All right, it's my Charlie ticket. Bing! Yay! 38:24.120 --> 38:25.440 All right, let's go! 38:25.520 --> 38:27.280 We've gotta get our train! 38:27.359 --> 38:28.400 [squeals excitedly] 38:29.640 --> 38:31.880 [Cian] Has anyone in your group wanted to date Pari? 38:31.960 --> 38:34.600 -A lot… a lot of guys wanted to date her. -[chuckles] 38:35.120 --> 38:37.400 [boy 1] When I first met her, yeah, I did wanna date her 38:37.480 --> 38:39.520 because she's, like, obsessed with the MBTA. 38:39.600 --> 38:40.920 She loves trains so much. 38:41.000 --> 38:44.560 She's very enthusiastic. When she told me that she's more attracted to girls, 38:44.640 --> 38:46.920 that's when I started to see her as just a friend, 38:47.000 --> 38:49.200 and we started to respect each other for that. 38:49.799 --> 38:50.799 [horn honks] 38:51.560 --> 38:55.160 Sometimes I can hear the locomotive or the train horns from my house. 38:55.240 --> 38:58.920 Oh wow! I love train horns. There's just something so magical 38:59.000 --> 39:02.160 about hearing one at your house in the middle of the night. 39:02.240 --> 39:04.799 -[boy 1] Yeah. -Especially the 1600 cab cars. 39:04.880 --> 39:06.160 -Those are the best. -[Pari] Wow. 39:09.400 --> 39:13.080 Guys, I'm so excited. I'm gonna be going on a date soon! 39:13.160 --> 39:14.080 -Awesome. -Oh, nice. 39:14.160 --> 39:16.960 Then find my true love, a T princess. 39:17.040 --> 39:19.240 Maybe locked away in a tower guarded by a dragon. 39:19.319 --> 39:22.200 -[boy 2] Just have to beat Shrek to it. -Oh, yeah. 39:22.280 --> 39:23.240 [all chuckle] 39:23.319 --> 39:25.040 I really hope she loves the T. 39:25.120 --> 39:28.799 Like, if she refuses to ride it, that's gonna be kind of a dealbreaker. 39:28.880 --> 39:32.960 -That might be a dealbreaker. -I wanna share T adventures together. 39:33.040 --> 39:35.359 If you need advice, I'm willing to give you some. 39:35.440 --> 39:38.680 Thank you, Rob. I really appreciate that. That's very kind of you. 39:38.760 --> 39:40.520 No problem. That's what friends do. 39:42.760 --> 39:44.920 Have you ever gone on a date before? 39:45.000 --> 39:47.480 -Yeah. -[Pari] Oh, really? How was it? 39:47.560 --> 39:48.480 Not bad. 39:49.000 --> 39:52.319 Thing is, if you ever wanna, like, get a date with someone, 39:52.400 --> 39:55.760 don't act obsessive. That's the one thing you don't wanna do. 39:55.839 --> 39:57.960 You wanna just be, like, chill and casual. 39:58.040 --> 40:00.040 It's, like, just act natural type of thing. 40:00.120 --> 40:02.640 Like, can I be excited about my passions? 40:02.720 --> 40:05.799 -Yeah, of course. Absolutely. -You can be. Just don't be too excited. 40:05.880 --> 40:08.319 That's some good advice. I'll keep that in mind. 40:09.600 --> 40:12.240 -Oh, here comes another one. -[Rob] You can tell it's a Pullman. 40:12.319 --> 40:13.720 -[Pari] Oh! -[Rob chuckles] 40:13.799 --> 40:15.000 -[horn honking] -[Pari] Whoo! 40:15.080 --> 40:16.440 Yes! 40:16.520 --> 40:18.040 -Whoo! Yes! -[boy 2] Yes! 40:18.120 --> 40:19.839 Yes! 40:19.920 --> 40:22.080 -Oh my God, we got a horn! -[boy 2] Yes! 40:25.799 --> 40:27.880 [intriguing music playing] 40:32.839 --> 40:35.600 Would you like to play a game of darts before we eat? 40:35.680 --> 40:38.520 -I would… honestly, I would love to. -Okay. Good, good, yes. 40:38.600 --> 40:41.920 So, I guess, have you, uh, played darts recently at all? 40:42.000 --> 40:45.319 Not at all. I think the last time was probably, like, in middle school. 40:45.400 --> 40:47.560 Oh, I see, yes. I'm sure it'll be fun anyway. 40:47.640 --> 40:50.120 We're gonna have a great time. Even if we're really bad at it, 40:50.200 --> 40:52.640 we'll make it work. You know what I mean? 40:52.720 --> 40:54.120 -Exactly. -So it'll be okay. 40:54.200 --> 40:58.000 -You do have lipstick on your teeth again. -I do, I know. I always have lipstick. 40:58.080 --> 41:00.560 It's a part of me, and I hope it doesn't bother you 41:00.640 --> 41:02.120 or you find it unattractive. 41:02.200 --> 41:03.040 Uh, well… 41:03.120 --> 41:05.920 It's a little unattractive, but I normally won't wear lipstick. 41:06.000 --> 41:07.760 -Oh, I see. I see. -And I apologize. 41:07.839 --> 41:11.160 No, please. Please don't apologize for your fashion choices. 41:11.240 --> 41:13.319 Your fashion choices are yours. 41:13.400 --> 41:16.359 -Is it gone, the lipstick? -Yes, no, it's gone. Don't worry. 41:16.440 --> 41:18.240 I just wanted to look nice for you. 41:18.319 --> 41:21.080 Of course. Of course. No, I hope I look pretty good also. 41:21.160 --> 41:22.080 You look wonderful. 41:22.160 --> 41:26.200 Yes, you know, you look great also. Yes, thank you. Yes. 41:26.280 --> 41:27.240 I love the pink. 41:27.319 --> 41:29.760 Yes, thank you. I wanted to wear something very bold, 41:29.839 --> 41:33.000 something that really shows my personality, you know? 41:36.480 --> 41:38.440 -Ooh, fabulous. -[camera clicks] 41:38.520 --> 41:42.440 Ah. That's the best I can do. I can never get my photographs to look just right. 41:44.120 --> 41:45.680 -[camera clicks] -Oh, very nice. 41:45.760 --> 41:47.799 -No, I look scary. -Oh. Uh… 41:47.880 --> 41:51.760 I look a little frightening. I look like a vampire a little bit. 41:51.839 --> 41:53.760 Maybe… I wouldn't say a vampire, 41:53.839 --> 41:57.040 but I'm sure you do excellently on Halloween though. Yes. 41:57.120 --> 41:59.040 I do, and Halloween's my favorite holiday. 41:59.120 --> 42:03.160 -I love Halloween, as a matter of fact. -Halloween's every day for me. Okay. 42:03.240 --> 42:04.560 [camera shutter clicks] 42:04.640 --> 42:07.880 -[James] That's better. Check it out. -There we go, James and Sonia. 42:07.960 --> 42:10.880 -[James] Ladies first. Yes. -All right, so I… here we go. 42:10.960 --> 42:12.319 [suspenseful music playing] 42:15.680 --> 42:16.880 [Sonia] Nope. 42:19.000 --> 42:20.040 [James] Ooh! 42:21.720 --> 42:23.280 -[Sonia] No, that was terrible. -Ah! 42:23.359 --> 42:26.400 -James, you're up. -Yes, thank you very much. 42:28.240 --> 42:29.520 -[Sonia] What?! -Not too bad. 42:29.600 --> 42:30.880 That's so good. [chuckles] 42:31.839 --> 42:33.160 Are you… I… what? 42:33.240 --> 42:35.880 I knew you'd be good at this. Are you kidding me? 42:35.960 --> 42:37.720 -[James] What? No… -That was perfect. 42:37.799 --> 42:40.160 I'm just… I… I… I just… 42:40.240 --> 42:43.400 Look at my face. It looks angry. That's how I feel right now. 42:45.839 --> 42:50.720 All right, so before tonight, have you been on many dates recently? 42:50.799 --> 42:52.480 [Sonia] Um, honestly, no. 42:53.319 --> 42:56.000 Uh, my dating experience is, uh… 42:56.839 --> 43:00.200 I don't know. I'm just Sonia. I'm just different. 43:00.280 --> 43:04.120 -Oh, nothing wrong with that. -And, uh, I'm just very picky. 43:04.200 --> 43:05.480 [James] No, I understand. 43:05.560 --> 43:08.000 I have to find a connection. I have to be comfortable. 43:08.560 --> 43:09.960 What exactly are you seeking? 43:10.040 --> 43:11.799 I'm looking for a special person 43:11.880 --> 43:14.600 with whom I can share the best moments of my life. 43:14.680 --> 43:18.680 Someone who would support me in moments of difficulty or stress. 43:18.760 --> 43:21.359 -[Sonia] When you're nervous and stuff? -Yes, exactly. 43:21.440 --> 43:22.760 I would defend… I… you're… 43:22.839 --> 43:26.440 I'm like a lion. You're the cub. I would… I would… I would defend you. 43:26.520 --> 43:28.400 -But, like… -Oh, thank you. Thank you. 43:34.080 --> 43:38.440 Okay. Oh, here, our desserts are here. Yes, let's have some dessert now. 43:39.839 --> 43:40.960 How do you even like…? 43:41.040 --> 43:43.960 -I don't know. I just compress it. -This is a pom-pom. 43:44.040 --> 43:45.160 [Sonia chuckles] 43:48.280 --> 43:49.120 [James] Mm. 43:49.760 --> 43:51.160 You're… [chuckles] 43:52.240 --> 43:54.240 -Do you like it? -Mm. It's okay. 43:55.839 --> 43:58.720 -[laughs] You're like, "I don't like it." -No. 44:01.280 --> 44:02.319 [James] Mm. Um… 44:03.480 --> 44:05.960 Some people compare cotton candy to clouds, 44:06.040 --> 44:08.799 but, you know, sometimes you may see in fictional movies, 44:08.879 --> 44:11.359 you'll see people touching clouds as if they're solid. 44:11.440 --> 44:14.280 They're not. Clouds are water vapor, so it really bothers me when too… 44:14.359 --> 44:16.319 when movies show clouds as being solid and… 44:16.400 --> 44:17.839 'cause they're not solid. 44:17.920 --> 44:19.960 -[Sonia] Yeah, people don't know that. -Mm. 44:23.280 --> 44:25.480 [Sonia] Did you just eat that all? You did good. 44:25.560 --> 44:29.200 -Nothing to it. It has no substance. -Yeah, you're a champion. 44:31.319 --> 44:32.760 Yes, it's getting a bit late, 44:32.839 --> 44:35.440 so I guess we'll have to be… we'll be going now. 44:35.520 --> 44:37.520 Yes. I think we have a lot of things in common. 44:37.600 --> 44:39.280 [James] Definitely, I've noticed that also. 44:39.359 --> 44:42.240 -[Sonia] You know? -Yes, thank you, thank you. Good, good. 44:43.640 --> 44:45.560 -[Sonia] Thanks again for the flowers. -Of course. 44:45.640 --> 44:46.680 I love this. 44:46.760 --> 44:49.920 Good. Good. I'm very glad you like those flowers. Yes. 44:50.640 --> 44:51.480 Yes. 44:52.760 --> 44:55.920 Um… Do you want… do you wanna go on another date? 44:56.000 --> 44:59.359 Um… I think that is, um… 44:59.440 --> 45:01.480 oh, yes, um… [hesitating] 45:03.920 --> 45:05.600 [theme music playing] 45:30.319 --> 45:31.720 [music fades] laying]