1 00:00:11,745 --> 00:00:13,905 They say dating is like playing with fire, 2 00:00:13,985 --> 00:00:15,145 and that's the honest truth. 3 00:00:15,225 --> 00:00:18,505 Since the olden days, we are still seeing flames. 4 00:00:18,585 --> 00:00:23,905 It makes no difference, whether you date in church or slide in the DMs. 5 00:00:23,985 --> 00:00:26,785 Or in clubs, like the 2000s do. 6 00:00:26,865 --> 00:00:28,745 Listen to me. It makes no difference. 7 00:00:28,825 --> 00:00:34,105 Dating can be heaven or it can be hell. 8 00:00:35,185 --> 00:00:39,425 As you can see, dating is showing all of us flames. It has us in a choke hold. 9 00:00:42,785 --> 00:00:45,385 We are seeing Flames, flames, flames 10 00:00:56,065 --> 00:00:57,585 This is Lethu. 11 00:01:02,665 --> 00:01:05,545 This is Lucky, her soul mate. 12 00:01:06,065 --> 00:01:08,785 Lethu and Lucky are inseparable. 13 00:01:12,305 --> 00:01:13,625 Do you see this? 14 00:01:16,665 --> 00:01:20,425 …to try to keep a relationship when we think it's the right one. 15 00:01:21,145 --> 00:01:22,425 You're yet to see. 16 00:01:23,865 --> 00:01:28,225 My child, you must listen 17 00:01:28,305 --> 00:01:32,065 Open your ears and listen 18 00:01:32,145 --> 00:01:37,065 You must listen, my child 19 00:01:42,065 --> 00:01:43,145 Eish. 20 00:01:44,345 --> 00:01:48,705 Friend, I forgot. But I'm here, taking pictures for marketing. 21 00:01:48,785 --> 00:01:51,865 So, can't you call one of the girls? 22 00:01:51,945 --> 00:01:53,785 What? There's no reception there! 23 00:01:55,225 --> 00:01:57,065 You know what? Leave it to me. 24 00:02:22,745 --> 00:02:24,705 Come! Come! 25 00:02:32,705 --> 00:02:34,905 Baby, is lunch still on track? 26 00:02:35,585 --> 00:02:38,065 Relax, my love. The aunties are still preparing it. 27 00:02:39,425 --> 00:02:41,225 Wait, are you running? 28 00:02:41,705 --> 00:02:44,345 It's Amanda. She's done it again. 29 00:02:44,425 --> 00:02:46,585 Calm down. 30 00:02:50,025 --> 00:02:51,065 It is perfect, my love. 31 00:02:51,145 --> 00:02:53,305 The Jamas are hard to please 32 00:02:53,385 --> 00:02:56,225 but I'm sure they'll use you for their wedding. 33 00:02:57,025 --> 00:02:58,025 Don't jinx it. 34 00:03:03,025 --> 00:03:06,465 Greetings. Please follow me. I'll show you to your seats. 35 00:03:07,545 --> 00:03:08,545 This way. 36 00:03:31,025 --> 00:03:33,745 Come here. 37 00:03:33,825 --> 00:03:35,745 Look at me. Please look at me. 38 00:03:42,865 --> 00:03:44,145 Do you need water? 39 00:03:44,905 --> 00:03:46,945 Please calm down. 40 00:03:47,025 --> 00:03:48,105 Thank you. 41 00:03:50,745 --> 00:03:53,425 You always amaze me, my love. 42 00:03:53,945 --> 00:03:56,785 -Really? -You're incredible. This is incredible. 43 00:03:59,065 --> 00:04:00,425 I am proud of you, you hear me? 44 00:04:03,345 --> 00:04:04,505 I love you. 45 00:04:05,225 --> 00:04:06,585 I love you too. 46 00:05:29,905 --> 00:05:36,345 I told Sizwe that once you use the services of my Lethukhanya, 47 00:05:36,425 --> 00:05:38,985 he wouldn't want to use anyone else's services for his wedding. 48 00:05:39,065 --> 00:05:40,665 This is an extraordinary event. 49 00:05:42,065 --> 00:05:44,745 Well, your sister's umemulo is one thing, 50 00:05:45,345 --> 00:05:47,825 but a wedding is something else. 51 00:05:47,905 --> 00:05:50,185 Especially a Jama wedding. 52 00:05:50,785 --> 00:05:55,905 I think Lethu has more than proven herself today, Ma. 53 00:06:06,305 --> 00:06:08,105 I won't disappoint you, Mrs. Jama. 54 00:06:08,185 --> 00:06:09,225 Thank you. 55 00:06:10,265 --> 00:06:11,265 Thank you. 56 00:06:19,585 --> 00:06:20,585 Get ready to start working. 57 00:06:22,665 --> 00:06:26,625 Thank you, thank you, thank you. 58 00:06:36,625 --> 00:06:40,625 -Hallelujah, ladies. Hallelujah, brethren. -Hallelujah. 59 00:06:40,705 --> 00:06:45,545 Since she has risen to the ranks of married women, 60 00:06:45,625 --> 00:06:47,345 we are giving her the uniform. 61 00:06:50,905 --> 00:06:54,505 Now, a relationship, like everything else in this world… 62 00:06:56,105 --> 00:06:59,065 Right at the top of the food chain is the married woman. 63 00:06:59,145 --> 00:07:00,625 Respected and revered. 64 00:07:01,145 --> 00:07:03,505 But one thing about relationships… 65 00:07:08,825 --> 00:07:11,745 Increase my faith 66 00:07:11,825 --> 00:07:14,025 And accept me as I am 67 00:07:14,105 --> 00:07:17,705 And accept me as I am With everything I have 68 00:07:18,505 --> 00:07:20,305 -You know what, my love? -Yes, my love? 69 00:07:20,385 --> 00:07:23,505 I've never seen a coming of age ceremony that beautiful. 70 00:07:25,305 --> 00:07:27,385 You're just saying that. 71 00:07:27,465 --> 00:07:28,825 You're good at your work! 72 00:07:28,905 --> 00:07:30,945 Thank you. 73 00:07:31,025 --> 00:07:33,825 But none of that would've been possible without your help. 74 00:07:33,905 --> 00:07:35,065 You know that, right? 75 00:07:36,745 --> 00:07:37,745 Really? 76 00:07:38,905 --> 00:07:40,545 My love. Come here. 77 00:07:43,625 --> 00:07:45,305 There's something on my mind. 78 00:07:45,385 --> 00:07:46,385 Yes. 79 00:07:46,905 --> 00:07:50,065 You would do an even better job without Amanda. 80 00:07:50,705 --> 00:07:51,865 No! 81 00:07:51,945 --> 00:07:53,705 Lucky. Don't start, Lucky. 82 00:07:53,785 --> 00:07:55,465 -No. -Please leave my friend alone. 83 00:07:55,545 --> 00:07:57,945 No, my love. On top that, she doesn't do much. 84 00:08:21,865 --> 00:08:23,825 Themba! Themba! 85 00:08:24,385 --> 00:08:25,385 MaBrr. 86 00:08:26,305 --> 00:08:27,305 My God! 87 00:08:27,385 --> 00:08:28,785 Yes, my darling. 88 00:08:29,785 --> 00:08:31,225 -Themba! -My darling? 89 00:08:32,185 --> 00:08:34,905 I'll ask once and only once! 90 00:08:34,985 --> 00:08:37,144 Please don't lie to me. 91 00:08:37,705 --> 00:08:39,105 Whose panties are these? 92 00:08:40,105 --> 00:08:41,105 Whose are they? 93 00:08:41,185 --> 00:08:43,024 -They aren't yours? -Do these look like mine? 94 00:08:43,825 --> 00:08:45,904 -Baby, please calm down. -I must calm down? 95 00:08:45,985 --> 00:08:47,705 Tell me how a pair of panties that don't belong to me 96 00:08:47,784 --> 00:08:49,465 made their way into our dirty laundry. 97 00:08:49,545 --> 00:08:50,865 -I don't know. -You don't know? 98 00:08:50,945 --> 00:08:53,385 I don't know, baby. Maybe they blew off the neighbor's line. 99 00:08:53,465 --> 00:08:55,105 Could they be MaNgcobo's? 100 00:08:55,745 --> 00:08:58,105 Themba. Themba! 101 00:08:58,185 --> 00:08:59,425 Themba! 102 00:08:59,505 --> 00:09:00,665 You have slept with MaNgcobo? 103 00:09:00,745 --> 00:09:03,545 -No, I didn't. -You know what her panties look like. 104 00:09:03,625 --> 00:09:05,945 -Baby, calm down. -Do you know what your problem is? 105 00:09:06,025 --> 00:09:09,465 You do not respect me! You don't, Themba! 106 00:09:09,545 --> 00:09:12,145 But, baby, how can you say that? 107 00:09:12,225 --> 00:09:14,945 You're even holding it! Do you like it, Themba? 108 00:09:15,585 --> 00:09:18,185 Stand right here. Do not go anywhere. 109 00:09:18,265 --> 00:09:20,465 I want you to stand here. Today you'll know who I am. 110 00:09:22,985 --> 00:09:25,305 Baby, come back so that we can talk. MaBrr. 111 00:09:25,385 --> 00:09:28,145 -Yes. You were saying? -Bridget, what are you doing? 112 00:09:28,225 --> 00:09:30,065 -I'm sorry. -Themba! 113 00:09:30,145 --> 00:09:32,585 -You're sorry? Themba! -Stop it! I'm sorry. 114 00:09:32,665 --> 00:09:34,545 -Calm down! -Don't you dare tell me to calm down! 115 00:09:34,625 --> 00:09:35,665 I'm really sorry, baby! 116 00:09:35,745 --> 00:09:38,345 Never set foot in my house again. Do you hear me? 117 00:09:38,425 --> 00:09:41,145 -Ever! -MaBrr, I'm sorry! 118 00:09:43,265 --> 00:09:44,425 Ew. 119 00:09:54,385 --> 00:09:55,945 -Brother. -Hey, brother. 120 00:09:56,025 --> 00:09:59,305 Please come talk to Bridget on my behalf. She only listens to you. 121 00:09:59,385 --> 00:10:01,785 I'm in trouble. Please, dude. 122 00:10:01,865 --> 00:10:03,145 Sure, we're coming. 123 00:10:06,985 --> 00:10:09,105 No. And as for you… You're very lucky! 124 00:10:09,185 --> 00:10:10,385 I'll chop your dick off. 125 00:10:10,465 --> 00:10:12,545 He's sorry. He's so sorry. 126 00:10:13,665 --> 00:10:15,065 I don't deserve this. 127 00:10:15,145 --> 00:10:16,665 Of course not. You're very pretty. 128 00:10:17,905 --> 00:10:19,745 You don't deserve any of this. I agree with you. 129 00:10:19,825 --> 00:10:22,505 Why can't he be more like you? 130 00:10:22,585 --> 00:10:24,065 How's that so hard? 131 00:10:24,145 --> 00:10:25,825 I'm begging you. Please give me the machete. 132 00:10:25,905 --> 00:10:28,185 -No. -You'll end up hurting each other. 133 00:10:28,265 --> 00:10:29,785 Obviously I want to hurt him. 134 00:10:29,865 --> 00:10:31,985 I can't afford to lose MaBrr. 135 00:10:32,065 --> 00:10:33,705 We have a good thing going on. 136 00:10:35,265 --> 00:10:37,745 Okay, then. Take it. 137 00:10:37,825 --> 00:10:39,745 Thank you, thank you, MaBrr. 138 00:10:39,825 --> 00:10:41,745 Go and talk to him. 139 00:10:42,865 --> 00:10:44,025 There he comes. 140 00:10:48,145 --> 00:10:50,465 -Do you see what you've put us through? -Brother. 141 00:10:50,545 --> 00:10:52,025 Here's the machete. 142 00:10:52,105 --> 00:10:53,505 She says you can come back. 143 00:10:54,065 --> 00:10:55,025 Thanks, brother. 144 00:10:55,105 --> 00:10:57,065 The problem is that you're thanking me now, 145 00:10:57,145 --> 00:10:58,745 but you're still going to do it again. 146 00:10:58,825 --> 00:11:01,985 No, brother. I won't, brother. 147 00:11:02,065 --> 00:11:03,345 -Okay, see you then. -Sharp, brother. 148 00:11:08,625 --> 00:11:11,745 How long do you think before you get another call? 149 00:11:14,305 --> 00:11:16,985 We should be able to make it home at least… I think. 150 00:11:17,065 --> 00:11:18,305 You think? 151 00:11:19,785 --> 00:11:22,185 -That's good to hear. -Why? 152 00:11:22,265 --> 00:11:26,185 Because I've been thinking about getting you home all day. 153 00:11:26,265 --> 00:11:28,105 -Who? Me? -Yes, you. 154 00:11:28,185 --> 00:11:29,265 Let's go. 155 00:11:34,705 --> 00:11:36,025 What are you doing? 156 00:11:37,145 --> 00:11:38,225 Come inside. 157 00:11:38,305 --> 00:11:40,065 -Thank you, my love. -Ah, stop it. 158 00:11:40,145 --> 00:11:41,745 -I love you. -Ah, stop it. 159 00:11:41,825 --> 00:11:44,705 -I love you, my love. -No! 160 00:12:54,905 --> 00:12:56,185 I love you so much. 161 00:12:57,545 --> 00:12:59,705 -I love you too. -You love me? 162 00:13:00,985 --> 00:13:01,985 I love you. 163 00:13:03,225 --> 00:13:04,225 I love you. 164 00:13:31,345 --> 00:13:32,585 Wait, baby. Where are you going? 165 00:13:47,705 --> 00:13:48,705 Amanda? 166 00:13:49,745 --> 00:13:51,305 I'm sorry, guys. 167 00:13:52,105 --> 00:13:53,545 -What are you doing? -What's going on? 168 00:13:54,185 --> 00:13:55,865 Guys, I'm sorry to wake you. 169 00:13:59,025 --> 00:14:00,705 Amanda, what are you doing? 170 00:14:00,785 --> 00:14:01,905 Friend, I'm sorry. 171 00:14:01,985 --> 00:14:03,505 Wait, how did you get in? 172 00:14:03,585 --> 00:14:04,745 Friend, I fucked up. 173 00:14:05,265 --> 00:14:08,145 I forgot to place the order for the Kunene baby shower. 174 00:14:08,225 --> 00:14:10,385 -The cake? -And the bakery can't do it. 175 00:14:10,465 --> 00:14:12,225 But how did you get inside our house? 176 00:14:12,305 --> 00:14:13,585 I called everyone. 177 00:14:13,665 --> 00:14:17,865 So, I thought I'd make it myself but my oven hasn't worked since I moved in. 178 00:14:17,945 --> 00:14:20,145 -How did she get in? -You promised that you can handle this. 179 00:14:20,225 --> 00:14:21,745 -I know, friend. -I'm gonna go bathe. 180 00:14:21,825 --> 00:14:23,265 That's why I was trying to bake it. 181 00:14:23,345 --> 00:14:24,825 -You don't bake! -I know. 182 00:14:25,745 --> 00:14:27,185 Okay, wait. 183 00:14:27,785 --> 00:14:28,825 Let me think. 184 00:14:38,905 --> 00:14:41,545 You gave her a key to our house! 185 00:14:43,145 --> 00:14:45,385 I told you to fire her. 186 00:14:45,945 --> 00:14:47,185 She's my best friend. 187 00:14:50,905 --> 00:14:52,665 She means well, my love. 188 00:14:56,705 --> 00:14:59,905 Okay, the baby shower is this afternoon. What am I going to do? 189 00:15:05,425 --> 00:15:07,065 -You know? -What? 190 00:15:07,145 --> 00:15:09,905 Rather than buying a full cake, 191 00:15:09,985 --> 00:15:13,385 it's better to buy cupcakes that spell her name. 192 00:15:28,345 --> 00:15:30,305 And take our key back! 193 00:15:43,945 --> 00:15:45,585 We can't go on like this. 194 00:15:46,665 --> 00:15:48,705 Friend, I'm sorry. 195 00:15:48,785 --> 00:15:52,105 Let me take you out for a few drinks. 196 00:15:52,185 --> 00:15:53,825 I don't know about that. 197 00:15:54,705 --> 00:15:56,665 I think I'm going to head straight home. 198 00:15:56,745 --> 00:15:58,185 Lucky said he has a surprise for me. 199 00:15:59,105 --> 00:16:01,305 No, friend. Come on. 200 00:16:02,425 --> 00:16:05,225 -What's the matter now? -Don't let Lucky come between us. 201 00:16:05,305 --> 00:16:06,425 This has nothing to do with him. 202 00:16:06,505 --> 00:16:08,065 I heard what he said this morning. 203 00:16:09,065 --> 00:16:11,145 Okay. Please, let's leave this conversation. 204 00:16:11,225 --> 00:16:13,305 I know he says I'm a bad influence, 205 00:16:13,385 --> 00:16:18,025 but girl… He slows you down. I'm really worried about you. 206 00:16:18,105 --> 00:16:19,745 There's no need to worry. 207 00:16:19,825 --> 00:16:22,385 He won't even let you go out with your friends. 208 00:16:22,465 --> 00:16:23,465 Amanda. 209 00:16:24,065 --> 00:16:26,785 I like to go straight home. 210 00:16:27,305 --> 00:16:29,745 I like hanging out with my man. 211 00:16:31,625 --> 00:16:32,865 It's not a punishment. 212 00:16:38,985 --> 00:16:40,345 Let me go check on the client. 213 00:16:42,745 --> 00:16:43,905 Greetings. 214 00:17:05,225 --> 00:17:09,145 My love, please make me a man among men, 215 00:17:09,704 --> 00:17:12,464 and agree to marry me. 216 00:17:41,945 --> 00:17:44,225 I don't think I've met any woman 217 00:17:44,305 --> 00:17:46,825 in my life that matches Lethukhanya. 218 00:17:48,545 --> 00:17:54,185 She can take a house and change it into a home. 219 00:17:56,065 --> 00:17:57,505 When I'm with you, my love, 220 00:17:57,585 --> 00:17:58,905 I feel a comforting warmth-- 221 00:18:04,665 --> 00:18:08,505 I feel your love and I see it, my love. 222 00:18:09,225 --> 00:18:11,785 I don't see my future without Lethukhanya. 223 00:18:13,705 --> 00:18:17,145 Every day I spend on this earth is dedicated to making you happy 224 00:18:18,225 --> 00:18:19,745 and loving you, my love. 225 00:18:21,865 --> 00:18:22,865 Do you hear me? 226 00:18:23,465 --> 00:18:24,425 I do. 227 00:18:31,505 --> 00:18:35,345 Thank you very much that you were able to make it 228 00:18:35,425 --> 00:18:37,745 to our engagement celebration. 229 00:18:39,505 --> 00:18:42,745 And I'd like to thank you, my love… 230 00:18:47,105 --> 00:18:49,385 -I love you, my love. -I love you too. 231 00:19:07,145 --> 00:19:08,145 Your brother. 232 00:19:09,345 --> 00:19:10,665 Let me go have a word with him. 233 00:19:12,665 --> 00:19:15,945 Psst! Come, come, come here. 234 00:19:16,905 --> 00:19:18,585 Oh, my God. 235 00:19:18,665 --> 00:19:20,545 -He has a keen eye. -Discerning. 236 00:19:20,625 --> 00:19:21,905 Thank you on his behalf. 237 00:19:21,985 --> 00:19:24,705 Just wait until I show off at the high school reunion. 238 00:19:24,785 --> 00:19:25,785 As you should. 239 00:19:25,865 --> 00:19:28,105 You get my point. Admire this! 240 00:19:28,185 --> 00:19:31,265 -Congratulations. -Thank you, my friend. 241 00:19:31,345 --> 00:19:33,465 Themba! Themba! 242 00:19:35,825 --> 00:19:37,025 -Hey, MaBrr. -Where is he? 243 00:19:37,705 --> 00:19:39,025 Where is he? 244 00:19:39,905 --> 00:19:42,025 Do you know how you drive me wild? 245 00:19:42,105 --> 00:19:44,905 And I've been watching you. 246 00:19:46,745 --> 00:19:49,105 I am joking. Let's do this. 247 00:19:50,185 --> 00:19:53,385 Enter your number here, so I can show you how serious I am. 248 00:19:56,025 --> 00:19:58,905 I'm delighted… to see you. 249 00:19:58,985 --> 00:20:00,465 -Delighted to see me? You? -Yeah. 250 00:20:01,585 --> 00:20:02,905 Lucky? 251 00:20:04,705 --> 00:20:09,265 Y'all are having a party. Yet, you didn't invite me? 252 00:20:09,345 --> 00:20:13,225 Us? No way. How could I throw such a big party and not invite you? 253 00:20:13,305 --> 00:20:15,305 Maybe Themba forgot to tell you. 254 00:20:15,385 --> 00:20:16,785 Themba forgot to tell me? 255 00:20:17,825 --> 00:20:19,105 -Where is he? -MaBrr. 256 00:20:20,985 --> 00:20:24,185 Themba? Your wife is here and she's looking for you. 257 00:20:24,785 --> 00:20:27,985 Eish. Eish, eish, eish. 258 00:20:28,065 --> 00:20:30,105 Let's stop here for now, we'll resume later. 259 00:20:30,705 --> 00:20:31,545 Where's my wife? 260 00:20:31,625 --> 00:20:32,945 She's downstairs. 261 00:20:33,025 --> 00:20:34,025 Eish. 262 00:20:34,545 --> 00:20:36,225 Thanks for looking out for me, my sister. 263 00:20:37,105 --> 00:20:38,225 Themba. 264 00:20:41,305 --> 00:20:43,025 Eish. Eish, eish, eish. 265 00:20:43,745 --> 00:20:47,985 Before I forget. Welcome to our family. Sharp. 266 00:20:52,905 --> 00:20:55,145 Themba! No! 267 00:20:57,545 --> 00:20:58,825 Themba, you're so evil. 268 00:21:00,105 --> 00:21:01,505 Themba! 269 00:21:01,585 --> 00:21:02,905 You're hiding in a fish tank? 270 00:21:05,465 --> 00:21:06,465 Themba! Them… 271 00:21:10,265 --> 00:21:12,425 You were trying to get my attention. 272 00:21:12,505 --> 00:21:13,625 Well it worked. 273 00:21:44,065 --> 00:21:47,265 No, I want to check the calls I missed. When did you call me? 274 00:21:47,345 --> 00:21:50,345 -No, but there is no need. -No, I want to see them. 275 00:21:50,425 --> 00:21:55,065 If my man was calling me, I need to check what is going on. 276 00:21:55,145 --> 00:22:00,945 My love, leave it. I'm just glad you're here. Lethu and Lucky were boring me. 277 00:22:01,025 --> 00:22:03,665 They're so boring, my love. 278 00:22:03,745 --> 00:22:07,865 But now that you're here, the party begins. 279 00:22:07,945 --> 00:22:09,305 Hey, you! 280 00:22:09,385 --> 00:22:10,905 I even looked for you in the fish tank. 281 00:22:10,985 --> 00:22:13,465 No ways! Fish tank? 282 00:22:14,905 --> 00:22:15,905 My love. 283 00:22:19,465 --> 00:22:21,065 My love. 284 00:22:23,985 --> 00:22:25,585 -Yes, my love. -Is everything okay? 285 00:22:26,745 --> 00:22:27,785 I'm relieved now. 286 00:22:29,385 --> 00:22:32,225 I'm so happy that you're nothing like your brother. 287 00:22:32,305 --> 00:22:35,345 Babes, not to disturb. Anyway… 288 00:22:35,425 --> 00:22:41,465 So, the girls are thinking of going to a salsa social just to party a little. 289 00:22:46,465 --> 00:22:48,785 I think I'm going to go home with my man. 290 00:22:50,385 --> 00:22:52,225 It's for the last time. 291 00:22:52,305 --> 00:22:54,745 Next time, friend. I promise you. 292 00:22:55,545 --> 00:22:58,385 I suppose if I had a man, I'd be going home with him too. 293 00:22:59,345 --> 00:23:00,785 -Bye, guys. Behave yourselves. -Sharp. 294 00:23:03,305 --> 00:23:04,545 Go well. 295 00:23:08,185 --> 00:23:09,585 Can I also have my share? 296 00:23:10,585 --> 00:23:12,025 You want… 297 00:23:27,625 --> 00:23:32,865 So, tell me, friend. Are you really doing this, marrying Lucky? 298 00:23:37,025 --> 00:23:39,985 I don't need your negativity today. 299 00:23:40,065 --> 00:23:42,905 Can we focus on the Jama wedding, please? 300 00:23:42,985 --> 00:23:44,705 I do not want any slipups, Amanda. 301 00:23:56,025 --> 00:23:59,025 Nothing, just a UTI. I'm going to the gynae today. 302 00:23:59,105 --> 00:24:01,025 Then when I come back, we'll go see the first venue. 303 00:24:02,745 --> 00:24:07,945 If we get this right, we can make this. I'm already imagining it. 304 00:24:08,705 --> 00:24:13,825 When they talk about the boss, they'll be talking about you, my friend. 305 00:24:13,905 --> 00:24:15,745 You are best at what you do. 306 00:24:15,825 --> 00:24:17,065 Thank you. 307 00:24:21,825 --> 00:24:22,945 How are things? 308 00:24:23,025 --> 00:24:24,705 All is well. 309 00:24:25,425 --> 00:24:28,225 And something else happened. 310 00:24:30,745 --> 00:24:31,785 Lethu. 311 00:24:31,865 --> 00:24:33,705 He proposed. 312 00:24:34,545 --> 00:24:38,025 Shame, my Lucky. My love. 313 00:24:42,465 --> 00:24:44,745 I wish you every happiness. 314 00:24:45,265 --> 00:24:47,305 Thank you. Thank you, Doctor. 315 00:24:47,825 --> 00:24:51,425 You were worried that you may have a UTI. 316 00:24:52,265 --> 00:24:53,945 And I have your results here. 317 00:24:54,025 --> 00:24:56,665 When we analyzed them, we found that you do not have it. 318 00:24:59,025 --> 00:25:00,225 Then what is it? 319 00:25:00,305 --> 00:25:03,745 There's no need to be overly concerned, 320 00:25:04,265 --> 00:25:08,065 but it can be dealt with very easily and cleared in a few days. 321 00:25:08,865 --> 00:25:11,265 But your results show that you have chlamydia. 322 00:25:11,345 --> 00:25:12,545 What? 323 00:25:12,625 --> 00:25:13,625 Yes. 324 00:25:13,705 --> 00:25:15,785 I will prescribe antibiotics. 325 00:25:21,585 --> 00:25:23,145 Chlamydia is an STI. 326 00:25:23,225 --> 00:25:24,985 Yes, it is. 327 00:25:25,065 --> 00:25:28,345 But it's nothing to be embarrassed about. 328 00:25:28,425 --> 00:25:30,185 It's common in women too. 329 00:25:31,745 --> 00:25:34,145 Is there any other way to get it? 330 00:25:34,225 --> 00:25:36,665 Other than sex? No, there isn't. 331 00:25:39,065 --> 00:25:42,385 I'll write you a prescription for antibiotics, 332 00:25:42,985 --> 00:25:45,185 to be taken over the next seven days… 333 00:25:45,265 --> 00:25:46,265 I have chlamydia. 334 00:25:46,345 --> 00:25:48,745 …so that you can start your marriage on a healthy note. 335 00:25:56,705 --> 00:25:59,345 But men. That's why they disgust me. 336 00:26:01,945 --> 00:26:03,385 …all is in order, 337 00:26:03,465 --> 00:26:06,625 a man will find a way to ruin things. 338 00:26:06,705 --> 00:26:07,825 Look how hurt she is. 339 00:26:07,905 --> 00:26:11,465 You can see that men are against our peace. 340 00:26:12,305 --> 00:26:13,425 Eish, men! 341 00:26:31,505 --> 00:26:32,505 Come here. 342 00:26:34,305 --> 00:26:36,865 Lethu? Why are you hitting me? 343 00:26:49,865 --> 00:26:51,145 Just tell me who. 344 00:26:55,665 --> 00:26:56,865 I have chlamydia, Lucky! 345 00:26:57,465 --> 00:26:58,585 I already have it. 346 00:27:02,705 --> 00:27:04,665 I haven't been with anyone but you 347 00:27:04,745 --> 00:27:06,305 since we started dating three years ago. 348 00:27:09,585 --> 00:27:10,905 Please. 349 00:27:12,985 --> 00:27:14,625 Just be honest with me. 350 00:27:16,425 --> 00:27:17,505 I deserve that much. 351 00:27:18,425 --> 00:27:19,825 Please. 352 00:27:25,545 --> 00:27:26,545 Okay. 353 00:27:27,105 --> 00:27:30,465 Okay, my love. It happened once. 354 00:27:30,545 --> 00:27:32,265 But it was just once. 355 00:27:32,345 --> 00:27:33,305 Who? 356 00:27:34,465 --> 00:27:36,065 -You don't know her. -Who? 357 00:27:36,145 --> 00:27:37,545 Lethu, I swear you don't know her. 358 00:27:40,105 --> 00:27:41,545 I didn't mean to hurt you. 359 00:27:41,625 --> 00:27:42,625 Don't lie to me. 360 00:27:42,705 --> 00:27:44,385 I swear, it was just once, one stupid time-- 361 00:27:44,465 --> 00:27:45,945 You had sex with her without a condom? 362 00:27:47,345 --> 00:27:51,345 We had been drinking, I wasn't thinking. I am sorry. 363 00:27:51,425 --> 00:27:53,225 Lucky, I have chlamydia. 364 00:27:55,065 --> 00:27:57,025 In other words, it's all been a lie? 365 00:27:59,185 --> 00:28:00,865 -I've just been fooling myself? -No. 366 00:28:01,745 --> 00:28:04,905 No, my love, of course not. I was the fool. 367 00:28:05,545 --> 00:28:08,625 Please, don't ever say that again. You hear me? 368 00:28:10,585 --> 00:28:12,985 I can't believe you did this. 369 00:28:15,505 --> 00:28:18,825 To me, to us. 370 00:28:22,265 --> 00:28:23,385 I'm sorry, baby. 371 00:28:25,665 --> 00:28:27,705 -I'm very sorry. -Please don't touch me. 372 00:28:30,625 --> 00:28:35,305 Lethu, please… Please listen to me, my love. 373 00:30:27,145 --> 00:30:28,505 What is wrong now, baby? 374 00:30:28,585 --> 00:30:32,385 Who's Mbali? Pinky? Lindi? Sne? 375 00:30:32,465 --> 00:30:35,585 Anele? Portia? Thembi? 376 00:30:35,665 --> 00:30:38,425 It's too late for that, Lucky! 377 00:30:39,265 --> 00:30:40,625 Please give me a chance to explain. 378 00:30:40,705 --> 00:30:42,785 There is nothing to explain. 379 00:30:42,865 --> 00:30:44,745 You said it was one mistake once. 380 00:30:45,545 --> 00:30:47,545 -So, who are all these women? -A mistake… 381 00:30:47,625 --> 00:30:48,825 You are disgusting! 382 00:30:49,905 --> 00:30:51,225 Ew. 383 00:30:51,945 --> 00:30:54,025 -What is going on now? -Hey! Get out, Lucky! 384 00:30:54,105 --> 00:30:55,105 I am not playing! 385 00:30:56,065 --> 00:30:57,145 I said, get out! 386 00:30:59,105 --> 00:31:01,225 Get out! Fuck off! 387 00:31:24,465 --> 00:31:25,665 Stop that man! 388 00:31:27,345 --> 00:31:29,225 Come here! 389 00:31:29,305 --> 00:31:30,265 Come here! 390 00:31:30,345 --> 00:31:31,505 Stop him! 391 00:31:32,105 --> 00:31:33,545 Fuck off! 392 00:31:34,305 --> 00:31:35,425 -Fuck you! -Stop him! 393 00:31:35,505 --> 00:31:37,065 -Fuck you! -Stop him! 394 00:31:37,745 --> 00:31:39,185 -Fuck you! -Stop him! 395 00:31:41,905 --> 00:31:43,305 -Stop him! -We will get you! 396 00:31:46,225 --> 00:31:48,065 Leave him! 397 00:31:48,145 --> 00:31:49,105 Oh God! 398 00:31:49,185 --> 00:31:50,625 Leave him! 399 00:31:59,585 --> 00:32:03,145 Guys, I tell you every day. 400 00:32:08,465 --> 00:32:11,665 No matter how fast you run! Just look at Themba now! 401 00:32:11,745 --> 00:32:13,905 Themba, your shenanigans! 402 00:32:15,985 --> 00:32:17,585 How can I help you, sister? 403 00:32:19,425 --> 00:32:21,385 We are seeing shocking things. Here you go. 404 00:32:33,345 --> 00:32:34,505 Time is slipping away. 405 00:32:35,385 --> 00:32:36,705 Why are we here? 406 00:32:38,905 --> 00:32:41,905 Please allow me to go and call Lethu. 407 00:32:43,505 --> 00:32:44,545 Lethu. 408 00:32:45,985 --> 00:32:50,105 Maybe the taxis are running slow or she is stuck in traffic. 409 00:32:57,625 --> 00:32:59,265 But don't be hard on the poor girl. 410 00:32:59,345 --> 00:33:01,665 I'm sure she has an explanation. 411 00:33:01,745 --> 00:33:03,145 I don't like excuses. 412 00:33:03,225 --> 00:33:04,305 Mrs. Nkosi. 413 00:33:04,385 --> 00:33:08,065 Ma, calm down a bit. I'm sure Lethu is on the way. 414 00:33:08,145 --> 00:33:10,345 -Right? Lethu is on the way. -Yes. 415 00:33:17,305 --> 00:33:19,345 And don't forget. This may be your marriage… 416 00:33:35,105 --> 00:33:36,145 No, girl! No! 417 00:33:37,185 --> 00:33:38,265 What's your problem? 418 00:33:38,345 --> 00:33:40,385 I stopped them at the door as they were leaving. 419 00:33:40,465 --> 00:33:42,145 They were already leaving. 420 00:33:42,225 --> 00:33:45,425 -How do I look? Am I all right? -You're fine, friend, let's go! 421 00:33:57,465 --> 00:33:58,665 Oh, my dear. 422 00:33:58,745 --> 00:34:02,305 Themba, please tell me, my love. 423 00:34:05,985 --> 00:34:07,585 Your dignity, Themba? 424 00:34:08,145 --> 00:34:09,345 Let's forget about me, 425 00:34:09,825 --> 00:34:12,065 because I understand that you don't care about me. 426 00:34:12,145 --> 00:34:13,824 But what about you? Baby? 427 00:34:13,905 --> 00:34:16,784 Your dignity, the family's dignity, Themba. 428 00:34:21,824 --> 00:34:24,225 -Please bring me more ice. -Never. 429 00:34:24,304 --> 00:34:26,824 I won't be bringing you ice. Don't ask that of me. 430 00:34:26,905 --> 00:34:30,905 Imagine being beaten up by schoolboys, Themba. 431 00:34:30,985 --> 00:34:33,145 Please, Bridget, just give me some space. 432 00:34:33,225 --> 00:34:36,744 No! I won't be giving you any space, my dear. 433 00:34:36,824 --> 00:34:39,905 Listen, I'm not done with you yet! 434 00:34:39,985 --> 00:34:42,344 Don't you ever get tired of your disgusting behavior? 435 00:34:42,425 --> 00:34:44,744 With you being bruised and beaten up like this. 436 00:34:44,824 --> 00:34:46,185 Aren't you ashamed, Themba? 437 00:34:50,065 --> 00:34:55,065 Well done! Themba, from kwaMashu. 438 00:34:55,585 --> 00:34:57,545 You never stop shocking me. You hear me? 439 00:34:57,625 --> 00:35:02,505 My love from kwaMashu, who got beaten up by kids. 440 00:35:02,585 --> 00:35:03,945 Poor thing. 441 00:35:06,905 --> 00:35:08,305 Let me get the door for you. 442 00:35:36,185 --> 00:35:38,265 That could've gone better. 443 00:35:39,985 --> 00:35:41,785 I'm not feeling well. 444 00:35:41,865 --> 00:35:42,745 I feel sick. 445 00:35:42,825 --> 00:35:45,465 At least they didn't fire us, friend. 446 00:35:45,545 --> 00:35:47,665 Friend, I don't think I can do this. 447 00:35:47,745 --> 00:35:50,425 What do you mean? We still have the gig of the century. 448 00:35:52,305 --> 00:35:57,185 You know what? Fuck Lucky! He almost cost us this job. 449 00:35:57,265 --> 00:35:59,305 Guess what I planned? 450 00:36:00,025 --> 00:36:02,665 -What? -You and I are going out tonight. 451 00:36:02,745 --> 00:36:06,265 -We are going to party. -No, no ways, Amanda. 452 00:36:06,345 --> 00:36:08,025 -I don't know. -Just loosen up, 453 00:36:08,665 --> 00:36:10,665 relax a bit and party tonight. 454 00:36:15,865 --> 00:36:17,825 I should have hidden my phone. 455 00:36:18,945 --> 00:36:20,145 As for you… 456 00:36:21,505 --> 00:36:23,305 All these years you were scolding me. 457 00:36:23,385 --> 00:36:25,345 Meanwhile, you were up to the same shit. 458 00:36:26,505 --> 00:36:27,985 Your situation is different from mine. 459 00:36:28,585 --> 00:36:30,265 -It is different. -How is it different? 460 00:36:32,985 --> 00:36:34,265 I still have my dignity. 461 00:36:36,265 --> 00:36:37,825 But not your woman. 462 00:36:39,545 --> 00:36:41,225 I can't lose her. 463 00:36:44,265 --> 00:36:46,065 I can't imagine my life without Lethu. 464 00:36:46,145 --> 00:36:47,985 I'm nothing without her. 465 00:36:49,945 --> 00:36:52,145 I've never met anyone like her. 466 00:36:53,785 --> 00:36:55,065 I have to get her back. 467 00:36:56,505 --> 00:36:59,545 I need to find a way to win her back. 468 00:36:59,625 --> 00:37:03,625 I've never seen her look at me like that. I need to change. 469 00:37:05,265 --> 00:37:07,225 For real, this time. 470 00:37:19,385 --> 00:37:20,385 Unbelievable. 471 00:37:22,345 --> 00:37:24,945 That's what happens, I'm telling you. 472 00:37:26,665 --> 00:37:28,865 Don't you dare say that, Lucky. You hear me? 473 00:37:28,945 --> 00:37:31,105 Of course I'm ignoring your calls. 474 00:37:31,185 --> 00:37:36,865 I mean, how dare you add me to a broadcast list of your bitches? Me? 475 00:37:37,465 --> 00:37:38,465 Are you a cheater? 476 00:37:39,505 --> 00:37:40,505 Do you cheat? 477 00:37:41,665 --> 00:37:42,545 Do you have a girlfriend? 478 00:37:43,145 --> 00:37:44,785 Because if you do have a girlfriend, 479 00:37:44,865 --> 00:37:46,865 you would have to tell her, because it is rough out here. 480 00:37:48,945 --> 00:37:50,025 You know what? 481 00:37:50,105 --> 00:37:53,225 My friend's life right now is great without you. 482 00:37:53,305 --> 00:37:54,545 She is doing fine without you. 483 00:37:54,625 --> 00:37:57,065 She has moved on, I suggest you do the same. 484 00:37:57,145 --> 00:37:59,505 You know, I did everything accordingly. 485 00:38:08,385 --> 00:38:10,905 But maybe you and I could… 486 00:38:16,225 --> 00:38:19,185 Hey! No! Amanda! 487 00:38:19,265 --> 00:38:21,145 No, no, no. 488 00:38:22,225 --> 00:38:26,065 You said we were going out to drink, have fun, "fuck him, fuck him." 489 00:38:26,145 --> 00:38:27,305 But now you are on your phone? 490 00:38:27,385 --> 00:38:28,465 -Yes. -All night? 491 00:38:29,265 --> 00:38:30,545 I'm sorry, friend. It's just… 492 00:38:30,625 --> 00:38:32,065 It's just what? 493 00:38:33,105 --> 00:38:34,385 I'm back. 494 00:38:43,465 --> 00:38:44,545 Shots? 495 00:38:46,105 --> 00:38:47,185 Let's go. 496 00:39:00,105 --> 00:39:01,585 No, I'm joking. 497 00:39:04,105 --> 00:39:05,545 Does your girlfriend know that you are here? 498 00:39:05,625 --> 00:39:07,105 Fortunately, I don't have a girlfriend. 499 00:39:11,185 --> 00:39:14,825 Since we are getting to know each other, 500 00:39:15,625 --> 00:39:20,465 I should let you know that I have chlamydia, 501 00:39:21,145 --> 00:39:24,665 the STD. 502 00:39:24,745 --> 00:39:28,345 Now, if you slip up and choose to trust men, 503 00:39:28,865 --> 00:39:30,505 chances are you'll get chlamydia too. 504 00:39:31,505 --> 00:39:32,505 Vuyo? 505 00:39:32,585 --> 00:39:35,145 Be careful, brother. You might also have it. 506 00:39:35,865 --> 00:39:38,505 Amanda, did you check for chlamydia? 507 00:39:42,545 --> 00:39:44,065 I am trying to help you. 508 00:39:44,905 --> 00:39:49,425 I am telling you. Watch out. 509 00:39:50,385 --> 00:39:51,385 Let's go, friend. 510 00:40:05,985 --> 00:40:08,025 We do not want to sleep at home 511 00:40:13,865 --> 00:40:15,465 What are you doing here? 512 00:40:16,225 --> 00:40:17,945 Can we talk please, Lethu? 513 00:40:18,785 --> 00:40:20,065 You are not serious. 514 00:40:26,145 --> 00:40:27,385 Fine. She is all yours. 515 00:40:27,985 --> 00:40:29,585 Friend, here are your keys. 516 00:40:29,665 --> 00:40:30,625 You will be fine. 517 00:40:31,385 --> 00:40:32,465 My bag? 518 00:40:32,545 --> 00:40:33,785 You will get it tomorrow. 519 00:40:38,185 --> 00:40:40,185 Baby, I can't stand this anymore. 520 00:40:41,265 --> 00:40:42,465 I miss you, my love. 521 00:40:45,665 --> 00:40:46,905 Do you hear me? 522 00:41:00,065 --> 00:41:02,825 To deliver us 523 00:41:03,905 --> 00:41:05,785 Eternal life 524 00:41:05,865 --> 00:41:12,105 Maybe, as we are here, beloved. Someone is enslaved. 525 00:41:12,185 --> 00:41:14,585 Someone is bound by the chains of sin. 526 00:41:16,265 --> 00:41:18,545 Jesus says we must bring everything to Him. 527 00:41:18,625 --> 00:41:20,225 Brethren. 528 00:41:20,305 --> 00:41:22,265 I am struggling with a spirit of fornication. 529 00:41:22,985 --> 00:41:23,905 Ah. 530 00:41:25,265 --> 00:41:26,465 Come, my son. 531 00:41:26,545 --> 00:41:28,105 I can't stop it. 532 00:41:28,185 --> 00:41:30,505 -Come, my child. -I can't keep it in my pants. 533 00:41:32,185 --> 00:41:33,425 I want to change. 534 00:41:34,265 --> 00:41:36,865 Let me invite you, brethren. 535 00:41:37,505 --> 00:41:40,385 Come, let's pray for this young man. 536 00:41:40,465 --> 00:41:42,665 Kneel, my child. Come, son. 537 00:41:44,105 --> 00:41:46,305 Let's hand it over to God. 538 00:41:48,305 --> 00:41:52,465 Jesus, the Son of God, says, 539 00:41:53,185 --> 00:41:56,945 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, 540 00:41:57,025 --> 00:41:59,145 and I will give you rest." 541 00:41:59,905 --> 00:42:03,505 Depart, spirit of fornication! 542 00:42:04,945 --> 00:42:07,225 -Spirit of cheating-- -Depart! 543 00:42:08,105 --> 00:42:10,225 -Depart! Depart! -Brethren, 544 00:42:10,305 --> 00:42:11,785 -let's pray for this child. -Depart! Depart! 545 00:42:11,865 --> 00:42:13,945 I curse you, malevolent spirit. 546 00:42:14,025 --> 00:42:16,345 -Depart! Depart! Depart! -Depart! 547 00:42:16,425 --> 00:42:18,505 -Depart! -Leave this child alone! 548 00:42:18,585 --> 00:42:19,745 Depart, bad spirit! 549 00:42:19,825 --> 00:42:22,985 Depart! Depart! 550 00:42:23,065 --> 00:42:24,145 Depart! 551 00:42:24,225 --> 00:42:27,585 Set me free, Lord! 552 00:42:27,665 --> 00:42:29,905 Set me free, Lord! Set me free. 553 00:42:29,985 --> 00:42:32,905 Lucky, at this point we're just going around in circles. 554 00:42:32,985 --> 00:42:36,185 That's why I continue to apologize. 555 00:42:36,865 --> 00:42:38,625 Sleeping with one girl… 556 00:42:40,985 --> 00:42:43,505 Two, three maybe. 557 00:42:43,585 --> 00:42:44,985 But 17? 558 00:42:45,065 --> 00:42:48,465 Seventeen girls in the last six months. 559 00:42:48,545 --> 00:42:50,385 That's not a mistake. That's a problem. 560 00:42:51,585 --> 00:42:52,425 Lethu. I know that. 561 00:42:52,505 --> 00:42:56,025 And this act of pretending to be sad, please stop it! 562 00:42:59,465 --> 00:43:00,745 Be honest. 563 00:43:03,745 --> 00:43:04,785 I love you. 564 00:43:05,825 --> 00:43:08,185 Please listen to me. 565 00:43:08,705 --> 00:43:09,705 Okay? 566 00:43:10,945 --> 00:43:13,625 I love you, Lethu. More than I have ever loved anyone. 567 00:43:15,025 --> 00:43:16,425 But my love, I just… 568 00:43:17,705 --> 00:43:20,545 The thought of only having sex with you for the rest of my life… 569 00:43:28,105 --> 00:43:29,145 What do you mean? 570 00:43:30,865 --> 00:43:33,985 I mean, I don't think I'm cut out for monogamy 571 00:43:34,065 --> 00:43:35,305 for the rest of my life. 572 00:43:37,385 --> 00:43:40,465 I love you, Lethukhanya, and I want to have a future with you. 573 00:43:40,545 --> 00:43:42,145 Have kids with you, my love. 574 00:43:43,145 --> 00:43:43,985 But? 575 00:43:45,745 --> 00:43:48,985 But to only sleep with you for the rest of my life for that to happen? 576 00:43:50,265 --> 00:43:52,065 Think about it, my love. 577 00:43:52,145 --> 00:43:53,625 So, what? You're a polygamist? 578 00:43:55,025 --> 00:43:57,665 No, my love. I don't want polygamy. 579 00:43:58,265 --> 00:44:01,345 I don't want many wives. I don't even want other girlfriends. 580 00:44:01,425 --> 00:44:02,385 I only want you. 581 00:44:03,745 --> 00:44:08,705 I just need to be able to have sex with other people now and again too. 582 00:44:09,385 --> 00:44:11,665 And come back home, and still have us be okay. 583 00:44:18,425 --> 00:44:19,425 I can't. 584 00:44:22,185 --> 00:44:23,345 Please listen to me. 585 00:44:25,065 --> 00:44:27,985 There is no one I have loved more than you in my life. 586 00:44:28,065 --> 00:44:29,905 All those other women are just… 587 00:44:31,385 --> 00:44:35,305 They are just warm bodies to scratch an itch. Okay? 588 00:44:42,545 --> 00:44:45,545 You're the one who wanted the truth, and that's what I'm giving you. 589 00:44:50,425 --> 00:44:52,225 Please say something, baby. 590 00:45:01,345 --> 00:45:02,345 I have to go. 591 00:45:04,785 --> 00:45:06,785 I can't think right now. 592 00:45:07,385 --> 00:45:08,385 Lethu, listen. 593 00:45:37,985 --> 00:45:38,985 My child. 594 00:45:45,305 --> 00:45:46,305 Hey. 595 00:45:46,385 --> 00:45:47,865 It's okay. You're home now. 596 00:45:49,585 --> 00:45:51,225 Let's go inside. 597 00:46:10,785 --> 00:46:12,105 -Themba. -Yes? 598 00:46:13,185 --> 00:46:15,145 Did you mean what you said at church today? 599 00:46:15,225 --> 00:46:16,225 Which is? 600 00:46:16,305 --> 00:46:20,185 That you're really going to change. 601 00:46:21,465 --> 00:46:22,985 The way you were hitting me… 602 00:46:23,865 --> 00:46:27,825 If you didn't beat sense into me then, nothing ever will. 603 00:46:27,905 --> 00:46:30,905 -I'm serious, Themba. -So am I, my love. 604 00:46:31,505 --> 00:46:32,505 I will change. 605 00:46:33,185 --> 00:46:34,185 For real. 606 00:46:34,265 --> 00:46:35,545 I promise. 607 00:46:44,785 --> 00:46:45,785 Geez. 608 00:46:58,825 --> 00:47:00,745 -I am sorry, Gogo. -My child… 609 00:47:01,425 --> 00:47:02,425 what is wrong? 610 00:47:06,065 --> 00:47:08,385 Gogo, I am thinking about this situation with Lucky. 611 00:47:09,505 --> 00:47:12,545 -Goodness. -I would've understood if it was one girl. 612 00:47:13,385 --> 00:47:15,185 But there are about twenty. 613 00:47:15,265 --> 00:47:16,265 My child. 614 00:47:16,345 --> 00:47:20,345 How can I be with someone who needs to be with other people? 615 00:47:22,745 --> 00:47:23,785 I can't. 616 00:47:23,865 --> 00:47:25,465 It's going to be okay, my child. 617 00:47:25,545 --> 00:47:27,625 I don't think so, Gogo. 618 00:47:31,585 --> 00:47:33,545 You know what, please eat. 619 00:47:33,625 --> 00:47:35,825 I made it just the way you like it. 620 00:47:35,905 --> 00:47:37,545 Please eat, my child. 621 00:47:38,145 --> 00:47:39,345 Thank you. 622 00:47:39,425 --> 00:47:40,505 Have some sugar. 623 00:47:49,585 --> 00:47:52,745 I made a mess of things. 624 00:47:53,585 --> 00:47:54,905 I really messed up. 625 00:47:54,985 --> 00:47:56,065 You know, my brother, 626 00:47:56,585 --> 00:47:57,905 let me be honest with you. 627 00:47:58,545 --> 00:48:02,225 Honesty is never the way to go. 628 00:48:02,305 --> 00:48:03,705 What do you mean now? 629 00:48:04,305 --> 00:48:07,785 Deny, deny, deny. It's the only way your relationship can survive. 630 00:48:07,865 --> 00:48:08,865 No, that's not right. 631 00:48:08,945 --> 00:48:10,785 The only thing I need to do is to be better, Themba. 632 00:48:10,865 --> 00:48:12,505 It's not that easy. It's hard. 633 00:48:12,585 --> 00:48:14,425 Take me for instance. I am living proof. 634 00:48:14,505 --> 00:48:17,465 -Now you are lying to me. -No, I am being honest, bro. 635 00:48:17,545 --> 00:48:21,625 I'm done with all that nonsense, and I don't miss the stress. 636 00:48:22,465 --> 00:48:24,065 Hi, more refill? 637 00:48:24,145 --> 00:48:25,385 Hey. 638 00:48:25,465 --> 00:48:27,505 I arrived right on time. 639 00:48:27,585 --> 00:48:29,185 Let me take your empty bottles. 640 00:48:29,265 --> 00:48:30,625 There's the apple of my eye. 641 00:48:30,705 --> 00:48:32,625 Ah, stop it. 642 00:48:33,985 --> 00:48:35,185 Sure, Lucky. 643 00:48:35,265 --> 00:48:36,945 And then? What's wrong? 644 00:48:37,025 --> 00:48:38,105 Still no word? 645 00:48:38,625 --> 00:48:39,625 Yes. 646 00:48:40,345 --> 00:48:41,625 Nothing. 647 00:48:41,705 --> 00:48:43,585 She'll come around. 648 00:48:44,065 --> 00:48:46,065 And she will forgive you. I know. 649 00:48:46,585 --> 00:48:47,625 Be strong. 650 00:48:51,345 --> 00:48:53,065 And what about you, baby? 651 00:48:54,025 --> 00:48:55,385 Any plans today? 652 00:48:55,465 --> 00:48:56,545 What's happening? 653 00:48:57,185 --> 00:49:00,985 None. Just hanging out with my family. 654 00:49:01,065 --> 00:49:02,665 That is my brother… 655 00:49:03,905 --> 00:49:05,345 and my sweetheart. 656 00:49:09,905 --> 00:49:12,465 All right then, boys. Take care. 657 00:49:12,545 --> 00:49:13,585 Sharp, MaBrr. 658 00:49:13,665 --> 00:49:16,345 You are so good, God 659 00:49:24,065 --> 00:49:25,145 Tell me, bro. 660 00:49:25,225 --> 00:49:28,665 You're serious about this change? 661 00:49:28,745 --> 00:49:30,265 I told you, bro. 662 00:49:30,945 --> 00:49:32,505 I saw the light. 663 00:49:48,385 --> 00:49:49,865 Hello, Lethu. 664 00:49:51,305 --> 00:49:52,825 Hello. 665 00:49:52,905 --> 00:49:53,905 Hello. 666 00:49:53,985 --> 00:49:56,145 -How are you, my child? -I'm well. How are you? 667 00:49:56,225 --> 00:49:57,545 We are well too. 668 00:50:00,065 --> 00:50:03,145 Your granny told us you were visiting. 669 00:50:03,225 --> 00:50:06,065 We are so happy to see you. 670 00:50:06,145 --> 00:50:07,505 Just look at her, MaCele. 671 00:50:07,585 --> 00:50:09,305 She is such a beauty. 672 00:50:09,385 --> 00:50:11,065 Thank you. 673 00:50:12,905 --> 00:50:14,865 So, tell us, 674 00:50:14,945 --> 00:50:17,905 where is that handsome man of yours? 675 00:50:19,745 --> 00:50:24,465 I heard he got you a ring, one that is refined. 676 00:50:25,465 --> 00:50:28,105 But listen here, my child, you must tell him… 677 00:50:28,185 --> 00:50:30,185 that is not the right way of doing things. 678 00:50:30,265 --> 00:50:33,625 What he must do is send his uncles 679 00:50:33,705 --> 00:50:37,785 to bring lobola cows here. 680 00:50:37,865 --> 00:50:39,105 Not what you guys are doing. 681 00:50:39,185 --> 00:50:40,585 Of course. 682 00:50:41,545 --> 00:50:45,945 With all that being said, MaCele, we are very proud of you, Lethu. 683 00:50:46,025 --> 00:50:47,385 We are all so proud of you. 684 00:50:47,465 --> 00:50:51,185 And what makes us even more happy, is that soon you will be someone's wife. 685 00:50:52,345 --> 00:50:57,145 Even those who were after you, have lost. 686 00:50:57,745 --> 00:50:58,945 You are getting married. 687 00:50:59,025 --> 00:51:03,785 Lethu, my child, let's not disturb you. Where is your granny? 688 00:51:03,865 --> 00:51:05,065 She is inside. 689 00:51:05,145 --> 00:51:06,985 -Thank you. Good. -Let's go in and see her. 690 00:51:07,065 --> 00:51:09,945 -Thank you. -Carry on with your chores. 691 00:51:10,025 --> 00:51:11,025 Yes. 692 00:51:26,145 --> 00:51:30,985 Tell me, how would you tell those old grannies 693 00:51:31,065 --> 00:51:35,265 that your prize gave you chlamydia? 694 00:51:35,345 --> 00:51:37,385 Chlamydia? Wow. 695 00:51:48,825 --> 00:51:50,065 Please, Lethu… 696 00:51:51,625 --> 00:51:54,425 I know that, right now, you don't want to speak to me. 697 00:51:55,265 --> 00:51:57,265 You want nothing to do with me, but… 698 00:51:58,705 --> 00:52:00,905 I just wanted to make sure that you are okay. 699 00:52:01,825 --> 00:52:05,425 So, please text me or send me an e-mail, my love. 700 00:52:06,465 --> 00:52:08,225 So that I know that you are okay. 701 00:52:09,785 --> 00:52:10,785 Okay. 702 00:52:26,745 --> 00:52:27,825 You look terrible. 703 00:52:29,905 --> 00:52:31,105 Not to worry. 704 00:52:31,665 --> 00:52:33,345 I'm here to make you feel better. 705 00:52:34,385 --> 00:52:36,025 Please stop it. 706 00:52:36,105 --> 00:52:37,625 Have you heard from Lethu? 707 00:52:38,265 --> 00:52:39,905 I am sure she is okay where she is. 708 00:52:40,505 --> 00:52:42,705 I don't want us to talk about her right now. 709 00:52:42,785 --> 00:52:44,865 No, please stop. 710 00:52:46,825 --> 00:52:47,825 I'm sorry. 711 00:52:48,385 --> 00:52:49,985 I'm sorry, I can't. 712 00:52:52,625 --> 00:52:53,745 What's wrong with you? 713 00:52:55,665 --> 00:52:57,825 I'm heartbroken, Amanda. What do you think? 714 00:52:58,345 --> 00:52:59,665 Why are you even here? 715 00:52:59,745 --> 00:53:02,665 I don't understand. What is the big deal here? 716 00:53:02,745 --> 00:53:06,185 It's not like we've never done this before while you were still with her. 717 00:53:06,265 --> 00:53:08,305 Why stop now that she is gone? 718 00:53:08,385 --> 00:53:09,985 Because I don't want to, Amanda. 719 00:53:11,065 --> 00:53:12,225 I don't want to. 720 00:53:12,305 --> 00:53:13,385 -Please-- -I miss Lethu. 721 00:53:14,785 --> 00:53:15,785 I want her. 722 00:53:20,865 --> 00:53:21,945 Why wasn't it me? 723 00:53:22,865 --> 00:53:24,625 What does she have that I don't? 724 00:53:26,345 --> 00:53:28,305 Stop it. You know it's not like that. 725 00:53:28,385 --> 00:53:29,385 How is it then? 726 00:53:29,905 --> 00:53:31,505 You are marrying her now? 727 00:53:38,785 --> 00:53:40,985 I feel comfortable when I'm with Lethu. 728 00:53:41,065 --> 00:53:43,345 A warm home. Who wouldn't want that? 729 00:53:47,465 --> 00:53:49,065 And what am I, Lucky? 730 00:53:50,985 --> 00:53:52,185 What am I? 731 00:53:52,785 --> 00:53:56,065 A habit you never quite kicked? 732 00:53:56,145 --> 00:53:58,745 I thought this is what you wanted. 733 00:54:02,265 --> 00:54:03,265 I want you. 734 00:54:04,385 --> 00:54:06,585 That's why I am still here. 735 00:54:16,145 --> 00:54:18,505 Whoa, whoa, stop. 736 00:54:20,225 --> 00:54:22,025 -Please, baby. -Amanda, get off! 737 00:54:23,025 --> 00:54:24,545 Get off, bro. 738 00:54:24,625 --> 00:54:26,225 What is wrong with you? 739 00:54:31,185 --> 00:54:32,185 Please leave. 740 00:54:32,865 --> 00:54:35,145 -But, Lucky, I have stopped. -Get out, Amanda. 741 00:54:40,945 --> 00:54:42,865 Please leave. I want to be alone. 742 00:54:44,065 --> 00:54:45,065 Please leave. 743 00:54:52,945 --> 00:54:54,185 You know what, Lucky? 744 00:54:55,465 --> 00:54:58,145 I should have left you the day you gave me chlamydia. 745 00:55:10,705 --> 00:55:12,105 Do you love Lucky? 746 00:55:14,305 --> 00:55:15,745 Yes, Gogo. I do. 747 00:55:15,825 --> 00:55:17,905 Do you think he would be a great father? 748 00:55:19,665 --> 00:55:20,665 I think so. 749 00:55:21,265 --> 00:55:22,705 Does he make you happy? 750 00:55:22,785 --> 00:55:23,785 He does. 751 00:55:25,225 --> 00:55:27,065 He did. 752 00:55:27,145 --> 00:55:30,265 It's just that I cannot imagine my life without him. 753 00:55:31,305 --> 00:55:32,305 I don't know. 754 00:55:33,905 --> 00:55:35,265 You know, my child, 755 00:55:35,945 --> 00:55:41,105 if you leave your man because he cheats, you are no different from a person 756 00:55:41,585 --> 00:55:46,265 who migrates from their country because it rains and seeks refuge elsewhere. 757 00:55:46,345 --> 00:55:49,705 It rains everywhere, my child. 758 00:55:49,785 --> 00:55:51,545 Men cheat, Lethu. 759 00:55:52,105 --> 00:55:53,425 They fornicate. 760 00:55:54,065 --> 00:55:55,825 Don't cheat yourself because of it. 761 00:55:59,225 --> 00:56:00,985 I hope you understand me, my child. 762 00:56:02,905 --> 00:56:03,905 Yes, Gogo, I do. 763 00:56:05,385 --> 00:56:11,705 You see, my child, I love it when you visit. 764 00:56:11,785 --> 00:56:13,665 But this is not a place to hide. 765 00:56:18,385 --> 00:56:20,265 Let me help you, Gogo. 766 00:56:21,225 --> 00:56:22,545 -No. -Are you going to manage? 767 00:56:22,625 --> 00:56:25,025 -It is dry. It's not too heavy. -Okay. 768 00:57:10,705 --> 00:57:11,705 Lethu. 769 00:57:32,545 --> 00:57:33,905 I wasn't expecting you… 770 00:57:36,225 --> 00:57:37,825 How is everything? Are you okay? 771 00:57:45,665 --> 00:57:48,945 Lucky, I don't want to throw away what we spent so long building. 772 00:57:49,025 --> 00:57:50,145 Me neither. 773 00:57:50,225 --> 00:57:53,905 I agree with you, my love. I don't want that to happen. 774 00:57:54,425 --> 00:57:55,665 You hurt me, Lucky. 775 00:57:56,825 --> 00:57:58,705 I know. I'm sorry. 776 00:57:59,905 --> 00:58:02,145 It hurt to hear you say those things. 777 00:58:03,585 --> 00:58:05,425 But I asked you to be honest… 778 00:58:05,905 --> 00:58:08,345 and I can't hold your honesty against you. 779 00:58:12,065 --> 00:58:15,425 If you need to sleep with other women, okay then. 780 00:58:19,185 --> 00:58:21,665 I must have misheard. What did you say, baby? 781 00:58:23,505 --> 00:58:25,105 It's clearly something you need. 782 00:58:29,625 --> 00:58:30,825 My love… 783 00:58:30,905 --> 00:58:33,865 I don't deserve you, baby. 784 00:58:35,025 --> 00:58:36,745 I don't deserve you, my love. 785 00:58:41,185 --> 00:58:42,425 So… 786 00:58:43,545 --> 00:58:45,025 We can open the relationship. 787 00:58:46,305 --> 00:58:48,625 We can see other people, but casually. 788 00:58:50,865 --> 00:58:53,225 Okay, let's take a step back. 789 00:58:54,505 --> 00:58:56,465 What do you mean, "we"? 790 00:58:56,545 --> 00:58:59,705 By "we" do you mean you would be seeing other people too? 791 00:59:01,465 --> 00:59:02,825 Yes, if we are open. 792 00:59:23,585 --> 00:59:25,705 Can I ask you something, Lethu? 793 00:59:26,345 --> 00:59:28,345 Why? Don't I make you happy? 794 00:59:28,825 --> 00:59:30,145 Are you not happy? 795 00:59:30,225 --> 00:59:32,625 Why would you want to see other people? 796 00:59:34,665 --> 00:59:39,945 In other words, it is fine for you to be out in the streets… 797 00:59:40,025 --> 00:59:41,305 but I should what? 798 00:59:42,025 --> 00:59:46,665 Sit at home, waiting for you to return from all your women? 799 00:59:46,745 --> 00:59:48,945 -No, that's not what I am saying. -Then what? 800 00:59:49,425 --> 00:59:53,105 The thought of you, Lethu, with another man on top of you! 801 00:59:53,185 --> 00:59:54,745 Now you know how I feel. 802 01:00:10,185 --> 01:00:11,185 I'm sorry. 803 01:00:12,225 --> 01:00:13,225 Okay? 804 01:00:13,905 --> 01:00:14,905 I'm sorry. 805 01:00:16,705 --> 01:00:19,785 Of course if I am going to see other people, 806 01:00:21,305 --> 01:00:23,385 you are also allowed to see other people. 807 01:00:24,265 --> 01:00:25,305 I was an idiot. 808 01:00:27,665 --> 01:00:29,065 Please forgive me. 809 01:00:43,905 --> 01:00:46,865 So, no dating or sleeping with anyone either of us knows. 810 01:00:49,505 --> 01:00:50,825 And we keep it respectful. 811 01:00:51,905 --> 01:00:52,905 At all times. 812 01:00:56,305 --> 01:00:59,065 Yes. Of course. I'm sorry. 813 01:00:59,865 --> 01:01:00,865 Okay? 814 01:01:02,425 --> 01:01:03,425 Say it. 815 01:01:05,825 --> 01:01:07,345 We respect each other. 816 01:01:07,985 --> 01:01:10,585 We are honest at all times. 817 01:01:11,745 --> 01:01:13,985 And we do not have sex with anyone either of us knows. 818 01:01:17,705 --> 01:01:18,785 I love you. 819 01:01:19,425 --> 01:01:20,665 I love you too. 820 01:01:38,025 --> 01:01:39,105 Come here. 821 01:01:39,705 --> 01:01:40,785 Come here. 822 01:01:53,305 --> 01:01:54,785 No way, friend. 823 01:01:54,865 --> 01:01:57,745 But, guys, what did I expect from a guy from Jo'burg? 824 01:01:57,825 --> 01:01:58,825 It serves you right. 825 01:01:58,905 --> 01:02:00,345 Yeah. 826 01:02:00,425 --> 01:02:03,345 What were you expecting? 827 01:02:03,425 --> 01:02:05,425 Stop it, you guys. 828 01:02:05,505 --> 01:02:08,585 I am sorry to interrupt you, ladies. 829 01:02:08,665 --> 01:02:10,665 -My love… -Yes, love. 830 01:02:10,745 --> 01:02:12,065 A moment, please. 831 01:02:13,225 --> 01:02:15,745 Excuse me, ladies, but continue with the conversation. 832 01:02:15,825 --> 01:02:17,345 Don't worry. 833 01:02:19,745 --> 01:02:20,865 What's wrong? 834 01:02:20,945 --> 01:02:23,865 I just wanted to check how long your friends are going to be here. 835 01:02:23,945 --> 01:02:24,945 Excuse me? 836 01:02:25,025 --> 01:02:26,185 No, I don't have a problem. 837 01:02:26,265 --> 01:02:29,465 It's just that I thought we could watch the game together. 838 01:02:30,625 --> 01:02:33,425 Man. Why don't you watch it at the tavern? 839 01:02:33,505 --> 01:02:35,745 My love, you heard what the pastor said: 840 01:02:35,825 --> 01:02:38,545 If you don't want to be tempted, do not go seeking out temptation. 841 01:02:39,185 --> 01:02:40,305 Right. 842 01:02:40,385 --> 01:02:41,505 Okay, then. 843 01:02:41,585 --> 01:02:46,225 Listen, baby, go to the bedroom and watch it on the phone 844 01:02:46,305 --> 01:02:48,505 -and I will join you shortly. -Eish, my love… 845 01:02:49,425 --> 01:02:50,425 I don't have data. 846 01:02:50,505 --> 01:02:51,825 Come on, Themba. 847 01:02:51,905 --> 01:02:57,345 Okay, baby, don't worry about me. Go and enjoy yourself with your friends. 848 01:02:57,425 --> 01:03:02,265 I'll be right here when you are done. I'll put it on the radio. 849 01:03:02,345 --> 01:03:04,065 Okay, baby, you do that. 850 01:03:05,225 --> 01:03:07,625 Themba! In front of people! 851 01:03:20,145 --> 01:03:25,745 However, can a leopard truly change its spots? 852 01:03:25,825 --> 01:03:28,025 We don't know. 853 01:03:28,105 --> 01:03:29,425 We will see. 854 01:03:30,185 --> 01:03:33,385 Must be nice to be in love. 855 01:03:33,465 --> 01:03:34,625 Please, stop it. 856 01:03:34,705 --> 01:03:36,065 Come on, Bridget. 857 01:03:36,145 --> 01:03:41,065 I remember when Themba was always on the move. Impossible to pin down. 858 01:03:41,145 --> 01:03:44,745 But now, he can't stand being away from you. 859 01:03:44,825 --> 01:03:46,905 Unbelievable. 860 01:03:46,985 --> 01:03:51,145 Please help me. Let us in on your secret. 861 01:03:51,865 --> 01:03:53,865 -He is yours. -Goodness! 862 01:03:55,065 --> 01:03:56,025 I'm dying. 863 01:03:56,105 --> 01:03:58,345 -Guys, I'm dying. -How? 864 01:03:58,425 --> 01:04:02,745 Listen, he is always around now. He hardly goes anywhere anymore. 865 01:04:02,825 --> 01:04:06,905 -I hate it! I never thought I'd say it… -No way. 866 01:04:06,985 --> 01:04:09,105 …but I miss the old Themba. 867 01:04:09,185 --> 01:04:12,745 -What do you mean? -I miss him. You don't understand. 868 01:04:12,825 --> 01:04:18,905 Guys, listen, ever since he was beat up by those kids, he turned over a new leaf. 869 01:04:19,505 --> 01:04:22,745 I am telling you. He is a new person. He is always here. 870 01:04:22,825 --> 01:04:25,545 I want to kill him now. 871 01:04:25,625 --> 01:04:29,225 I'm suffocating. It's like he's my shadow now. 872 01:04:29,305 --> 01:04:30,425 No, no… 873 01:04:30,505 --> 01:04:34,905 It's unbelievable. People would be shocked to hear this. 874 01:04:34,985 --> 01:04:37,785 Your relationship is beautiful. 875 01:04:37,865 --> 01:04:42,545 Listen, friend, I guess they aren't lying when they say, 876 01:04:42,625 --> 01:04:44,905 "Cheating builds one's home." 877 01:04:44,985 --> 01:04:46,545 No! 878 01:04:46,625 --> 01:04:47,625 There you go! 879 01:04:48,305 --> 01:04:50,145 You are too forward. 880 01:04:50,225 --> 01:04:52,545 It does, my sister. 881 01:04:53,145 --> 01:04:54,665 Unbelievable. 882 01:04:56,905 --> 01:04:59,745 No, that's nonsense. 883 01:04:59,825 --> 01:05:03,225 I am actually shocked by you. I certainly couldn't do it. 884 01:05:03,305 --> 01:05:08,705 Okay, ladies, I know it's unconventional, but it's working for us. 885 01:05:09,385 --> 01:05:10,465 I think. 886 01:05:10,545 --> 01:05:12,665 I think you are doing too much. 887 01:05:13,265 --> 01:05:17,305 What if he finds a cake he likes more than yours? 888 01:05:17,385 --> 01:05:20,745 Girl, there are too many problems in this world. 889 01:05:20,825 --> 01:05:23,345 But my cake is not one of them. 890 01:05:23,425 --> 01:05:26,225 And I know how to serve it. 891 01:05:29,385 --> 01:05:31,985 But you don't know what other women out there are doing. 892 01:05:32,065 --> 01:05:35,625 If my man told me he wanted to fuck other people, 893 01:05:35,705 --> 01:05:38,225 I'd wish the earth would swallow me whole and let me die. 894 01:05:38,305 --> 01:05:41,465 Okay, before all of that happens, get a man first. 895 01:05:43,945 --> 01:05:46,065 Friend. You can see that this is nonsense. 896 01:05:47,385 --> 01:05:48,385 Hang on. 897 01:05:48,465 --> 01:05:52,265 What if you find someone who lays it down better than Lucky ever could. 898 01:05:53,065 --> 01:05:55,745 I don't think that will happen. 899 01:06:00,625 --> 01:06:02,945 We love each other. 900 01:06:04,025 --> 01:06:05,505 But on a serious note… 901 01:06:05,585 --> 01:06:07,745 That's where the difference is. We are in love. 902 01:06:08,705 --> 01:06:09,705 Plus, the man… 903 01:06:18,065 --> 01:06:19,745 Can we drop the subject? 904 01:06:20,505 --> 01:06:22,825 Bye with your jealousy. 905 01:06:22,905 --> 01:06:24,825 Okay, can I make a toast. 906 01:06:24,905 --> 01:06:25,945 Yes. 907 01:06:40,505 --> 01:06:42,865 The problem is that you went to a private school. 908 01:06:42,945 --> 01:06:47,905 What you are telling me right now is not helping either of us. 909 01:06:47,985 --> 01:06:50,745 I'm serious. Befriending whites ruined you. 910 01:06:50,825 --> 01:06:54,265 What was wrong with getting what you need the way we all do? 911 01:06:54,785 --> 01:06:56,345 Quietly and on the side? 912 01:06:56,425 --> 01:06:57,505 No. 913 01:06:57,585 --> 01:07:00,945 No, I tried it, and I got caught, remember? 914 01:07:01,025 --> 01:07:05,905 We get caught. We apologize. Say it won't happen again and then be more careful. 915 01:07:05,985 --> 01:07:07,345 Wait. 916 01:07:07,425 --> 01:07:10,065 MaBrr told me that you always follow her. 917 01:07:10,145 --> 01:07:14,785 You are always by her side. So, when do you get time to cheat? 918 01:07:14,865 --> 01:07:17,145 There is more than enough time in the day, bro. 919 01:07:17,225 --> 01:07:21,545 Where there's a will, there's a way. And now she doesn't suspect a thing. 920 01:07:21,625 --> 01:07:24,065 No, that's depressing, bro. 921 01:07:24,145 --> 01:07:26,265 What's depressing is this weird shit you've got going on. 922 01:07:26,345 --> 01:07:27,425 Which is? 923 01:07:27,505 --> 01:07:30,945 Telling your woman you are sleeping with other women. 924 01:07:31,025 --> 01:07:33,385 Yes, it works for us. 925 01:07:33,465 --> 01:07:36,505 And she sleeps with other men? 926 01:07:38,025 --> 01:07:40,385 Of course not. 927 01:07:40,465 --> 01:07:44,625 I can't believe she's okay with it. 928 01:07:45,905 --> 01:07:49,905 Some of us are dating modern women. 929 01:07:49,985 --> 01:07:51,145 You hear me? 930 01:07:51,945 --> 01:07:52,985 And it doesn't bother you? 931 01:07:53,065 --> 01:07:54,545 What? 932 01:07:54,625 --> 01:07:56,985 That she doesn't care that you're screwing around. 933 01:07:57,065 --> 01:07:58,305 No. 934 01:07:58,385 --> 01:07:59,865 No, bro. 935 01:08:00,865 --> 01:08:03,465 When a woman doesn't even care who you are sleeping with, 936 01:08:03,545 --> 01:08:05,185 it sounds like she doesn't love you anymore. 937 01:08:05,265 --> 01:08:08,145 But we all know that Lethu loves me, and she cares about me. 938 01:08:08,225 --> 01:08:12,625 Lethu has all the power. That's why we have to cheat on them. 939 01:08:12,705 --> 01:08:16,505 Just to make sure they still love you, that they still care. 940 01:08:16,585 --> 01:08:17,905 Nope. That's not it, bro. 941 01:08:17,985 --> 01:08:20,305 You! Don't say I didn't warn you. 942 01:08:20,385 --> 01:08:21,945 You'll remember my words. 943 01:08:22,025 --> 01:08:24,225 You will. You will call me. 944 01:08:24,705 --> 01:08:26,865 You will call me, bro. You will call me. 945 01:08:34,345 --> 01:08:37,305 But, friend, I thought everything was going well. 946 01:08:37,384 --> 01:08:40,384 I know it's what we agreed to, but I'm not coping. 947 01:08:42,025 --> 01:08:43,705 Is there something wrong with me? 948 01:08:46,025 --> 01:08:48,384 I just want to be with him alone, Amanda. 949 01:08:48,464 --> 01:08:50,345 Why doesn't he want to be with just me? 950 01:08:51,584 --> 01:08:54,345 Friend, is it really worth it to be in this relationship 951 01:08:54,424 --> 01:08:56,945 if this is the price you're gonna be paying? 952 01:08:59,945 --> 01:09:04,305 As much as this hurts, it would hurt more to be… 953 01:09:05,705 --> 01:09:07,305 without my Lucky. 954 01:09:08,625 --> 01:09:09,905 Forget about Lucky. 955 01:09:10,544 --> 01:09:13,384 Isn't this your open relationship too? 956 01:09:15,544 --> 01:09:17,504 Go out and meet people. 957 01:09:17,584 --> 01:09:19,745 Instead of letting your life come to a standstill, 958 01:09:19,825 --> 01:09:21,865 waiting for Lucky to come home. 959 01:09:21,945 --> 01:09:23,945 Who knows who you might meet out there? 960 01:09:52,665 --> 01:09:56,185 I don't want to lie to you. I saw flames. 961 01:09:56,665 --> 01:09:59,145 I was really seeing flames, but… 962 01:10:00,065 --> 01:10:01,865 I don't know, I am fine now. 963 01:10:01,945 --> 01:10:04,985 I had a word with Amanda, and she gave me some great advice, 964 01:10:05,065 --> 01:10:08,025 and opened my eyes to see past my insecurities. 965 01:10:08,105 --> 01:10:11,385 There is no need for me 966 01:10:11,465 --> 01:10:15,465 to keep waiting for Lucky at home while he is busy with his whores. 967 01:10:15,545 --> 01:10:17,865 I, too, can go out and live my life. 968 01:10:18,425 --> 01:10:20,705 So, I am dancing again. 969 01:10:21,425 --> 01:10:25,225 I am going on dates, doing the things I enjoy. 970 01:10:47,985 --> 01:10:50,345 I get to reveal who I truly am. 971 01:10:50,425 --> 01:10:51,905 My true self. 972 01:11:17,825 --> 01:11:19,225 Please stay a bit. 973 01:11:21,185 --> 01:11:22,385 Spend time with me. 974 01:11:35,145 --> 01:11:37,825 Please, baby. Please stay a bit. 975 01:11:39,785 --> 01:11:43,585 I hope you haven't forgotten, Amanda, what this is. 976 01:11:46,025 --> 01:11:49,225 I thought you were in an open relationship now. 977 01:11:51,105 --> 01:11:53,665 Yes, but not between you and me. 978 01:11:54,305 --> 01:11:57,665 My agreement with Lethu was that we won't sleep with people we know. 979 01:11:58,265 --> 01:11:59,625 Are you not Lethu's friend? 980 01:12:00,145 --> 01:12:01,305 Are you not her fiancé? 981 01:12:01,905 --> 01:12:03,345 I thought we are past that. 982 01:12:04,305 --> 01:12:06,585 Hence why I don't think it's a good idea. 983 01:12:07,745 --> 01:12:13,225 You'll bend over backwards to keep Lethu. 984 01:12:13,305 --> 01:12:15,425 But I ask for a tiny bit of consideration, 985 01:12:15,505 --> 01:12:17,785 for you to just hang out and spend time with me, 986 01:12:17,865 --> 01:12:19,665 and now this is a bad idea? 987 01:12:20,385 --> 01:12:23,225 Come on, Lucky, it's been years that we've been doing this. 988 01:12:23,705 --> 01:12:26,545 Don't I deserve more? 989 01:12:30,785 --> 01:12:32,465 I think it's best that I go. 990 01:12:33,185 --> 01:12:34,265 Okay? 991 01:12:36,265 --> 01:12:37,825 Baby, baby, please. 992 01:12:39,545 --> 01:12:40,865 Please don't leave. 993 01:12:42,945 --> 01:12:45,425 We had an agreement, Amanda. 994 01:12:46,145 --> 01:12:48,825 But clearly, you fail to stick to it. 995 01:12:49,945 --> 01:12:52,945 My focus right now is to make things work with Lethu. 996 01:12:55,985 --> 01:12:58,585 Lucky, where are you going? I am still talking to you. 997 01:12:58,665 --> 01:13:00,705 Lucky, where are you going? I am talking to you. 998 01:13:03,145 --> 01:13:04,345 Fuck off! 999 01:13:13,985 --> 01:13:15,865 -Thank you. Go well. -All right. 1000 01:13:15,945 --> 01:13:17,345 -Sure. -Yes. 1001 01:13:19,185 --> 01:13:20,185 Hello. 1002 01:13:20,265 --> 01:13:21,265 Hello. 1003 01:13:25,585 --> 01:13:27,625 I wasn't expecting you home so soon. 1004 01:13:29,705 --> 01:13:30,785 Must be nice. 1005 01:13:33,265 --> 01:13:34,625 Did you have sex with him? 1006 01:13:36,025 --> 01:13:38,185 What happened to what we agreed on? 1007 01:13:38,785 --> 01:13:40,385 That we will respect each other? 1008 01:13:45,505 --> 01:13:46,505 What? 1009 01:13:48,065 --> 01:13:50,185 There is nothing that you want to say now? 1010 01:13:52,505 --> 01:13:56,665 All this time I thought I was the problem. It's Lucky who is problematic. 1011 01:13:57,425 --> 01:13:59,185 Only to find that you were waiting for an opportunity 1012 01:13:59,265 --> 01:14:00,745 to spread your legs for all of Durban. 1013 01:14:02,505 --> 01:14:03,865 Why are you talking to me like this? 1014 01:14:04,465 --> 01:14:06,105 Have you lost your mind? 1015 01:14:06,665 --> 01:14:07,665 Maybe I have. 1016 01:14:09,025 --> 01:14:12,385 Thinking I can spend the rest of my life dating a whore. 1017 01:14:16,105 --> 01:14:17,185 Look. 1018 01:14:17,265 --> 01:14:19,345 How do you think these crates got up here? 1019 01:14:23,025 --> 01:14:24,185 So you mean you two aren't-- 1020 01:14:24,265 --> 01:14:26,185 You think I'm a whore, Lucky? 1021 01:14:27,785 --> 01:14:29,985 No, no. No, my love-- 1022 01:14:30,065 --> 01:14:31,065 No, Lucky. 1023 01:14:31,785 --> 01:14:32,985 This was your idea. 1024 01:14:33,065 --> 01:14:35,545 Now you talk to me in any way you want? Goodness! 1025 01:14:36,385 --> 01:14:38,465 Goodness! 1026 01:14:38,545 --> 01:14:40,585 Wait. I am sorry, okay? 1027 01:14:40,665 --> 01:14:42,345 -You said I was a whore. -I know. 1028 01:14:42,425 --> 01:14:44,265 I wasn't thinking, my love. 1029 01:14:44,345 --> 01:14:47,345 Put yourself in my shoes. What would you think? 1030 01:14:51,065 --> 01:14:53,865 Let's forget about this, please. I am sorry, my love. 1031 01:14:55,305 --> 01:14:56,305 Okay? 1032 01:15:13,345 --> 01:15:15,785 So, you're really going on this date? 1033 01:15:17,345 --> 01:15:19,225 We're in an open relationship, Lucky. 1034 01:15:20,865 --> 01:15:21,865 Yes, but… 1035 01:15:22,345 --> 01:15:24,625 I just want to check that we're good. 1036 01:15:25,305 --> 01:15:26,465 Okay? 1037 01:15:26,545 --> 01:15:30,025 You're not doing this because you're still mad at me? 1038 01:15:30,105 --> 01:15:31,505 Lucky, we're fine. 1039 01:15:32,425 --> 01:15:35,025 I'm doing what people in an open relationship do. 1040 01:15:35,625 --> 01:15:37,145 This is what you wanted, right? 1041 01:15:38,225 --> 01:15:40,065 -Yes, I just-- -So, then I don't think 1042 01:15:40,145 --> 01:15:42,465 there's a need for us to keep talking about it. 1043 01:15:49,785 --> 01:15:50,945 I'll see you later then. 1044 01:18:07,705 --> 01:18:09,945 What's going on with you? 1045 01:18:10,025 --> 01:18:11,625 You are in an open relationship. 1046 01:18:12,345 --> 01:18:13,465 This is part of it. 1047 01:18:15,865 --> 01:18:19,665 Okay, you get along, he is cute, you like him… 1048 01:18:20,985 --> 01:18:22,225 Let's go. 1049 01:18:23,185 --> 01:18:26,505 Never mind the fact you haven't seen another man's dick in three years. 1050 01:18:27,545 --> 01:18:28,545 We got this. 1051 01:18:50,585 --> 01:18:51,665 Let's go. 1052 01:20:06,465 --> 01:20:07,665 Back so soon? 1053 01:20:08,705 --> 01:20:10,065 I missed you. 1054 01:20:10,145 --> 01:20:12,265 -Missed who? -You. 1055 01:20:12,945 --> 01:20:13,985 Come. 1056 01:20:14,505 --> 01:20:15,745 Come dance with me. 1057 01:20:30,905 --> 01:20:32,465 I'm sorry about earlier. 1058 01:20:33,625 --> 01:20:34,625 I know. 1059 01:20:35,905 --> 01:20:39,985 I can't wait to make you my wife. 1060 01:20:41,265 --> 01:20:42,985 Start a family with you. 1061 01:20:43,065 --> 01:20:45,305 Begin the rest of our life. 1062 01:20:45,385 --> 01:20:46,945 -Really? -Really. 1063 01:21:40,625 --> 01:21:42,585 Baby? What's wrong? 1064 01:21:43,305 --> 01:21:44,305 Are you okay? 1065 01:21:45,505 --> 01:21:46,625 You okay? 1066 01:21:46,705 --> 01:21:47,825 No, I'm fine. 1067 01:21:47,905 --> 01:21:50,545 I am just thinking about the wedding. 1068 01:21:51,265 --> 01:21:52,945 What wedding? 1069 01:21:53,025 --> 01:21:54,025 Our wedding? 1070 01:21:54,825 --> 01:21:56,425 No, the Jamas'. 1071 01:22:11,185 --> 01:22:12,505 Are you sure you are fine? 1072 01:22:15,425 --> 01:22:16,425 Yes, I'm good. 1073 01:22:18,145 --> 01:22:19,305 Yes. 1074 01:22:19,385 --> 01:22:20,385 Come here. 1075 01:22:33,505 --> 01:22:34,505 Themba! 1076 01:22:35,625 --> 01:22:36,825 Themba! 1077 01:22:36,905 --> 01:22:38,385 Stop ignoring me, Themba! 1078 01:22:44,585 --> 01:22:45,785 Goodness! 1079 01:22:45,865 --> 01:22:46,985 Hey. 1080 01:22:47,905 --> 01:22:48,905 Hey. 1081 01:22:49,945 --> 01:22:50,985 Who the hell are you? 1082 01:22:51,065 --> 01:22:54,225 What are you doing at my house? And what is my husband's name doing in your mouth? 1083 01:22:54,305 --> 01:22:56,345 His name is not the only thing that's been in my mouth. 1084 01:22:56,425 --> 01:22:57,425 What? 1085 01:22:57,505 --> 01:23:00,585 Hey! Don't test me. I don't play with children. 1086 01:23:00,665 --> 01:23:03,105 -Tell her, Themba! -My love, let's go back inside. 1087 01:23:03,185 --> 01:23:04,825 Inside for what? 1088 01:23:04,905 --> 01:23:05,945 My goodness. You, talk. 1089 01:23:06,025 --> 01:23:07,905 Why haven't you answered my calls? 1090 01:23:07,985 --> 01:23:09,545 Why haven't you been answering my calls? 1091 01:23:09,625 --> 01:23:11,545 Hey! Themba? 1092 01:23:11,625 --> 01:23:15,345 Who is this bitch? And what is she doing yelling outside my house? 1093 01:23:15,425 --> 01:23:16,665 I don't know her, baby. 1094 01:23:16,745 --> 01:23:17,825 -You don't? -I don't. 1095 01:23:17,905 --> 01:23:19,985 You don't know me? Last night you did. 1096 01:23:20,545 --> 01:23:22,985 What did you just say? 1097 01:23:23,065 --> 01:23:24,865 -Themba! -Why did you come here? 1098 01:23:24,945 --> 01:23:26,505 -Themba! -Why did you come here? 1099 01:23:26,585 --> 01:23:29,065 -Themba! -Why did you come here? 1100 01:23:29,145 --> 01:23:30,625 -Themba! -Hit her, baby! Hit her! 1101 01:23:30,705 --> 01:23:32,385 -Themba! -Why did you come here? 1102 01:23:32,465 --> 01:23:33,985 -Themba! -Hit her, baby! 1103 01:23:34,065 --> 01:23:35,705 -Themba! -Why did you come here? 1104 01:23:35,785 --> 01:23:38,025 You are letting her hit me? 1105 01:23:38,105 --> 01:23:39,665 Why did you come here? 1106 01:23:40,225 --> 01:23:43,785 You! What is your problem, Themba? What is your problem? 1107 01:23:43,865 --> 01:23:45,705 -I don't know that person. -You don't know her? 1108 01:23:45,785 --> 01:23:49,825 -Leave me alone. -I am sorry, MaBrr, please don't leave me. 1109 01:23:49,905 --> 01:23:51,865 I'm not going anywhere. You think I'd let that whore win? 1110 01:23:51,945 --> 01:23:55,705 She and all other whores would be happy. I will not do that, do you hear me? 1111 01:23:56,465 --> 01:23:57,665 What are you looking at? 1112 01:23:58,345 --> 01:23:59,985 Hey, what are you doing? 1113 01:24:00,065 --> 01:24:01,625 Don't you dare do that. 1114 01:24:01,705 --> 01:24:03,825 Don't let me start telling you your business one by one. 1115 01:24:03,905 --> 01:24:06,185 And what you, you idiot, are up to. 1116 01:24:07,065 --> 01:24:08,585 Stand up, my husband. 1117 01:24:09,185 --> 01:24:11,745 Don't look at my husband. 1118 01:24:15,425 --> 01:24:17,385 Let go of me! 1119 01:24:17,465 --> 01:24:19,465 I am sorry. 1120 01:24:19,545 --> 01:24:21,945 I will never do it again. 1121 01:24:22,025 --> 01:24:24,345 I will never do it again. I am really sorry, MaBrr. 1122 01:24:24,425 --> 01:24:27,105 -You are full of nonsense! -I'm sorry! 1123 01:24:33,505 --> 01:24:35,145 My brother, please take this chair. 1124 01:24:35,225 --> 01:24:37,905 Please add more flowers over there. 1125 01:24:37,985 --> 01:24:39,145 Yes? 1126 01:24:39,225 --> 01:24:41,945 Okay, champagne is that side. Please get rid of this. 1127 01:24:42,025 --> 01:24:45,225 Cutlery. Fork on the left and knife on the right, please. 1128 01:24:45,305 --> 01:24:47,825 Can one of you please unpack the chairs. 1129 01:24:47,905 --> 01:24:49,865 Please clean the glasses. Okay? 1130 01:25:08,665 --> 01:25:10,105 Is everything okay? 1131 01:25:11,385 --> 01:25:13,505 It's all so beautiful. 1132 01:25:14,825 --> 01:25:17,025 I'm not asking about the wedding, Mayi. 1133 01:25:17,505 --> 01:25:18,585 I'm asking about you. 1134 01:25:20,185 --> 01:25:21,185 I'm fine. 1135 01:25:24,025 --> 01:25:26,705 Bride jitters are completely normal. 1136 01:25:28,625 --> 01:25:29,625 Relax. 1137 01:25:37,665 --> 01:25:39,065 You are beautiful. 1138 01:25:47,145 --> 01:25:48,225 How do you know 1139 01:25:48,745 --> 01:25:50,625 if you're making the right choice? 1140 01:25:56,225 --> 01:25:58,705 You have to let your heart guide you. 1141 01:26:05,305 --> 01:26:06,465 Ask yourself… 1142 01:26:59,545 --> 01:27:03,345 I think this day makes everyone happy. 1143 01:27:03,425 --> 01:27:08,465 We thank God for this wonderful ceremony. 1144 01:27:22,665 --> 01:27:24,625 I just can't stay away from you. 1145 01:27:24,705 --> 01:27:27,545 That's because no one knows how to do the things the way I do. 1146 01:27:32,225 --> 01:27:33,785 My love. 1147 01:27:36,945 --> 01:27:38,665 Lethu, can I… 1148 01:27:39,145 --> 01:27:40,305 Can I explain? 1149 01:27:40,905 --> 01:27:42,905 It's not what you are thinking, baby. 1150 01:27:43,905 --> 01:27:46,545 Lethu, friend, I am sorry, but… 1151 01:27:46,625 --> 01:27:48,305 but you were bound to find out. 1152 01:27:49,745 --> 01:27:51,705 Please… 1153 01:27:51,785 --> 01:27:53,305 I need you to listen very carefully, 1154 01:27:54,025 --> 01:27:55,665 because I don't have much time. 1155 01:28:02,225 --> 01:28:03,545 We are done. 1156 01:28:04,105 --> 01:28:06,625 You are exactly like your brother. 1157 01:28:07,625 --> 01:28:08,625 No, you are worse. 1158 01:28:08,705 --> 01:28:12,785 Themba knows what he is and he doesn't hide it. 1159 01:28:13,265 --> 01:28:14,785 You are a snake. 1160 01:28:14,865 --> 01:28:18,785 You acted like you wanted boundaries so you could protect our relationship, 1161 01:28:19,385 --> 01:28:23,145 but you only wanted to know where the boundary was so you could break it. 1162 01:28:23,225 --> 01:28:25,385 You don't need to sleep with other women. 1163 01:28:29,065 --> 01:28:32,425 You need to cheat because you are a cheater. 1164 01:28:35,705 --> 01:28:36,865 I am done. 1165 01:28:36,945 --> 01:28:40,465 I am done shrinking myself, making myself small… 1166 01:28:46,585 --> 01:28:48,665 I still have a lot to live for. 1167 01:28:49,785 --> 01:28:52,785 A bright life. And big. 1168 01:28:53,745 --> 01:28:55,625 You are not welcome anywhere near it. 1169 01:28:56,505 --> 01:28:58,465 -Lethu-- -And you are fired. 1170 01:28:58,985 --> 01:29:01,505 Not only are you a terrible assistant… 1171 01:29:05,545 --> 01:29:08,425 You two deserve each other. 1172 01:29:09,905 --> 01:29:11,345 Shame, congratulations. 1173 01:29:15,145 --> 01:29:16,785 You deserve each other. 1174 01:29:16,865 --> 01:29:17,865 -Can we talk? -No. 1175 01:29:17,945 --> 01:29:19,105 Yes? 1176 01:29:22,785 --> 01:29:24,025 I'm on the move. 1177 01:29:24,105 --> 01:29:27,345 Meet me at the bar so that we can get things rolling for the cocktail hour. 1178 01:29:27,425 --> 01:29:28,585 -Cocktails? -Yes. 1179 01:29:39,145 --> 01:29:40,545 Please don't do this. Lethu? 1180 01:29:43,065 --> 01:29:44,785 Baby, please let's talk. 1181 01:29:44,865 --> 01:29:47,465 Why do you keep following her? I'm right here! 1182 01:29:53,905 --> 01:29:55,025 Chile. 1183 01:29:55,105 --> 01:29:58,465 I couldn't hold back when I saw things I'd never imagined. 1184 01:29:58,545 --> 01:30:00,865 But what can we say? It felt like stepping into a whirlwind. 1185 01:30:00,945 --> 01:30:03,545 But still, man, some things never change. 1186 01:30:03,625 --> 01:30:06,425 No. One thing about relationships: 1187 01:30:16,025 --> 01:30:20,225 Listen, I know that growing up, we were taught about endurance. 1188 01:30:20,305 --> 01:30:23,265 But you can't withstand everything. 1189 01:30:27,305 --> 01:30:29,705 It's just letting go. 1190 01:30:32,185 --> 01:30:34,425 Sometimes, you have to put yourself first. 1191 01:30:34,505 --> 01:30:37,025 No, man. Put yourself first.