1 00:00:06,705 --> 00:00:09,025 ["Mjolo Pandemic" playing] 2 00:00:11,225 --> 00:00:15,145 [narrator] The dating game has always been tough and it is so true. 3 00:00:15,225 --> 00:00:18,825 From back in my day, right up until now. 4 00:00:18,905 --> 00:00:22,385 Whether it happens at church or sliding into your DMs. 5 00:00:22,465 --> 00:00:23,905 It's the same story. 6 00:00:23,985 --> 00:00:26,665 Or at parties, like the new generation. 7 00:00:26,745 --> 00:00:29,225 I'm telling you, it doesn't matter. 8 00:00:29,305 --> 00:00:33,745 Dating can be heaven or it can be hell. 9 00:00:34,905 --> 00:00:38,345 Hey, my guys. You see, this dating game has us in a choke hold. 10 00:00:38,425 --> 00:00:39,385 No, I'm not joking. 11 00:00:39,465 --> 00:00:41,785 It's the Wild Wild West. [laughs] 12 00:00:41,865 --> 00:00:44,785 [singing in Zulu] 13 00:00:56,065 --> 00:00:57,225 This is Lethu. 14 00:00:57,305 --> 00:01:02,145 Event planner extraordinaire, loyal friend and hopeless romantic. 15 00:01:02,665 --> 00:01:05,705 This is Lucky, her boyfriend. 16 00:01:05,785 --> 00:01:09,305 Lucky and Lethu are like two peas in a pod. 17 00:01:09,385 --> 00:01:12,225 A couple that looks like they were made for each other. 18 00:01:12,305 --> 00:01:16,505 You see, this is a story about everything we will do 19 00:01:16,585 --> 00:01:20,545 to try to keep a relationship when we think it's the right one. 20 00:01:20,625 --> 00:01:22,745 [exclaims] Look and learn. 21 00:01:24,305 --> 00:01:27,545 [singing in Zulu] 22 00:01:39,785 --> 00:01:41,345 -[sighs] Amanda. -[radio clicks] 23 00:01:42,025 --> 00:01:44,025 -[Amanda] Oh, dear. -Cue the girls. 24 00:01:44,705 --> 00:01:45,825 Friend, I forgot. 25 00:01:45,905 --> 00:01:48,705 I'm here, taking… taking some pictures for marketing. 26 00:01:48,785 --> 00:01:52,025 So… [stammers] …I was wondering if you can call one of the girls? 27 00:01:52,105 --> 00:01:53,785 No! There's no reception down there, Amanda! 28 00:01:53,865 --> 00:01:54,905 [stammers] Oh, um. 29 00:01:54,985 --> 00:01:57,065 -You know what? I'll take care of it. -[radio clicks] 30 00:01:57,145 --> 00:01:58,145 Shit. 31 00:01:58,225 --> 00:01:59,065 Fuck! 32 00:02:09,985 --> 00:02:13,465 [singing in Zulu] 33 00:02:22,505 --> 00:02:24,705 Hurry, hurry! Over here. 34 00:02:32,465 --> 00:02:34,905 [Lethu, on radio] Baby, is everything on track for lunch? 35 00:02:35,505 --> 00:02:37,785 [Lucky, on radio] Don't stress, my love. The ladies are preparing lunch. 36 00:02:37,865 --> 00:02:38,705 We're looking good. 37 00:02:38,785 --> 00:02:41,025 Wait… [laughs] …are you running? 38 00:02:41,105 --> 00:02:43,665 [Lethu] It's Amanda. She dropped the ball again. 39 00:02:44,425 --> 00:02:46,345 [Lucky] Don't overdo it, my love. 40 00:02:46,985 --> 00:02:48,505 [Lethu] It has to be perfect. 41 00:02:49,025 --> 00:02:51,065 [Lucky] It is. It is… It is perfect, my love. 42 00:02:51,145 --> 00:02:53,025 The Jamas are hard to impress, 43 00:02:53,105 --> 00:02:55,825 but they'll definitely ask you to plan the wedding after this. 44 00:02:56,705 --> 00:02:57,785 [Lethu] Don't jinx it. 45 00:03:02,785 --> 00:03:06,265 Greetings. I kindly advise you to please follow me to your seats. 46 00:03:07,425 --> 00:03:08,305 This way up. 47 00:03:08,825 --> 00:03:10,185 -[drums playing] -[exhales heavily] 48 00:03:19,505 --> 00:03:24,425 [crowd chanting, ululating] 49 00:03:29,105 --> 00:03:31,505 -[Lethu panting] -[Lucky] Hey. Whoa, whoa. 50 00:03:31,585 --> 00:03:33,185 -Okay, come here. Come here. -[Lethu panting] 51 00:03:33,265 --> 00:03:35,745 Come on. Focus. Focus, focus. 52 00:03:35,825 --> 00:03:37,905 -[panting] -Just breathe, okay? 53 00:03:37,985 --> 00:03:41,585 [both breathing deeply] 54 00:03:42,705 --> 00:03:43,705 Want some water? 55 00:03:44,225 --> 00:03:46,065 Just to help with the nerves and stay calm. 56 00:03:46,145 --> 00:03:48,105 Oh, thank you. [chuckles] 57 00:03:49,825 --> 00:03:50,665 [exhales heavily] 58 00:03:50,745 --> 00:03:53,185 Baby, you surprise me every single day, you know that? 59 00:03:53,825 --> 00:03:56,785 -For real? -Just look at you. You're so amazing. 60 00:03:56,865 --> 00:03:58,305 [both chuckle] 61 00:03:58,985 --> 00:04:00,185 I'm proud of you, my love. 62 00:04:03,105 --> 00:04:04,065 Love you, Lucky. 63 00:04:05,105 --> 00:04:06,105 Love you so much. 64 00:04:06,665 --> 00:04:08,145 [both chuckling] 65 00:04:09,105 --> 00:04:10,785 [breathes deeply] 66 00:04:10,865 --> 00:04:14,545 [crowd singing] 67 00:04:14,625 --> 00:04:17,665 [ululating, singing] 68 00:04:40,305 --> 00:04:42,545 [singing] 69 00:04:42,625 --> 00:04:45,185 [crowd singing] 70 00:05:15,945 --> 00:05:17,945 [singing continues] 71 00:05:23,425 --> 00:05:24,745 [singing ends] 72 00:05:24,825 --> 00:05:27,825 [crowd cheering, chanting] 73 00:05:29,985 --> 00:05:31,745 Well, I said to my brother Sizwe, 74 00:05:31,825 --> 00:05:35,105 you see, once you've seen what the amazing Lethu can do, 75 00:05:35,185 --> 00:05:38,585 uh, you won't want anyone else to plan your wedding. 76 00:05:39,105 --> 00:05:40,545 This has been spectacular. 77 00:05:40,625 --> 00:05:41,985 [both chuckle] 78 00:05:42,065 --> 00:05:44,745 [Mrs. Jama] Well, your sister's umemulo is one thing, 79 00:05:44,825 --> 00:05:47,825 but a wedding is something else. 80 00:05:47,905 --> 00:05:50,785 -Especially the wedding of a Jama. -[clears throat] 81 00:05:50,865 --> 00:05:54,905 Oh, I think Lethu has proved herself enough with this event today, Ma. 82 00:06:03,865 --> 00:06:05,105 Don't disappoint me. 83 00:06:05,665 --> 00:06:08,625 [stammers] I guarantee I'll never disappoint you, Mrs. Jama. 84 00:06:08,705 --> 00:06:11,065 Oh, my. I'll bring it. 85 00:06:11,145 --> 00:06:12,905 [exclaiming] 86 00:06:13,545 --> 00:06:15,505 -[Lucky] I told you. -[Lethu] Oh, my goodness. Oh, my goodness. 87 00:06:15,585 --> 00:06:17,505 [chuckling] 88 00:06:18,305 --> 00:06:19,465 [exclaims, squeals] 89 00:06:19,545 --> 00:06:22,145 -I think you better get ready to work. -Baby girl! 90 00:06:22,225 --> 00:06:23,705 -Yes. Yes, yes, yes. -Thank you so much. 91 00:06:23,785 --> 00:06:25,145 [chuckles] Thank you, thank you, thank you. 92 00:06:25,225 --> 00:06:26,625 Time to work, time to work. 93 00:06:36,025 --> 00:06:36,865 [barking] 94 00:06:36,945 --> 00:06:38,545 -Hallelujah, ladies. -[crowd] Hallelujah. 95 00:06:38,625 --> 00:06:40,905 -Hallelujah, my congregation. -[crowd] Amen. 96 00:06:40,985 --> 00:06:43,065 As a woman who has recently been married, 97 00:06:43,145 --> 00:06:45,545 our newest sweet young bride. 98 00:06:45,625 --> 00:06:47,665 -We clothe you in this honorable uniform. -[crowd] Yes. 99 00:06:47,745 --> 00:06:50,225 -Hallelujah. Hallelujah. -[crowd] Yes. 100 00:06:50,305 --> 00:06:54,265 Now, dating, like everything in this world, 101 00:06:54,345 --> 00:06:55,785 has got a hierarchy. 102 00:06:55,865 --> 00:07:00,585 Right at the top you've got the women in church uniform, the married woman. 103 00:07:01,665 --> 00:07:03,785 But one thing about dating though… 104 00:07:03,865 --> 00:07:08,105 Not everything is always as it seems. [scoffs] 105 00:07:08,185 --> 00:07:10,345 [singing in Zulu] 106 00:07:18,265 --> 00:07:20,065 -[Lucky] You know, my love? -Yes, my love? 107 00:07:20,145 --> 00:07:21,585 Oh, baby. 108 00:07:21,665 --> 00:07:23,945 I'm telling you, I've never seen such a beautiful ceremony. 109 00:07:24,025 --> 00:07:24,865 [chuckles] 110 00:07:24,945 --> 00:07:26,705 -Nah, honestly. -[chuckles] You're just saying that. 111 00:07:26,785 --> 00:07:27,985 -Stop playing with me. -Oh, yeah. 112 00:07:28,065 --> 00:07:30,105 -You're the best. -I'm so grateful. 113 00:07:30,785 --> 00:07:33,825 Hey, but I really could not have done any of that without you. 114 00:07:33,905 --> 00:07:34,945 You know that, right? 115 00:07:36,745 --> 00:07:38,905 -Really? -Hmm. 116 00:07:38,985 --> 00:07:40,545 -It's a pleasure, my sweetheart. -[chuckles] 117 00:07:43,625 --> 00:07:45,185 Do you know what I've been thinking about, babe? 118 00:07:45,265 --> 00:07:46,225 Yeah? 119 00:07:46,945 --> 00:07:49,945 Well I'm thinking it would have been easier without Amanda. 120 00:07:50,625 --> 00:07:52,385 -Hey! Lucky. -Yeah. 121 00:07:52,465 --> 00:07:54,305 -Uh-uh. Please don't start. -Come on. 122 00:07:54,385 --> 00:07:56,185 -Stop picking on my friend, hmm? -I mean it, my love. 123 00:07:56,265 --> 00:07:57,745 She's not very helpful, now is she? 124 00:08:01,865 --> 00:08:03,905 ♪ On a path ♪ 125 00:08:04,625 --> 00:08:07,465 ♪ I want the journey ♪ 126 00:08:07,545 --> 00:08:09,825 ♪ Oh, on the path ♪ 127 00:08:10,905 --> 00:08:12,505 ♪ On a difficult… ♪ 128 00:08:12,585 --> 00:08:13,585 [stammers] 129 00:08:16,105 --> 00:08:18,465 [scoffing] 130 00:08:18,545 --> 00:08:19,425 [gasps] 131 00:08:21,745 --> 00:08:24,145 [stammers] Themba! Themba! 132 00:08:24,225 --> 00:08:25,305 [Themba] Bridget! 133 00:08:26,065 --> 00:08:27,225 This boy. 134 00:08:27,305 --> 00:08:28,585 [Themba] What's up, my love? 135 00:08:29,785 --> 00:08:31,665 -Themba. -[chuckles] Yes? 136 00:08:32,345 --> 00:08:33,345 I'm going to ask once… 137 00:08:33,425 --> 00:08:34,905 -Baby. -…only once, my person. 138 00:08:34,985 --> 00:08:37,225 Please tell me the truth. 139 00:08:37,305 --> 00:08:39,105 Whose panties are these? Hmm? 140 00:08:39,705 --> 00:08:41,105 -[stammers] -Whose are they? 141 00:08:41,185 --> 00:08:43,024 -[stammers] Aren't they yours, love? -Themba, do they look like mine? 142 00:08:43,105 --> 00:08:44,345 [stammers] Please calm down. 143 00:08:44,425 --> 00:08:45,904 -Please calm down? -Yeah. 144 00:08:45,985 --> 00:08:47,945 How on earth does someone else's panties 145 00:08:48,024 --> 00:08:50,025 -end up in our laundry, huh? -Oh, I don't know. 146 00:08:50,105 --> 00:08:51,265 -Oh, you don't? -I don't know. 147 00:08:51,345 --> 00:08:53,385 Maybe they were blown by the wind from the neighbor's washing line. 148 00:08:53,465 --> 00:08:54,425 Maybe they're from MaNgcobo? 149 00:08:54,505 --> 00:08:55,665 -They belong to her. -[exclaims] 150 00:08:55,745 --> 00:08:58,105 Hey, Themba. Hey, Themba! Themba! 151 00:08:58,185 --> 00:08:59,425 -Whoa, whoa. -You… You bastard you. 152 00:08:59,505 --> 00:09:01,105 -You have slept with MaNgcobo, Themba? -No, no, no. 153 00:09:01,185 --> 00:09:02,105 Panties… 154 00:09:02,185 --> 00:09:03,545 You trying to tell me that you're familiar with them? 155 00:09:03,625 --> 00:09:04,665 -Please calm down. -Huh? 156 00:09:04,745 --> 00:09:05,945 You know what your problem is? 157 00:09:06,025 --> 00:09:08,705 -Uh… -No honor. You don't respect me, Themba! 158 00:09:08,785 --> 00:09:10,065 -You don't respect me, man. -Ow, ow. 159 00:09:10,145 --> 00:09:12,145 -How can you say something like that? -How can I say that? 160 00:09:12,225 --> 00:09:14,945 You're grabbing. You love these panties. You love them, Themba, huh? 161 00:09:15,025 --> 00:09:16,465 You stay right there. 162 00:09:16,545 --> 00:09:18,185 Don't you dare move an inch. I must find you here. 163 00:09:18,265 --> 00:09:19,865 I'm going to teach you a lesson today. 164 00:09:19,945 --> 00:09:21,585 -Themba, you don't know me. -Baby. 165 00:09:22,905 --> 00:09:24,225 Baby, come back so that we can talk. 166 00:09:24,305 --> 00:09:25,145 -[clattering] -My baby? 167 00:09:25,225 --> 00:09:26,385 -Yeah, yeah? -[stammering] 168 00:09:26,465 --> 00:09:28,145 -What were you were saying? -Bridget, what are you doing? 169 00:09:28,225 --> 00:09:29,545 -Come on. I said I'm sorry. -What were you saying? 170 00:09:29,625 --> 00:09:31,185 -Themba! You're sorry? Huh? -Oh, but I said I'm sorry. 171 00:09:31,265 --> 00:09:32,585 -Bridget, calm down! -Themba! Themba! 172 00:09:32,665 --> 00:09:34,545 -But I'm sorry. -Don't you dare tell me to calm down! 173 00:09:34,625 --> 00:09:35,665 I'm sorry, baby. 174 00:09:35,745 --> 00:09:38,345 Themba, I don't ever want to see you at my house again. 175 00:09:38,425 --> 00:09:39,705 -Now piss off, Themba. -Bridget. 176 00:09:39,785 --> 00:09:41,745 Oh, please. 177 00:09:41,825 --> 00:09:43,545 -[Bridget exclaims] Bloody dog. -Bridget. 178 00:09:45,625 --> 00:09:46,625 [gasps] 179 00:09:48,905 --> 00:09:50,065 [typing] 180 00:09:51,145 --> 00:09:52,145 [line rings] 181 00:09:52,225 --> 00:09:53,225 [ringing] 182 00:09:54,345 --> 00:09:55,945 -My bro. -[Themba] Hey, my brother. 183 00:09:56,025 --> 00:09:57,945 Please come and talk to Bridget before something happens. 184 00:09:58,025 --> 00:09:59,825 You know that she only listens to you. 185 00:09:59,905 --> 00:10:01,785 It's bad. Please, my brother. 186 00:10:01,865 --> 00:10:03,105 [Lucky] Sure, we're on the way. 187 00:10:06,745 --> 00:10:09,025 [Bridget] Mm-mmm. You… You very lucky bastard, you. 188 00:10:09,105 --> 00:10:10,385 -I'll chop your balls off. -Bridget, come on. No. 189 00:10:10,465 --> 00:10:13,505 -He's apologizing. He's very sorry. -[Bridget groans] 190 00:10:13,585 --> 00:10:14,985 I don't deserve any of this. 191 00:10:15,065 --> 00:10:16,105 -Ah, it's not fair to you. -[Bridget groans] 192 00:10:16,185 --> 00:10:17,665 Bridget, you're so beautiful. 193 00:10:17,745 --> 00:10:19,745 I'm with you. You don't deserve any of this from this guy. 194 00:10:19,825 --> 00:10:22,385 Something I don't understand. Why can't he just be like you? 195 00:10:22,465 --> 00:10:24,585 -Why can't he be a good man? -Please give me the machete. 196 00:10:24,665 --> 00:10:26,345 -Bridget, please. Come on, seriously. -No. 197 00:10:26,425 --> 00:10:27,945 You'll end up hurting each other. 198 00:10:28,025 --> 00:10:29,185 I want to hurt him for answers. 199 00:10:29,265 --> 00:10:31,985 [stammers] I'm telling you, I can't lose Bridget. 200 00:10:32,065 --> 00:10:33,665 We have a good thing going. 201 00:10:34,185 --> 00:10:35,225 [Lethu] Mmm. 202 00:10:35,305 --> 00:10:36,865 Okay, take it then. 203 00:10:37,425 --> 00:10:39,425 There you go. Thank you, Bridget. 204 00:10:39,505 --> 00:10:40,465 Oh, there she goes. 205 00:10:40,545 --> 00:10:41,785 -[Lucky] Okay. -Go and talk to him, please. 206 00:10:41,865 --> 00:10:42,785 [Lucky] Okay. 207 00:10:42,865 --> 00:10:44,025 And here comes my brother. 208 00:10:47,585 --> 00:10:49,265 -[Themba] Hey. -[Lucky] Do you see what kind of mess 209 00:10:49,345 --> 00:10:50,665 -you've got us into, huh? -Hey, my brother. 210 00:10:50,745 --> 00:10:53,305 Here's the machete. She says you can come back now. 211 00:10:54,025 --> 00:10:55,025 Ah. Thank you, my brother. 212 00:10:55,105 --> 00:10:56,225 You say you're grateful, 213 00:10:56,305 --> 00:10:58,745 but I bet you're gonna make the same mistake again and again. 214 00:10:58,825 --> 00:10:59,905 Ah, nah. 215 00:10:59,985 --> 00:11:01,985 No way. I won't make the same mistake. 216 00:11:02,065 --> 00:11:03,265 -All right then. -[Themba] Cheers, brother. 217 00:11:03,345 --> 00:11:04,705 [chuckles] 218 00:11:05,385 --> 00:11:06,265 [Bridget scoffs] 219 00:11:08,065 --> 00:11:09,065 [machete clatters] 220 00:11:09,145 --> 00:11:12,065 How long do you think it'll take before you get another call from him? 221 00:11:13,265 --> 00:11:16,985 [chuckles] I think we'll make to our place, at least. 222 00:11:17,065 --> 00:11:18,545 -You really think so? -Mmm. 223 00:11:19,705 --> 00:11:21,345 That's good to hear, you know? 224 00:11:21,425 --> 00:11:22,265 [Lucky] Why? 225 00:11:22,345 --> 00:11:25,465 -Because you… you owe me something. -[chuckles] Stop it, you. 226 00:11:26,225 --> 00:11:28,105 -What do you mean, babe? -Well I… 227 00:11:28,185 --> 00:11:29,585 -[moans] -Baby, come. 228 00:11:29,665 --> 00:11:31,225 -[chuckling] -Mm-hmm. 229 00:11:33,585 --> 00:11:34,625 [inhales sharply] 230 00:11:34,705 --> 00:11:35,785 Enough. [groans] 231 00:11:37,025 --> 00:11:37,985 Come inside. 232 00:11:38,065 --> 00:11:39,825 -Oh, thank you, my sweetheart. -Whatever. 233 00:11:39,905 --> 00:11:41,585 -I love you. -Whatever. 234 00:11:41,665 --> 00:11:43,585 -[Themba] I love you so much, my darling. -Ah, you don't love me. 235 00:11:43,665 --> 00:11:44,705 [Themba] I love you, baby. 236 00:11:44,785 --> 00:11:47,145 [thunder rumbles] 237 00:11:55,345 --> 00:11:56,345 [both breathing heavily] 238 00:12:23,745 --> 00:12:24,865 [exhales heavily] 239 00:12:27,305 --> 00:12:29,025 [breathing heavily] 240 00:12:32,665 --> 00:12:34,705 [panting] 241 00:12:41,345 --> 00:12:43,345 [Lethu moaning] 242 00:12:49,785 --> 00:12:51,705 [both panting] 243 00:12:54,665 --> 00:12:55,945 [Lucky] You know I love you, Lethu. 244 00:12:56,025 --> 00:12:57,225 [breathes shakily] 245 00:12:57,305 --> 00:12:59,865 -I love you too. -You love me? 246 00:13:00,545 --> 00:13:02,905 I love you too. [breathes shakily] 247 00:13:02,985 --> 00:13:04,185 I love you. 248 00:13:16,345 --> 00:13:17,345 [thuds] 249 00:13:22,825 --> 00:13:24,545 -[thuds] -[Lethu groans] 250 00:13:24,625 --> 00:13:26,745 [clattering] 251 00:13:27,905 --> 00:13:30,025 -What's that? -[clattering continues] 252 00:13:31,225 --> 00:13:32,505 Wait, baby. What's happening? 253 00:13:33,945 --> 00:13:36,065 [cabinet opening, closing] 254 00:13:37,065 --> 00:13:39,145 [cabinet opening, closing] 255 00:13:42,025 --> 00:13:44,305 [tapping] 256 00:13:47,185 --> 00:13:48,665 [Lucky groans] Amanda? 257 00:13:48,745 --> 00:13:50,545 [gasps] I'm so sorry, guys. 258 00:13:50,625 --> 00:13:51,505 [coughs] 259 00:13:52,105 --> 00:13:53,425 [both] What's going on, Amanda? 260 00:13:53,505 --> 00:13:55,865 [Amanda coughs] Guys, I'm sorry to wake you up. 261 00:13:55,945 --> 00:13:56,785 [Lethu grunts] 262 00:13:57,385 --> 00:13:58,945 -[clattering] -[Amanda coughs] 263 00:13:59,025 --> 00:14:00,705 Amanda, what's happening? 264 00:14:00,785 --> 00:14:03,025 -I'm sorry, friend. -[stammers] Would you just wait a minute? 265 00:14:03,105 --> 00:14:04,945 -How did you get in here? -I'm sorry, friend. I messed up. 266 00:14:05,025 --> 00:14:07,745 [inhales sharply] I forgot to book the cake for the Kunene baby shower. 267 00:14:07,825 --> 00:14:08,665 The cake? 268 00:14:08,745 --> 00:14:10,385 And the bakery won't be able to do the order. 269 00:14:10,465 --> 00:14:12,105 -[Lethu groans] Shit, shit, shit. -You just let yourself into our place. 270 00:14:12,185 --> 00:14:13,585 -[Amanda] I called up everyone, friend. -Wow. 271 00:14:13,665 --> 00:14:16,705 Then I thought, okay, I'll go home and bake the cake myself, 272 00:14:16,785 --> 00:14:17,865 but my oven hasn't worked since I moved in. 273 00:14:17,945 --> 00:14:20,145 -Babe, how did she get in? -You promised me that you can handle this. 274 00:14:20,225 --> 00:14:21,745 -I know, my friend. -I might as well just go shower. 275 00:14:21,825 --> 00:14:23,265 That's why I'm in the kitchen trying to bake one here. 276 00:14:23,345 --> 00:14:25,425 -You can't bake, Amanda! -Exactly! 277 00:14:25,505 --> 00:14:26,945 [sighs] Okay, one minute. 278 00:14:27,025 --> 00:14:28,825 [stammers] Let me just think. 279 00:14:28,905 --> 00:14:30,345 [breathes heavily] 280 00:14:30,425 --> 00:14:31,425 Damn it. 281 00:14:36,465 --> 00:14:39,065 [sighing] 282 00:14:39,145 --> 00:14:41,665 So you really gave her the key to our apartment though? 283 00:14:41,745 --> 00:14:42,985 -It's for emergencies. -[groaning] 284 00:14:43,065 --> 00:14:45,665 No. I even asked you to let her go one time. 285 00:14:45,745 --> 00:14:47,225 But she's my best friend. Just… 286 00:14:48,185 --> 00:14:49,745 But she's useless, right? 287 00:14:49,825 --> 00:14:52,065 [sighs] She means well, my love. 288 00:14:52,145 --> 00:14:55,225 -No harm. -Okay, baby, she has to go. 289 00:14:55,825 --> 00:14:56,665 [sighs] 290 00:14:56,745 --> 00:14:58,905 Okay, the baby shower is this afternoon. 291 00:14:58,985 --> 00:14:59,905 What do you suggest I do? 292 00:15:00,945 --> 00:15:01,825 Just… 293 00:15:03,745 --> 00:15:04,585 get cupcakes. 294 00:15:05,425 --> 00:15:07,065 -How's that? -Sorry, what? 295 00:15:07,145 --> 00:15:09,665 Okay, baby. What if, instead of buying a whole cake for your pal, 296 00:15:09,745 --> 00:15:12,465 you buy some cupcakes and arrange them to spell out her name. 297 00:15:12,545 --> 00:15:13,385 Like on a cake. 298 00:15:16,785 --> 00:15:18,545 -Baby? -Mm-hmm? 299 00:15:18,625 --> 00:15:19,585 [chuckles] 300 00:15:22,545 --> 00:15:23,545 -Mmm. -You're a genius. 301 00:15:26,425 --> 00:15:28,025 -Okay. Okay. -[laughs] 302 00:15:28,105 --> 00:15:30,385 Okay, okay. And make sure to come back with our key, Lethukhanya. 303 00:15:31,825 --> 00:15:32,745 [sighs] 304 00:15:33,545 --> 00:15:35,305 [shutter clicking] 305 00:15:40,225 --> 00:15:41,065 Amanda. 306 00:15:42,785 --> 00:15:45,265 Get your shit together. We can't go on like this, man. 307 00:15:45,785 --> 00:15:48,025 [sighs] Friend, I'm sorry. 308 00:15:48,665 --> 00:15:51,425 Okay, then maybe I will take you out for a drink. One or two. 309 00:15:52,025 --> 00:15:53,825 Hey, I'm not too sure about drinks. 310 00:15:53,905 --> 00:15:56,065 [sighing] I think I'm going to head home. 311 00:15:56,665 --> 00:15:58,185 Lucky says he has a surprise. 312 00:15:59,025 --> 00:16:01,425 Hey. [stammers] Hey, no, friend. 313 00:16:01,505 --> 00:16:03,145 -Mm-mmm. Mm-mmm. -What now, friend? 314 00:16:03,225 --> 00:16:06,425 -Don't go and let Lucky come between us. -This has nothing to do with Lucky. 315 00:16:06,505 --> 00:16:08,665 I heard you guys in the morning when you were talking. 316 00:16:08,745 --> 00:16:09,865 Okay. Can we forget it? 317 00:16:09,945 --> 00:16:11,225 Just change the subject, please. 318 00:16:11,305 --> 00:16:14,905 I know he says I'm a bad influence, but girl, mm-mmm. 319 00:16:14,985 --> 00:16:16,305 He's holding you back. 320 00:16:16,825 --> 00:16:18,825 -You are killing me with this mood. -There's nothing to be worried about. 321 00:16:18,905 --> 00:16:21,105 Firstly, this person doesn't ever want you to… 322 00:16:21,185 --> 00:16:22,385 -[sighs] -…to go out with your friends. 323 00:16:22,465 --> 00:16:23,305 Amanda. 324 00:16:24,105 --> 00:16:27,065 I would like to take myself home, please. 325 00:16:27,145 --> 00:16:29,745 I actually like spending some quality time with him. 326 00:16:31,105 --> 00:16:32,785 It's not a punishment, no. 327 00:16:34,625 --> 00:16:35,665 Okay? 328 00:16:38,745 --> 00:16:40,065 I'm going to check on the client. 329 00:16:42,905 --> 00:16:44,745 Hello. [chuckles] 330 00:16:53,065 --> 00:16:54,945 [door opens] 331 00:17:01,145 --> 00:17:02,745 Baby. [exhales shakily] 332 00:17:02,825 --> 00:17:04,385 -Baby. -[gasps] 333 00:17:05,145 --> 00:17:08,905 My love, please make me a man amongst all men, 334 00:17:09,545 --> 00:17:12,224 -and allow me to marry you. -[gasps] 335 00:17:13,865 --> 00:17:15,105 [whimpers] 336 00:17:15,184 --> 00:17:16,464 -Yes! -Yes? 337 00:17:16,545 --> 00:17:18,065 -[chuckling] Yes! -Yes? 338 00:17:18,145 --> 00:17:19,105 [chuckling] Okay. 339 00:17:19,184 --> 00:17:21,105 -[clears throat] -[gasps, chuckling] 340 00:17:21,785 --> 00:17:23,985 -I don't even know what to-- -[gasps] Oh, baby. [chuckles] 341 00:17:30,704 --> 00:17:33,424 Baby. [laughs] 342 00:17:33,505 --> 00:17:34,905 [exclaims, laughs] 343 00:17:42,025 --> 00:17:44,945 I don't think there's a woman that I've ever met in my whole life 344 00:17:45,785 --> 00:17:47,385 like my Lethukhanya. 345 00:17:47,465 --> 00:17:48,465 [guests chuckle] 346 00:17:48,545 --> 00:17:52,185 Lethu can take a house and with her magic touch 347 00:17:53,025 --> 00:17:54,385 can just make it a home. 348 00:17:55,825 --> 00:17:58,225 -I feel warm when I'm with you, my baby-- -[clattering] 349 00:18:00,905 --> 00:18:01,745 [softly] Sorry. 350 00:18:04,745 --> 00:18:08,905 Lethu, I feel your love and I can see it in your eyes. 351 00:18:08,985 --> 00:18:10,585 -[sighs] -I don't have a future 352 00:18:10,665 --> 00:18:11,705 without Lethukhanya. 353 00:18:13,705 --> 00:18:17,745 I want to spend the rest of my life living on this earth, making you happy. 354 00:18:17,825 --> 00:18:19,505 And loving you, my love. 355 00:18:21,785 --> 00:18:22,665 Yeah? 356 00:18:23,305 --> 00:18:24,425 Yes, yes. 357 00:18:25,065 --> 00:18:25,905 Amen. 358 00:18:25,985 --> 00:18:27,745 [all laugh] 359 00:18:27,825 --> 00:18:28,665 [chuckles] 360 00:18:28,745 --> 00:18:30,665 [sighs] Whoo. Um… 361 00:18:31,265 --> 00:18:33,785 Thank you… Thank you so very much 362 00:18:33,865 --> 00:18:37,745 for coming out to celebrate this joyful and exciting engagement with us. 363 00:18:38,425 --> 00:18:39,425 [sighs] 364 00:18:39,505 --> 00:18:44,945 And I just want to say thank you, my love for making me the lucky one. 365 00:18:47,105 --> 00:18:49,385 -I love you so much, my love. -I love you so. 366 00:18:49,465 --> 00:18:50,665 [guests chuckling] Aw. 367 00:18:50,745 --> 00:18:52,025 Amen. 368 00:18:52,105 --> 00:18:53,185 [all laugh] 369 00:18:54,465 --> 00:18:56,985 [guests applauding, cheering] 370 00:19:03,545 --> 00:19:04,945 [chuckles] 371 00:19:06,865 --> 00:19:07,945 [sighs] Your bro. 372 00:19:09,265 --> 00:19:10,545 Right. Let me talk to him. 373 00:19:10,625 --> 00:19:11,825 [guests chattering] 374 00:19:13,145 --> 00:19:16,545 Oh, come on. Let's see! Let's see the ring, girl. 375 00:19:16,625 --> 00:19:19,625 -Oh, my. Look at it. Oh! -He has taste. 376 00:19:19,705 --> 00:19:21,905 -He's marrying you, isn't it? -[laughs] Thank you on his behalf. 377 00:19:22,585 --> 00:19:24,785 I'll be flashing this all around at the high school reunion. 378 00:19:24,865 --> 00:19:25,705 As you should. 379 00:19:25,785 --> 00:19:28,105 -Listen here, girl. Top bling. -Aw! 380 00:19:28,185 --> 00:19:31,385 -Hey, my friend, congratulations. -Thank you so much, my friend. 381 00:19:31,465 --> 00:19:33,385 [Bridget] Themba! Themba! 382 00:19:35,425 --> 00:19:36,665 -Oh, Bridget. -Where's Themba? 383 00:19:37,425 --> 00:19:38,425 Where's he? 384 00:19:39,665 --> 00:19:43,865 You're driving me crazy and I've had my eyes on you, baby. 385 00:19:43,945 --> 00:19:45,305 Let me just help you a little. 386 00:19:46,745 --> 00:19:49,385 All right. [chuckles] Let's rather do this. 387 00:19:50,265 --> 00:19:53,625 Having your number would be cool so I can show you just how serious I am. 388 00:19:53,705 --> 00:19:54,545 [sighs] 389 00:19:55,785 --> 00:19:58,305 Ooh… [stammers] …I'm so happy to see you. 390 00:19:58,385 --> 00:19:59,545 -You're happy? To see me? -Wow. 391 00:19:59,625 --> 00:20:00,465 -Nah. Really? -Yeah. 392 00:20:01,585 --> 00:20:03,305 Lucky? 393 00:20:03,385 --> 00:20:04,385 Lucky. 394 00:20:04,465 --> 00:20:08,585 You came all the way here and party on your own without inviting me? Me? 395 00:20:08,665 --> 00:20:09,785 -Me, huh? -Who, us? 396 00:20:09,865 --> 00:20:13,425 How could we possibly hold such a big celebration without inviting you, Bridget? 397 00:20:13,505 --> 00:20:15,185 Maybe Themba forgot to let you know. 398 00:20:15,265 --> 00:20:16,785 You say Themba forgot to tell me? 399 00:20:16,865 --> 00:20:19,105 -Where the hell is he? -But, Bridget. Just wait a second. 400 00:20:19,185 --> 00:20:20,185 [Bridget] Uh-uh. 401 00:20:20,865 --> 00:20:21,905 Themba? 402 00:20:22,585 --> 00:20:24,545 Your wife is here looking for you, dude. 403 00:20:24,625 --> 00:20:25,625 What? 404 00:20:26,345 --> 00:20:27,905 Shit, shit, shit. 405 00:20:27,985 --> 00:20:30,105 Hey, I've got to go. I'll see you later. 406 00:20:30,705 --> 00:20:32,785 -Do you know where she might be? -She's downstairs. 407 00:20:32,865 --> 00:20:33,945 Oh, shit. 408 00:20:34,465 --> 00:20:36,225 -I appreciate the heads up, my sister. -[sighs] 409 00:20:37,145 --> 00:20:38,225 Themba. 410 00:20:39,625 --> 00:20:41,225 Themba, Themba! 411 00:20:41,305 --> 00:20:42,705 Shit. Shit, shit, shit. 412 00:20:42,785 --> 00:20:47,385 Oh, um, so before I forget. Welcome to the family. [exclaims] 413 00:20:48,385 --> 00:20:49,505 [sighs] 414 00:20:52,905 --> 00:20:55,145 [Bridget] Themba! No! 415 00:20:56,785 --> 00:20:59,385 -[sighs] -Themba, you're so wicked. [exclaims] 416 00:20:59,465 --> 00:21:01,505 [gasps] Themba! 417 00:21:01,585 --> 00:21:04,665 You're hiding by the fish? You're with the fishes! 418 00:21:05,385 --> 00:21:06,705 Themba! Them… 419 00:21:07,785 --> 00:21:08,945 Themba? The… 420 00:21:09,625 --> 00:21:12,025 -[Amanda panting, moaning] -You were trying to get my attention. 421 00:21:12,105 --> 00:21:13,625 [Amanda] Well it worked, right? 422 00:21:13,705 --> 00:21:15,385 -[moans] -[shushes] 423 00:21:15,465 --> 00:21:18,145 -Shut up. -[sighs] Oh, make me. 424 00:21:18,985 --> 00:21:21,585 [breathing deeply, moaning] 425 00:21:29,065 --> 00:21:30,825 [gasps] 426 00:21:31,705 --> 00:21:33,625 [moans] 427 00:21:37,185 --> 00:21:38,745 [sighs] 428 00:21:44,065 --> 00:21:46,465 [Bridget] No, wait. I want to see my missed calls, love. 429 00:21:46,545 --> 00:21:47,425 When did you call me? 430 00:21:47,505 --> 00:21:49,585 -Oh, but it doesn't matter anymore. -No. I just want to see. 431 00:21:49,665 --> 00:21:51,265 -Themba! -Just give the phone, my baby. 432 00:21:51,345 --> 00:21:54,345 No, my man called me and I need to see what's wrong with my phone. 433 00:21:54,425 --> 00:21:57,225 -If it's the stupid phone-- -I'm just so glad you are here, my love. 434 00:21:57,305 --> 00:21:58,985 I was completely bored. 435 00:21:59,065 --> 00:22:00,865 You know how boring Lethu and Lucky can be. 436 00:22:00,945 --> 00:22:02,425 They're just so boring, my baby. 437 00:22:02,505 --> 00:22:03,665 -They're so boring. -No, come on. 438 00:22:03,745 --> 00:22:07,385 Oh, yeah. Now that you're here, the party can begin! 439 00:22:07,465 --> 00:22:09,265 -[Bridget, Themba laugh] -Yes, my love. 440 00:22:09,345 --> 00:22:11,145 [Bridget] I was looking for you by the fish. 441 00:22:11,225 --> 00:22:14,825 [Themba] Really? By the fish? [laughs] Fish for what? Baby. 442 00:22:19,465 --> 00:22:22,145 -Ah, there you are, my baby. -[sighs, laughs] 443 00:22:23,985 --> 00:22:25,665 -Yes, babe? -Is everything okay? 444 00:22:26,665 --> 00:22:28,345 -It is now. -Mm-hmm? 445 00:22:29,385 --> 00:22:31,745 I'm just glad that you're not anything like your brother. 446 00:22:31,825 --> 00:22:34,865 Oh, babes… [exclaims] …just a minute. I'm sorry to disturb you. 447 00:22:34,945 --> 00:22:36,265 -Anyway… So, so, so… -Mmm? 448 00:22:36,345 --> 00:22:37,785 …the girls and I have been thinking 449 00:22:37,865 --> 00:22:41,465 we should head off to the salsa social to dance a little. 450 00:22:41,545 --> 00:22:42,545 -So, let's go. -[gasps] 451 00:22:44,305 --> 00:22:45,905 Um… [grunts] 452 00:22:46,465 --> 00:22:48,785 I think I'll just go home with my man, tonight. 453 00:22:48,865 --> 00:22:51,625 Oh, baby. One last time with your friends. 454 00:22:52,785 --> 00:22:55,025 Next time, friend. I promise. 455 00:22:55,105 --> 00:22:55,985 Boring. 456 00:22:56,065 --> 00:22:57,145 But I suppose if I had a man, 457 00:22:57,225 --> 00:22:58,825 -I'd do the same. -[laughs] 458 00:22:58,905 --> 00:23:00,785 -Bye. Behave yourselves. -Okay. 459 00:23:00,865 --> 00:23:02,105 [chuckles] 460 00:23:03,065 --> 00:23:04,545 -Get home safely, friend. -I love you. 461 00:23:04,625 --> 00:23:06,985 I love you too. Bye. [chuckles] 462 00:23:08,185 --> 00:23:09,585 Got you to myself again. 463 00:23:09,665 --> 00:23:10,505 -[Lethu] Oh. -Uh-huh. 464 00:23:10,585 --> 00:23:12,025 -You like that? What? -Mmm. 465 00:23:14,865 --> 00:23:16,705 [both chuckle] 466 00:23:27,425 --> 00:23:32,105 So, tell me. You are absolutely certain that you actually, actually, actually 467 00:23:32,185 --> 00:23:33,185 want Lucky? 468 00:23:35,465 --> 00:23:38,825 Amanda. I don't need you to be negative. 469 00:23:38,905 --> 00:23:40,025 Not today, please. 470 00:23:40,105 --> 00:23:42,905 Can we rather focus on the wedding for the Jamas? 471 00:23:42,985 --> 00:23:45,945 -I don't want any mistakes, Amanda. Right? -Yeah, true. 472 00:23:48,505 --> 00:23:50,345 -[stammers] And then? -Hmm? 473 00:23:50,865 --> 00:23:52,105 What's wrong with you? 474 00:23:54,185 --> 00:23:55,945 Oh, uh… [sighs] 475 00:23:56,025 --> 00:23:59,025 Nothing, just a UTI. But I'm going to the gynae today. 476 00:23:59,105 --> 00:24:01,905 Then we will head to the venue. 477 00:24:01,985 --> 00:24:04,905 -Yes, boss. -You see, if we get this right, you know… 478 00:24:04,985 --> 00:24:07,945 [sighs] …it could make us. Oh, friend. Picture it. 479 00:24:08,025 --> 00:24:10,025 Of course. Look who I'm working with. 480 00:24:10,105 --> 00:24:11,785 The best of the best, eh? 481 00:24:11,865 --> 00:24:12,905 You know? That's the truth. 482 00:24:12,985 --> 00:24:14,505 -You're so hot. So hot. -[laughs] 483 00:24:14,585 --> 00:24:16,465 -You're on fire now. -Oh, thank you so much. 484 00:24:21,585 --> 00:24:22,945 [doctor] And how are things going? 485 00:24:23,025 --> 00:24:24,625 [sighs] Yes, I'm doing great. 486 00:24:24,705 --> 00:24:28,225 -Okay. Mm-hmm? -Oh, you see, something else happened. 487 00:24:28,305 --> 00:24:29,345 Okay. 488 00:24:29,945 --> 00:24:31,785 [gasps] Lethu. 489 00:24:31,865 --> 00:24:34,465 -Aw, congratulations. -He proposed. [laughs] 490 00:24:34,545 --> 00:24:38,025 -Oh, Lucky. My love. I adore that man. -Oh, my darling. 491 00:24:38,105 --> 00:24:39,065 [laughs] 492 00:24:39,145 --> 00:24:41,425 Marriage is a beautiful adventure. 493 00:24:41,505 --> 00:24:43,545 -Mmm. -I wish you more love 494 00:24:43,625 --> 00:24:45,225 and all the happiness in the world. 495 00:24:45,305 --> 00:24:46,145 Thank you. 496 00:24:46,225 --> 00:24:47,665 -Right. -Thank you, Doctor. 497 00:24:47,745 --> 00:24:51,625 So you said you were worried about a UTI. 498 00:24:51,705 --> 00:24:53,945 -Yeah. -I have your test results here. 499 00:24:54,025 --> 00:24:56,665 And from what I see, it's not a UTI, if you must know. 500 00:24:56,745 --> 00:24:58,305 -Oh, okay. -Mmm. 501 00:24:58,905 --> 00:25:00,225 Then what is it, doc? 502 00:25:00,305 --> 00:25:04,185 Now, there's absolutely no need for you to worry too much, 503 00:25:04,265 --> 00:25:08,065 your infection can easily be treated and cleared up in just a few days. 504 00:25:08,865 --> 00:25:11,265 But your results do show that you have chlamydia. 505 00:25:11,345 --> 00:25:12,545 What? 506 00:25:12,625 --> 00:25:14,665 [distorted] Yes. I will prescribe antibiotics. 507 00:25:14,745 --> 00:25:18,585 And then it should be cleared up in about seven days. 508 00:25:19,705 --> 00:25:20,985 [normal] Chlamydia? 509 00:25:21,065 --> 00:25:23,185 -Yes. -Chlamydia is an STI, isn't it? 510 00:25:23,265 --> 00:25:25,185 Yes, an STI. 511 00:25:25,265 --> 00:25:27,385 But it's nothing to be embarrassed about. 512 00:25:27,465 --> 00:25:30,185 This infection is very common among adult women. 513 00:25:31,305 --> 00:25:33,545 [stammering] I couldn't have gotten it any other way? 514 00:25:33,625 --> 00:25:36,665 -Are you sure? -Other than sex? Mmm, no, sorry. 515 00:25:37,625 --> 00:25:41,065 All right then, Lethu. I'll give you a prescription. 516 00:25:41,145 --> 00:25:42,905 -Seven days… -What? 517 00:25:42,985 --> 00:25:45,185 …for antibiotics… 518 00:25:45,265 --> 00:25:46,345 I have chlamydia. 519 00:25:46,425 --> 00:25:49,425 …so by your wedding day, you'll be all right. [chuckles] 520 00:25:50,185 --> 00:25:52,785 All right, seven days… 521 00:25:56,505 --> 00:25:59,425 Hey, you know these dudes. This is why I can't stand men. 522 00:25:59,505 --> 00:26:03,505 Just when you think everything is perfect and beautifully lined up, 523 00:26:03,585 --> 00:26:06,505 a man will find a way to ruin things. 524 00:26:06,585 --> 00:26:07,985 Just look at how hurt she is. 525 00:26:08,065 --> 00:26:11,705 You can see she's devastated. Men ruin our peace, you know? 526 00:26:12,305 --> 00:26:13,745 These men are so… [exclaims] 527 00:26:22,025 --> 00:26:23,025 [lock clicks] 528 00:26:24,585 --> 00:26:25,585 [door opens] 529 00:26:27,265 --> 00:26:28,265 Baby. 530 00:26:29,425 --> 00:26:30,465 [door closes] 531 00:26:31,505 --> 00:26:32,505 Come here. 532 00:26:34,305 --> 00:26:37,065 Lethu? Why did you hit me? 533 00:26:49,745 --> 00:26:51,145 Lucky, just tell me who she is. 534 00:26:55,545 --> 00:26:56,865 I have chlamydia, Lucky! 535 00:26:57,465 --> 00:26:58,665 I already have chlamydia. 536 00:26:58,745 --> 00:27:01,185 The least you can do is tell me where the fuck I got it from. 537 00:27:01,265 --> 00:27:02,625 Okay, Lethu. Come on. 538 00:27:02,705 --> 00:27:04,665 Lucky, I have not been intimate with anyone else 539 00:27:04,745 --> 00:27:06,305 since I started dating you three years ago. 540 00:27:09,585 --> 00:27:10,905 I'm begging you. 541 00:27:12,865 --> 00:27:14,625 Please tell me the truth. 542 00:27:16,425 --> 00:27:17,745 Don't I deserve that, though? 543 00:27:18,945 --> 00:27:19,945 Please. 544 00:27:25,425 --> 00:27:26,865 Okay. 545 00:27:26,945 --> 00:27:30,225 Okay, my love. It was only one time. It was a mistake. 546 00:27:30,305 --> 00:27:32,265 -Fuck! -But it only happened once. 547 00:27:32,345 --> 00:27:33,305 Her name! 548 00:27:34,465 --> 00:27:36,065 -Uh, you won't know her. -Tell me! 549 00:27:36,145 --> 00:27:37,545 You don't know her. I promise. 550 00:27:38,345 --> 00:27:39,385 How long? 551 00:27:39,905 --> 00:27:42,625 -I never meant to hurt you, you know. -You better not lie to me. 552 00:27:42,705 --> 00:27:44,065 I promise, my love, it was a mistake. 553 00:27:44,145 --> 00:27:46,265 -It hasn't happened since. -You slept with her without a condom? 554 00:27:47,345 --> 00:27:49,585 We were drunk and I wasn't thinking straight. 555 00:27:49,665 --> 00:27:51,345 I'm sorry. I'm sorry, baby. 556 00:27:51,425 --> 00:27:53,225 Lucky, I have chlamydia. 557 00:27:55,065 --> 00:27:57,305 So, in other words, this was all a lie, huh? 558 00:27:58,945 --> 00:28:00,865 -And me, I was dumb? -No. 559 00:28:01,545 --> 00:28:02,665 Oh, no, my love. 560 00:28:02,745 --> 00:28:05,105 The only dumb one between the two of us is me. 561 00:28:05,625 --> 00:28:08,265 Please, please don't ever say that again, okay? 562 00:28:08,345 --> 00:28:09,545 [sighs] 563 00:28:10,585 --> 00:28:12,985 I can't believe you've done something like this to us, Lucky. 564 00:28:15,505 --> 00:28:16,705 To me, 565 00:28:17,785 --> 00:28:19,025 to us. 566 00:28:21,825 --> 00:28:23,785 I'm sorry, baby. 567 00:28:25,665 --> 00:28:27,465 -I'm so sorry, okay? -Don't touch me. 568 00:28:30,625 --> 00:28:32,425 Lethu, please… 569 00:28:32,505 --> 00:28:35,305 I'm asking you, please, please just listen to me, my love. 570 00:28:35,385 --> 00:28:36,385 Lethu! 571 00:28:36,465 --> 00:28:37,785 [footsteps departing] 572 00:28:37,865 --> 00:28:38,985 Lethu! 573 00:28:50,425 --> 00:28:51,825 [sighs] 574 00:29:04,105 --> 00:29:05,505 [phone buzzing] 575 00:29:08,585 --> 00:29:10,065 [phone buzzing] 576 00:29:14,145 --> 00:29:15,665 [phone buzzing] 577 00:29:19,385 --> 00:29:20,945 [buzzing continues] 578 00:29:45,945 --> 00:29:46,945 [phone buzzing] 579 00:29:49,225 --> 00:29:51,265 [phone unlocks, buzzes] 580 00:30:24,585 --> 00:30:26,185 [gasping, panting] 581 00:30:26,265 --> 00:30:28,065 W-What's going on, baby? 582 00:30:28,585 --> 00:30:32,385 Who's Mbali? Or Pinky? Or Lindi? Or Sne? 583 00:30:32,465 --> 00:30:35,585 -Or Anele? O-Or Portia? Or Thembi? -Wait, wait, wait. 584 00:30:35,665 --> 00:30:39,505 No! It's too late. Too late! Too late for that, Lucky! What the fuck? 585 00:30:39,585 --> 00:30:42,785 -Please give me a chance to explain. -No! There's nothing to explain to me. 586 00:30:42,865 --> 00:30:44,945 You said it was a onetime mistake. Once! 587 00:30:45,545 --> 00:30:47,545 -Now, who are all these women? -Those were a mistake… 588 00:30:47,625 --> 00:30:49,145 You are so disgusting! 589 00:30:49,905 --> 00:30:51,865 -Sick. -Can I please say something? 590 00:30:51,945 --> 00:30:54,025 -What is going on now? -Hey! Get out, Lucky! 591 00:30:54,105 --> 00:30:55,185 I'm not joking. 592 00:30:56,065 --> 00:30:58,585 I said, get out! Get out, Lucky! 593 00:30:59,105 --> 00:31:01,625 Get out! Piss off! 594 00:31:01,705 --> 00:31:02,705 Fuck! 595 00:31:05,345 --> 00:31:06,745 [crying] 596 00:31:08,105 --> 00:31:11,785 [breathing deeply] 597 00:31:14,745 --> 00:31:15,785 [door closes] 598 00:31:24,465 --> 00:31:26,625 [mob clamoring] 599 00:31:26,705 --> 00:31:29,225 -[schoolkid] Come back here! -[clamoring] 600 00:31:29,305 --> 00:31:31,585 Come back! Come back! Come back! Hey! 601 00:31:31,665 --> 00:31:33,785 -We're gonna catch you! Come back! -Piss off! 602 00:31:33,865 --> 00:31:35,425 -[schoolkid] Come back! -Piss off, man! 603 00:31:35,505 --> 00:31:37,065 [schoolkid] Come here. Get back. 604 00:31:37,145 --> 00:31:39,185 [clamoring] 605 00:31:41,905 --> 00:31:43,305 [Themba panting] 606 00:31:44,585 --> 00:31:45,665 [grunting] 607 00:31:46,225 --> 00:31:49,105 -No! Oh, my God. Stop! -[clamoring] 608 00:31:49,185 --> 00:31:50,625 -Stop! Stop it! -[Themba grunting] 609 00:31:50,705 --> 00:31:52,225 Leave him alone! 610 00:31:52,305 --> 00:31:53,865 Oh, my goodness. 611 00:31:53,945 --> 00:31:56,985 Oh, my God. [exclaims] They're going to kill you. 612 00:31:57,065 --> 00:31:59,345 [exclaims] Oh, my God… 613 00:31:59,425 --> 00:32:03,145 My brothers and sisters, I say it every single day. 614 00:32:03,225 --> 00:32:05,745 Every action has a consequence. 615 00:32:05,825 --> 00:32:08,385 You can't outrun your choices and decisions. 616 00:32:08,465 --> 00:32:11,865 No matter how fast you are! Just look at our Themba right here! 617 00:32:11,945 --> 00:32:13,905 Themba, those choices of yours! 618 00:32:13,985 --> 00:32:15,905 [exclaims, sighs] 619 00:32:15,985 --> 00:32:18,585 What would you like, my dear? Okay. 620 00:32:18,665 --> 00:32:20,905 Whoo. These are crazy times. [chuckles] 621 00:32:20,985 --> 00:32:21,825 Bye-bye. 622 00:32:33,345 --> 00:32:34,585 Time is almost up. 623 00:32:35,305 --> 00:32:36,825 Why are we here? 624 00:32:36,905 --> 00:32:38,545 [scoffs] Right, um… 625 00:32:39,065 --> 00:32:41,905 Let me quickly just, um, go and call Lethu. 626 00:32:43,505 --> 00:32:44,545 Lethu. 627 00:32:45,985 --> 00:32:50,105 Maybe there's an issue with taxis or she's stuck in traffic. 628 00:32:50,985 --> 00:32:52,305 It's unacceptable. 629 00:32:52,945 --> 00:32:56,505 Bongo, I am calling Charlene. She'll plan the wedding. 630 00:32:57,625 --> 00:32:59,265 [Mrs. Nkosi] No, don't be harsh on her. 631 00:32:59,345 --> 00:33:01,665 I'm sure she has a very good reason for being late like this. 632 00:33:01,745 --> 00:33:03,145 I don't like any excuses. 633 00:33:03,225 --> 00:33:04,305 Mrs. Nkosi. 634 00:33:04,385 --> 00:33:07,945 [chuckles] Relax, Mom. I'm sure Lethu will arrive very soon. 635 00:33:08,025 --> 00:33:10,505 -Right? Lethu is on her way. -[Mayi] Yeah. 636 00:33:11,905 --> 00:33:14,105 This is the last strike. 637 00:33:14,945 --> 00:33:16,265 She won't have another. 638 00:33:17,305 --> 00:33:19,345 Don't forget. It may be your wedding, 639 00:33:20,105 --> 00:33:23,585 but this is a Jama wedding. 640 00:33:35,105 --> 00:33:36,145 Hey, girl. No way. 641 00:33:37,185 --> 00:33:38,265 What's wrong? 642 00:33:38,345 --> 00:33:39,945 I had to stop these people at the door, 643 00:33:40,025 --> 00:33:41,545 -they were all about to leave. -Okay. 644 00:33:41,625 --> 00:33:45,425 -How do I look? Am I fine? -You look fine, friend. Let's go! 645 00:33:49,145 --> 00:33:52,185 [grunting] 646 00:33:57,385 --> 00:33:58,665 [Bridget] Okay, my dear. 647 00:33:58,745 --> 00:34:02,065 Oh, Themba? Please be honest with me, my dearest. 648 00:34:02,145 --> 00:34:05,225 A-Are you not totally embarrassed? Huh? 649 00:34:06,225 --> 00:34:07,585 Your pride, Themba? 650 00:34:08,145 --> 00:34:09,625 Let's forget about me, 651 00:34:09,705 --> 00:34:11,945 because I understand that you don't care about me at all. 652 00:34:12,025 --> 00:34:13,824 But you, Themba? Baby? 653 00:34:13,905 --> 00:34:16,145 What about your image, the family's image? 654 00:34:16,225 --> 00:34:17,264 Come on! 655 00:34:21,824 --> 00:34:24,385 -Please could you bring me more ice. -No. Get lost. 656 00:34:24,465 --> 00:34:27,425 I'm not getting you ice. Don't ask me to. Wow. 657 00:34:27,505 --> 00:34:30,665 To be beaten by kids, Themba… Small schoolboys! 658 00:34:30,744 --> 00:34:33,145 Bridget, I beg. Give me space. 659 00:34:33,225 --> 00:34:36,784 I'm not giving you space, my dear. Never. Oh, no. 660 00:34:36,865 --> 00:34:39,905 Listen now to me, carefully. I am still dealing with you. 661 00:34:39,985 --> 00:34:42,344 Don't you get tired of your bullshit? 662 00:34:42,425 --> 00:34:44,585 Are you feeling proud of the sorry state you're in? 663 00:34:44,665 --> 00:34:46,264 The situation you've made for yourself? 664 00:34:46,344 --> 00:34:48,304 -Baby? -[clapping hands] 665 00:34:50,065 --> 00:34:51,865 Oh, I am so proud. 666 00:34:51,945 --> 00:34:55,425 Ah, well, now Themba. Themba, from kwaMashu. 667 00:34:55,505 --> 00:34:57,545 You're the man. Oh, yes, you are. You hear me? 668 00:34:57,625 --> 00:35:01,665 My lover from kwaMashu, he gets beaten up by kids. 669 00:35:01,744 --> 00:35:03,945 Goodness me. Aw. 670 00:35:06,625 --> 00:35:08,305 Oh, let me get the door for you. 671 00:35:09,625 --> 00:35:10,705 [Mrs. Jama clears throat] 672 00:35:12,065 --> 00:35:13,505 [scoffs] 673 00:35:20,305 --> 00:35:21,585 [whispers] I mean, what? 674 00:35:26,025 --> 00:35:27,585 [engine starts] 675 00:35:31,185 --> 00:35:33,465 -Bye. -Bye. 676 00:35:35,025 --> 00:35:36,305 -[sighs] -Wow. 677 00:35:36,385 --> 00:35:38,385 I think that was a mess. What about you? 678 00:35:39,865 --> 00:35:41,785 Friend, I don't feel so good. 679 00:35:41,865 --> 00:35:42,745 I'm sick, friend. 680 00:35:42,825 --> 00:35:45,585 I guess, at least they didn't fire us. We're still doing the gig. 681 00:35:45,665 --> 00:35:47,665 I don't think I'll be able to do this anymore. 682 00:35:47,745 --> 00:35:50,425 What are you saying now? It's such an important job. 683 00:35:51,585 --> 00:35:57,185 [scoffs] You know what? Fuck Lucky! We almost lost the gig because of him. 684 00:35:57,265 --> 00:35:59,305 Guess what I have planned for us? 685 00:36:00,025 --> 00:36:02,665 -What? -You and I are going out tonight. 686 00:36:02,745 --> 00:36:05,185 -We are going to dance, get drunk… -Nah, no way, Amanda. 687 00:36:05,265 --> 00:36:07,105 -…and have a fabulous time. -I don't know, Amanda. 688 00:36:07,185 --> 00:36:11,745 So just loosen up and relax. We're gonna go dancing. 689 00:36:11,825 --> 00:36:13,825 Right? Come on, girl! 690 00:36:15,865 --> 00:36:18,145 Oh, man. I should have hidden that phone. 691 00:36:18,945 --> 00:36:19,985 But you… 692 00:36:21,505 --> 00:36:23,425 You've been on my case these years. 693 00:36:23,505 --> 00:36:25,345 Meanwhile, you were up to the same shit. 694 00:36:25,425 --> 00:36:26,425 [sighs] 695 00:36:26,505 --> 00:36:28,265 Our situations are different, bro. 696 00:36:28,345 --> 00:36:30,265 -How is it different exactly? -It's different. 697 00:36:32,425 --> 00:36:34,265 [stammering] I still have my dignity. 698 00:36:36,025 --> 00:36:37,745 But your woman is gone. 699 00:36:39,705 --> 00:36:41,225 Bro, I cannot lose her. 700 00:36:43,225 --> 00:36:46,065 [stammering] I don't even have a life without Lethu. 701 00:36:46,145 --> 00:36:48,185 I'm absolutely nothing without her. 702 00:36:49,945 --> 00:36:52,505 I don't think I've ever met anyone else quite like her. 703 00:36:53,625 --> 00:36:55,145 I just have to get her back. 704 00:36:56,425 --> 00:36:59,345 Bro, I have to find a way to bring her back to me. 705 00:36:59,425 --> 00:37:02,145 She's never looked at me that way before. 706 00:37:02,225 --> 00:37:03,705 I have to change. 707 00:37:05,025 --> 00:37:07,225 I mean for real, this time. 708 00:37:15,545 --> 00:37:17,105 [sighing] 709 00:37:19,385 --> 00:37:20,385 Yeah, hey. 710 00:37:22,345 --> 00:37:24,945 That's how it goes. [sighs] For real. 711 00:37:26,665 --> 00:37:28,865 What are you talking about, Lucky? Are you crazy? 712 00:37:28,945 --> 00:37:31,105 Of course I'm ignoring your calls, idiot. 713 00:37:31,185 --> 00:37:34,625 I mean, how could you bring yourself to add me to your broadcast list 714 00:37:34,705 --> 00:37:36,865 with all your treasure hoes? Me? 715 00:37:37,465 --> 00:37:38,745 Are you a fuckboy, bro? 716 00:37:39,505 --> 00:37:41,145 Do you sleep around? 717 00:37:41,665 --> 00:37:42,545 Got a girlfriend? 718 00:37:43,145 --> 00:37:44,785 Because if you do have a girl, 719 00:37:44,865 --> 00:37:47,425 you'll have to tell her, because everyone has just got… 720 00:37:48,065 --> 00:37:49,825 -[sighs] -[Amanda] You know what? 721 00:37:49,905 --> 00:37:51,585 My friend's life is great without you. 722 00:37:51,665 --> 00:37:54,545 She doesn't need you. She's good without you in her life. 723 00:37:54,625 --> 00:37:57,065 She is moving on, and I suggest you also do the same. 724 00:37:57,145 --> 00:37:59,945 I've always just been such a good girl. 725 00:38:00,025 --> 00:38:02,825 But now I'm the one that's stuck with fucking chlamydia. 726 00:38:03,705 --> 00:38:05,385 Men are just shit. 727 00:38:08,905 --> 00:38:10,905 [Amanda] But then, maybe you and I… 728 00:38:12,785 --> 00:38:13,785 who knows. 729 00:38:16,225 --> 00:38:19,185 [Lethu] Hey! No! Amanda! 730 00:38:19,265 --> 00:38:21,145 -Hey. -[Lethu] No, no, no. 731 00:38:22,225 --> 00:38:26,065 You're the one who said we should go out, drink and have fun, "fuck him, fuck him." 732 00:38:26,145 --> 00:38:27,305 Now you're on your phone? 733 00:38:27,385 --> 00:38:28,945 -Yeah, I'm… -All night long? 734 00:38:29,025 --> 00:38:30,545 [sighs] I'm sorry, friend. It's just that-- 735 00:38:30,625 --> 00:38:32,065 -It's just that what? -Okay, okay. 736 00:38:32,145 --> 00:38:34,865 -I am here. I'm actually back now. -[admirer] Hey. 737 00:38:34,945 --> 00:38:36,345 -[admirer 2] Hey, ladies. -Hi. 738 00:38:36,425 --> 00:38:37,545 Hi. 739 00:38:41,305 --> 00:38:44,545 Okay, I'm back, I'm back. Okay, some shots now? 740 00:38:44,625 --> 00:38:47,625 That's what I'm talking about. Shots. Let's go. 741 00:38:47,705 --> 00:38:51,025 ♪ Shots! Shots! Shots! Shots! ♪ 742 00:38:54,385 --> 00:38:55,785 [dance music playing] 743 00:39:00,625 --> 00:39:03,025 I'm just playing. Hey, loosen up. What's wrong? 744 00:39:03,905 --> 00:39:05,545 Does your girlfriend know that you are here? 745 00:39:05,625 --> 00:39:07,145 Luckily, I don't have a girlfriend. 746 00:39:07,225 --> 00:39:09,065 Single, ready to mingle. 747 00:39:09,145 --> 00:39:11,105 -Oh, okay then. -Mmm. 748 00:39:11,185 --> 00:39:13,905 Since we are in the business of getting to know each other, 749 00:39:13,985 --> 00:39:14,825 Mm-hmm? 750 00:39:15,825 --> 00:39:19,385 I think it's a good thing that I let you know that, you see, me, my man, 751 00:39:19,465 --> 00:39:21,225 I have chlamydia. 752 00:39:21,305 --> 00:39:24,665 An STD. 753 00:39:24,745 --> 00:39:27,345 -[laughs] -And if you're ever stupid enough 754 00:39:27,425 --> 00:39:30,665 to trust a man, you could also get infected. 755 00:39:31,505 --> 00:39:32,505 Vuyo? 756 00:39:32,585 --> 00:39:35,145 Be careful, brother. You might also have it. 757 00:39:35,945 --> 00:39:38,385 Amanda, did you end up checking-- 758 00:39:38,465 --> 00:39:42,665 -Uh, we have to be… We have to go. -Yeah. Just, uh, excuse us, guys. 759 00:39:42,745 --> 00:39:44,825 -I am trying to help, guys. -[Vuyo] Okay. 760 00:39:44,905 --> 00:39:49,425 [singsongy] I am telling you. Be careful. 761 00:39:50,265 --> 00:39:51,385 Let's go, girl. 762 00:39:53,625 --> 00:39:57,705 [indistinct slurred chatter] 763 00:39:57,785 --> 00:40:00,505 [door unlocking] 764 00:40:00,585 --> 00:40:05,545 [slurred singing] 765 00:40:05,625 --> 00:40:08,025 ♪ We don't want to sleep at home ♪ 766 00:40:08,105 --> 00:40:09,385 [laughing] 767 00:40:12,945 --> 00:40:14,305 [sighs] 768 00:40:14,385 --> 00:40:15,665 What are you doing here, then? 769 00:40:16,385 --> 00:40:18,065 Could you please talk to me, Lethu? 770 00:40:18,665 --> 00:40:20,065 [scoffs] You can't be serious. 771 00:40:24,545 --> 00:40:27,385 [scoffs] Take her. She's yours. 772 00:40:27,985 --> 00:40:29,585 -Friend, here are your keys. -[Lethu grunts] 773 00:40:29,665 --> 00:40:30,865 [Amanda] You will be all right. 774 00:40:31,385 --> 00:40:32,465 [Lethu] My bag? 775 00:40:32,545 --> 00:40:33,785 You will get it tomorrow. 776 00:40:36,225 --> 00:40:40,185 All right. Look. I just can't do this anymore, baby. 777 00:40:40,785 --> 00:40:42,945 -[door closes] -I miss you so much. 778 00:40:45,665 --> 00:40:47,065 [softly] You hear? 779 00:40:47,145 --> 00:40:48,145 [grunts] 780 00:40:48,905 --> 00:40:50,585 [gags, vomits] 781 00:40:51,185 --> 00:40:53,025 [vomiting] 782 00:40:53,105 --> 00:40:55,105 [coughing] 783 00:40:55,985 --> 00:40:57,065 Okay, okay, okay. 784 00:40:57,145 --> 00:40:59,985 [vomiting, coughing] 785 00:41:00,065 --> 00:41:02,825 -[choir singing] -[pastor] To give us 786 00:41:03,305 --> 00:41:05,785 eternal life. 787 00:41:05,865 --> 00:41:11,225 Perhaps there's someone in our midst that we know. Someone is trapped in sin. 788 00:41:12,185 --> 00:41:14,785 Someone who is shackled by the chains of sin. 789 00:41:16,025 --> 00:41:18,545 Jesus said we should bring everything to Him, 790 00:41:18,625 --> 00:41:20,225 my good people. 791 00:41:20,305 --> 00:41:22,265 I have a demon of lust! 792 00:41:22,345 --> 00:41:23,905 -[singing stops] -[pastor] Ah. 793 00:41:24,745 --> 00:41:28,105 -For what, my son? -I can't stop my affairs. 794 00:41:28,185 --> 00:41:30,985 -Come, my son. -I can't keep my zip up. 795 00:41:31,585 --> 00:41:34,185 -[pastor exclaims] -I want to change. [breathing deeply] 796 00:41:34,265 --> 00:41:36,865 [pastor] Please come forward, my good people. 797 00:41:37,505 --> 00:41:41,785 Come. Let's lay our hands on this man. Kneel down, my son. 798 00:41:41,865 --> 00:41:44,025 -Come on, son. -[singing continues] 799 00:41:44,105 --> 00:41:46,305 Let's give it all to the Lord. 800 00:41:48,305 --> 00:41:53,465 And the Lord says, Jesus, the son, says 801 00:41:53,545 --> 00:41:56,945 "Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, 802 00:41:57,025 --> 00:41:59,145 and I will give you rest." 803 00:41:59,905 --> 00:42:04,185 Come out! Demon of adultery! 804 00:42:04,945 --> 00:42:07,225 -Demon of lust-- -Come out! 805 00:42:08,105 --> 00:42:10,145 -Come out! Come out! -Yes, my congregation, 806 00:42:10,225 --> 00:42:11,785 -let us lay hands on him. -Get out, demon! Now! 807 00:42:11,865 --> 00:42:13,745 You evil spirit, I rebuke you! 808 00:42:13,825 --> 00:42:16,345 Get out now! Get out! Get out, you evil spirit! 809 00:42:16,425 --> 00:42:18,505 -Come out! -Come out of this son! 810 00:42:18,585 --> 00:42:19,745 [all] Come out! Get out! 811 00:42:19,825 --> 00:42:22,985 -Get out! Come out! -[crying] 812 00:42:23,065 --> 00:42:24,145 -Out, demon! -[crying] 813 00:42:24,225 --> 00:42:27,305 -Holy Spirit… [speaks indistinctly] -[clamoring] 814 00:42:27,385 --> 00:42:29,305 Set me free, Father! Set me free. 815 00:42:29,385 --> 00:42:32,905 [Lethu] Lucky, we're just going around in circles right now. 816 00:42:32,985 --> 00:42:36,185 And that's why I'm going to keep apologizing and saying I'm sorry. 817 00:42:36,865 --> 00:42:38,825 I get sleeping with one woman. 818 00:42:38,905 --> 00:42:40,425 That's a fuck-up. 819 00:42:40,985 --> 00:42:43,505 Two, three maybe. 820 00:42:43,585 --> 00:42:44,985 But 17? 821 00:42:45,065 --> 00:42:48,305 You smashed 17 girls in the last six months. 822 00:42:48,385 --> 00:42:50,385 That's not a mistake. That's a problem, brah. 823 00:42:50,465 --> 00:42:52,105 Yeah, I'm fucked, Lethu. I know that. 824 00:42:52,185 --> 00:42:56,025 And this thing of yours, of playing victim. Please stop. 825 00:42:56,105 --> 00:42:58,945 And stop trying to tell me what you think I want to hear for once. 826 00:42:59,465 --> 00:43:00,745 Just be truthful. 827 00:43:01,265 --> 00:43:02,505 Okay, look… 828 00:43:03,745 --> 00:43:04,785 -I love you. -Stop it. 829 00:43:04,865 --> 00:43:08,185 No, just, just… Please listen to me. Please listen to me. 830 00:43:08,705 --> 00:43:09,705 Okay? 831 00:43:10,945 --> 00:43:13,785 I love you, Lethu. I will never love anyone else the way that I love you. 832 00:43:15,025 --> 00:43:16,425 But, my love, it's just… 833 00:43:17,465 --> 00:43:19,065 To think that you're the only person 834 00:43:19,145 --> 00:43:21,145 that I'll be sleeping with for the rest of my life… 835 00:43:21,665 --> 00:43:23,825 I don't know. I'm suffocating. 836 00:43:27,585 --> 00:43:29,145 What do you mean? 837 00:43:30,865 --> 00:43:32,705 I mean, I don't think I can only sleep with one partner 838 00:43:32,785 --> 00:43:35,185 for the rest of my life, Lethu. Do you understand? 839 00:43:37,385 --> 00:43:40,465 I love you, Lethukhanya. I see you in my future. You're the one. 840 00:43:40,545 --> 00:43:42,145 To have children with you, my love. 841 00:43:43,145 --> 00:43:43,985 Yes, but… 842 00:43:45,745 --> 00:43:48,985 But if you're the only person I'm sleeping with in my entire life for that to happen, 843 00:43:49,065 --> 00:43:50,265 that's crazy, baby. 844 00:43:50,345 --> 00:43:52,065 Just think about it, my love. 845 00:43:52,145 --> 00:43:53,985 -In other words you want to be polygamous? -No. 846 00:43:54,065 --> 00:43:58,265 No. No, no, my love. No. I don't want to be polygamous 847 00:43:58,345 --> 00:44:01,265 I don't want a lot of wives, or even girlfriends. 848 00:44:01,345 --> 00:44:02,385 I want you. 849 00:44:03,745 --> 00:44:08,425 But, baby, sometimes I want to be allowed to skip out of the relationship. 850 00:44:09,105 --> 00:44:11,865 You see, then come home, and you and I are fine. Hmm? 851 00:44:13,425 --> 00:44:15,705 Forever is a long time, Lethu. 852 00:44:17,585 --> 00:44:19,385 [gasps] There's just no way. 853 00:44:19,905 --> 00:44:21,625 Okay, okay, just… just… 854 00:44:21,705 --> 00:44:23,425 -[exhales sharply] -Please listen to me. 855 00:44:25,065 --> 00:44:27,985 Okay. There is no one I love more than you. You know that, right? 856 00:44:28,065 --> 00:44:32,185 The other women, they're just… they're just there for… 857 00:44:32,785 --> 00:44:35,305 -for me to scratch an itch. You see? -[stammers] 858 00:44:36,945 --> 00:44:40,025 They mean nothing to me. They will never take your place in my heart. 859 00:44:42,545 --> 00:44:43,745 You said you wanted the truth. 860 00:44:43,825 --> 00:44:45,545 Well, that's what I'm giving you right now. 861 00:44:48,225 --> 00:44:49,825 [Lethu sighs, sniffs] 862 00:44:50,345 --> 00:44:52,225 Can you please just say something to me, baby. 863 00:44:53,545 --> 00:44:55,425 [breathing heavily] 864 00:44:58,385 --> 00:44:59,385 Baby? 865 00:45:01,265 --> 00:45:02,385 I have to get out of here. 866 00:45:04,785 --> 00:45:06,785 I can't think while I'm here. 867 00:45:07,385 --> 00:45:08,825 -Listen, Lethu. -I have to go. I have to go. 868 00:45:08,905 --> 00:45:10,785 -Go, go, go. I have to go. -Lethu! 869 00:45:14,385 --> 00:45:16,665 [door opens, closes] 870 00:45:33,545 --> 00:45:34,545 [Lethu] Mmm. 871 00:45:36,665 --> 00:45:37,625 [both chuckle] 872 00:45:37,705 --> 00:45:39,105 [grandma] Oh, my child. 873 00:45:45,305 --> 00:45:48,065 Hey. You are back home now. 874 00:45:48,945 --> 00:45:51,305 Thank you, Granny. Let's go inside. 875 00:45:57,105 --> 00:45:58,425 [Bridget chuckles] 876 00:46:03,985 --> 00:46:07,545 [both laugh] 877 00:46:07,625 --> 00:46:09,945 [Bridget inhales deeply, exclaims] 878 00:46:10,785 --> 00:46:12,105 -Themba. -Yeah? 879 00:46:12,825 --> 00:46:15,305 Were you serious about what you said at the church? 880 00:46:15,385 --> 00:46:16,225 What do you mean? 881 00:46:16,825 --> 00:46:20,185 That you're going to change. For real this time. 882 00:46:20,265 --> 00:46:23,265 Ah, well, the way you swung. 883 00:46:23,985 --> 00:46:27,825 If you had hit my brain, I could, um, never hope to change. 884 00:46:27,905 --> 00:46:30,985 -Themba, I'm serious. -I'm also serious, my sweetheart. 885 00:46:31,505 --> 00:46:32,385 I will change. 886 00:46:32,905 --> 00:46:35,545 For real now. I promise you. 887 00:46:35,625 --> 00:46:37,145 [chuckles] 888 00:46:40,225 --> 00:46:41,545 [sobs] 889 00:46:42,545 --> 00:46:43,705 [groans] 890 00:46:44,345 --> 00:46:45,585 Oh, Jesus. 891 00:46:46,265 --> 00:46:47,545 [sighs] 892 00:46:48,145 --> 00:46:49,545 [sobbing] 893 00:46:58,825 --> 00:47:02,425 -I'm sorry, Granny. -My child, what's wrong? 894 00:47:02,505 --> 00:47:03,625 [breathes shakily] 895 00:47:05,425 --> 00:47:07,745 -Huh? -I am thinking about Lucky. 896 00:47:09,185 --> 00:47:12,545 -[Granny] Oh, Lethu. -I'd understand if he slept with one girl. 897 00:47:13,385 --> 00:47:15,185 But he slept with about 20. 898 00:47:15,265 --> 00:47:16,265 So troublesome. 899 00:47:16,905 --> 00:47:20,345 How can I be with someone who needs to sleep with so many other people? 900 00:47:22,745 --> 00:47:25,465 -I can't, Granny. No. -You're going to be okay, my love. 901 00:47:25,545 --> 00:47:27,625 I can't, Granny. [sobs] 902 00:47:30,425 --> 00:47:31,505 [sighs] 903 00:47:31,585 --> 00:47:33,545 You know what, please eat now. 904 00:47:33,625 --> 00:47:35,825 I made your favorite food for you, my lamb. 905 00:47:35,905 --> 00:47:38,065 Please eat, my child. 906 00:47:38,145 --> 00:47:39,345 Sounds good. 907 00:47:39,425 --> 00:47:40,505 Add some sugar. 908 00:47:40,585 --> 00:47:41,705 [laughs] 909 00:47:43,265 --> 00:47:45,425 [sniffles] 910 00:47:50,145 --> 00:47:53,065 Hey, you see, this time I really fucked up. I ruined it, bro. 911 00:47:53,585 --> 00:47:54,905 I ruined it badly. 912 00:47:54,985 --> 00:47:56,065 You see, bro, 913 00:47:56,585 --> 00:47:57,905 let me be honest. 914 00:47:58,545 --> 00:48:02,225 Telling the truth in a relationship is not the way. 915 00:48:02,305 --> 00:48:03,985 What do you mean now? 916 00:48:04,065 --> 00:48:06,145 You have to deny everything, brother. Deny, deny, deny. 917 00:48:06,225 --> 00:48:07,625 It's the only way to strengthen a relationship. 918 00:48:07,705 --> 00:48:08,865 Nah, there's no such thing. 919 00:48:08,945 --> 00:48:10,785 I need to do better, I need to be honest, Themba. 920 00:48:10,865 --> 00:48:12,505 It's not an easy thing to do, brother. 921 00:48:12,585 --> 00:48:14,425 Just look at me. I'm living it. 922 00:48:14,505 --> 00:48:17,465 Now you're just lying to me. You're not telling the truth. 923 00:48:17,545 --> 00:48:19,305 I've stopped all that nonsense. 924 00:48:19,385 --> 00:48:22,385 And you know the thing about that stress? I don't miss it. 925 00:48:22,465 --> 00:48:24,065 [Bridget] Yeah. Another drink? 926 00:48:24,145 --> 00:48:26,665 -Oh, hey. -Ah, it looks like I'm just in time. 927 00:48:26,745 --> 00:48:29,185 -[Themba grunts] -Hey, let me take your bottles. 928 00:48:29,265 --> 00:48:30,665 -The apple of my eye. -Thanks. 929 00:48:30,745 --> 00:48:33,345 -Ah, stop it. Making fun of me. -Thank you so much. 930 00:48:33,865 --> 00:48:35,185 Sure, Lucky. 931 00:48:35,265 --> 00:48:36,945 And then? What's up? 932 00:48:37,025 --> 00:48:38,105 Still nothing? 933 00:48:38,625 --> 00:48:40,265 Yeah. [clears throat] 934 00:48:40,345 --> 00:48:41,625 I haven't heard from Lethu. 935 00:48:41,705 --> 00:48:43,905 Oh. But she'll come back. 936 00:48:43,985 --> 00:48:46,065 She'll forgive you. I know. 937 00:48:46,585 --> 00:48:48,705 -Be strong. Hang in there. -Yeah. 938 00:48:51,345 --> 00:48:53,065 And, you now, baby? 939 00:48:53,985 --> 00:48:56,345 Your plans for tonight, Themba? 940 00:48:57,145 --> 00:49:00,985 I have no plans. Just chilling with my family. 941 00:49:01,065 --> 00:49:02,665 -And, of course, I mean my brother. -Ah. 942 00:49:03,825 --> 00:49:06,065 -And my lover. -[Bridget laughs] 943 00:49:07,865 --> 00:49:09,825 Oh, okay. 944 00:49:09,905 --> 00:49:12,545 -All right, boys. Be good. -[Themba] Yes, baby. 945 00:49:12,625 --> 00:49:16,345 -All right, my Bridget. -[Bridget] ♪ You are amazing, Jehovah ♪ 946 00:49:17,105 --> 00:49:18,105 [Themba grunts] 947 00:49:19,345 --> 00:49:20,745 [sighing] 948 00:49:23,985 --> 00:49:26,225 Are you serious about all of this, brother? 949 00:49:26,305 --> 00:49:28,665 Are you serious about that changing thing, like you were saying? 950 00:49:28,745 --> 00:49:30,265 As I said, brother, 951 00:49:30,945 --> 00:49:32,785 my eyes have seen the light. 952 00:49:47,665 --> 00:49:49,825 -Good morning, Lethu. [chuckles] -Hello, Lethu. 953 00:49:50,745 --> 00:49:52,825 Oh, good morning. 954 00:49:52,905 --> 00:49:53,745 Good morning. 955 00:49:53,825 --> 00:49:56,145 -How are you, my girl? -I'm well. How are you? 956 00:49:56,225 --> 00:49:57,545 -We are good. -Yeah. 957 00:49:57,625 --> 00:49:59,985 [all chuckle] 958 00:50:00,065 --> 00:50:02,545 Your granny told us that you came to visit over here. 959 00:50:02,625 --> 00:50:03,465 [auntie 2 chuckling] 960 00:50:03,545 --> 00:50:06,265 And we are just so happy to see you, Lethu. 961 00:50:06,345 --> 00:50:07,505 Just look at her now. 962 00:50:07,585 --> 00:50:09,385 She's so beautiful. You see her? 963 00:50:09,465 --> 00:50:11,065 -Oh, I'm grateful. -[all chuckle] 964 00:50:11,665 --> 00:50:13,705 -[auntie 2] Oh, Lethu. Lethu. -Yes. 965 00:50:13,785 --> 00:50:14,865 Please tell us now, 966 00:50:14,945 --> 00:50:18,265 where are you hiding that handsome man of yours? 967 00:50:18,345 --> 00:50:19,265 [all laugh] 968 00:50:19,745 --> 00:50:22,625 I heard that he bought you a ring that fills up your finger. 969 00:50:22,705 --> 00:50:24,945 -[auntie 1] Mm-hmm. -[auntie 2] Hmm? I hope it's good. 970 00:50:25,465 --> 00:50:28,385 So now listen here, my child, let him know 971 00:50:28,465 --> 00:50:30,985 that is not how things are done. 972 00:50:31,065 --> 00:50:33,585 He and his uncles need to talk together 973 00:50:33,665 --> 00:50:37,505 and they bring cows for dowry to your family, to us right here. 974 00:50:37,585 --> 00:50:39,105 [exclaims] Not like you city folks. 975 00:50:39,185 --> 00:50:40,585 Oh, yes, that's true, Auntie. 976 00:50:40,665 --> 00:50:45,945 [sighs] Ah, but even though that's true, oh, Lethu, we are proud of you. 977 00:50:46,025 --> 00:50:47,905 -All of us here… -So proud… 978 00:50:47,985 --> 00:50:49,145 What makes us even more proud 979 00:50:49,225 --> 00:50:51,505 is that we have heard you will be married very soon. 980 00:50:52,345 --> 00:50:55,865 All your possible suitors now don't stand a chance anymore. 981 00:50:55,945 --> 00:50:58,585 -[all laughing] -You're taken. You're taken! 982 00:50:58,665 --> 00:50:59,665 We're looking for your granny. 983 00:50:59,745 --> 00:51:02,505 Lethu, my child, let's not disturb you any further. 984 00:51:02,585 --> 00:51:05,025 -Where is Gogo? -Oh, she's here, she's inside. 985 00:51:05,105 --> 00:51:06,985 -Oh. Let's go see. -Oh, well. Let's go see her then. 986 00:51:07,065 --> 00:51:08,465 -[auntie 1] Thank you. -Oh, boy, Auntie. 987 00:51:08,545 --> 00:51:09,785 [auntie 2] Continue with your work. 988 00:51:09,865 --> 00:51:11,825 -I'm grateful. -[auntie 2] Mm-hmm. 989 00:51:11,905 --> 00:51:13,425 She's beautiful. 990 00:51:13,505 --> 00:51:15,345 [narrator singing] 991 00:51:20,785 --> 00:51:22,785 [singing continues] 992 00:51:25,025 --> 00:51:26,065 [laughs] 993 00:51:26,145 --> 00:51:27,345 Oh, my child, 994 00:51:27,425 --> 00:51:31,105 how are you meant to go and tell all these old ladies and grannies, 995 00:51:31,185 --> 00:51:35,265 that your prize has now gone and given you chlamydia? 996 00:51:35,345 --> 00:51:37,385 Chlamydia? Whoa. 997 00:51:48,345 --> 00:51:50,105 [stammering] I'm begging you, Lethu… 998 00:51:51,625 --> 00:51:54,625 I know that I'm the last person you want to talk to right now. 999 00:51:55,265 --> 00:51:57,265 I know you want nothing to do with me, but… 1000 00:51:58,705 --> 00:52:00,905 but I want to make sure that you are all right. 1001 00:52:01,825 --> 00:52:05,545 So, please text or even send me an e-mail, my love. 1002 00:52:06,225 --> 00:52:08,025 So I know that you are all right. 1003 00:52:09,785 --> 00:52:10,785 Okay. 1004 00:52:17,385 --> 00:52:18,385 [door opens] 1005 00:52:25,545 --> 00:52:28,105 [chuckles] Wow. You look so sad. 1006 00:52:29,905 --> 00:52:31,105 But don't you worry. 1007 00:52:31,665 --> 00:52:33,345 I'm here now. You'll feel better. 1008 00:52:34,345 --> 00:52:36,025 [sighs] No, stop that, please. 1009 00:52:36,105 --> 00:52:37,425 Have you spoken to Lethu? 1010 00:52:37,505 --> 00:52:39,905 Mm-mmm. But I'm sure she's doing okay. 1011 00:52:40,505 --> 00:52:42,705 I don't want to talk about her right now. 1012 00:52:42,785 --> 00:52:45,265 [clicks tongue] Just wait, Amanda. Stop. 1013 00:52:45,865 --> 00:52:47,865 -[scoffs] What the fuck, Lucky? -I'm sorry. 1014 00:52:48,385 --> 00:52:50,225 I'm sorry, but I can't do this. 1015 00:52:52,625 --> 00:52:53,825 What's going on with you? 1016 00:52:55,665 --> 00:52:57,825 What do you think is going on? I'm a wreck. 1017 00:52:58,345 --> 00:52:59,665 Actually, what are you doing here? 1018 00:52:59,745 --> 00:53:02,665 I don't understand. Wh-What is the big deal here? 1019 00:53:02,745 --> 00:53:05,825 It's not like we never did this while you two were together. 1020 00:53:05,905 --> 00:53:08,305 So why can't we do it now that you guys have broken up? 1021 00:53:08,385 --> 00:53:10,025 Because I don't want to, Amanda. 1022 00:53:11,065 --> 00:53:12,225 You're just phony. 1023 00:53:12,305 --> 00:53:13,705 I really miss Lethu. 1024 00:53:14,545 --> 00:53:15,905 I still have feelings for her. 1025 00:53:16,825 --> 00:53:17,825 [Amanda sighs] 1026 00:53:20,865 --> 00:53:21,945 Why don't you want me? 1027 00:53:22,865 --> 00:53:25,065 What does she have that I do not? 1028 00:53:26,265 --> 00:53:28,305 Stop it, Amanda. You know it's nothing like that. 1029 00:53:28,385 --> 00:53:29,385 How is it then? 1030 00:53:29,905 --> 00:53:31,505 You are marrying her, right? 1031 00:53:34,425 --> 00:53:36,945 'Cause she feels like home, Amanda. 1032 00:53:39,025 --> 00:53:40,425 With Lethu, I feel warm. 1033 00:53:41,145 --> 00:53:43,425 It's a warm home. Who wouldn't want that for themselves? 1034 00:53:44,305 --> 00:53:45,305 Hmm? 1035 00:53:47,465 --> 00:53:49,465 So then, what am I, Lucky? 1036 00:53:50,985 --> 00:53:52,625 What am I? Me? 1037 00:53:52,705 --> 00:53:56,065 I'm just something to use and throw away when you don't need me anymore. 1038 00:53:56,145 --> 00:53:58,745 But I thought that's what you wanted. Isn't that what you wanted? 1039 00:53:59,225 --> 00:54:00,225 [sniffles] 1040 00:54:00,705 --> 00:54:01,705 Lucky. 1041 00:54:02,265 --> 00:54:03,505 All I want is you. 1042 00:54:04,385 --> 00:54:06,665 That's why I'm still here, my love. 1043 00:54:08,345 --> 00:54:09,345 Baby. 1044 00:54:10,025 --> 00:54:12,145 -Please. -Just… Amanda. 1045 00:54:13,145 --> 00:54:14,145 Please, baby. 1046 00:54:16,145 --> 00:54:18,505 W-Wait, please stop. I'm begging you. 1047 00:54:20,225 --> 00:54:22,025 -Oh, please, baby. -Amanda, I'm serious. 1048 00:54:23,025 --> 00:54:24,545 Go, please. 1049 00:54:24,625 --> 00:54:26,225 -What's wrong with you, Amanda? -[sighs] 1050 00:54:28,625 --> 00:54:29,625 Okay. 1051 00:54:30,105 --> 00:54:31,105 [breathes deeply] 1052 00:54:31,185 --> 00:54:32,185 Please go. 1053 00:54:32,865 --> 00:54:35,145 -But, Lucky--. -Get out, Amanda. 1054 00:54:37,985 --> 00:54:39,025 Lucky? 1055 00:54:40,945 --> 00:54:42,865 Just leave. I want to be alone. 1056 00:54:44,065 --> 00:54:45,065 Leave me alone. 1057 00:54:52,185 --> 00:54:54,185 [sniffles] You know what, Lucky? 1058 00:54:55,465 --> 00:54:58,425 Maybe I should have left you the day you gave me chlamydia. 1059 00:55:06,585 --> 00:55:09,785 [door opens, shuts] 1060 00:55:10,705 --> 00:55:12,105 [Granny] Do you love Lucky? 1061 00:55:14,305 --> 00:55:15,745 Oh, yes, Granny. I think so. 1062 00:55:16,345 --> 00:55:18,505 So do you think he'll be a good father? 1063 00:55:19,785 --> 00:55:20,665 I suppose so. 1064 00:55:21,265 --> 00:55:22,705 Tell me, does he make you happy? 1065 00:55:22,785 --> 00:55:23,785 He really does. 1066 00:55:25,225 --> 00:55:27,065 -Well, he used to. -[chuckles] 1067 00:55:27,145 --> 00:55:30,265 I can't imagine living without him, really. I just can't. 1068 00:55:31,145 --> 00:55:32,305 It's agony for me. 1069 00:55:33,905 --> 00:55:35,265 You know, my child, 1070 00:55:35,945 --> 00:55:41,065 leaving your man because he cheats on you is like someone who just moves, 1071 00:55:41,545 --> 00:55:44,945 leaves their country, because they know it's raining harder 1072 00:55:45,025 --> 00:55:49,625 and then goes and stays in another home, but it rains there also. 1073 00:55:49,705 --> 00:55:51,585 Men cheat, Lethukhanya. 1074 00:55:52,105 --> 00:55:53,425 They sleep around. 1075 00:55:54,065 --> 00:55:55,825 Don't deceive yourself. 1076 00:55:57,985 --> 00:55:58,945 [Granny sighs] 1077 00:55:59,465 --> 00:56:00,985 Do you understand, my lamb? 1078 00:56:02,905 --> 00:56:05,425 -Yes, I really do, Granny. -Mm-hmm. 1079 00:56:05,505 --> 00:56:08,465 You know, my lamb, I love it when you visit me. 1080 00:56:08,545 --> 00:56:12,065 Just walking around the yard and helping out here and there. 1081 00:56:12,145 --> 00:56:13,665 But this is not a place to hide. 1082 00:56:18,345 --> 00:56:20,265 -[groans] -Let me help you, Granny. 1083 00:56:21,225 --> 00:56:22,425 -Uh-- -Will you manage with that? 1084 00:56:22,505 --> 00:56:25,025 -Huh? They are dry, not too heavy. -Yes, sure. 1085 00:56:25,105 --> 00:56:26,105 [Granny chuckles] 1086 00:56:27,945 --> 00:56:29,345 [phone buzzes] 1087 00:56:39,545 --> 00:56:40,545 [sighs] 1088 00:57:00,505 --> 00:57:02,145 [keys jingle] 1089 00:57:03,225 --> 00:57:04,865 [lock clicks] 1090 00:57:05,745 --> 00:57:07,145 -[door opens] -[Lethu grunts] 1091 00:57:09,265 --> 00:57:11,705 Oh, uh… Lethu. 1092 00:57:15,345 --> 00:57:16,585 [paper rustling] 1093 00:57:30,985 --> 00:57:32,305 [Lucky clears throat] 1094 00:57:32,385 --> 00:57:33,905 I wasn't expecting you. 1095 00:57:35,145 --> 00:57:36,145 [sighs] 1096 00:57:36,225 --> 00:57:37,825 How are you? Are you okay? 1097 00:57:40,585 --> 00:57:41,665 Hey, baby? 1098 00:57:44,945 --> 00:57:48,945 [sighs] Lucky, I don't want us to lose what we've built for so many years. 1099 00:57:49,025 --> 00:57:50,985 Yeah. Yes, yes. 1100 00:57:51,065 --> 00:57:54,105 I agree with you, my love. I don't want that to happen either. 1101 00:57:54,185 --> 00:57:55,665 You hurt me, Lucky. 1102 00:57:56,825 --> 00:57:59,185 I know. I know, I'm so sorry. 1103 00:58:00,065 --> 00:58:02,145 It hurt me to hear you say all those things too. 1104 00:58:03,585 --> 00:58:05,225 But I asked for the truth 1105 00:58:05,905 --> 00:58:08,345 so I won't blame you for telling me your truth now. 1106 00:58:12,065 --> 00:58:15,425 If you want to sleep with other women, it's okay with me, Lucky. 1107 00:58:18,585 --> 00:58:21,665 [stammers] I beg your pardon. What did you say, baby? 1108 00:58:23,625 --> 00:58:25,105 It's obviously what you need. 1109 00:58:27,785 --> 00:58:30,825 [groans] My love… 1110 00:58:30,905 --> 00:58:34,625 You know, I don't deserve you, baby. [kisses] 1111 00:58:34,705 --> 00:58:36,945 [stammers] I don't deserve you, my love. 1112 00:58:38,985 --> 00:58:39,985 Yeah. 1113 00:58:41,185 --> 00:58:42,425 So, then… [sighs] 1114 00:58:43,545 --> 00:58:45,265 We can open our relationship. 1115 00:58:46,305 --> 00:58:49,345 -We can have casual sex with other people. -Okay. 1116 00:58:51,025 --> 00:58:53,305 [stammers] Okay, can we please rewind for a second? 1117 00:58:54,505 --> 00:58:56,465 I thought I heard you say "we"? 1118 00:58:56,545 --> 00:58:59,145 "We." Does that mean you're also going to sleep with other people? 1119 00:58:59,225 --> 00:59:00,385 Mmm. 1120 00:59:01,465 --> 00:59:02,825 The relationship is open. 1121 00:59:20,025 --> 00:59:21,265 Okay. 1122 00:59:22,505 --> 00:59:23,505 Okay. 1123 00:59:23,585 --> 00:59:25,825 -Can I ask you one question, Lethu? -Hmm. 1124 00:59:26,345 --> 00:59:28,825 Why? Do I not satisfy you? 1125 00:59:28,905 --> 00:59:30,145 Are you unhappy? 1126 00:59:30,225 --> 00:59:33,145 -Why would you want to see other people? -Oh. 1127 00:59:34,665 --> 00:59:39,945 Oh, so it's okay for you to go and be busy in the streets and do what you want, 1128 00:59:40,025 --> 00:59:41,425 and what am I supposed to do? 1129 00:59:42,025 --> 00:59:45,585 Stay home and wait for you, until you're done with the other girls? 1130 00:59:45,665 --> 00:59:46,665 -No… -Then you'll come back? 1131 00:59:46,745 --> 00:59:48,785 -That's not what I am saying. -What are you saying to me? 1132 00:59:49,425 --> 00:59:52,705 You want me to have visions of you, Lethu, sleeping with other men on top of you-- 1133 00:59:52,785 --> 00:59:54,745 So now you know exactly how I feel, Lucky. 1134 00:59:58,745 --> 00:59:59,745 [Lethu scoffs] 1135 01:00:04,585 --> 01:00:05,585 Okay. 1136 01:00:05,665 --> 01:00:06,665 Um… 1137 01:00:10,185 --> 01:00:11,185 I'm sorry. 1138 01:00:12,225 --> 01:00:13,225 Okay? 1139 01:00:13,905 --> 01:00:14,905 I'm sorry. 1140 01:00:16,705 --> 01:00:20,065 Of course, if I'm going to see other people, you should also be allowed… 1141 01:00:20,145 --> 01:00:22,785 [sighs] …to see other people. 1142 01:00:24,065 --> 01:00:25,305 I was a fool. 1143 01:00:27,585 --> 01:00:28,825 Please forgive me, Lethu. 1144 01:00:41,225 --> 01:00:42,265 Okay. 1145 01:00:43,905 --> 01:00:46,865 No dating or sleeping with people we know. 1146 01:00:47,705 --> 01:00:48,825 Yeah. Yeah, of course. 1147 01:00:49,345 --> 01:00:50,785 Let's have respect 1148 01:00:51,745 --> 01:00:52,905 always. 1149 01:00:54,105 --> 01:00:55,505 Chlamydia-free. 1150 01:00:56,305 --> 01:00:59,105 Yes. Once again, I'm really sorry about that. 1151 01:00:59,865 --> 01:01:00,865 Okay? 1152 01:01:02,305 --> 01:01:03,425 Say it. 1153 01:01:05,825 --> 01:01:07,985 -Mutual respect. -Mm-hmm. 1154 01:01:08,065 --> 01:01:10,585 We will be honest with each other, no matter what. 1155 01:01:10,665 --> 01:01:11,545 Mm-hmm. 1156 01:01:11,625 --> 01:01:13,985 And no sleeping with people we know. 1157 01:01:17,705 --> 01:01:18,905 I love you, okay. 1158 01:01:19,425 --> 01:01:20,745 I love you, Lucky. 1159 01:01:32,305 --> 01:01:33,305 [Lethu exclaims] 1160 01:01:38,025 --> 01:01:39,105 Come here. 1161 01:01:39,705 --> 01:01:40,785 Come here. 1162 01:01:40,865 --> 01:01:42,345 [both laugh] 1163 01:01:48,785 --> 01:01:51,785 FOREVER ME 1164 01:01:51,865 --> 01:01:53,505 [laughter] 1165 01:01:53,585 --> 01:01:55,385 -[Bridget] No way, girl. -Oh, my word. 1166 01:01:55,465 --> 01:01:57,705 Oh, my friends. What was I expecting from a Jo'burg guy. 1167 01:01:57,785 --> 01:01:58,825 Serves you right. 1168 01:01:58,905 --> 01:02:00,345 -Yeah. -[laughing] 1169 01:02:00,425 --> 01:02:03,425 But really, what were you expecting? Oh, they'll be the end of us! 1170 01:02:03,505 --> 01:02:05,265 You guys are crazy! Goodness. 1171 01:02:05,345 --> 01:02:09,185 Hey, so sorry to interrupt, ladies. 1172 01:02:09,265 --> 01:02:10,665 -[Themba] My love… -[Bridget] Yeah, love. 1173 01:02:10,745 --> 01:02:13,665 -Just a second, hey? -Okay. [chuckles] 1174 01:02:13,745 --> 01:02:14,705 Excuse me, all. 1175 01:02:14,785 --> 01:02:17,105 -I'll be back, but keep talking. -Don't worry, baby. 1176 01:02:17,785 --> 01:02:19,385 [Bridget] Yes, baby? 1177 01:02:19,465 --> 01:02:20,865 -Baby, my love-- -What's wrong, huh? 1178 01:02:20,945 --> 01:02:23,505 I'm just checking how long your friends are gonna be here. 1179 01:02:24,025 --> 01:02:25,665 -Excuse me? -[stammers] 1180 01:02:25,745 --> 01:02:29,425 I just wanted to watch the game with you all to myself, my beautiful. 1181 01:02:29,945 --> 01:02:33,345 Oh… [chuckles] …baby, why don't you rather go watch it at the tavern? 1182 01:02:33,425 --> 01:02:35,745 Oh, my love, you heard what the pastor said. 1183 01:02:35,825 --> 01:02:38,545 "If you don't want to be tempted, don't seek temptation." 1184 01:02:38,625 --> 01:02:40,305 -[sighs] Well, of course. -Hmm. 1185 01:02:40,385 --> 01:02:41,345 Oh, okay. 1186 01:02:41,425 --> 01:02:45,065 Listen, sweetheart, why don't you go to the bedroom and sit down nicely, 1187 01:02:45,145 --> 01:02:46,345 watch the game on your phone 1188 01:02:46,425 --> 01:02:48,505 -and I'll join you soon. -Hey, my love, but 1189 01:02:49,505 --> 01:02:51,545 -I've run out of data. -Oh, come on, Themba. 1190 01:02:51,625 --> 01:02:54,585 All right. Okay, baby, don't worry about me. 1191 01:02:54,665 --> 01:02:57,345 Why don't you enjoy yourself with those friends of yours, 1192 01:02:57,425 --> 01:03:02,265 I'll be right here when you are done. And the game, I'll listen on the radio. 1193 01:03:02,345 --> 01:03:04,065 -Okay, my baby, do that. -Yeah. 1194 01:03:04,145 --> 01:03:05,105 -Okay. -Okay. 1195 01:03:05,185 --> 01:03:08,665 -Uh, Themba, oh! We have guests! -[laughs] 1196 01:03:08,745 --> 01:03:10,545 Oh, wow. 1197 01:03:12,225 --> 01:03:13,265 [chuckles] 1198 01:03:15,065 --> 01:03:16,585 [laughs] 1199 01:03:16,665 --> 01:03:20,065 It seems as though everyone is turning a new leaf. 1200 01:03:20,145 --> 01:03:25,745 However, just answer this. Can a leopard truly change its spots? 1201 01:03:25,825 --> 01:03:27,905 When has it? [chuckles] Who knows. 1202 01:03:27,985 --> 01:03:29,425 So we'll probably see. 1203 01:03:29,505 --> 01:03:30,785 -[friends laugh] -[friend] Oh, wow. 1204 01:03:30,865 --> 01:03:33,385 -Friend, it must be so nice to be in love. -Ay, ay, ay… Bridget, this is-- 1205 01:03:33,465 --> 01:03:34,545 -Oh, come on. Please. -[laughs] 1206 01:03:35,065 --> 01:03:37,105 [friend 2] No, Bridget. Now listen here. 1207 01:03:37,185 --> 01:03:41,105 I remember a time when Themba could never ever be caught at home. 1208 01:03:41,185 --> 01:03:43,865 But these days, he's always here. 1209 01:03:43,945 --> 01:03:46,385 -[friend 3 laughs] My goodness. -[laughing] 1210 01:03:46,465 --> 01:03:49,225 Bridget. Please help me out, girl. Please just tell us the secret. 1211 01:03:49,305 --> 01:03:50,185 [friend 2] Please do… 1212 01:03:50,265 --> 01:03:51,345 -How do you do it? -Oh, yeah. 1213 01:03:51,425 --> 01:03:53,465 -[friend] Come now, girl. Spill. -[Bridget groans] 1214 01:03:53,545 --> 01:03:55,105 Themba, why! 1215 01:03:55,185 --> 01:03:57,385 -I am dying. -[friends] What? Dying? 1216 01:03:57,465 --> 01:03:59,305 I tell you, I'm dying. Listen. 1217 01:03:59,385 --> 01:04:02,745 So you see, these days he's always here. I just hate it. 1218 01:04:02,825 --> 01:04:05,745 You know, I never thought I'd ever say this, my friends, 1219 01:04:05,825 --> 01:04:09,105 but you know what I say? I really miss the old Themba. 1220 01:04:09,185 --> 01:04:10,545 -[friend 3] But why? -I'm serious. 1221 01:04:10,625 --> 01:04:12,745 I miss him. You won't understand. 1222 01:04:12,825 --> 01:04:15,265 Well, guys. He's changed so drastically 1223 01:04:15,345 --> 01:04:18,905 after the day he got a beating from all those schoolboys. 1224 01:04:19,505 --> 01:04:22,745 I am telling you. He's changed into a new person and now he's always home, 1225 01:04:22,825 --> 01:04:25,545 I'm going to kill him. I'm really going to kill him. 1226 01:04:25,625 --> 01:04:28,705 He's suffocating me, girls. He's like my shadow that never goes away. 1227 01:04:28,785 --> 01:04:30,425 Never, oh, never, never… 1228 01:04:30,505 --> 01:04:32,745 Tell me, are you really sure? Ay, that's unbelievable. 1229 01:04:32,825 --> 01:04:34,545 -[friend 3] Hmm. -People would be shocked to hear that. 1230 01:04:34,625 --> 01:04:36,985 -Oh, please. -[friend] Oh, Bridget. 1231 01:04:37,625 --> 01:04:40,785 Listen, friend, I guess they're definitely not lying to us 1232 01:04:40,865 --> 01:04:44,905 when they say that being promiscuous does build for us strong homes, you know. 1233 01:04:44,985 --> 01:04:46,545 [friends laugh] 1234 01:04:47,145 --> 01:04:48,225 There you go! 1235 01:04:48,305 --> 01:04:50,145 -[laughing] -You're completely out of line, my girl. 1236 01:04:50,225 --> 01:04:52,545 It builds the home. I'm telling you, my friend. It's clear. 1237 01:04:53,145 --> 01:04:55,265 -Wowee, hey… -[laughing] 1238 01:04:56,945 --> 01:04:59,745 No way, that is totally absurd. 1239 01:04:59,825 --> 01:05:03,105 I'm telling you, you're so brave, Lethu. Never would I ever. 1240 01:05:03,185 --> 01:05:09,145 Okay, ladies, I know it's an unusual setup, but it'll work for us. 1241 01:05:09,225 --> 01:05:10,385 Well, according to me. 1242 01:05:10,465 --> 01:05:12,665 Well, I think you are giving too much. 1243 01:05:13,185 --> 01:05:17,385 But what if Lucky finds some cake that he likes better than yours? 1244 01:05:17,465 --> 01:05:21,065 No ways, girl. There are a lot of problems in this world. 1245 01:05:21,145 --> 01:05:23,345 But my cake is not one of them. 1246 01:05:23,425 --> 01:05:26,225 I know what I'm doing. My stove is always on six. 1247 01:05:26,305 --> 01:05:27,625 -True that. -Thank you. 1248 01:05:27,705 --> 01:05:29,305 -[friend] Yes. [laughs] -[Lethu laughs] 1249 01:05:29,385 --> 01:05:31,985 But you don't know what other women are doing out there, right. 1250 01:05:32,065 --> 01:05:35,025 If my man told me he wanted to sleep with a bunch of other women, 1251 01:05:35,105 --> 01:05:38,225 [scoffs] I'm telling you, I would want the world to swallow me up. 1252 01:05:38,305 --> 01:05:41,465 Before all of that can happen, oh, girl, you have to get a man first. 1253 01:05:41,545 --> 01:05:43,625 -Oh, please. Look who's talking. -Okay. [laughs] 1254 01:05:43,705 --> 01:05:46,065 I mean, friend, you can also see that this is really crazy, no? 1255 01:05:46,145 --> 01:05:47,145 -Don't you think? -Mmm. 1256 01:05:47,225 --> 01:05:49,625 [friend] On a serious note, friend, what if you find a guy 1257 01:05:49,705 --> 01:05:52,265 who lays it down better than Lucky? 1258 01:05:52,345 --> 01:05:55,745 Mmm. I don't even think that's possible on this earth. 1259 01:05:55,825 --> 01:05:56,865 [friend] Wow, girl! 1260 01:05:56,945 --> 01:06:00,265 Tell me your man can put it down without telling me your man can put it down! 1261 01:06:00,345 --> 01:06:03,945 -Well, we do love each other. -Uh-huh! [laughs] Love it. 1262 01:06:04,025 --> 01:06:06,105 [Lethu] But to tell you the truth, I mean it, 1263 01:06:06,185 --> 01:06:07,745 we love each other. Isn't that so? 1264 01:06:07,825 --> 01:06:09,705 -Aw, baby. -And sometimes we… 1265 01:06:10,705 --> 01:06:13,385 -Oh, he knows how to put it down. -Mmm. Okay! 1266 01:06:13,465 --> 01:06:15,105 [Lethu, friend laugh] 1267 01:06:15,185 --> 01:06:16,385 [Lethu] Thank you! 1268 01:06:16,465 --> 01:06:19,745 Ew! Guys, no, please. Can we drop the subject? Okay? 1269 01:06:19,825 --> 01:06:22,825 Oh, fine, Miss Jealousy. 1270 01:06:22,905 --> 01:06:25,345 -Okay, I'd like to make a toast. -[Lethu] Yes. 1271 01:06:25,945 --> 01:06:29,785 To us ladies finding love, no matter how it looks. 1272 01:06:29,865 --> 01:06:32,105 -Cheers to that. -Cheers to that. 1273 01:06:32,185 --> 01:06:33,625 And cheers to a good evening. 1274 01:06:33,705 --> 01:06:34,745 [Lethu laughs] 1275 01:06:40,145 --> 01:06:42,865 [Themba] It's because you went to that fancy private school. 1276 01:06:42,945 --> 01:06:47,905 What you are saying to me right now isn't helping. In any shape or form. 1277 01:06:47,985 --> 01:06:50,745 I'm just telling the truth. Befriending white people ruined you. 1278 01:06:51,345 --> 01:06:54,585 What's wrong with getting what you want the way the rest of us do it? 1279 01:06:54,665 --> 01:06:56,345 By getting it silently on the side? 1280 01:06:56,425 --> 01:06:57,505 No. 1281 01:06:57,585 --> 01:06:59,105 I can't keep doing that. 1282 01:06:59,185 --> 01:07:00,945 I tried that before and got caught. Don't you remember? 1283 01:07:01,025 --> 01:07:01,945 We all get caught. 1284 01:07:02,025 --> 01:07:05,905 What you do is apologize and then we are more careful. You know it goes like that. 1285 01:07:05,985 --> 01:07:09,905 Wait, but Bridget was telling me that you are always by her side now. 1286 01:07:09,985 --> 01:07:12,745 Wherever she goes, you're always following her, 1287 01:07:12,825 --> 01:07:14,785 so where do you get the chance to cheat? 1288 01:07:14,865 --> 01:07:16,585 There's more than enough time in a day. 1289 01:07:16,665 --> 01:07:19,185 See, where there's a will, brother, there's a way. 1290 01:07:19,265 --> 01:07:21,545 Bridget doesn't suspect anything at all. 1291 01:07:21,625 --> 01:07:24,065 No, no. That's depressing, my bruv. 1292 01:07:24,145 --> 01:07:26,265 What's depressing is this weird shit you're doing. 1293 01:07:26,345 --> 01:07:27,425 What shit? 1294 01:07:27,505 --> 01:07:30,945 Telling your woman that you're sleeping with other women. 1295 01:07:31,025 --> 01:07:33,385 What? Yes, this could work for us. 1296 01:07:33,465 --> 01:07:37,105 So that she also sleeps with other people all over? 1297 01:07:38,025 --> 01:07:40,385 No. No, of course not, man. 1298 01:07:40,465 --> 01:07:44,625 But, Lucky, I really cannot believe that she agreed to go along with it. 1299 01:07:45,545 --> 01:07:47,065 Ah, but now the thing is, Themba, 1300 01:07:47,145 --> 01:07:49,905 you see, some of us decided to go looking for a more modern woman. 1301 01:07:49,985 --> 01:07:52,145 -You understand? Ah. -Oh. 1302 01:07:52,225 --> 01:07:54,545 -And it doesn't bother you? -Why would I be bothered? 1303 01:07:54,625 --> 01:07:56,985 That your partner doesn't mind you sleeping around? 1304 01:07:57,065 --> 01:07:58,225 No. Not at all. 1305 01:07:58,305 --> 01:08:00,065 Wowee, my guy. 1306 01:08:00,865 --> 01:08:03,945 A woman who doesn't care who you're sleeping with 1307 01:08:04,025 --> 01:08:05,705 has fallen out of love with you. 1308 01:08:05,785 --> 01:08:07,825 But we all know that Lethu loves and cares for me, brother-- 1309 01:08:07,905 --> 01:08:10,225 Ah, let me tell you this. The power lies in the woman's hands. 1310 01:08:10,305 --> 01:08:12,625 That's why it's important that we cheat on them. 1311 01:08:12,705 --> 01:08:16,505 So you can test if she still loves you. Or cares about you. 1312 01:08:16,585 --> 01:08:17,825 Absolutely not, brother. 1313 01:08:17,905 --> 01:08:21,345 Well, hey! Don't say I didn't warn you, brother. 1314 01:08:21,424 --> 01:08:23,345 You'll remember my words. 1315 01:08:23,424 --> 01:08:24,625 You're gonna call me. 1316 01:08:24,705 --> 01:08:27,625 You're gonna call me, bro. You're gonna call me. 1317 01:08:34,345 --> 01:08:37,305 [Amanda] But, my friend, I thought everything was going well. 1318 01:08:37,384 --> 01:08:40,384 [Lethu, crying] I know we had an agreement, but I can't cope. 1319 01:08:40,464 --> 01:08:41,464 [sobs] 1320 01:08:42,025 --> 01:08:44,025 Is there something wrong with me? 1321 01:08:46,025 --> 01:08:48,504 I want to be with him and him only, Amanda. 1322 01:08:48,584 --> 01:08:50,345 Why doesn't he just want me? 1323 01:08:51,945 --> 01:08:54,345 I'm thinking is it really worth it, being with him, 1324 01:08:54,424 --> 01:08:56,985 if this is the price you're gonna be paying? 1325 01:08:58,865 --> 01:08:59,865 [sniffles] 1326 01:08:59,945 --> 01:09:04,625 I know it hurts right now, Amanda, but it'll hurt even more if I choose 1327 01:09:05,665 --> 01:09:07,025 a life without him. 1328 01:09:07,544 --> 01:09:09,825 Mm-mmm. Forget about Lucky. 1329 01:09:10,785 --> 01:09:13,384 -This is your open relationship too. -[sobs] 1330 01:09:13,464 --> 01:09:15,464 So, just throw yourself out there. 1331 01:09:15,544 --> 01:09:17,185 Go out and meet other people. 1332 01:09:17,945 --> 01:09:21,785 Rather than putting your life on standstill waiting for Lucky. No. 1333 01:09:22,305 --> 01:09:24,105 Who knows who you could meet out there? 1334 01:09:27,584 --> 01:09:28,865 [cries] 1335 01:09:39,825 --> 01:09:41,625 [breathes shakily] 1336 01:09:43,345 --> 01:09:44,345 [moans] 1337 01:09:44,865 --> 01:09:46,825 -Mmm, I got you, friend. -[sniffles] 1338 01:09:47,464 --> 01:09:49,625 [sniffles, sobs] 1339 01:09:52,665 --> 01:09:56,785 Hey, friend. I don't want to lie to you. I was going though it. 1340 01:09:56,865 --> 01:09:59,265 Like, really serious. But, 1341 01:10:00,065 --> 01:10:01,865 I guess I'm all right. 1342 01:10:01,945 --> 01:10:04,905 I spoke to Amanda, and that helped me. 1343 01:10:04,985 --> 01:10:07,385 She made me see past my insecurities. 1344 01:10:08,305 --> 01:10:10,145 -I just realized that there's… -[woman moaning] 1345 01:10:10,225 --> 01:10:13,905 …no need to wait for Lucky at home while he is busy with his whores. 1346 01:10:15,345 --> 01:10:17,865 No, I can go out there and live my life too. 1347 01:10:18,425 --> 01:10:21,105 So, I've started dancing again. 1348 01:10:21,185 --> 01:10:25,225 I'm going on dates and I'm just doing the things I enjoy. 1349 01:10:25,305 --> 01:10:27,625 You know, this whole thing has made me realize 1350 01:10:27,705 --> 01:10:31,385 just how much I'd stopped doing because Lucky wasn't into it. 1351 01:10:32,545 --> 01:10:33,985 Now I am on top of my game. 1352 01:10:35,145 --> 01:10:36,145 I'm winning. 1353 01:10:39,785 --> 01:10:40,865 Oh! 1354 01:10:46,105 --> 01:10:47,425 I get to be me again. 1355 01:10:47,985 --> 01:10:50,345 And show who I really am. 1356 01:10:50,425 --> 01:10:51,905 Every bit. 1357 01:10:53,825 --> 01:10:55,185 [moaning] 1358 01:10:55,265 --> 01:10:56,625 [panting] 1359 01:10:58,945 --> 01:10:59,945 [Amanda pants] 1360 01:11:00,465 --> 01:11:01,705 [both moan] 1361 01:11:02,385 --> 01:11:03,385 [both pant] 1362 01:11:06,665 --> 01:11:08,425 [panting] 1363 01:11:08,505 --> 01:11:10,305 [Lucky laughs] 1364 01:11:12,265 --> 01:11:13,545 [Lucky groans, huffs] 1365 01:11:13,625 --> 01:11:15,665 -That was so good, baby. -Ah, yeah? 1366 01:11:15,745 --> 01:11:17,745 -[moans] -[chuckles] 1367 01:11:17,825 --> 01:11:20,865 I wish you could stay a little bit longer. [breathes deeply] 1368 01:11:20,945 --> 01:11:22,385 And spend some time with me. 1369 01:11:23,905 --> 01:11:25,505 [Lucky grunts] 1370 01:11:26,745 --> 01:11:28,705 -[Amanda sighing] -[Lucky grunts] 1371 01:11:33,985 --> 01:11:35,065 [Amanda chuckles] 1372 01:11:35,145 --> 01:11:37,825 Please, baby. Stay for a little while. 1373 01:11:39,265 --> 01:11:43,585 [clicks tongue] Thing is, Amanda, you haven't forgotten what this is, right? 1374 01:11:44,425 --> 01:11:45,425 Oh. 1375 01:11:46,025 --> 01:11:49,585 I thought you were in an open relationship. Not so? 1376 01:11:51,105 --> 01:11:53,665 Yeah, but it's not open to me and you. Understand? 1377 01:11:54,305 --> 01:11:57,665 Because my agreement with Lethu was that we wouldn't sleep with people we know. 1378 01:11:58,265 --> 01:11:59,625 Are you not Lethu's friend? 1379 01:12:00,145 --> 01:12:03,545 Are you not her fiancé, Lucky? I thought we passed that stage long ago. 1380 01:12:04,305 --> 01:12:06,585 That's why I don't think it's a good idea. At all. 1381 01:12:06,665 --> 01:12:07,665 [scoffs] 1382 01:12:07,745 --> 01:12:10,425 What Lethu wants, Lethu gets, from you. Am I wrong? 1383 01:12:10,505 --> 01:12:13,345 As long as Lethukhanya stays right there by your side. 1384 01:12:13,425 --> 01:12:15,585 All I'm asking for is something as small as 1385 01:12:15,665 --> 01:12:17,185 spending a little time with me 1386 01:12:17,265 --> 01:12:19,865 and you-you are telling me you don't think it's a good idea. 1387 01:12:20,385 --> 01:12:23,225 How long have we been doing the same thing, Lucky? 1388 01:12:23,705 --> 01:12:26,745 Or… Or do you really believe that I don't deserve good things, or not? 1389 01:12:27,625 --> 01:12:28,625 Okay. 1390 01:12:30,785 --> 01:12:32,465 I think maybe our time is up. 1391 01:12:33,185 --> 01:12:34,265 So, bye. 1392 01:12:34,745 --> 01:12:36,185 -Yeah. -No, no, no! 1393 01:12:36,265 --> 01:12:38,425 -Baby, baby, please. Don't. Don't. -[Lucky sighs] 1394 01:12:39,425 --> 01:12:40,585 Don't leave, Lucky. 1395 01:12:42,945 --> 01:12:45,425 We had an agreement all along, Amanda. 1396 01:12:46,145 --> 01:12:48,825 But it's clear that our agreement is too much for you now. 1397 01:12:49,945 --> 01:12:52,945 You know, my focus right now is to fix things with Lethu, okay? 1398 01:12:54,385 --> 01:12:55,505 -But, Lucky… -Bye. 1399 01:12:56,025 --> 01:12:58,585 Lucky, where are you going? I am talking to you. 1400 01:12:58,665 --> 01:13:00,705 Lucky, don't you even dare walk away! 1401 01:13:00,785 --> 01:13:02,185 -[door opens] -Lucky, man! 1402 01:13:02,785 --> 01:13:04,345 -[door closes] -[screeches] 1403 01:13:13,985 --> 01:13:16,225 -[Lethu] Thank you. Goodbye. -[person] All right, sure. 1404 01:13:16,305 --> 01:13:17,785 -Thanks. Sure. -Thank you. 1405 01:13:17,865 --> 01:13:19,105 [Lethu sighs] Okay. 1406 01:13:19,185 --> 01:13:21,585 -[Lucky] Aha. -Hey. Hey, hey. Hey. 1407 01:13:22,985 --> 01:13:25,505 [Lethu] Oh. Hi, baby. 1408 01:13:25,585 --> 01:13:27,625 I didn't expect you home so soon. 1409 01:13:27,705 --> 01:13:28,865 Mm-hmm. 1410 01:13:29,705 --> 01:13:30,905 Having fun, huh? 1411 01:13:33,265 --> 01:13:34,625 Did you give him some? 1412 01:13:36,025 --> 01:13:38,185 What exactly happened to our agreement right now? 1413 01:13:38,785 --> 01:13:39,865 Mutual respect? 1414 01:13:41,185 --> 01:13:42,185 Hmm? 1415 01:13:45,505 --> 01:13:46,505 So what, then? 1416 01:13:48,145 --> 01:13:49,945 [laughs] You-You have nothing to say to me? 1417 01:13:52,505 --> 01:13:55,065 This whole time, it always seemed like I was the problem. 1418 01:13:55,145 --> 01:13:57,265 Lucky. Lucky's always the problem. 1419 01:13:57,345 --> 01:13:59,105 You were just waiting for an opportunity 1420 01:13:59,185 --> 01:14:02,265 -to whore around all of Durban. -Hey! Lucky… 1421 01:14:02,345 --> 01:14:03,865 Why are you talking to me like that? 1422 01:14:04,465 --> 01:14:05,505 Are you crazy? 1423 01:14:06,665 --> 01:14:07,865 Maybe I am crazy. 1424 01:14:09,025 --> 01:14:11,905 To think that I could spend the rest of my life 1425 01:14:11,985 --> 01:14:15,185 -loving a whore. -Hey! He's the delivery guy, Lucky! 1426 01:14:16,105 --> 01:14:17,185 Look. 1427 01:14:17,265 --> 01:14:19,105 How do you think these crates got up here? 1428 01:14:21,945 --> 01:14:22,945 Oh… 1429 01:14:23,025 --> 01:14:24,185 Oh, so you and him didn't-- 1430 01:14:24,265 --> 01:14:26,185 You think I'm a whore, Lucky? 1431 01:14:27,785 --> 01:14:31,265 -No, come on. No, my love-- -Hey, no, Lucky. 1432 01:14:31,785 --> 01:14:35,545 This thing was your idea. And now you talk to me like that? Hey! 1433 01:14:36,385 --> 01:14:38,465 -No! Hell, no. -Okay. Okay. 1434 01:14:38,545 --> 01:14:40,585 Wait. I am sorry, okay? 1435 01:14:40,665 --> 01:14:42,345 -You called me a whore. -I know. 1436 01:14:42,425 --> 01:14:44,105 I wasn't thinking straight, my love. 1437 01:14:44,185 --> 01:14:47,345 What would you do if you found me with a woman? What would you think? 1438 01:14:49,305 --> 01:14:50,585 Okay. 1439 01:14:50,665 --> 01:14:54,305 Okay, can we please forget about that. I'm sorry, I really am. 1440 01:14:55,305 --> 01:14:56,305 Okay? 1441 01:15:00,465 --> 01:15:01,465 [sighs] 1442 01:15:03,665 --> 01:15:04,625 [grunts] 1443 01:15:13,345 --> 01:15:15,905 So, are you really going to go out with that guy? 1444 01:15:17,505 --> 01:15:19,225 It's an open relationship, Lucky. 1445 01:15:20,865 --> 01:15:24,785 Yeah, but I just want to make sure that things between us are still fine. 1446 01:15:25,305 --> 01:15:26,465 You know? 1447 01:15:26,545 --> 01:15:30,025 That you're not doing this just because you're upset or something. 1448 01:15:30,105 --> 01:15:31,705 Lucky, we're all right. 1449 01:15:32,425 --> 01:15:35,025 I'm doing what people do in an open relationship. 1450 01:15:35,105 --> 01:15:36,825 It's what you want, right? 1451 01:15:38,105 --> 01:15:39,225 -Yeah, I just-- -Well, then, 1452 01:15:39,305 --> 01:15:42,185 I really don't see a reason for us to continue talking about it anymore. 1453 01:15:44,465 --> 01:15:45,985 [Lethu sighs] 1454 01:15:46,065 --> 01:15:47,465 I-I guess not. 1455 01:15:47,545 --> 01:15:48,545 Okay. 1456 01:15:49,745 --> 01:15:51,665 See you, babe. [kisses] 1457 01:15:51,745 --> 01:15:52,745 Okay. 1458 01:15:58,865 --> 01:15:59,945 [door closes] 1459 01:16:01,185 --> 01:16:05,105 [chuckles] Wow, you are a true Liana Ndlovu fan. 1460 01:16:05,185 --> 01:16:08,345 I can't even get my fiancé to read a paragraph. 1461 01:16:09,185 --> 01:16:10,265 [chuckles] 1462 01:16:13,545 --> 01:16:15,225 You did say you can dance, right? 1463 01:16:16,065 --> 01:16:17,945 Oh, I don't think you're ready, sir. 1464 01:16:18,025 --> 01:16:19,865 Trust me, I'll try to keep up. 1465 01:16:20,465 --> 01:16:22,745 Okay. [laughs] 1466 01:16:25,625 --> 01:16:27,345 [Afrobeat playing] 1467 01:17:10,305 --> 01:17:11,305 [Lethu] Ooh! 1468 01:17:11,385 --> 01:17:12,665 [both chuckle] 1469 01:17:13,185 --> 01:17:15,345 Yeah. [chuckles] 1470 01:17:17,705 --> 01:17:18,705 [Lethu moans] 1471 01:17:19,705 --> 01:17:21,465 [breathes heavily] 1472 01:17:21,945 --> 01:17:23,025 [both moaning] 1473 01:17:33,745 --> 01:17:36,025 Ooh! Oh, yeah! Ooh! [chuckles] 1474 01:17:37,025 --> 01:17:38,185 Um… 1475 01:17:38,265 --> 01:17:39,825 -Hang on. [chuckles] -[chuckles] 1476 01:17:40,425 --> 01:17:41,425 Bathroom, please? 1477 01:17:41,505 --> 01:17:43,225 Um, it's right on the left. 1478 01:17:43,305 --> 01:17:45,785 Okay. Um, one second. 1479 01:17:50,745 --> 01:17:52,105 [Lethu] Ooh. [chuckles] 1480 01:17:55,225 --> 01:17:56,225 [Lethu pants] 1481 01:17:58,265 --> 01:18:00,625 [panting] 1482 01:18:06,225 --> 01:18:07,625 Lethu. [breathes shakily] 1483 01:18:07,705 --> 01:18:09,185 What's wrong with you now? 1484 01:18:10,105 --> 01:18:11,625 Okay. Open relationship. 1485 01:18:12,345 --> 01:18:14,825 See, this is how it goes. [breathes shakily] Hmm? 1486 01:18:15,865 --> 01:18:19,665 Okay, you get along, he's cute, you think he's hot… 1487 01:18:19,745 --> 01:18:20,905 [breathes deeply] 1488 01:18:20,985 --> 01:18:22,225 Let's go, babe. 1489 01:18:23,585 --> 01:18:26,225 Yeah, so you haven't seen another man's dick in three years. 1490 01:18:27,545 --> 01:18:28,545 We can do this. 1491 01:18:28,625 --> 01:18:30,425 [breathes shakily] 1492 01:18:30,505 --> 01:18:31,505 Right? 1493 01:18:33,425 --> 01:18:35,105 [breathes shakily] 1494 01:18:36,385 --> 01:18:37,385 Right. 1495 01:18:50,585 --> 01:18:51,665 Let's go. 1496 01:18:58,105 --> 01:19:00,065 -[both grunt] -[Lethu] Hmm. 1497 01:19:01,265 --> 01:19:02,345 [pants] 1498 01:19:04,585 --> 01:19:05,585 [groans] 1499 01:19:07,185 --> 01:19:08,185 [both grunt] 1500 01:19:08,265 --> 01:19:09,985 -[gasps] -Are you all right? 1501 01:19:11,705 --> 01:19:12,865 [breathes shakily] 1502 01:19:15,265 --> 01:19:16,345 [Lethu] I'm sorry. 1503 01:19:16,425 --> 01:19:17,665 Look, I'm… 1504 01:19:18,425 --> 01:19:21,345 sure you're a great guy. You are, actually, a great guy. 1505 01:19:21,425 --> 01:19:23,585 -A really, really great guy, and-- -It's okay. 1506 01:19:23,665 --> 01:19:25,345 You don't have to explain yourself. 1507 01:19:25,425 --> 01:19:28,185 I mean, you're not into it, and that's okay. 1508 01:19:28,265 --> 01:19:29,745 I love my fiancé. 1509 01:19:30,745 --> 01:19:32,425 And I want to have sex with him. 1510 01:19:32,505 --> 01:19:34,385 Because we chose each other. 1511 01:19:34,985 --> 01:19:37,465 And that should mean something. 1512 01:19:38,545 --> 01:19:39,865 [chuckles] You know, 1513 01:19:40,705 --> 01:19:42,825 he's a… he's a lucky guy. 1514 01:19:43,425 --> 01:19:44,505 I hope he knows that. 1515 01:19:46,785 --> 01:19:47,785 Me too. 1516 01:19:48,785 --> 01:19:50,305 You want me to call you an Uber? 1517 01:19:53,185 --> 01:19:54,185 Thank you. 1518 01:19:57,465 --> 01:19:58,905 [both chuckle] 1519 01:19:58,985 --> 01:19:59,985 [lock clicks] 1520 01:20:01,185 --> 01:20:02,185 [door closes] 1521 01:20:03,945 --> 01:20:05,665 Oh! [chuckles] 1522 01:20:06,465 --> 01:20:07,705 You're home early. 1523 01:20:08,705 --> 01:20:10,065 [chuckles] I missed you. 1524 01:20:10,145 --> 01:20:12,265 -Who did you miss, huh? -Well, you. 1525 01:20:12,345 --> 01:20:13,985 -[chuckles] -Come here. 1526 01:20:14,505 --> 01:20:15,745 Come dance with me now. 1527 01:20:16,425 --> 01:20:17,585 [Lucky sighs] 1528 01:20:19,865 --> 01:20:22,345 -Hi, baby. -Yeah, baby. 1529 01:20:26,545 --> 01:20:27,785 [Lucky sighs] 1530 01:20:30,905 --> 01:20:32,705 I'm sorry about the things I said earlier. 1531 01:20:33,625 --> 01:20:34,625 Okay. 1532 01:20:35,905 --> 01:20:39,985 You know, I can't wait to make you my wife. 1533 01:20:40,825 --> 01:20:42,985 Mmm? And have children together. 1534 01:20:43,585 --> 01:20:45,305 And start our life together. 1535 01:20:45,385 --> 01:20:46,945 -Really? -Really. 1536 01:21:20,785 --> 01:21:21,785 [pants] 1537 01:21:27,905 --> 01:21:29,425 [person moaning] 1538 01:21:33,745 --> 01:21:34,985 [breathes shakily] 1539 01:21:39,505 --> 01:21:40,545 [moans] 1540 01:21:40,625 --> 01:21:42,585 [Lucky] Baby? What's wrong? 1541 01:21:42,665 --> 01:21:43,825 -Um… -Are you okay? 1542 01:21:44,425 --> 01:21:45,425 Huh? 1543 01:21:45,505 --> 01:21:46,625 All right? 1544 01:21:46,705 --> 01:21:47,825 No, I'm all right. 1545 01:21:47,905 --> 01:21:50,545 I'm just, uh, thinking about the wedding plans. 1546 01:21:51,265 --> 01:21:52,945 Whose wedding? 1547 01:21:53,025 --> 01:21:54,025 Our wedding? 1548 01:21:54,105 --> 01:21:56,425 -[chuckles] No, the Jamas'. -Hmm? 1549 01:22:11,185 --> 01:22:12,505 You sure you're okay? 1550 01:22:15,425 --> 01:22:16,425 Yeah, I'm fine. 1551 01:22:16,945 --> 01:22:18,065 Mm-hmm? 1552 01:22:18,145 --> 01:22:19,305 Yeah. 1553 01:22:19,385 --> 01:22:20,385 Come here. 1554 01:22:24,825 --> 01:22:27,425 [breathing heavily] 1555 01:22:33,505 --> 01:22:34,505 [person] Themba! 1556 01:22:35,625 --> 01:22:36,825 Themba! 1557 01:22:36,905 --> 01:22:38,385 Don't ignore me, Themba! 1558 01:22:44,585 --> 01:22:45,785 [Bridget] What, now? 1559 01:22:45,865 --> 01:22:46,985 Hey. 1560 01:22:47,905 --> 01:22:48,905 You, hey. 1561 01:22:49,945 --> 01:22:50,985 Who the hell are you? 1562 01:22:51,065 --> 01:22:52,545 What do you want at my house? 1563 01:22:52,625 --> 01:22:54,225 Why are you here and why is my husband's name in your mouth? 1564 01:22:54,305 --> 01:22:56,345 Well, his name is not the only thing that was in my mouth. 1565 01:22:56,425 --> 01:22:57,425 Sorry. What? 1566 01:22:57,505 --> 01:23:00,385 Hey, you! Don't you dare test me here. I do not play with kids. 1567 01:23:00,465 --> 01:23:03,105 -Tell her, Themba! -My love, let's go inside. 1568 01:23:03,185 --> 01:23:04,825 Why must we go back inside? Oh, no. 1569 01:23:04,905 --> 01:23:05,945 No. What's your story? 1570 01:23:06,025 --> 01:23:07,905 [mistress] Why are you ignoring my calls? Hey? 1571 01:23:07,985 --> 01:23:09,305 Why you ignoring my calls? 1572 01:23:09,385 --> 01:23:11,545 Say what, now? Themba? 1573 01:23:11,625 --> 01:23:15,265 Who is this whore? And why is she here screaming your name out like this? 1574 01:23:15,345 --> 01:23:16,665 I don't know this woman. 1575 01:23:16,745 --> 01:23:17,945 -You don't know her? -No, I don't. 1576 01:23:18,025 --> 01:23:21,025 You don't know me? Well, last night you did, though. Hmm? 1577 01:23:21,105 --> 01:23:23,665 -What did you say? What did you say to me? -[mistress screams] 1578 01:23:23,745 --> 01:23:24,865 [exclaims] 1579 01:23:24,945 --> 01:23:27,145 -[mistress exclaiming] -[shouting indistinctly] 1580 01:23:28,625 --> 01:23:30,625 Hit her, baby! Hard! Hard! 1581 01:23:30,705 --> 01:23:32,385 -Themba! -Yeah, where did you come from? 1582 01:23:32,465 --> 01:23:33,305 [gasps] 1583 01:23:34,065 --> 01:23:36,625 Screaming my name, you filthy home-wrecker! 1584 01:23:36,705 --> 01:23:38,025 Where are you from? 1585 01:23:38,105 --> 01:23:39,865 [Themba] Where do you think you come from? 1586 01:23:39,945 --> 01:23:43,785 Hey! What's your problem, Themba? What is wrong with you? 1587 01:23:43,865 --> 01:23:45,705 -I don't know that lady. -You don't know her? 1588 01:23:45,785 --> 01:23:48,545 -[Bridget scoffs] Go away. -I'm sorry, my darling, 1589 01:23:48,625 --> 01:23:50,425 -please don't leave me. -Why would I do that? 1590 01:23:50,505 --> 01:23:51,865 Why would I do that, Themba? 1591 01:23:51,945 --> 01:23:55,705 If I leave, all these whores in kwaMashu will rejoice about it. I won't do it. 1592 01:23:56,465 --> 01:23:57,665 What are you looking at? 1593 01:23:57,745 --> 01:23:59,985 And now, why are you doing that? 1594 01:24:00,065 --> 01:24:01,625 Don't you dare do that. 1595 01:24:01,705 --> 01:24:06,185 I will hang your dirty laundry one by one. Including all your nonsense. 1596 01:24:07,065 --> 01:24:09,625 -You're full of it. Stand up, my husband. -[whimpering] 1597 01:24:09,705 --> 01:24:11,745 Don't look at my man. Hey, my baby. 1598 01:24:11,825 --> 01:24:12,825 Mmm. 1599 01:24:12,905 --> 01:24:14,785 Mmm. Mmm. 1600 01:24:16,385 --> 01:24:18,105 Screw you. Why was she here? 1601 01:24:18,185 --> 01:24:19,465 -Go away. Go away. -I'm so sorry. 1602 01:24:19,545 --> 01:24:21,025 -I'm sorry, my love. -Why was she here? 1603 01:24:21,105 --> 01:24:22,825 I won't do it again. I'm sorry, my love. 1604 01:24:22,905 --> 01:24:25,425 -[Bridget] Why are you running! -[Themba] Bridget, I'm sorry! 1605 01:24:25,505 --> 01:24:27,105 Please forgive me! 1606 01:24:32,745 --> 01:24:35,145 We don't need this. Brother, please take this chair away. 1607 01:24:35,225 --> 01:24:39,145 Oh, please put more flowers over there. Did you hear that? Okay, thank you. 1608 01:24:39,225 --> 01:24:41,945 Okay, you can find the champagne over there. And don't throw that away. 1609 01:24:42,025 --> 01:24:45,745 Cutlery. The fork should be on the left and the knife on the right, please. 1610 01:24:45,825 --> 01:24:47,825 I need one of you to unpack these chairs for me now. 1611 01:24:47,905 --> 01:24:50,905 And wipe the glasses. Please, sir? 1612 01:25:08,665 --> 01:25:10,105 Is everything okay, my dear? 1613 01:25:10,185 --> 01:25:11,305 Yes. [chuckles] 1614 01:25:11,385 --> 01:25:13,665 It's all so beautiful. It's amazing. 1615 01:25:14,825 --> 01:25:16,545 Mayi, it's not about the wedding. 1616 01:25:17,505 --> 01:25:18,585 It's about you. 1617 01:25:20,185 --> 01:25:21,185 I'm all right. 1618 01:25:22,345 --> 01:25:23,345 [chuckles] 1619 01:25:24,025 --> 01:25:26,705 It's totally normal for a bride to be a bit nervous. 1620 01:25:28,625 --> 01:25:29,625 Relax. 1621 01:25:30,745 --> 01:25:32,865 You're going to be so great. 1622 01:25:37,665 --> 01:25:39,065 You are beautiful, okay? 1623 01:25:39,145 --> 01:25:40,465 [both chuckle] 1624 01:25:42,465 --> 01:25:43,465 How… 1625 01:25:45,745 --> 01:25:47,065 [chuckles] 1626 01:25:47,145 --> 01:25:48,425 How do you know when you're… 1627 01:25:48,505 --> 01:25:50,625 when you have chosen right? 1628 01:25:53,745 --> 01:25:54,745 [sighs] 1629 01:25:56,225 --> 01:25:58,705 Let your heart be your guide right now. 1630 01:26:00,145 --> 01:26:03,625 Okay, but, like, how does that practically look like? 1631 01:26:05,305 --> 01:26:06,465 Look within… 1632 01:26:07,465 --> 01:26:09,705 is this your biggest life? 1633 01:26:20,065 --> 01:26:21,065 [inhales deeply] 1634 01:26:22,425 --> 01:26:23,505 [exhales deeply] 1635 01:26:23,585 --> 01:26:24,585 [sighs] 1636 01:26:27,545 --> 01:26:29,225 [Lethu] Is my heart safe here? 1637 01:26:30,425 --> 01:26:33,865 Do I feel seen and valued and held? 1638 01:26:34,465 --> 01:26:35,745 [guests cheering] 1639 01:26:35,825 --> 01:26:37,265 Do I love this person? 1640 01:26:37,825 --> 01:26:41,105 But more importantly, do they love me in the way that I need? 1641 01:26:41,185 --> 01:26:42,305 [cheering continues] 1642 01:26:42,385 --> 01:26:44,065 Do we make each other happy? 1643 01:26:45,025 --> 01:26:47,745 Do we choose each other every day? 1644 01:26:48,625 --> 01:26:50,105 Are they my future? 1645 01:26:51,665 --> 01:26:53,465 And if your heart feels sure… 1646 01:26:54,425 --> 01:26:56,745 if it's steady when you think of this person… 1647 01:26:57,785 --> 01:26:59,465 then you know. 1648 01:26:59,545 --> 01:27:03,345 [pastor] I'd like to think that everyone is excited about today's occasion. 1649 01:27:03,425 --> 01:27:06,425 And we thank God for being with us throughout the day 1650 01:27:06,505 --> 01:27:08,465 and the evening to come. 1651 01:27:09,385 --> 01:27:10,945 -[thunder rumbling] -[sighs] 1652 01:27:11,025 --> 01:27:12,265 [raining] 1653 01:27:16,945 --> 01:27:17,945 Ugh. 1654 01:27:18,025 --> 01:27:19,105 Typical. 1655 01:27:20,505 --> 01:27:22,585 [man whispering] Oh, God. 1656 01:27:22,665 --> 01:27:24,985 Oh, I just can't stay away from you. 1657 01:27:25,065 --> 01:27:26,945 [woman] Because you know there's no one like me. 1658 01:27:27,625 --> 01:27:29,785 [both panting] 1659 01:27:30,505 --> 01:27:32,145 -[Lucky] Baby! -[Amanda gasps] 1660 01:27:32,225 --> 01:27:33,785 -Okay, wait. My love. -[Amanda grunts] 1661 01:27:33,865 --> 01:27:34,865 Baby. 1662 01:27:35,865 --> 01:27:36,865 Okay, Lethu. 1663 01:27:36,945 --> 01:27:38,665 Lethu, please listen to me. 1664 01:27:38,745 --> 01:27:40,305 Please let me explain. 1665 01:27:40,905 --> 01:27:43,385 It's not what you think it is. Baby. 1666 01:27:43,905 --> 01:27:46,545 [Amanda] Lethu, I'm sorry, my friend, 1667 01:27:46,625 --> 01:27:48,305 but you were bound to find out about this. 1668 01:27:49,145 --> 01:27:51,745 [breathes shakily] Can we just, uh… [stammers] 1669 01:27:51,825 --> 01:27:53,305 Listen here very carefully, 1670 01:27:54,025 --> 01:27:55,665 because I don't have a lot of time 1671 01:27:56,265 --> 01:27:59,065 and I'm in the middle of pulling off the wedding of the century. 1672 01:28:00,185 --> 01:28:01,425 Lucky, we are over. 1673 01:28:02,105 --> 01:28:03,985 You are exactly like your brother. 1674 01:28:04,065 --> 01:28:06,545 And between me and you, we are done. 1675 01:28:07,505 --> 01:28:08,825 Actually, you're worse, 1676 01:28:08,905 --> 01:28:13,065 because at least Themba knows what he is. No false show. 1677 01:28:13,145 --> 01:28:14,785 You're a snake. 1678 01:28:14,865 --> 01:28:17,505 Acting like you want to know the boundaries to protect our relationship. 1679 01:28:17,585 --> 01:28:18,785 Please. 1680 01:28:19,385 --> 01:28:22,385 But you want to know the boundary so you can actually break it. 1681 01:28:23,225 --> 01:28:25,425 You don't have to sleep with other women. 1682 01:28:26,225 --> 01:28:27,665 We made space for that. 1683 01:28:29,065 --> 01:28:32,425 You only need to cheat now, because you are a cheater. 1684 01:28:33,265 --> 01:28:34,705 And we're done. 1685 01:28:35,705 --> 01:28:36,865 I'm tired. 1686 01:28:36,945 --> 01:28:40,465 I'm tired of always making myself smaller and smaller 1687 01:28:40,545 --> 01:28:43,665 so that I can try and fit next to you. 1688 01:28:43,745 --> 01:28:44,745 For what? 1689 01:28:46,585 --> 01:28:48,665 There's a lot I still need to live for. 1690 01:28:49,785 --> 01:28:53,105 Life is so cool. 1691 01:28:53,745 --> 01:28:55,585 And I don't need you at all. 1692 01:28:56,505 --> 01:28:58,745 -[Lucky] Lethu-- -And you're fired. 1693 01:28:58,825 --> 01:29:01,505 Besides being a terrible assistant, 1694 01:29:02,505 --> 01:29:03,785 you're a horrible friend. 1695 01:29:04,945 --> 01:29:08,385 I've never seen a bunch of people who are meant to be together like the two of you. 1696 01:29:08,905 --> 01:29:11,545 -[chuckles] I'm happy for you guys. -[radio rings] 1697 01:29:12,785 --> 01:29:14,505 [radio rings] 1698 01:29:15,145 --> 01:29:16,785 You deserve each other. 1699 01:29:16,865 --> 01:29:17,865 -Can we talk? -[Lethu] Uh-uh. 1700 01:29:17,945 --> 01:29:19,105 Yes? 1701 01:29:22,985 --> 01:29:23,985 I'm on my way. 1702 01:29:24,505 --> 01:29:27,345 Let's meet at the bar so we can set up for the cocktail hour. 1703 01:29:27,425 --> 01:29:28,585 -[on radio] Cocktails? -Yeah. 1704 01:29:28,665 --> 01:29:30,345 -[on radio, indistinct] -[radio clicks] 1705 01:29:32,665 --> 01:29:33,705 Okay. 1706 01:29:37,705 --> 01:29:39,065 -[Lethu sighs] -No. 1707 01:29:39,145 --> 01:29:40,545 Please don't do that. Lethu? 1708 01:29:41,105 --> 01:29:42,985 -Lethu? -[Amanda] Lucky? Lucky! Lucky! 1709 01:29:43,065 --> 01:29:44,785 Baby, please. Can we please talk? 1710 01:29:44,865 --> 01:29:47,465 Lucky, why are you following her? I'm right here! Me, now! 1711 01:29:49,665 --> 01:29:50,825 [scoffs] 1712 01:29:53,345 --> 01:29:54,425 [narrator] All right, guys. 1713 01:29:54,505 --> 01:29:58,465 It was hard for me to hold my tongue when I saw things I'd never seen before. 1714 01:29:58,545 --> 01:30:00,865 But what can we say? You live and learn. 1715 01:30:00,945 --> 01:30:03,985 -But still, some things never change, man. -All good? 1716 01:30:04,065 --> 01:30:06,425 Uh-uh. One thing about dating. 1717 01:30:06,505 --> 01:30:09,545 It isn't worth losing yourself over. 1718 01:30:09,625 --> 01:30:11,585 Pain is inevitable, 1719 01:30:11,665 --> 01:30:15,105 but misery, misery, uh-uh, that is optional. 1720 01:30:16,025 --> 01:30:19,985 Listen, I know we grew up being told that love is patient. 1721 01:30:20,065 --> 01:30:22,425 But you can't accept everything. 1722 01:30:22,505 --> 01:30:27,225 Uh-uh. Sometimes walking away isn't always giving up. 1723 01:30:27,305 --> 01:30:29,185 It's just letting go, my friend. 1724 01:30:29,265 --> 01:30:32,105 And sometimes you're just making room for better. 1725 01:30:32,185 --> 01:30:35,025 Sometimes, you have to be kind to yourself. 1726 01:30:35,105 --> 01:30:38,225 Uh-uh. Consider yourself first. 1727 01:30:38,305 --> 01:30:40,625 -[house music plays] -[guests cheering] 1728 01:30:54,425 --> 01:30:56,065 [cheering] 1729 01:31:11,185 --> 01:31:12,905 [cheering continues]