1 00:00:07,382 --> 00:00:10,176 Paper thin 2 00:00:10,260 --> 00:00:14,055 The walls are crumblin' 3 00:00:14,139 --> 00:00:16,683 -You want to just walk away now? -I'm walking away. 4 00:00:16,766 --> 00:00:19,477 This might be too much for me. I can't handle it right now. 5 00:00:19,561 --> 00:00:21,521 But, Magan, you're just going to leave me? 6 00:00:22,605 --> 00:00:24,441 You don't want to give it a chance though? 7 00:00:25,233 --> 00:00:26,192 I don't want to. 8 00:00:28,028 --> 00:00:31,114 I just feel like we're throwing so much at ourselves. 9 00:00:31,197 --> 00:00:32,907 Yeah. 10 00:00:32,991 --> 00:00:34,325 You want to stay here? 11 00:00:34,409 --> 00:00:36,995 This is a commitment that you have with me. 12 00:00:37,078 --> 00:00:41,291 The fact that you're, like, so willing to just back out is, like, concerning to me. 13 00:00:41,791 --> 00:00:43,251 Just try to be strong. 14 00:00:46,296 --> 00:00:48,757 The fact that you just are giving up now, it's like… 15 00:00:49,632 --> 00:00:53,178 I can't. You committed to this. You committed to me. 16 00:00:53,261 --> 00:00:55,680 You said things. You said you would do things. 17 00:00:56,890 --> 00:00:58,099 I want you to try. 18 00:01:01,436 --> 00:01:04,606 Time slowly seems to fade 19 00:01:06,900 --> 00:01:07,734 Okay. 20 00:01:08,568 --> 00:01:09,402 Okay. 21 00:01:13,531 --> 00:01:14,365 I love you. 22 00:01:14,866 --> 00:01:15,825 I love you too. 23 00:01:17,452 --> 00:01:20,789 'Cause I can't breathe Without your love 24 00:01:20,872 --> 00:01:23,958 You can do it. I know you can. You're strong. Okay? 25 00:01:24,042 --> 00:01:28,129 Can't breathe without your love 26 00:01:29,214 --> 00:01:34,219 I can't breathe without your love 27 00:01:35,261 --> 00:01:38,723 Being young Sneak out once it gets dark 28 00:01:38,807 --> 00:01:41,017 Then party till we're done 29 00:01:41,101 --> 00:01:43,603 Fall in love like you're the one You're the one 30 00:01:43,686 --> 00:01:46,606 Just being young 31 00:01:47,857 --> 00:01:49,109 Marita! 32 00:01:49,192 --> 00:01:50,318 Well, hello. 33 00:01:51,903 --> 00:01:52,862 Good to see you. 34 00:01:52,946 --> 00:01:54,614 You too. I got this for you. 35 00:01:54,697 --> 00:01:56,449 -You did? -I picked it for you. Yeah. 36 00:01:56,533 --> 00:01:58,535 Two days ago, I was in a committed relationship. 37 00:01:58,618 --> 00:02:01,830 Britney issued me an ultimatum, and now I'm single. 38 00:02:01,913 --> 00:02:05,917 This week, I'm continuing to date ten other women to find out 39 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,421 which one of these ten I can see myself with in a trial marriage, 40 00:02:10,505 --> 00:02:13,716 somebody that has the qualities of what I would want in a spouse. 41 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:18,513 I'm getting really deep with a lot of amazing, beautiful people here. 42 00:02:18,596 --> 00:02:22,684 So far, the odds look like they're really in my favor right now. 43 00:02:22,767 --> 00:02:26,271 Clearly, we are very much a match. 44 00:02:26,354 --> 00:02:29,774 And clearly, like, there is a lot of intimacy there. 45 00:02:31,067 --> 00:02:32,819 I feel like, do you want to hold hands now? 46 00:02:34,737 --> 00:02:36,948 I think Marie is just so great. 47 00:02:37,031 --> 00:02:39,951 But, oh my God, Bridget, she's gorgeous. 48 00:02:40,034 --> 00:02:41,703 She makes me feel a lot of things. 49 00:02:41,786 --> 00:02:43,705 -There's a lot of chemistry… -Yeah, I agree. 50 00:02:43,788 --> 00:02:48,251 You want to, like, keep focusing on connecting, and that's super important. 51 00:02:48,334 --> 00:02:51,004 -Super important. -That's why you'd be a great trial wife. 52 00:02:52,130 --> 00:02:54,924 But Marita, she's like fire. 53 00:02:55,008 --> 00:02:57,719 You know, your mom tells you don't touch the stove. 54 00:02:57,802 --> 00:03:00,471 I think it's dangerous, to be honest with you. 55 00:03:01,264 --> 00:03:03,266 And I think dangerous is fun. 56 00:03:03,349 --> 00:03:06,352 It's unreal how quick these connections are, like, 57 00:03:06,436 --> 00:03:07,812 -kind of happening. -Mm-hmm. 58 00:03:07,896 --> 00:03:11,524 But you are somebody I really want to, like, dive deep. What is it? 59 00:03:11,608 --> 00:03:12,442 I know. 60 00:03:12,525 --> 00:03:14,777 And I want to, like, kind of seduce your mind a bit 61 00:03:14,861 --> 00:03:16,362 and see what quirks you have. 62 00:03:16,446 --> 00:03:18,907 Do you sing in the shower? I don't think it's a quirk, but… 63 00:03:18,990 --> 00:03:21,326 -Yeah, well, I used to be a singer. So… -Really? 64 00:03:21,409 --> 00:03:24,621 Yeah. That's honestly why my tattoo, "This Is the Life…" 65 00:03:24,704 --> 00:03:26,039 -"This Is the Life." -Yeah. 66 00:03:26,122 --> 00:03:30,710 So when I was eight years old, I sang this on stage at a thing called iPOP. 67 00:03:30,793 --> 00:03:33,546 -Mm-hmm. -And this is what got me a record deal. 68 00:03:33,630 --> 00:03:35,673 And this was the start to my music career. 69 00:03:35,757 --> 00:03:38,426 I used to be super creative, and now I'm in sales. 70 00:03:38,509 --> 00:03:40,887 Is that something you think in the back of your mind, 71 00:03:40,970 --> 00:03:42,764 like, "Damn, I still wish I was doing this"? 72 00:03:42,847 --> 00:03:44,807 I still do, but I feel like… 73 00:03:44,891 --> 00:03:48,102 I don't know, like, I'm afraid of that. 74 00:03:48,186 --> 00:03:51,856 Because when I did try in the past, there was so much hate. 75 00:03:51,940 --> 00:03:52,941 You know Rebecca Black? 76 00:03:53,024 --> 00:03:54,067 -Everybody hated her. -Yeah. 77 00:03:54,150 --> 00:03:56,945 I'm not saying I would sing about "Friday," 78 00:03:57,028 --> 00:03:59,739 but I am saying… 79 00:03:59,822 --> 00:04:02,408 I don't know, like, I was a wannabe pop star. 80 00:04:02,492 --> 00:04:05,078 If the passion's there, go for it. 81 00:04:05,161 --> 00:04:09,666 And I want to support you in that. Like, how can we get you back on stage? 82 00:04:09,749 --> 00:04:12,293 Like, I'll hand you a mic. I'll beatbox in the back. 83 00:04:12,377 --> 00:04:14,170 -Yeah. -Like, don't be scared. 84 00:04:14,254 --> 00:04:17,423 There's gonna be hate from everywhere. Someone'll always hate you for something. 85 00:04:17,507 --> 00:04:19,592 -Yeah. -But as long as you're secure in yourself… 86 00:04:19,676 --> 00:04:21,469 -And you have that self-love, clearly. -Yeah. 87 00:04:21,552 --> 00:04:24,138 I feel like I learned self-love, like, really young. 88 00:04:24,222 --> 00:04:27,600 Because I don't know if you noticed, but I have scars on my chest. 89 00:04:27,684 --> 00:04:30,478 And these are genetic, they're called keloids. 90 00:04:30,561 --> 00:04:33,314 And my dad had them. And I used to try to hide them. 91 00:04:33,982 --> 00:04:35,191 I used to wear, like, scarves. 92 00:04:35,275 --> 00:04:37,151 I mean, everyone made fun of me. 93 00:04:37,235 --> 00:04:40,989 And I started realizing, these are not going to go away, they're a part of me. 94 00:04:41,072 --> 00:04:43,616 And I just, like, learned self-love through that, 95 00:04:43,700 --> 00:04:45,118 -when I was super young. -Love that. 96 00:04:45,201 --> 00:04:48,079 You still have such a great personality. You're still sexy as fuck. 97 00:04:48,162 --> 00:04:50,915 Like, at the end of the day, like, that doesn't matter to me. 98 00:04:51,499 --> 00:04:52,333 Yeah. 99 00:04:52,417 --> 00:04:54,252 I promise you, us together would be dangerous. 100 00:04:54,335 --> 00:04:55,753 We'd have a good time all the time. 101 00:04:55,837 --> 00:04:58,214 I know! That's what I was thinking. 102 00:05:00,049 --> 00:05:02,760 I haven't been able to say yes to a marriage, 103 00:05:02,844 --> 00:05:05,221 because Ashley is not romantic to me. 104 00:05:05,305 --> 00:05:07,765 But the sparks are flying with AJ. 105 00:05:07,849 --> 00:05:10,059 She is a hopeless romantic. 106 00:05:10,143 --> 00:05:12,812 And I think that's pretty hot. Yeah. 107 00:05:14,022 --> 00:05:16,357 Go on and say Go on and say "Go" 108 00:05:16,441 --> 00:05:19,027 I'm always, always keeping cold 109 00:05:19,110 --> 00:05:21,195 Go on and say Go on and say so 110 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,823 Take a look into the unknown 111 00:05:23,906 --> 00:05:26,242 Go on and say Go on and say "Go" 112 00:05:26,325 --> 00:05:27,952 May your days always Keep on being warm 113 00:05:28,036 --> 00:05:31,539 I'm very intrigued by our connection. 114 00:05:31,622 --> 00:05:33,207 -Yeah? How so? -Yeah. For sure. 115 00:05:33,291 --> 00:05:35,126 -I wasn't expecting it. -Me too. Yeah. 116 00:05:35,209 --> 00:05:38,671 I'm very, like, drawn to you, and, like, attracted to you. 117 00:05:38,755 --> 00:05:40,340 -Same. -Yeah. 118 00:05:40,423 --> 00:05:43,009 -You gave the Ultimatum. -Mm-hmm. 119 00:05:43,092 --> 00:05:45,094 And I received the Ultimatum. 120 00:05:45,178 --> 00:05:49,849 You know, I had this idealism of what a perfect relationship would be. 121 00:05:49,932 --> 00:05:51,768 And, like, in my head, like, you don't fight. 122 00:05:52,352 --> 00:05:56,606 Any time there was a fight with Haley, I'd be like, this isn't working. 123 00:05:56,689 --> 00:05:59,067 I broke up with her at the four-year mark. 124 00:05:59,150 --> 00:06:01,027 I was like, "I can never bring you to my family." 125 00:06:01,110 --> 00:06:03,613 You know, it would be easier if I brought home a guy. 126 00:06:04,113 --> 00:06:06,991 Then I went back. I was like, I'm going to be myself. 127 00:06:07,075 --> 00:06:08,117 Good. 128 00:06:08,201 --> 00:06:12,663 I regret not… telling my parents sooner. 129 00:06:13,414 --> 00:06:16,250 You know? It took me eight years to tell them. 130 00:06:16,918 --> 00:06:18,211 And I hid that part of my life. 131 00:06:18,294 --> 00:06:20,588 I lived, like, a big double life. You know, everything. 132 00:06:20,671 --> 00:06:23,925 But every time I would go home, my parents would go out of their way 133 00:06:24,008 --> 00:06:26,886 to, like, make me know that it wasn't okay. 134 00:06:26,969 --> 00:06:28,596 And then, you know, so… 135 00:06:28,679 --> 00:06:32,016 That would be so hard. I could never. I mean, I struggled to tell mine. 136 00:06:32,100 --> 00:06:34,602 And I, like, knew that they would be okay. So… yeah. 137 00:06:34,685 --> 00:06:37,188 Yeah? Were they super accepting? Super… 138 00:06:37,271 --> 00:06:39,148 Yeah, but I had to email them. 139 00:06:39,232 --> 00:06:41,234 -And I was… I didn't… -Yeah, I wrote a letter. Yeah. 140 00:06:41,317 --> 00:06:43,861 I was like, "I have a girlfriend, but this doesn't mean…" 141 00:06:43,945 --> 00:06:45,822 I still haven't come out to them fully. 142 00:06:47,407 --> 00:06:48,282 Yeah. 143 00:06:48,366 --> 00:06:50,535 -I had every intention of telling them. -Mm-hmm. 144 00:06:50,618 --> 00:06:53,371 And I couldn't. I left the letter on my bed and left. 145 00:06:53,454 --> 00:06:55,581 -And did you ever hear anything? -Oh yeah. 146 00:06:55,665 --> 00:06:58,251 -You did. Okay. -Oh yeah. They let me know. 147 00:06:58,334 --> 00:06:59,252 Yeah. 148 00:07:04,215 --> 00:07:05,675 And I just want to stop. 149 00:07:05,758 --> 00:07:06,676 Crying? 150 00:07:07,802 --> 00:07:08,970 Yeah. 151 00:07:09,053 --> 00:07:10,888 -Well, we can have fun. -Yeah. 152 00:07:11,931 --> 00:07:13,349 -Sorry. -It's okay. 153 00:07:14,475 --> 00:07:17,186 -I think you're really amazing for… Yeah. -Thank you. 154 00:07:18,771 --> 00:07:20,481 Yeah. 155 00:07:20,565 --> 00:07:23,234 All of our conversations have only made me more sure 156 00:07:23,317 --> 00:07:25,319 we could really learn a lot from each other. 157 00:07:25,403 --> 00:07:26,612 -Yeah. -And it's scary because 158 00:07:26,696 --> 00:07:28,364 I am attracted to you. 159 00:07:28,448 --> 00:07:31,325 -Yeah. -So that kind of adds another thing to it. 160 00:07:32,201 --> 00:07:35,413 I'm looking for similar things to what, I'm hoping, 161 00:07:35,496 --> 00:07:38,666 my ex, Bridget, she gets out of it, which is, 162 00:07:38,749 --> 00:07:40,334 is this actually what I want? 163 00:07:40,918 --> 00:07:42,420 Marriage with this person… 164 00:07:43,546 --> 00:07:44,380 forever? 165 00:07:44,464 --> 00:07:47,508 I feel like I've been playing it safe for a long time. 166 00:07:47,592 --> 00:07:49,969 Where it's like, I'm now ready to not play it safe, 167 00:07:50,052 --> 00:07:52,054 because that's not why we're here. 168 00:07:52,763 --> 00:07:58,853 Don't step into a silence 169 00:07:58,936 --> 00:08:01,939 I really like the connection that I have with Pilar. 170 00:08:02,023 --> 00:08:05,568 She seems really smart, but also, like, very fun. 171 00:08:05,651 --> 00:08:07,028 I just like her energy. 172 00:08:07,111 --> 00:08:09,780 But it feels really confusing, honestly. 173 00:08:09,864 --> 00:08:11,449 It's just a lot. 174 00:08:11,532 --> 00:08:14,619 To be in some sort of strange 175 00:08:14,702 --> 00:08:17,788 love triangle with my ex… 176 00:08:18,414 --> 00:08:21,584 I'm trying to figure out what would be the best choice for me. 177 00:08:21,667 --> 00:08:24,378 Do you feel weird that you feel friendly with my ex 178 00:08:24,462 --> 00:08:25,796 if you were to choose me? 179 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,216 Full transparency, like, you and Bridget 180 00:08:28,299 --> 00:08:30,218 -are, like, at the top for me. -Mm. 181 00:08:30,301 --> 00:08:32,803 And I'm feeling really torn 182 00:08:32,887 --> 00:08:34,639 -being in between you guys. -Mm-hmm. 183 00:08:34,722 --> 00:08:37,850 Having a strong connection with both of you, 184 00:08:37,934 --> 00:08:39,644 I'm like, "Oh God, this is weird." 185 00:08:42,396 --> 00:08:43,397 Wow. 186 00:08:43,481 --> 00:08:47,026 I'm so confused. What is going on? 187 00:08:47,109 --> 00:08:48,277 I'll see you later. 188 00:08:48,361 --> 00:08:50,655 We're rising up 189 00:08:50,738 --> 00:08:54,534 My ex has been my first and only ever girlfriend. 190 00:08:54,617 --> 00:08:56,953 But now I'm in this, like, love triangle. 191 00:08:57,036 --> 00:08:58,829 Kyle and I are so opposite, 192 00:08:58,913 --> 00:09:03,501 but then with Bridget, we are so similar on so many things. 193 00:09:03,584 --> 00:09:05,836 I just don't know who's more a fit for me. 194 00:09:06,754 --> 00:09:07,838 It screws with your head. 195 00:09:07,922 --> 00:09:09,215 Red Bull. 196 00:09:09,298 --> 00:09:11,133 -I used to work for Red Bull. -Really? 197 00:09:11,217 --> 00:09:12,718 -I was a Red Bull girl. -You were? 198 00:09:12,802 --> 00:09:14,929 The girls that had a thing… Like, went around campus? 199 00:09:15,012 --> 00:09:17,473 A "Wings Team" member. That's what it's called. 200 00:09:18,891 --> 00:09:20,268 -Okay. -Yeah. 201 00:09:20,851 --> 00:09:23,312 So I'm stuck between you and Kyle. 202 00:09:23,396 --> 00:09:25,940 Okay. That was my, like, main question. 203 00:09:26,524 --> 00:09:29,902 Coming in here, I really wanted Kyle to be with somebody similar to me, 204 00:09:29,986 --> 00:09:33,823 because I want the security to know that Kyle is choosing me because of me. 205 00:09:33,906 --> 00:09:36,617 But it's like, selfishly, I love spending time with you. 206 00:09:36,701 --> 00:09:38,995 -Because we obviously get on really well. -Yeah. 207 00:09:39,078 --> 00:09:41,747 And would just, like, have a lot of similar interests… 208 00:09:41,831 --> 00:09:43,249 -Right. -…and tons of fun together. 209 00:09:47,128 --> 00:09:50,423 I feel like marriage isn't something that I'm completely closed off to. 210 00:09:50,506 --> 00:09:54,760 I definitely want to be with somebody in a marriage that I admire, 211 00:09:54,844 --> 00:09:57,054 and that has qualities that I don't have. 212 00:09:57,597 --> 00:09:59,890 As much as values should be aligned… 213 00:09:59,974 --> 00:10:02,101 -Yeah. -…it's okay if some of them are different. 214 00:10:02,184 --> 00:10:05,980 I think I need a balance of my best friend and also still feeling giddy. 215 00:10:06,063 --> 00:10:07,982 -Someone who makes me excited. -Yeah, exactly. 216 00:10:08,065 --> 00:10:09,984 If it's two best friends, you're roommates. 217 00:10:10,067 --> 00:10:11,068 -Exactly. -Then it's… 218 00:10:11,152 --> 00:10:13,988 It's easy to fall into that, especially in queer relationships. 219 00:10:14,071 --> 00:10:17,825 Totally. Have you ever been with someone really similar to yourself? 220 00:10:17,908 --> 00:10:19,035 I don't think so. 221 00:10:19,118 --> 00:10:20,161 -I'm the same way. -Yeah. 222 00:10:20,244 --> 00:10:23,247 Everyone I've been with has been slightly more neurotic than I am. 223 00:10:23,331 --> 00:10:24,915 Like, a little bit more routine. 224 00:10:24,999 --> 00:10:27,960 I've been told that my head can be, like, stuck in the clouds. 225 00:10:28,044 --> 00:10:30,504 That I'm, like, curious of, like, well, what is it like 226 00:10:30,588 --> 00:10:32,298 to be with someone who's just like me? 227 00:10:32,381 --> 00:10:34,800 So I go back and forth too. I totally understand. 228 00:10:34,884 --> 00:10:37,053 It'd be more like looking in a mirror 229 00:10:37,136 --> 00:10:40,681 -and trying to see my own… struggles. -Yes. 230 00:10:40,765 --> 00:10:43,017 Yeah. And I feel like that's my personality. 231 00:10:43,100 --> 00:10:46,270 To just, like, fully dive in and to see if I can have 232 00:10:46,354 --> 00:10:49,774 an emotionally deep… connection with someone else. 233 00:10:49,857 --> 00:10:51,859 -Yeah. -And then almost forget everything. 234 00:10:51,942 --> 00:10:55,029 -Do you feel like that's a possibility? -I'm not closed off to it. 235 00:10:55,112 --> 00:10:59,784 Baby, tell me that you need me 236 00:10:59,867 --> 00:11:03,621 I think Pilar is someone who would be 237 00:11:03,704 --> 00:11:05,373 a fantastic trial wife. 238 00:11:05,456 --> 00:11:08,376 She is really caring. She's authentic. 239 00:11:08,459 --> 00:11:10,920 And we have a lot of similar interests. 240 00:11:11,003 --> 00:11:13,255 -Bridget. -Hi, AJ. How are you? 241 00:11:13,339 --> 00:11:14,298 Good. 242 00:11:14,799 --> 00:11:16,801 -What's going on? -You look good. 243 00:11:16,884 --> 00:11:21,013 But with AJ, the, like, chemistry is more of, like, a romantic vibe. 244 00:11:21,097 --> 00:11:25,309 There's something about you, in general, that I'm just, like… drawn to. 245 00:11:26,143 --> 00:11:27,645 -Thanks. You too. -And… 246 00:11:27,728 --> 00:11:30,815 It's you I seek 247 00:11:31,399 --> 00:11:32,983 I feel like I'm too far from you. 248 00:11:33,067 --> 00:11:34,694 I have to figure a lot of things out. 249 00:11:34,777 --> 00:11:38,781 This is someone I'll be living with and in a marriage together. 250 00:11:38,864 --> 00:11:40,908 It's a really big decision. 251 00:11:40,991 --> 00:11:43,244 It's coming down to the wire. I don't know what I'll do. 252 00:11:43,327 --> 00:11:46,414 -I love fragrance and smells and scents. -Interesting. Okay. 253 00:11:46,497 --> 00:11:49,417 -And I'm, like, really big on, like… -I've been trying different ones. 254 00:11:49,500 --> 00:11:50,835 To figure out what I like. 255 00:11:50,918 --> 00:11:52,962 When I smell them, I'm like, "Ooh, I like that one." 256 00:11:53,045 --> 00:11:54,839 -Really? I combine some stuff sometimes. -Yeah. 257 00:11:54,922 --> 00:11:56,090 I don't know what I'm doing. 258 00:11:56,173 --> 00:11:57,883 If I feel like you smell good to me, 259 00:11:57,967 --> 00:11:59,760 -that's like, "Yeah. That's her smell." -Yeah. 260 00:11:59,844 --> 00:12:02,763 So, like, you telling me, like, "Hey, babe, you smell so good." 261 00:12:02,847 --> 00:12:04,473 I don't know what it is, that turns me on. 262 00:12:04,557 --> 00:12:06,183 -Like, I think that's, like, a… -Okay. 263 00:12:06,267 --> 00:12:07,643 No, I'm big on smell. 264 00:12:07,727 --> 00:12:08,978 Yeah. 265 00:12:09,061 --> 00:12:11,439 What do you… Do you sleep naked? Clothed? 266 00:12:11,522 --> 00:12:14,900 I like to sleep usually in, like, boxers and a t-shirt. 267 00:12:14,984 --> 00:12:16,026 -Same. -Okay. 268 00:12:16,110 --> 00:12:17,945 Yeah. What are your turn-ons? 269 00:12:18,028 --> 00:12:19,947 -What are your turn-offs? -Yeah, I mean, 270 00:12:20,030 --> 00:12:22,491 feeling my partner's eyes across the room. 271 00:12:23,242 --> 00:12:24,869 -You know? And just knowing. -Yeah. 272 00:12:24,952 --> 00:12:26,287 I like those little looks. 273 00:12:26,370 --> 00:12:29,790 Someone who wants to try new things. I like that. You know? 274 00:12:29,874 --> 00:12:32,251 -I think it keeps things alive. -Good. 275 00:12:32,334 --> 00:12:34,128 How often do you like to have sex? 276 00:12:37,882 --> 00:12:40,259 Obviously, if it's something new, then it's a lot. 277 00:12:40,342 --> 00:12:44,180 But sometimes it can dwindle to, like, once to twice a week. 278 00:12:44,263 --> 00:12:46,640 -Yeah, I think that's normal. -Thank God. 279 00:12:46,724 --> 00:12:50,394 I, like… ideally, every day would be great, but, like… 280 00:12:50,478 --> 00:12:53,397 -I'm totally happy with, like, less. -Bridget! 281 00:12:53,481 --> 00:12:54,732 Every day? 282 00:12:54,815 --> 00:12:56,942 Oh my God. 283 00:12:59,028 --> 00:13:02,865 It's important to be able to talk around sex and not feel awkward. 284 00:13:02,948 --> 00:13:04,909 -Yeah. -Or… like, shy about it. 285 00:13:04,992 --> 00:13:08,621 I definitely didn't grow up that way. My parents didn't talk to me about that. 286 00:13:08,704 --> 00:13:10,790 -I don't know about yours. -My parents definitely did. 287 00:13:10,873 --> 00:13:14,001 My mom is that type of person… She'll ask some weird, hard questions. 288 00:13:14,084 --> 00:13:14,960 Oh… Oh boy. 289 00:13:15,044 --> 00:13:18,506 Yeah, like, "When you eat my daughter's pussy, does she enjoy it?" 290 00:13:19,632 --> 00:13:20,508 "Do you make her cum?" 291 00:13:20,591 --> 00:13:22,384 -"That's important." -She would not ask that. 292 00:13:22,468 --> 00:13:23,677 I swear to God, she would. 293 00:13:27,723 --> 00:13:29,141 I feel like we're vibing. 294 00:13:29,225 --> 00:13:33,562 I'm gonna be honest with you. Like, you're a strong contender for me. 295 00:13:33,646 --> 00:13:36,524 -Like, the one person that… -You are too. You make me a bit nervous. 296 00:13:36,607 --> 00:13:37,483 Why? 297 00:13:37,566 --> 00:13:40,152 I think, like, we've had a lot of intense… 298 00:13:40,694 --> 00:13:41,737 -Moments? Yeah. -Yeah. 299 00:13:43,823 --> 00:13:45,616 You were issued the Ultimatum. 300 00:13:45,699 --> 00:13:49,912 Do you feel like you could get to a place, through this experience, 301 00:13:49,995 --> 00:13:51,914 that would make you ready to get married? 302 00:13:51,997 --> 00:13:53,457 I think with the right person. 303 00:13:53,541 --> 00:13:55,834 I've been making, like, a lot of great bonds here, 304 00:13:55,918 --> 00:13:57,670 including… especially you. 305 00:13:57,753 --> 00:14:01,549 When I wake up I get a feeling 306 00:14:02,258 --> 00:14:05,302 I got that love Livin' deep inside of me 307 00:14:05,386 --> 00:14:08,973 I've got that love, woo 308 00:14:09,056 --> 00:14:12,309 Livin' by my own rules 309 00:14:12,393 --> 00:14:13,727 Tomorrow's The Choice. 310 00:14:13,811 --> 00:14:15,479 -I am freaking out. -Ahh! 311 00:14:15,563 --> 00:14:17,398 But you're an Ultimatum-giver. 312 00:14:17,481 --> 00:14:19,608 I know. And you're an Ultimatum-getter. 313 00:14:19,692 --> 00:14:20,651 Yeah. 314 00:14:20,734 --> 00:14:24,822 I gave AJ an ultimatum because I'm so sure 315 00:14:24,905 --> 00:14:26,866 of what I want out of this life. 316 00:14:27,783 --> 00:14:31,078 And Mel's the type of person that makes me feel like she understands my value 317 00:14:31,161 --> 00:14:33,622 and my worth, especially because she is an entrepreneur, 318 00:14:33,706 --> 00:14:36,917 and she understands how demanding our career is. 319 00:14:37,001 --> 00:14:40,254 That's where I do have a few issues with my ex. 320 00:14:41,422 --> 00:14:42,590 Marriage is scary. 321 00:14:43,173 --> 00:14:45,759 So remind me why you're hesitant to marry Marie? 322 00:14:45,843 --> 00:14:47,887 I want to touch… We talked about that… 323 00:14:47,970 --> 00:14:52,016 -"I want to bring that up again." -I just want to, like, yeah, let's just… 324 00:14:52,766 --> 00:14:54,643 I know I have these fears 325 00:14:54,727 --> 00:14:57,563 about, like, all the things that marriage entails, right? 326 00:14:57,646 --> 00:15:00,065 For sickness, for health, for richer, for poorer. 327 00:15:00,149 --> 00:15:05,613 What if I got sick on her and, like, left her before she left me? 328 00:15:05,696 --> 00:15:09,241 I mean, anyone can get sick. And even if that happened, then… 329 00:15:10,117 --> 00:15:11,744 You'll figure it out, I guess. 330 00:15:13,287 --> 00:15:17,583 Ugh, this is a whole deep thing that I don't know if I want to get into. 331 00:15:21,253 --> 00:15:22,588 When I was born, I almost died. 332 00:15:24,673 --> 00:15:29,470 And so, with that, I face a lot of health issues today 333 00:15:30,054 --> 00:15:32,973 that I know you may not be able to tell because I'm very much under control, 334 00:15:33,057 --> 00:15:34,475 but I deal with chronic pain. 335 00:15:34,558 --> 00:15:38,187 Sometimes I wake up and I'm in so much pain that I don't even want to get up. 336 00:15:38,270 --> 00:15:42,900 And it's things that are out of my control and can't be cured. 337 00:15:42,983 --> 00:15:46,362 So it's, like, the older I get, what does that look like? 338 00:15:46,445 --> 00:15:49,406 Do I want to bring a partner with me? 339 00:15:49,490 --> 00:15:51,283 I cannot live as long as them. 340 00:15:52,326 --> 00:15:56,413 -Ah! Sorry. I'm trying to soak it all in. -I know. I'm sorry. That was a bomb. 341 00:15:56,497 --> 00:15:59,416 -No. -I haven't told anybody that here. 342 00:16:01,710 --> 00:16:04,296 I feel honored that you felt comfortable to share that with me, 343 00:16:04,380 --> 00:16:07,675 and I feel like that helps put things in perspective. Um… 344 00:16:08,801 --> 00:16:11,345 But just know, like, you are worthy of love. 345 00:16:12,096 --> 00:16:13,305 You're worthy of marriage. 346 00:16:13,389 --> 00:16:17,726 And you shouldn't feel afraid to, like, make that ultimate commitment 347 00:16:17,810 --> 00:16:22,481 just because you feel like you'd have… medical issues that could flare up. 348 00:16:22,564 --> 00:16:26,318 I feel like I offer something different than… 349 00:16:28,070 --> 00:16:29,196 your exes. 350 00:16:29,279 --> 00:16:32,157 -And I feel like… -Okay, confidence. Who's confident now? 351 00:16:33,325 --> 00:16:35,661 Maybe I just bring it out of you. That's it. 352 00:16:35,744 --> 00:16:36,996 Hmm. That could be it too. 353 00:16:40,124 --> 00:16:43,168 Thought I knew love before 354 00:16:43,252 --> 00:16:46,380 It's human nature. I'm always going to think about my ex. 355 00:16:46,463 --> 00:16:51,510 But today's our last day to figure out who we want to potentially be married to. 356 00:16:51,593 --> 00:16:55,681 Britney checked all the boxes, but then Dayna's definitely a little spicy. 357 00:16:55,764 --> 00:16:57,766 I think we would challenge each other for sure. 358 00:16:57,850 --> 00:16:59,852 So, I don't know which I want right now. 359 00:17:00,686 --> 00:17:03,188 I feel like we have a tension between us. 360 00:17:03,272 --> 00:17:04,398 Like sexual tension? 361 00:17:07,276 --> 00:17:10,195 Um, okay. We'll start with this. Are you a top or are you a bottom? 362 00:17:10,279 --> 00:17:12,781 -I'm not a top or a bottom. Yeah. -You're verse. 363 00:17:12,865 --> 00:17:14,533 -Okay. -Whatever I'm in the mood for. 364 00:17:16,452 --> 00:17:20,664 The only reason I asked is because your nails suggest you may be a bottom. 365 00:17:20,748 --> 00:17:24,835 So, the funny thing is I literally haven't had nails for, probably, 366 00:17:24,918 --> 00:17:26,295 I don't know, like, two years. 367 00:17:26,378 --> 00:17:29,757 And my ex talked me into getting them. 368 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:31,884 -So I wouldn't-- I know, right? -Sabotage your ass. 369 00:17:31,967 --> 00:17:33,093 -Yeah. -Yeah. 370 00:17:36,221 --> 00:17:38,640 You don't struggle with the fact that you're an Ultimatum-giver 371 00:17:38,724 --> 00:17:40,100 and I'm a receiver? At all? 372 00:17:40,184 --> 00:17:42,561 No. Because I think that you want to be married. 373 00:17:42,644 --> 00:17:44,646 What makes you think that? 374 00:17:45,731 --> 00:17:48,275 Because you want the same things that I want. 375 00:17:48,358 --> 00:17:49,902 -You do want security. -I do. 376 00:17:49,985 --> 00:17:52,404 You do want to feel like someone's gonna choose you every time, 377 00:17:52,488 --> 00:17:53,572 no matter what, always. 378 00:17:54,406 --> 00:17:57,910 Most people would probably be into it with the right person. 379 00:17:57,993 --> 00:18:00,537 You don't feel like you lose independence once you're married? 380 00:18:00,621 --> 00:18:01,914 No. 381 00:18:01,997 --> 00:18:05,793 I'm big on independence. I don't want to feel like your mom. 382 00:18:05,876 --> 00:18:07,920 I don't want to feel like you're going to fall apart 383 00:18:08,003 --> 00:18:09,296 -if I'm not there. -Without you. 384 00:18:09,379 --> 00:18:11,673 And it's really hard because sometimes I feel like 385 00:18:11,757 --> 00:18:15,135 my ex wouldn't be okay without, like, me. 386 00:18:15,219 --> 00:18:17,179 -You need to be selfish a little bit. -I'm trying. 387 00:18:17,262 --> 00:18:19,973 -That's what I'm trying to do. -You need to think about you. 388 00:18:24,770 --> 00:18:30,234 You're just so far from my ex. I don't know. 389 00:18:30,317 --> 00:18:34,530 -You're not learning from your ex. -I know, that's the thing. You're right. 390 00:18:34,613 --> 00:18:37,199 You are going to really challenge me. 391 00:18:37,282 --> 00:18:39,952 And honestly, I don't get challenged a lot. 392 00:18:41,745 --> 00:18:43,705 I feel like we're going to laugh a lot. 393 00:18:43,789 --> 00:18:46,792 We are going to laugh a lot, and then we're going to, like, wrestle. 394 00:18:47,501 --> 00:18:49,753 There's fire in me 395 00:18:51,255 --> 00:18:53,423 There's fire in me 396 00:18:54,716 --> 00:18:56,468 -Hey. How are you? -Hello. 397 00:18:56,552 --> 00:18:58,011 -Good. How are you? -Good. 398 00:18:58,637 --> 00:19:01,598 I'm really nervous dating as a single woman again. 399 00:19:01,682 --> 00:19:04,726 I feel very resistant to the process. 400 00:19:04,810 --> 00:19:08,897 Dayna seems more open to this process than me. 401 00:19:09,481 --> 00:19:10,649 I wanted to leave, 402 00:19:10,732 --> 00:19:13,777 but she was encouraging me to just give it a chance. 403 00:19:13,861 --> 00:19:15,404 I have my walls up. 404 00:19:15,487 --> 00:19:18,323 I'm just waiting for something to open me up. 405 00:19:18,907 --> 00:19:21,910 It scares me that I've been given the Ultimatum. 406 00:19:21,994 --> 00:19:23,954 I am worried about losing Dayna. 407 00:19:25,831 --> 00:19:29,376 If I do have moments of jealousy, I tend to, like, spiral. 408 00:19:29,459 --> 00:19:32,045 I feel the feelings. I do definitely feel the feelings. 409 00:19:32,129 --> 00:19:35,382 The first date that we had, I was so freaking nervous. 410 00:19:35,465 --> 00:19:37,718 -Yeah. -Like, I had a really hard time letting go 411 00:19:37,801 --> 00:19:39,428 -Mm-hmm. -…and just being present. 412 00:19:39,511 --> 00:19:41,430 -Way less nervous today, thankfully. Yeah. -Yeah. 413 00:19:41,513 --> 00:19:42,848 -Still nervous, but… -Yeah, me too. 414 00:19:42,931 --> 00:19:44,933 But I feel like if you were completely not nervous, 415 00:19:45,017 --> 00:19:46,768 that would be a little bit weird too. 416 00:19:46,852 --> 00:19:50,397 -You know, like, do you do this often? -I do this all the time. Yeah. 417 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,483 I'm a serial dater for the last ten years. 418 00:19:53,567 --> 00:19:57,613 In high school and college, I didn't have a ton of big dating experience. 419 00:19:57,696 --> 00:20:01,450 I was always the single person. Always like, "I'm going to do my own thing." 420 00:20:01,533 --> 00:20:03,911 -I feel the same exact way. Like to a T. -Yeah? 421 00:20:03,994 --> 00:20:05,329 -Yeah. -I was a late bloomer, 422 00:20:05,412 --> 00:20:07,789 and I think part of it was coming to terms 423 00:20:07,873 --> 00:20:10,000 with who I like and what I like to wear and stuff. 424 00:20:10,083 --> 00:20:12,461 When I was in high school, there weren't a lot of gay people. 425 00:20:12,544 --> 00:20:13,670 -None. -So it was… Yeah. 426 00:20:13,754 --> 00:20:15,672 How I would dress up was, like, 427 00:20:15,756 --> 00:20:16,882 -athletic wear. -Mm-hmm. 428 00:20:16,965 --> 00:20:18,133 What do you do for work? 429 00:20:18,216 --> 00:20:20,427 -So, I'm a personal trainer. -Oh, cool. 430 00:20:20,510 --> 00:20:23,222 And I'm going to take the MCAT and then see where I'm at. 431 00:20:23,305 --> 00:20:25,641 -Ooh. Good for you. That's awesome. -I know. 432 00:20:25,724 --> 00:20:27,142 -How about you? -Uh… 433 00:20:27,226 --> 00:20:28,852 I work as a food scientist. 434 00:20:28,936 --> 00:20:30,562 -Oh wow. -So I do food product development. 435 00:20:30,646 --> 00:20:32,189 I've done a lot of protein bars. 436 00:20:32,272 --> 00:20:34,900 So, yeah, I go to the grocery stores, and I'm like, "I made that." 437 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,028 -Wow. That is freaking sweet. -It's cool. Yeah. I really like it. 438 00:20:38,111 --> 00:20:42,950 Two of the food-nerd things that I needed to bring with me as I was packing my bag… 439 00:20:43,033 --> 00:20:45,577 I need my food scale, and I need my meat thermometer. 440 00:20:45,661 --> 00:20:47,537 Damn. 441 00:20:47,621 --> 00:20:51,083 I think the majority of my life, I'm very go with the flow, 442 00:20:51,166 --> 00:20:54,127 but there are some things that I'm just like, I want done a certain way. 443 00:20:54,211 --> 00:20:55,796 I'm, like, the same way. 444 00:20:55,879 --> 00:20:56,755 Okay. 445 00:20:57,506 --> 00:20:58,840 -Big question. -Okay. 446 00:20:58,924 --> 00:21:00,592 Do you want kids? 447 00:21:00,676 --> 00:21:01,885 So, I do want kids. 448 00:21:01,969 --> 00:21:04,137 For me, I think at least two. 449 00:21:04,221 --> 00:21:05,847 -Yeah. -How about you? 450 00:21:05,931 --> 00:21:07,474 I feel like we have found a difference. 451 00:21:07,557 --> 00:21:09,559 -Oh, okay. Ooh. -I do not want kids. 452 00:21:09,643 --> 00:21:13,647 The thought of birthing a child is so scary to me. 453 00:21:13,730 --> 00:21:16,692 I'm already, like, an anxious, nervous person that I couldn't imagine 454 00:21:16,775 --> 00:21:18,193 if I had nine months to think about… 455 00:21:18,277 --> 00:21:20,112 -Damn. -…the fact that I was going to have to… 456 00:21:20,195 --> 00:21:21,947 I'll do it. 457 00:21:22,030 --> 00:21:23,448 That might sweeten the deal. 458 00:21:23,532 --> 00:21:25,492 Like, that's one of my biggest concerns. 459 00:21:26,076 --> 00:21:29,705 By the way, this, like, exceeded my expectation by, like, a million. 460 00:21:29,788 --> 00:21:31,248 -Totally. -I'm so much having fun. 461 00:21:31,331 --> 00:21:32,207 Me too. 462 00:21:32,291 --> 00:21:33,959 I think I can help you with a lot of things. 463 00:21:34,042 --> 00:21:35,669 -Yeah. -I think you can help me with a lot. 464 00:21:35,752 --> 00:21:38,130 Definitely. One thing that matters a lot to me 465 00:21:38,213 --> 00:21:40,882 is that my partner and I have a very united front. 466 00:21:40,966 --> 00:21:44,594 Even if I think you're a little bit wrong, you'll always have me on your side. 467 00:21:44,678 --> 00:21:46,555 I love that. Amen. 468 00:21:46,638 --> 00:21:48,390 That's exactly how I feel. Same. 469 00:21:48,473 --> 00:21:50,517 It's… But it's true! 470 00:21:53,186 --> 00:21:54,146 Uh-huh 471 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:56,356 Yeah 472 00:21:56,440 --> 00:22:00,402 I've been looking all week for this I've been looking for this 473 00:22:00,485 --> 00:22:04,406 So, tonight for the cocktail party, I will be stepping out in this. 474 00:22:05,032 --> 00:22:07,743 I can wear these all day. I feel like I'm wearing slippers. 475 00:22:07,826 --> 00:22:09,494 Yeah, I'm feeling so hot, hot 476 00:22:09,578 --> 00:22:12,247 One of my creams, it kind of burns a little bit. 477 00:22:12,331 --> 00:22:15,042 Like the kid from Home Alone. 478 00:22:15,125 --> 00:22:16,376 It burns. 479 00:22:16,460 --> 00:22:18,295 Can't stop the heat right now 480 00:22:18,378 --> 00:22:21,173 Can't stop the beat right now 481 00:22:21,798 --> 00:22:24,426 We got the cologne. Men only. 482 00:22:24,509 --> 00:22:29,723 One, two, three, four, five, six. You're ready for anything. 483 00:22:37,272 --> 00:22:40,025 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah 484 00:22:42,819 --> 00:22:45,655 We are arriving 485 00:22:45,739 --> 00:22:47,824 -Hi. -Hello. 486 00:22:47,908 --> 00:22:48,867 Hi, guys. 487 00:22:48,950 --> 00:22:49,910 Hi! 488 00:22:49,993 --> 00:22:52,412 Who is this stunning angel who just walked in? 489 00:22:52,496 --> 00:22:54,331 For real! Who is she? 490 00:22:54,414 --> 00:22:56,416 Oh my God. Is it me? 491 00:22:56,500 --> 00:22:59,419 -Hello. Hi. I am good. How are you? -How are you, baby? 492 00:23:00,921 --> 00:23:02,380 I love the shirt. 493 00:23:02,464 --> 00:23:03,632 -I love this. -Thank you. 494 00:23:03,715 --> 00:23:05,342 I love your whole fit. It's sick. 495 00:23:05,425 --> 00:23:06,593 How are you? 496 00:23:07,719 --> 00:23:09,554 It's the silk for me. 497 00:23:09,638 --> 00:23:12,766 -You like it? Thank you. -She's a silky daddy. 498 00:23:12,849 --> 00:23:14,684 Are you guys nervous for The Choice? 499 00:23:14,768 --> 00:23:16,686 Yes. Who have your dates been with? 500 00:23:16,770 --> 00:23:19,439 Mine have been with Kyle and Bridget. 501 00:23:20,482 --> 00:23:21,483 Ooh. 502 00:23:21,566 --> 00:23:23,485 That's interesting. 503 00:23:23,568 --> 00:23:25,612 I know. I don't know how it happened this way, 504 00:23:25,695 --> 00:23:27,197 but here I am right in the middle. 505 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,532 Lesbians, you know? 506 00:23:30,575 --> 00:23:31,827 -Cheers, queers. -Yeah. 507 00:23:31,910 --> 00:23:33,578 Cheers. 508 00:23:37,874 --> 00:23:40,001 -How are you? -I'm good. How are you feeling? 509 00:23:40,085 --> 00:23:41,461 Ah, you know. 510 00:23:41,545 --> 00:23:42,379 Overwhelmed? 511 00:23:42,879 --> 00:23:43,713 Yeah. 512 00:23:43,797 --> 00:23:44,840 Damn. 513 00:23:44,923 --> 00:23:49,261 I came in here very concerned for my ex, and I wanted them to miss me. 514 00:23:49,344 --> 00:23:52,514 But the grass is only green where you water it. 515 00:23:52,597 --> 00:23:54,307 Exactly. That's beautiful. 516 00:23:54,391 --> 00:23:56,226 And I'm like a very big people pleaser, 517 00:23:56,309 --> 00:23:58,728 and I need to back out of that very quickly, 518 00:23:58,812 --> 00:24:00,397 because that won't get me anywhere. 519 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,482 And where did that get me? Here. 520 00:24:02,566 --> 00:24:03,817 Mm-hmm. 521 00:24:05,694 --> 00:24:11,199 This entire time with you, I've always felt so comfortable. 522 00:24:14,411 --> 00:24:16,913 -Putting all physical stuff aside, like… -Right. 523 00:24:17,622 --> 00:24:19,374 There's definitely something you can offer me, 524 00:24:19,457 --> 00:24:21,626 and I feel like there's something I can offer you. 525 00:24:21,710 --> 00:24:25,505 And whatever the capacity that is, it's something I would hope to explore. 526 00:24:25,589 --> 00:24:30,635 With you, it's just different. I can really just be just AJ. 527 00:24:31,636 --> 00:24:33,805 I'm Caribbean, so we do Carnival. I don't know if-- 528 00:24:33,889 --> 00:24:35,682 Yeah. I've heard of. I've never been. 529 00:24:35,765 --> 00:24:37,684 Yeah, it's amazing. 530 00:24:37,767 --> 00:24:41,605 You wear pretty much nothing, and I won the twerk contest. 531 00:24:41,688 --> 00:24:45,525 -No! Damn, I'm jealous. -Mmm. 532 00:24:45,609 --> 00:24:47,652 I'm so jealous that I missed it. 533 00:24:47,736 --> 00:24:49,446 -'Cause I would've went. -Yeah. It was crazy. 534 00:24:49,529 --> 00:24:52,866 And I made like $100 with people putting money in my bikini. 535 00:24:52,949 --> 00:24:55,869 -We could just replay it. -Reenact? 536 00:24:55,952 --> 00:24:57,746 "This is what happened. I'mma show you." 537 00:24:57,829 --> 00:25:00,999 I can totally imagine a life with you. 538 00:25:01,082 --> 00:25:03,335 I can see it. It's not far, and it's not like… 539 00:25:04,252 --> 00:25:05,253 A dream. 540 00:25:05,337 --> 00:25:07,005 Right, because it could happen. 541 00:25:07,088 --> 00:25:09,674 We have conversations all the time that literally, like… 542 00:25:09,758 --> 00:25:11,593 -Spiral and go everywhere? -…can go anywhere. 543 00:25:11,676 --> 00:25:14,638 And we lose track of time, and I think that's such a wonderful thing. 544 00:25:14,721 --> 00:25:16,598 That really scares me, that… 545 00:25:18,099 --> 00:25:19,935 -That is a possibility. -Yeah. 546 00:25:20,435 --> 00:25:24,940 To be vulnerable in that aspect, because I haven't with my ex. 547 00:25:25,023 --> 00:25:27,359 But it's like, we're there. 548 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:30,904 AJ is my top choice. 549 00:25:30,987 --> 00:25:33,698 I feel we have this connection. 550 00:25:34,366 --> 00:25:36,910 AJ makes me feel very desired, 551 00:25:36,993 --> 00:25:41,122 and that's just a feeling that I haven't really felt in a while. 552 00:25:41,206 --> 00:25:43,583 No matter what happens, you have me for life. 553 00:25:43,667 --> 00:25:45,543 Because I can't lose someone like you. 554 00:25:47,254 --> 00:25:48,838 Are there any other conversations 555 00:25:48,922 --> 00:25:51,341 you want or need to have tonight with anybody else? 556 00:25:53,134 --> 00:25:56,012 Not necessarily. I'm tired of stressing, though. 557 00:25:56,096 --> 00:25:58,390 I know. I feel better sitting with you. 558 00:25:58,473 --> 00:26:00,100 -If that means anything. -Me too. 559 00:26:00,684 --> 00:26:01,851 Yeah. 560 00:26:01,935 --> 00:26:03,728 I feel a lot better already. 561 00:26:06,314 --> 00:26:07,566 -Get another drink? -Yeah. 562 00:26:07,649 --> 00:26:09,442 All right, cool. Come on. Let's go. 563 00:26:11,027 --> 00:26:12,445 -You okay? -Yeah. I'm okay. 564 00:26:12,529 --> 00:26:13,780 -Yeah, I'm good. -Okay. 565 00:26:15,490 --> 00:26:16,491 You smell nice. 566 00:26:16,574 --> 00:26:17,492 Thanks, Mama. 567 00:26:19,327 --> 00:26:21,162 Okay. You look so much better. 568 00:26:21,246 --> 00:26:22,664 I do. I feel better, actually. 569 00:26:22,747 --> 00:26:27,335 Yeah? Okay. I'm going to leave you alone, because I feel like I should. 570 00:26:27,419 --> 00:26:29,629 -Okay. -But I love you. 571 00:26:37,971 --> 00:26:39,014 Wow. 572 00:26:40,056 --> 00:26:41,099 Let's talk real quick. 573 00:26:41,182 --> 00:26:43,226 Come. Come, come. Come, come. 574 00:26:44,728 --> 00:26:46,855 Let's start with, we've been here for hours. 575 00:26:46,938 --> 00:26:48,315 How can you not talk to me? 576 00:26:48,398 --> 00:26:49,899 When we're in these settings, 577 00:26:49,983 --> 00:26:52,152 you definitely behave differently than when we're alone. 578 00:26:52,235 --> 00:26:54,070 You act like you don't know me. 579 00:26:54,154 --> 00:26:56,531 I've been wanting to talk to you. It's just… 580 00:26:56,615 --> 00:26:59,159 I want to believe you, but I need to see you work for me. 581 00:26:59,242 --> 00:27:00,535 I still haven't seen it. 582 00:27:00,619 --> 00:27:02,329 -That freaks me out a bit. -I get it. 583 00:27:02,412 --> 00:27:05,206 -I don't know if it's 'cause of Britney… -Has nothing to do with her. 584 00:27:05,290 --> 00:27:08,460 -You piss me off. Like… -I don't mean it. I apologize. 585 00:27:09,336 --> 00:27:11,004 I feel like whenever I see you with Britney, 586 00:27:11,087 --> 00:27:13,423 it really seems like you guys are very into it. 587 00:27:13,506 --> 00:27:16,843 Seeing you guys together makes me think that it's more than you lead on. 588 00:27:18,637 --> 00:27:22,307 You give me, like, trust issues. And I don't know what to do with it. 589 00:27:22,390 --> 00:27:23,475 This isn't intentional. 590 00:27:23,558 --> 00:27:25,477 -I feel like you're playing games. -It's not that. 591 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:26,811 How do I know that, though? 592 00:27:26,895 --> 00:27:29,898 That's just something that you need to decide for yourself. 593 00:27:29,981 --> 00:27:32,067 I'm here now, and I'm telling you what it is. 594 00:27:37,947 --> 00:27:39,658 -I swear to God. -Tell me. 595 00:27:39,741 --> 00:27:41,201 Don't waste my time. 596 00:27:41,284 --> 00:27:42,118 Bro… 597 00:27:42,202 --> 00:27:45,830 I will run your food truck into the river. 598 00:27:45,914 --> 00:27:47,499 Okay… 599 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:49,834 You good? 600 00:27:51,044 --> 00:27:53,505 How do you feel… about Mel? 601 00:27:55,548 --> 00:27:57,467 I don't know. It seems off. 602 00:27:57,550 --> 00:27:58,551 Me too. 603 00:27:59,844 --> 00:28:01,221 I just get nervous. 604 00:28:01,805 --> 00:28:02,639 About? 605 00:28:03,932 --> 00:28:05,058 Like her and Dayna. 606 00:28:08,603 --> 00:28:11,189 Okay. What makes you nervous? 607 00:28:11,940 --> 00:28:14,192 I just don't think she has good intentions. 608 00:28:14,275 --> 00:28:17,654 The way that she carries herself is, like, she's just so quick to, like, 609 00:28:17,737 --> 00:28:20,824 hold someone's hand or put their arm around them. 610 00:28:20,907 --> 00:28:23,910 I just don't like to see, like, how close they look together. 611 00:28:23,993 --> 00:28:26,621 I don't like to see that. It rubs me the wrong way. 612 00:28:26,705 --> 00:28:27,664 It's not easy. 613 00:28:27,747 --> 00:28:30,625 Because I saw it with Britney earlier, to be honest with you. 614 00:28:30,708 --> 00:28:32,544 And I was just kind of like, you know… 615 00:28:33,461 --> 00:28:36,005 -Mm-hmm. -…this bitch in me had to pull back 616 00:28:36,089 --> 00:28:39,092 and be like, "AJ, you ain't gotta snatch nobody tonight, it's fine." 617 00:28:39,175 --> 00:28:43,972 Exactly. Mel, being that kind of person, she would, like, initiate physical stuff. 618 00:28:44,055 --> 00:28:46,182 And, personally, I don't know if I can come back 619 00:28:46,266 --> 00:28:47,809 if they did something physical. 620 00:28:48,977 --> 00:28:51,229 -Mm. -I know, like, what we signed up for, 621 00:28:51,312 --> 00:28:53,314 but that's just, like, where my mind's at. 622 00:28:53,398 --> 00:28:54,232 That'd be hard. 623 00:28:54,315 --> 00:28:57,777 And it's just, like, the fact that, you know, she's with my ex. 624 00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:00,447 Or might be with my ex. 625 00:29:00,530 --> 00:29:02,699 -Yeah, concerns. -Yeah. 626 00:29:02,782 --> 00:29:04,868 -I'm so sorry. -Yeah, no, it's good. 627 00:29:05,910 --> 00:29:06,745 Like… 628 00:29:07,787 --> 00:29:09,581 Try. I know it's hard. 629 00:29:10,498 --> 00:29:12,834 Try to not let your emotions get the best, 630 00:29:12,917 --> 00:29:15,044 because you're making connections too. 631 00:29:15,128 --> 00:29:15,962 Yeah. 632 00:29:19,215 --> 00:29:20,425 Do you want to go talk? 633 00:29:22,051 --> 00:29:23,928 You smell really good. 634 00:29:24,012 --> 00:29:27,765 Thank you. Thank you. It's this new scent that I have. 635 00:29:27,849 --> 00:29:29,559 -I just don't wear it often. -It's good. 636 00:29:29,642 --> 00:29:31,186 So tomorrow is The Choice. 637 00:29:32,270 --> 00:29:33,480 How'd your other dates go? 638 00:29:33,563 --> 00:29:36,941 I realized, like, how good I felt like the date went with us. 639 00:29:37,025 --> 00:29:38,985 -Yes! -I feel like we're, like, on a vibe. 640 00:29:39,068 --> 00:29:40,528 I realized, as I was leaving, 641 00:29:40,612 --> 00:29:42,363 I wanted to be like, "I hope your dates suck." 642 00:29:42,447 --> 00:29:43,698 I'm glad I didn't say that 643 00:29:43,782 --> 00:29:45,492 because I don't hope your dates suck. 644 00:29:45,575 --> 00:29:47,827 I just hope that they're not as good as this one. 645 00:29:47,911 --> 00:29:49,829 -It could not have gone better. -I agree. 646 00:29:51,122 --> 00:29:54,417 I'm just scared of, like, the non-genuine stuff from people. 647 00:29:54,501 --> 00:29:56,586 It's because you're probably very loyal. 648 00:29:56,669 --> 00:29:57,504 That's how I feel. 649 00:29:57,587 --> 00:30:00,215 That's where I feel like I've really connected with you on that. 650 00:30:00,298 --> 00:30:03,718 I'm like, there are so many different things to get out of this experience. 651 00:30:04,427 --> 00:30:07,764 I see us making a lot of growth in that way 652 00:30:07,847 --> 00:30:10,308 without having to muddy any other boundaries. 653 00:30:10,391 --> 00:30:12,811 -I agree. -And no expectation in any other way. 654 00:30:12,894 --> 00:30:14,812 After one date, I was like, 655 00:30:14,896 --> 00:30:16,481 -yeah, like, I can see this. -Me too. 656 00:30:16,564 --> 00:30:18,441 -I love that. -Yeah, we're doing it. 657 00:30:18,525 --> 00:30:19,400 Good. 658 00:30:19,984 --> 00:30:23,613 I think my connection with Haley is evolving and growing. 659 00:30:23,696 --> 00:30:25,740 She's so different than Dayna. 660 00:30:25,823 --> 00:30:29,828 We have a lot in common, and we have a lot that we can help each other with. 661 00:30:29,911 --> 00:30:32,247 There's so much that she understands about me. 662 00:30:33,248 --> 00:30:35,917 Haley would be a fantastic trial marriage partner. 663 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,001 Cheers. 664 00:30:40,755 --> 00:30:42,632 How are you feeling after today? 665 00:30:44,008 --> 00:30:46,803 I'm feeling… good. 666 00:30:46,886 --> 00:30:49,264 I had so much fun talking to you, and you're so cute. 667 00:30:49,347 --> 00:30:51,224 I was excited and nervous to talk to you. 668 00:30:51,808 --> 00:30:53,309 You've, like, surprised me a lot. 669 00:30:53,393 --> 00:30:56,020 I feel like we connect on, like, on a soul level too. 670 00:30:56,104 --> 00:30:57,981 Where I can see us being complementary, 671 00:30:58,064 --> 00:31:00,650 but, like, also, like, very individual. 672 00:31:00,733 --> 00:31:03,528 Yeah, you make me, like, excited. It's, like, fun. 673 00:31:03,611 --> 00:31:04,445 Yeah, yeah. 674 00:31:05,113 --> 00:31:07,323 -I love your outfit. -Oh my God, thank you. 675 00:31:07,407 --> 00:31:09,534 -It's so sparkly. -You look great too. 676 00:31:09,617 --> 00:31:11,411 -Thank you. -I love these dresses. 677 00:31:12,453 --> 00:31:14,414 Do you feel weird being so close to your ex? 678 00:31:14,497 --> 00:31:16,416 -Or do you want to… Okay, all right. -No. 679 00:31:19,043 --> 00:31:21,296 -Ah! Okay. -How are you feeling? 680 00:31:21,379 --> 00:31:22,422 I'm okay. How are you? 681 00:31:22,505 --> 00:31:24,340 Yeah. My head's all over the place. 682 00:31:24,424 --> 00:31:26,634 I thought I'd be more decided by this point. 683 00:31:26,718 --> 00:31:28,803 And I'm just like, "What am I doing?" 684 00:31:28,887 --> 00:31:30,722 -I know. -I don't know how I'm gonna decide. 685 00:31:30,805 --> 00:31:34,434 I feel that. I feel like I'm, like, actually feeling feelings. 686 00:31:34,517 --> 00:31:35,351 Okay. 687 00:31:35,435 --> 00:31:37,937 There's someone here that, like, I have chemistry with. 688 00:31:38,021 --> 00:31:38,855 Okay. 689 00:31:38,938 --> 00:31:41,733 I think it would be really intense, 690 00:31:41,816 --> 00:31:43,860 and I don't know about… 691 00:31:46,529 --> 00:31:49,574 -Like, controlling myself. -Okay. 692 00:31:49,657 --> 00:31:52,243 If I went into a trial marriage with this person-- 693 00:31:52,327 --> 00:31:55,330 -You would end up exploring intimacy? -Yeah. 694 00:31:55,914 --> 00:31:57,665 Intimacy, like, emotion. 695 00:31:57,749 --> 00:32:03,588 Like, I just didn't expect someone to… to be exactly what I'm looking for. 696 00:32:03,671 --> 00:32:05,632 Okay. You don't have to name names, 697 00:32:05,715 --> 00:32:07,216 but I'm also all ears, if you want. 698 00:32:07,300 --> 00:32:09,719 I've been, like, dating AJ. 699 00:32:10,428 --> 00:32:13,973 Marita seems to feel there was this deep emotional 700 00:32:14,057 --> 00:32:15,975 and physical connection with AJ, 701 00:32:16,059 --> 00:32:18,436 and I'm like, how many people is AJ having this with? 702 00:32:18,519 --> 00:32:20,813 Because I've been going on a lot of dates with AJ… 703 00:32:20,897 --> 00:32:22,398 It's pretty crazy. 704 00:32:22,482 --> 00:32:26,653 And I've kept getting this validation of, like, "You're at the top of my list." 705 00:32:26,736 --> 00:32:29,656 And I was feeling the same thing. 706 00:32:29,739 --> 00:32:32,325 Now I feel really anxious about tomorrow. 707 00:32:32,408 --> 00:32:35,370 Like, I don't, at this point, know if anybody's gonna choose me tomorrow. 708 00:32:35,453 --> 00:32:38,247 -Do you want to talk? -We can. Yeah. Let's go. 709 00:32:39,916 --> 00:32:41,334 Where do you want to go? 710 00:32:41,417 --> 00:32:42,627 Do you want to stand? 711 00:32:42,710 --> 00:32:46,047 Sure. I know. I feel like I've been sitting for hours, so… 712 00:32:46,130 --> 00:32:47,423 I wanted to talk to you again 713 00:32:47,507 --> 00:32:50,176 because I felt like we only had that one opportunity. 714 00:32:50,259 --> 00:32:52,303 -I know. -With you, I was like, 715 00:32:52,387 --> 00:32:53,596 it was like a happy surprise. 716 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,599 I don't know, there was just something about you that I kept picking up on. 717 00:32:56,683 --> 00:32:59,227 Keep leaving our conversations wanting to, like-- 718 00:32:59,310 --> 00:33:00,311 -Talk more? -Yeah. 719 00:33:00,395 --> 00:33:02,522 What do you want to get out of your trial marriage? 720 00:33:02,605 --> 00:33:06,442 I'm, like, trying to find someone I'll get, like, the most out of it. 721 00:33:06,526 --> 00:33:07,527 -Yeah. -For myself. 722 00:33:07,610 --> 00:33:10,113 I don't know, I want someone that is accepting 723 00:33:10,196 --> 00:33:13,700 of how I process things emotionally. 724 00:33:13,783 --> 00:33:15,493 Like, I'm a big baby sometimes. 725 00:33:15,576 --> 00:33:17,120 I just want to, like, lay on you. 726 00:33:17,203 --> 00:33:19,288 -I love cuddling and stuff, so… -Me too. 727 00:33:19,372 --> 00:33:20,498 It's just the best. 728 00:33:21,165 --> 00:33:23,418 I don't know how you're feeling about The Choice, 729 00:33:23,501 --> 00:33:24,877 but you're still open to me? 730 00:33:24,961 --> 00:33:27,004 -Yeah. I'm still open to everybody. -Okay. Me too. 731 00:33:27,088 --> 00:33:29,674 -I don't know. -Yeah, I know. I'm like… I can't gage. 732 00:33:29,757 --> 00:33:32,552 -I don't know what anyone's thinking. -Yeah, you just ask me straight up. 733 00:33:32,635 --> 00:33:35,263 -I'll tell you. I'm an honest lady. -Yeah, okay. Thanks. Me too. 734 00:33:35,346 --> 00:33:36,180 Yeah. 735 00:33:36,264 --> 00:33:38,307 Bridget kind of came out of left field for me. 736 00:33:38,391 --> 00:33:41,561 I really appreciate the effort she's making into getting to know me 737 00:33:41,644 --> 00:33:44,063 and wants to keep talking to me and ask me questions. 738 00:33:44,147 --> 00:33:48,401 But I'm the one who came here issuing Marita the Ultimatum. 739 00:33:48,484 --> 00:33:51,320 And I can see that Marita and AJ, like, have a connection. 740 00:33:51,404 --> 00:33:57,243 So, I don't know. I have a really bad, like, gut feeling that it's just… Ugh. 741 00:33:57,326 --> 00:33:59,245 I knew for a fact I did want to talk to you today, 742 00:33:59,328 --> 00:34:01,289 so I'm happy you actually pulled me first. 743 00:34:01,372 --> 00:34:02,749 I was just eager. 744 00:34:02,832 --> 00:34:05,585 I don't know what's going on up there. 745 00:34:05,668 --> 00:34:07,420 I don't think you want to know. 746 00:34:07,503 --> 00:34:08,963 Oh my God. 747 00:34:10,548 --> 00:34:12,675 So, how are you feeling about The Choice? 748 00:34:12,759 --> 00:34:16,345 I think having a trial marriage with you would be bananas. 749 00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:19,807 Ahh… 750 00:34:19,891 --> 00:34:21,017 This is so weird. 751 00:34:21,100 --> 00:34:22,810 It's so weird. 752 00:34:22,894 --> 00:34:26,105 It is interesting to see how everyone acts when their ex is watching. 753 00:34:26,189 --> 00:34:27,482 I'm getting closer. 754 00:34:27,565 --> 00:34:29,400 Yeah, that's fine. 'Cause I'll get there too. 755 00:34:29,484 --> 00:34:31,235 -Okay. -Um… 756 00:34:31,319 --> 00:34:32,779 I think that together, 757 00:34:32,862 --> 00:34:36,908 I think that we can bring some type of harmony to each other's life 758 00:34:36,991 --> 00:34:41,037 where you show me what life's about, and I'll show you what love's about. 759 00:34:42,622 --> 00:34:45,750 It's like some "take over the world" type shit, you know? 760 00:34:45,833 --> 00:34:47,877 Yeah. I actually love that. 761 00:34:49,629 --> 00:34:52,840 Like, I don't know. With you, it's different. 762 00:34:52,924 --> 00:34:54,383 What do you feel with me? 763 00:34:54,467 --> 00:34:55,927 -A lot. -A lot? 764 00:34:56,969 --> 00:34:58,179 Does that scare you? 765 00:34:58,262 --> 00:35:01,641 Yeah. Because it's, in a way, dangerous. 766 00:35:02,558 --> 00:35:05,853 Like, I want to touch you right now, but I don't know if I can or should. 767 00:35:05,937 --> 00:35:08,564 Well, okay, but, why not? 768 00:35:08,648 --> 00:35:10,066 Because our exes are here. 769 00:35:11,025 --> 00:35:13,152 But they're exes, right? 770 00:35:13,236 --> 00:35:14,362 Yeah. 771 00:35:14,946 --> 00:35:16,656 Our exes have brought us here. 772 00:35:16,739 --> 00:35:18,407 -Yeah. -They knew the risk. 773 00:35:18,491 --> 00:35:20,827 I know, but it's scary. 774 00:35:22,161 --> 00:35:24,247 -Well, hello. -Hello. 775 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,169 -Am I interrupting? Should I go away? -No. 776 00:35:33,131 --> 00:35:36,676 So, not to put you on the spot, but how are you feeling between us? 777 00:35:37,176 --> 00:35:38,344 Just kidding. 778 00:35:38,427 --> 00:35:40,513 -I'm just kidding. -You're so funny. 779 00:35:42,265 --> 00:35:43,766 Let's make it awkward. 780 00:35:46,185 --> 00:35:48,563 I think it's interesting that Pilar is torn 781 00:35:48,646 --> 00:35:52,275 between myself and my ex, Kyle. 782 00:35:52,358 --> 00:35:54,986 I've been on dates with Pilar, and we just get along really well. 783 00:35:55,069 --> 00:35:57,572 But then, I also was going on dates with AJ, 784 00:35:57,655 --> 00:36:01,617 and it seems like she's seriously dating several people. 785 00:36:01,701 --> 00:36:04,912 So, I don't know how to feel about it right now. 786 00:36:04,996 --> 00:36:07,415 I am very confused. 787 00:36:08,082 --> 00:36:09,292 Do you want to talk? 788 00:36:09,375 --> 00:36:11,544 In our little threesome? 789 00:36:11,627 --> 00:36:14,088 -You guys can separate. -No hard feelings. No, yeah. 790 00:36:14,589 --> 00:36:15,423 Sure. 791 00:36:16,382 --> 00:36:18,551 Goodbye, Kyle. Enjoy your alone time. 792 00:36:23,514 --> 00:36:24,724 How are you feeling? 793 00:36:24,807 --> 00:36:25,892 I'm feeling weird. 794 00:36:25,975 --> 00:36:26,893 Yeah? What happened? 795 00:36:26,976 --> 00:36:29,520 Literally, what's going on right over your shoulder 796 00:36:29,604 --> 00:36:34,650 makes me feel like I don't know what was a performance or what's real. 797 00:36:35,234 --> 00:36:36,527 So… 798 00:36:36,611 --> 00:36:39,155 -Did you know my finger's broken? -No. 799 00:36:39,238 --> 00:36:42,116 -Was your dates today with AJ and me? -Yeah. 800 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:43,659 -Aw. -It's curved. 801 00:36:43,743 --> 00:36:45,077 -It's curved? -Which works. 802 00:36:45,161 --> 00:36:46,954 Yeah, I guess in some settings. 803 00:36:48,789 --> 00:36:50,875 You did tell me you're good at using fingers. 804 00:36:50,958 --> 00:36:52,376 -Uh-huh. -Uh-huh. 805 00:36:53,211 --> 00:36:55,379 I've been saying this since day… day two. 806 00:36:55,463 --> 00:36:57,715 -About the person we're talking about? -Yeah. 807 00:36:57,798 --> 00:37:01,344 That's now, like, three people I know of 808 00:37:01,427 --> 00:37:04,889 that have had like all of this intense chemistry with AJ. 809 00:37:05,890 --> 00:37:07,391 We would have too much fun. 810 00:37:07,475 --> 00:37:09,393 I feel like I would turn your world upside down. 811 00:37:10,353 --> 00:37:12,271 Yeah. No, I know. 812 00:37:13,105 --> 00:37:14,440 And that's scary. 813 00:37:16,275 --> 00:37:18,027 -Mm-hmm. -Mm-hmm. 814 00:37:18,110 --> 00:37:19,654 I mean, she literally told me, 815 00:37:19,737 --> 00:37:24,909 "My fear with you is that I would get real feelings and that scares me." 816 00:37:24,992 --> 00:37:27,286 And I'm like, how many people are you saying this to? 817 00:37:27,370 --> 00:37:28,913 No, it's with everyone. 818 00:37:28,996 --> 00:37:31,415 What are your intentions here? You're not here to do the work. 819 00:37:31,499 --> 00:37:33,668 You're just here to fuck around. Then why are you here? 820 00:37:33,751 --> 00:37:37,213 -Ugh! I feel like I wasted so much time. -I'm sorry. 821 00:37:37,296 --> 00:37:39,590 Like, that sucks. She kind of took from your experience. 822 00:37:39,674 --> 00:37:40,800 Yeah. 823 00:37:40,883 --> 00:37:42,385 -You gonna to address that? -Yeah, I am. 824 00:37:42,468 --> 00:37:43,386 Fuck yeah. 825 00:37:43,469 --> 00:37:45,721 I don't have any problem with confrontation. 826 00:37:45,805 --> 00:37:47,181 I love that. So hot. 827 00:37:57,525 --> 00:38:00,069 Gotta do what feels right 828 00:38:03,614 --> 00:38:05,199 Going into The Choice tonight 829 00:38:05,283 --> 00:38:08,786 and thinking about three people in the number one spot, 830 00:38:08,869 --> 00:38:11,747 I feel like I'm DMX. I can go down the list of women. 831 00:38:11,831 --> 00:38:15,793 Three, two, one Here it comes 832 00:38:16,502 --> 00:38:18,921 Britney has issued me an ultimatum. 833 00:38:19,005 --> 00:38:21,090 And I love this woman to death. 834 00:38:21,173 --> 00:38:26,721 But at the same time, her making this ultimatum towards me comes with risk. 835 00:38:26,804 --> 00:38:28,889 I'm digging everybody, to be honest with you, 836 00:38:28,973 --> 00:38:32,310 so I could fall in love with someone else. Yeah, I do think it's possible. 837 00:38:33,060 --> 00:38:34,061 Absolutely. 838 00:38:35,730 --> 00:38:39,984 No fear I got a good, good feeling 839 00:38:40,484 --> 00:38:42,862 I can't say yes to a marriage right now 840 00:38:42,945 --> 00:38:45,823 until I know that, like, the person I do marry 841 00:38:45,906 --> 00:38:48,951 is going to show me that romantic side of them. 842 00:38:49,035 --> 00:38:53,748 And I think what's really been hard for me is I've wanted Ashley to be that person, 843 00:38:53,831 --> 00:38:55,458 but it's just not in her nature. 844 00:38:55,541 --> 00:38:59,378 With AJ, when we're together, it feels like there's nobody else here. 845 00:38:59,462 --> 00:39:01,630 She's exactly what I'm looking for. 846 00:39:01,714 --> 00:39:06,010 So I'm really excited. I am ready to choose my happiness. 847 00:39:08,929 --> 00:39:11,182 There is so many love triangles. 848 00:39:11,265 --> 00:39:15,436 Britney and Mel and Dayna. 849 00:39:15,519 --> 00:39:19,398 And AJ and Marie and Marita. 850 00:39:19,482 --> 00:39:20,816 And then me. 851 00:39:20,900 --> 00:39:24,445 I'm in deep with Kyle and Bridget. 852 00:39:24,528 --> 00:39:28,783 They both have qualities in a wife that I want. 853 00:39:29,867 --> 00:39:33,829 Haley gave me an ultimatum after being together for ten years. 854 00:39:33,913 --> 00:39:36,374 And there's so much on the line. 855 00:39:36,457 --> 00:39:40,336 This decision is the second most important decision 856 00:39:40,419 --> 00:39:42,630 aside from getting married. 857 00:39:42,713 --> 00:39:47,551 Ready or not Got a good feeling 858 00:39:48,260 --> 00:39:50,137 Oh, it's so good to see you all. 859 00:39:52,848 --> 00:39:53,933 Oh! 860 00:39:54,016 --> 00:39:56,185 I thought about you a lot. 861 00:39:56,268 --> 00:39:57,728 Did you have a good week? 862 00:39:58,229 --> 00:40:00,523 Yes. 863 00:40:00,606 --> 00:40:03,234 Wow, okay. Did I miss a lot? 864 00:40:04,110 --> 00:40:05,486 A little bit. 865 00:40:06,070 --> 00:40:08,197 You came here as six couples. 866 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,992 One of you was ready to be married, and the other was not. 867 00:40:12,076 --> 00:40:16,038 You chose to accept an ultimatum and you ended your previous relationships. 868 00:40:16,122 --> 00:40:18,165 Did you come here with the person 869 00:40:18,249 --> 00:40:20,167 you'll spend the rest of your life with? 870 00:40:20,751 --> 00:40:24,880 Or… is there someone else who may be a better fit? 871 00:40:26,549 --> 00:40:28,759 You're about to choose your new partner. 872 00:40:30,302 --> 00:40:32,805 Someone that you can build a relationship with. 873 00:40:33,389 --> 00:40:37,059 Someone that you can truly see yourself marrying. 874 00:40:38,769 --> 00:40:42,565 And tonight, if you choose someone who also chooses you, 875 00:40:42,648 --> 00:40:44,942 you will move in together in a trial marriage. 876 00:40:45,901 --> 00:40:49,488 This is one of the biggest decisions that you will ever make. 877 00:40:51,699 --> 00:40:54,118 It's time to make… The Choice. 878 00:40:59,957 --> 00:41:02,251 Bridget, how was your week? 879 00:41:03,878 --> 00:41:05,129 Can I pass? 880 00:41:05,713 --> 00:41:06,589 No passing. 881 00:41:08,299 --> 00:41:12,136 It's been… a somewhat rocky week for me 882 00:41:13,137 --> 00:41:16,473 and has had a lot of ups and downs and a lot of uncertainty. 883 00:41:16,557 --> 00:41:18,893 And I still feel a lot of uncertainty, 884 00:41:18,976 --> 00:41:22,980 and that's been… obviously a little bit hard. 885 00:41:23,689 --> 00:41:26,150 It's been an emotional whirlwind week, hasn't it? 886 00:41:26,233 --> 00:41:27,484 -Yeah. -Yeah. 887 00:41:28,152 --> 00:41:29,111 Okay, AJ… 888 00:41:30,237 --> 00:41:31,071 It's your turn. 889 00:41:31,155 --> 00:41:34,658 I feel like one of the people I bonded with immediately was Bridget. 890 00:41:35,284 --> 00:41:40,789 Bridget, you are literally the grooviest person here. 891 00:41:40,873 --> 00:41:45,085 Like, the term that I used was "the most feminine prince I've ever seen." 892 00:41:45,961 --> 00:41:49,965 I instantly caught fire with you from the first date. 893 00:41:50,049 --> 00:41:53,385 No matter where this goes, I feel like you have something to offer. 894 00:41:54,553 --> 00:41:57,556 I'm not here to be the authenticity police, 895 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,975 but it was just a little bit frustrating 896 00:42:00,059 --> 00:42:03,938 to spend all this time and energy in our dates, 897 00:42:04,021 --> 00:42:07,274 trying to put aside that manufactured confidence 898 00:42:07,358 --> 00:42:10,528 and put-on chemistry. 899 00:42:14,114 --> 00:42:17,451 I just wish I could have gotten more of the real AJ. 900 00:42:22,206 --> 00:42:23,749 That's surprising for me. 901 00:42:25,918 --> 00:42:29,380 I was growing frustrated hearing from other people 902 00:42:29,463 --> 00:42:32,675 that you were having the same conversation, 903 00:42:32,758 --> 00:42:34,760 doing similar things on dates. 904 00:42:36,887 --> 00:42:38,806 Some of the things that you did 905 00:42:38,889 --> 00:42:41,225 to make it seem like there was a deeper connection 906 00:42:41,308 --> 00:42:43,894 were things you were doing with a lot of people. 907 00:42:45,145 --> 00:42:48,023 We all are compatible in some shape or form. 908 00:42:48,649 --> 00:42:53,070 And if I have actual formed connections with others, 909 00:42:53,153 --> 00:42:56,699 that proves the process of this. 910 00:42:57,283 --> 00:42:59,410 It's not about you having other bonds. 911 00:43:00,828 --> 00:43:03,455 It was more just a conversation that I had with Pilar 912 00:43:03,539 --> 00:43:05,040 where we were talking about 913 00:43:05,124 --> 00:43:08,419 some of the things that happened during dates. 914 00:43:09,253 --> 00:43:13,340 And then we're also watching it happen in front of us with other people, 915 00:43:13,424 --> 00:43:15,968 so I don't want it to be me villainizing you. 916 00:43:16,051 --> 00:43:17,469 That's not how I feel. 917 00:43:18,012 --> 00:43:20,973 To say out loud, "Hey, I'm hearing similar conversations." 918 00:43:21,056 --> 00:43:24,977 -Everyone's having a similar conversation. -Okay, I can be, like, very frank. 919 00:43:28,522 --> 00:43:31,775 Everyone who's connected with you has talked about this intensity 920 00:43:31,859 --> 00:43:34,194 and this attraction and this chemistry. 921 00:43:34,278 --> 00:43:38,490 And it felt like a lot of your ways of connecting were kind of physical. 922 00:43:38,574 --> 00:43:42,995 And I… noticed that because I wasn't quite ready for that. 923 00:43:43,579 --> 00:43:47,833 It's so weird to kind of hear you say, "Hey, I didn't feel like we got there." 924 00:43:47,916 --> 00:43:51,086 Because I feel like on our third date, we got really close 925 00:43:51,170 --> 00:43:52,629 and talked about deep issues 926 00:43:52,713 --> 00:43:55,007 and talked about what it is AJ is searching for 927 00:43:55,090 --> 00:43:56,717 in a marriage in general. 928 00:43:58,886 --> 00:44:04,850 Okay. Everyone that she meets, they get so captivated by her charisma, 929 00:44:04,933 --> 00:44:08,062 her, like, just, like, the way she carries herself. 930 00:44:08,145 --> 00:44:11,023 So I'm very much not surprised that she has a lot of people… 931 00:44:11,106 --> 00:44:14,234 -I understand that. -…intrigued. I'm absolutely not surprised. 932 00:44:15,361 --> 00:44:17,279 When I walked away from last week, 933 00:44:17,363 --> 00:44:19,323 I said, "Ooh, this is going to be a tough week," 934 00:44:19,406 --> 00:44:21,992 because I saw so much love and so much respect 935 00:44:22,076 --> 00:44:23,744 that you had for each other. 936 00:44:23,827 --> 00:44:28,916 And I also saw so many people that were so here for this experience. 937 00:44:28,999 --> 00:44:31,126 Because it definitely is challenging. 938 00:44:31,210 --> 00:44:35,673 And it's really terrifying. But it also can be incredibly rewarding. 939 00:44:36,256 --> 00:44:39,676 AJ, let's talk about your other connections. 940 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,554 Marie, your heart is so big. 941 00:44:42,638 --> 00:44:45,516 Your appetite for the world is so big. 942 00:44:45,599 --> 00:44:50,020 And I love that you carry so much on your shoulders 943 00:44:50,104 --> 00:44:52,064 and you don't let anyone see you break. 944 00:44:53,273 --> 00:44:55,234 Like, you make me laugh, like, all the time. 945 00:44:55,317 --> 00:44:58,404 Like, you are, to me, the funniest person. 946 00:44:58,487 --> 00:45:01,573 And you give me all the kikis, all the ha-has. 947 00:45:01,657 --> 00:45:06,036 And this week has just been so easy with you. 948 00:45:06,870 --> 00:45:07,955 You 949 00:45:08,872 --> 00:45:11,083 give me reassurance. 950 00:45:11,834 --> 00:45:16,755 You give me those words of affirmation. It literally makes me smile ear to ear. 951 00:45:17,339 --> 00:45:18,424 Thank you. 952 00:45:18,507 --> 00:45:20,008 How does that make you feel? 953 00:45:20,092 --> 00:45:22,469 Super giddy. Very light. 954 00:45:22,553 --> 00:45:26,181 I'm honored that you think all of those things 955 00:45:26,265 --> 00:45:29,226 and see all of… that potential. 956 00:45:33,188 --> 00:45:34,940 You became very vulnerable. 957 00:45:36,150 --> 00:45:41,822 I'm so proud that you actually trusted me enough to really dig deep. 958 00:45:41,905 --> 00:45:47,786 And it's incredibly forthcoming and very, just, easy. 959 00:45:47,870 --> 00:45:52,124 But yet also uncomfortable at the same time. 960 00:45:54,168 --> 00:45:56,086 AJ, who else did you connect with? 961 00:45:57,463 --> 00:45:58,464 Marita. 962 00:45:59,089 --> 00:46:00,966 -Hey. -Hi. 963 00:46:01,049 --> 00:46:03,677 I'm scared to death of you, to be honest. 964 00:46:04,678 --> 00:46:07,931 And how romantic you are. 965 00:46:08,015 --> 00:46:12,478 I don't typically get that in my other relationship. 966 00:46:12,561 --> 00:46:19,401 And I feel like you as a partner would be exhilarating and fun and wild 967 00:46:19,485 --> 00:46:20,903 all at the same time. 968 00:46:23,322 --> 00:46:29,536 In a marriage, I could see how you'd show up romantically. 969 00:46:29,620 --> 00:46:31,997 It just was comfortable with you. 970 00:46:32,581 --> 00:46:34,458 You just asked me what I needed. 971 00:46:34,541 --> 00:46:39,254 And I felt like that was something that, like, I don't always get. 972 00:46:39,922 --> 00:46:44,259 But I'm second-guessing it now because of everything I'm hearing. 973 00:46:44,343 --> 00:46:47,596 But I want to follow my heart and how I feel. 974 00:46:48,180 --> 00:46:52,142 What we built is special. 975 00:46:52,226 --> 00:46:53,936 It could go somewhere. 976 00:46:54,019 --> 00:46:56,188 -Yeah, I felt the same way, so… -Yeah. 977 00:46:57,105 --> 00:46:57,940 Okay. 978 00:46:58,482 --> 00:47:00,859 Marita, are you ready to make a choice? 979 00:47:01,860 --> 00:47:02,694 Oh boy. 980 00:47:03,445 --> 00:47:04,988 -I guess so. -Okay. 981 00:47:08,033 --> 00:47:09,660 Marita, who do you choose? 982 00:47:10,702 --> 00:47:11,995 I choose… 983 00:47:14,289 --> 00:47:15,207 AJ. 984 00:47:21,296 --> 00:47:25,926 I really do feel like our connection is special. 985 00:47:27,135 --> 00:47:30,180 I want to explore who you are beneath the surface. 986 00:47:31,431 --> 00:47:36,937 It's terrifying because I don't know what's going to happen, but I choose you. 987 00:47:38,021 --> 00:47:38,897 Thank you. 988 00:47:41,525 --> 00:47:42,442 AJ… 989 00:47:43,026 --> 00:47:46,864 I feel very relaxed when talking to you. 990 00:47:46,947 --> 00:47:51,368 It was just very easy to be honest and open up to you. 991 00:47:55,873 --> 00:47:57,791 Marie, are you ready to make a choice? 992 00:47:58,834 --> 00:48:00,502 Yes. 993 00:48:03,005 --> 00:48:04,131 Lord have mercy. 994 00:48:11,555 --> 00:48:14,182 Marie, who do you choose? 995 00:48:21,607 --> 00:48:23,025 I choose AJ. 996 00:48:30,782 --> 00:48:33,535 I can picture marrying you, 997 00:48:33,619 --> 00:48:37,247 because I think we show love and affection in the same mannerisms. 998 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:42,210 And I think you can complete the ends that I stop at. 999 00:48:46,340 --> 00:48:49,217 This is honestly the most stressful thing. 1000 00:48:49,301 --> 00:48:51,595 I could lose Marie at the end of this. 1001 00:48:57,517 --> 00:49:00,062 AJ, are you ready to make your choice? 1002 00:49:08,695 --> 00:49:09,863 I am. 1003 00:49:17,621 --> 00:49:19,790 AJ, who do you choose? 1004 00:49:30,175 --> 00:49:36,598 Save me 1005 00:49:40,811 --> 00:49:47,401 Save me 1006 00:49:50,988 --> 00:49:56,952 Save me do you choose?